#epicStories: Stories of Dreams, Detours, and What Comes Next

Jean Tillery
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When was the last time you really listened to someone’s story… or your own? Hi, I’m Jean Tillery, Certified Dream Manager and founder of Epic Living with Jean, and I believe it’s all about the story. Every one of us is living a story. Some chapters we planned. Others we never saw coming. There are dreams we’ve chased, dreams we’ve forgotten, challenges that changed us, people who shaped us, and moments when life took us somewhere completely unexpected. That’s what #epicStories: Stories of Dreams, Detours, and What Comes Next is all about. Through inspiring stories, honest conversations, and personal reflections, we’ll explore the moments that shape who we are and who we’re becoming—from pursuing big dreams and navigating unexpected life transitions to overcoming challenges, finding purpose, and figuring out what comes next. Sometimes I’ll share a story from my own life. Sometimes I’ll sit down with someone whose story I think you need to hear. Some stories will inspire you. Some might challenge you. Some may make you laugh or cry. And some may help you see your own story—and what might still be possible—in a completely new way. Because sometimes hearing someone else’s story is exactly what we need to remember a dream of our own. As a Certified Dream Manager, I believe dreaming isn’t just about creating a list of things you want to do someday. Our dreams tell us something about who we are, what matters to us, and the life we want to create. Living intentionally starts with giving ourselves permission to imagine what’s possible. And you are never too old, too busy, too stuck, or too far into your story to dream about what could come next. So come for the stories. Stay for the possibilities. And maybe, somewhere along the way, you’ll be inspired to dream again, live more intentionally, pursue what matters to you, and create a life worth telling stories about. Welcome to #epicStories.

  1. Oct 22

    When Showing Up Becomes a Way of Life

    Have You Ever Wondered Where Generosity Comes From? I’ve often asked myself: Is generosity something we’re born with, or is it something we learn—simply by watching others who came before us? In this special episode of Epic Stories, I have the honor of sitting down with my dear friend Mary Ellen Freer, Powhatan’s 59th Christmas Mother, to peel back the curtain on a beloved community tradition and explore the deeper meaning behind what it means to give—and to receive. I’ve wanted to have this conversation for years, and now I get to share it with you. Together, we reflect on family legacy, the beauty of small-town community, what happens when help is needed and what it looks like to ask, and the powerful ripple effect that one person’s acts of kindness can have across generations. Join us for a heartfelt journey through the backstage of the Christmas Mother program—an experience that’s a little bit like interviewing Santa Claus, but so much more about real hope, real people, and the art of showing up for one another. What We Talk AboutHow a Legacy of Giving Is Passed Down: Mary Ellen Freer shares moving stories of her father’s tireless devotion as a volunteer fireman, and how watching him shaped her deep commitment to serving others. Now, she’s watching her own granddaughter, Olivia, get swept up in the spirit of giving 39:59.Inside the Christmas Mother Program: Ever wonder what it takes to ensure every child in a rural community has gifts for Christmas? We walk through the complex web of committees—stockings, bikes, pet food, publicity, sunshine (yes, really!)—and the volunteers who make the magic happen 07:00.The Challenge—and Gift—of Asking for Help: We open up about how hard it can be for people to ask for what they need, and why Mary Ellen Freer says, “If you don’t ask, you don’t get.” The program is built on trust, privacy, and zero judgment, ensuring everyone feels safe coming forward 26:17.Creating Traditions That Last: Hear about the practices and rituals around Christmas Mother—decorating, angel trees, and more—that help forge connections between families, children, and the entire town.Carrying the Torch: I reflect on how my own children grew up learning the importance of service by participating in Christmas Mother efforts. The message: We don’t just help for the season—we teach for a lifetime 41:19.Being the One Who Steps Up: Whether you’re able to volunteer, donate, or just listen—a single act of kindness can be what changes someone’s entire outlook during a difficult time. My Biggest TakeawaysGenerosity is a learned behavior: Seeing kindness in action, especially from the people we love and admire, models the way for the next generation.Community is built on everyone showing up: From committee meetings to last-minute needs on Christmas Eve, it takes a village to bring hope to 261 families and counting each year.It’s okay to ask: There’s no shame in needing help—sometimes, the hardest thing is to simply say, “I can’t do this alone.” But that’s where true community steps in.Legacy matters: Whether you realize it or not, people are watching how you handle challenges and care for others. You’re teaching by example every day.A simple “Can I help?” can change the world: Sometimes, it’s the smallest gesture—from a child, friend, or stranger—that makes the greatest impact. What Will You Teach By How You Live?As we head into this season of giving, I invite you to think about your own story: Who taught you about generosity, hope, courage, or faith—just by the way they lived? And what are you showing those who watch you? If you’re struggling this holiday season—or just need someone to listen—please know you’re not alone. Reach out to me at jean@epiclivingwithjean.com or message me on Facebook. I may not have every answer, but I promise I’ll listen and do my best to help you find support. And for those who want to make a difference, look around: The person who needs you may not know how to ask. Sometimes, hope begins with a single question, or a simple act of noticing. Thank you for joining me on this episode of Epic Stories. If you found hope or inspiration in this conversation, please share it with someone who could use it. Remember, your story isn’t finished yet. Keep dreaming, keep living with intention, and keep becoming the person who makes an epic difference. Subscribe, share, and, most of all, keep showing up for one another. There’s always hope—sometimes, all it takes is for someone like you to say, “Can I help?” Mentioned in this episode: Epic Stories is Part of the eWomenPodcastNetwork eWomenPodcastNetwork

    When Showing Up Becomes a Way of Life

  2. Oct 8

    What Story Will Your Life Tell?

    What If You Could Witness the Legacy of Your Life—Right Now?Have you ever stopped to imagine how people will tell your story fifty years from now? What would they say about the way you lived, the people you inspired, and the dreams you chased? This question has been on my mind ever since I stumbled upon a moving scene from Doctor Who, where Vincent van Gogh is transported into the future to see his art celebrated in a museum. In this episode, I invite you to consider what it would be like to walk through a museum dedicated to your life—and to realize that you’re shaping that legacy every single day. In This EpisodeI recount the powerful Doctor Who scene that shows Vincent van Gogh witnessing his own impact and how it brought a flood of emotion—and reflection—into my life 00:40I explore the idea that most of us never get to see the full ripple effect of our words, kindnesses, and small acts—but that doesn’t mean they aren’t transforming lives 02:36I challenge the assumption that our lives only matter if we achieve something “extraordinary,” and share how deep meaning is created in everyday moments 03:07I talk about how the true story of our lives isn’t written by job titles, to-do lists, or awards, but by the ways we show up for others and the courage with which we pursue our dreams 04:22I encourage you to take an intentional approach to your own story—reminding you that your legacy isn’t something you leave behind, but something you build in each decision, relationship, and act of courage 05:06I introduce this week’s Epic Challenge: Write a “museum plaque” for your life and take one action this week that makes that story even more true 06:01I share a bonus reflection tool: the “memory board” test, which asks what pictures would appear in a visual record of your life—and how those memories connect to what your story truly means 06:59 Key TakeawaysMy legacy—and yours—is formed right now, in every choice we make, not just in big accomplishments, but in how we live, love, serve, and dream 05:06Most of us won’t get a chance, like Vincent van Gogh in that imagined museum scene, to see the full results of our influence, but we need to remember our actions ripple further than we think 02:36Living intentionally means using each day to make our story align with the values, courage, and kindness we want to be remembered for 05:45Reflecting on what really matters—not achievements or titles, but impact and relationships—can help guide us to a more meaningful and fulfilling life 06:01By pausing to ask these tough questions and acting in ways that bring our museum plaque to life, we each have the power to shape a story worth telling Your Epic ChallengeThis week, I want you to write your own “museum plaque.” Just a paragraph—a handful of lines. Don’t focus on your resume or accomplishments. Instead, start with your name and the phrase: “lived a life that—” Then fill in that blank. Who were you? What mattered to you? How did you love and what did you stand for? After you write it, ask yourself: What’s one thing I can do this week to make that statement more true? Don’t put it off—do it now 06:47. If this episode spoke to you, I’d love to hear about it! Share your own museum plaque or reflections using #EpicLivingPodcast and join the conversation on my Facebook page. Visit epiclivingwithjean.com for your free guide, "7 Ways to Start Living Epic," and discover what epic could look like in your story. If you feel ready to dig deeper—whether through my Dream Manager program or just a chat about creating your intentional legacy—reach out and let’s connect. Remember, our stories are being written right now. Let’s make them epic, together. Mentioned in this episode: Epic Stories is Part of the eWomenPodcastNetwork eWomenPodcastNetwork

    What Story Will Your Life Tell?

  3. Sep 24

    She Never Wanted to Get Fired Again, So She Built Something of Her Own

    When Plans Change: How I Met Eimile Harrison and Discovered the Power of the DetourHave you ever felt like the plan you made for your future just… disappeared? That moment when all the pieces fall apart, and you can’t go back—but you’re not sure which way is forward? In this episode of Epic Stories, I sit down with Eimile Harrison, a creative and determined 27-year-old entrepreneur I met through eWomenNetwork, who turned an unexpected setback into a gateway for something so much more than she imagined. This conversation was recorded at the bustling ICON Conference in Dallas, so you’ll hear the real energy of women in business sharing support and new ideas. Eimile’s story is about much more than losing a job—it’s about rediscovering what you truly want, adapting to new possibilities, and bravely building something of your own. What You’ll Hear in This EpisodeEimile’s journey from being let go after a hurricane disrupted her company, to starting Scroll and Story Media, her own thriving content creation and video editing business.How growing up with social media gave her an instinctive flair for digital storytelling and helped her carve a niche most agencies can’t touch.The power of giving back—Eimile shares how she supports her eWomen chapter, even stepping in during a fellow leader’s medical leave.The inner work of entrepreneurship: why being let go became the push she needed to do work she truly enjoys, and how she chose to redefine her own sense of security and fulfillment.Where Eimile dreams of going next: building her business big enough to hire old colleagues and offer opportunities to others doing what they love. Key TakeawaysDetours open doors — When life throws you off the expected path, sometimes it’s not about getting “back to normal,” but about seeing what new opportunities you could create from here.Leverage your natural gifts — Eimile’s intuition for social media and creative content shows how leaning into your strengths can turn uncertainty into success.Service and community matter — By volunteering and supporting others, Eimile discovered new meaning and doors to growth she never could have planned for alone.Boundaries and dreams go hand in hand — Entrepreneurship allowed Eimile to find the pace, freedom, and sense of control that a 9-to-5 couldn’t offer.Your online presence matters more than ever — For so many, social media isn’t just about marketing; it’s how new clients find out you exist.Let your dreams grow with you — Eimile’s big goal is to scale her company and bring others along for the ride. Sometimes what you build in the wake of a setback becomes a gift for others too. Epic ChallengeI want you to take a moment today and think about a detour in your life—some moment, big or small, where things didn’t go as planned. Instead of asking what it would take to get back on the old road, ask yourself: Knowing what I know now, what could I choose next? Write down your answer—it might surprise you where that question leads. If this sparked a dream, or if you have a “detour” story of your own, I would truly love to hear it. Reach out to me on Facebook or send me an email at jean@epiclivingwithjean.com and share what’s on your heart. Thank you for listening to Epic Stories and for letting Eimile’s journey remind us that sometimes, the universe hands us a blank page—not to punish, but to allow new dreams to take shape. Find out more about Eimile and her company, Scroll & Story Media, at www.scrollandstory.com. Keep dreaming, keep creating, and let’s see what epic possibilities this week brings. Subscribe and share if this episode resonated with you, and tune in next time for more true stories of courage, creativity, and the power of the unexpected. Mentioned in this episode: Epic Stories is Part of the eWomenPodcastNetwork eWomenPodcastNetwork

    She Never Wanted to Get Fired Again, So She Built Something of Her Own

  4. Sep 10

    Unlocking Your Potential: Why There’s No Magic Pill to Becoming Extraordinary

    Have you ever wished for a magic pill that would instantly make you the best version of yourself? In this episode of Epic Stories, I dive into the fantasy of overnight transformation—like in the movie Limitless—and reveal what it really takes to become extraordinary. I explore why so many of us crave shortcuts in life, from perfect abs to financial freedom, and share my perspective on why real growth doesn’t come from a quick fix. Instead, I talk about how the journey—one small, brave step at a time—shapes us into who we’re meant to be. Whether you’re searching for your purpose or just hoping to start living a little more “epic,” you’ll find practical encouragement in this episode. I talk about:I believe the greatest limitation isn’t intelligence, but our willingness to grow and embrace the process (01:44).Finding your purpose doesn’t happen in a single moment, but through many small, faithful actions (02:40).Creating a dream list is about who you become in pursuit of your dreams—not just what you achieve (03:05).The experiences that shape us most are often the hardest ones (03:20).You don’t become extraordinary because life gets easier—you become extraordinary because you keep moving forward, step by step (04:45).One small action today can move you closer to the person you’re becoming (05:00). If today’s episode resonated with you, I’d love to help you take your next step. You can schedule a complimentary Dream Compass call with me at Epic Living with Jean, or just reach out at jean@epiclivingwithjean.com. If you were inspired, please share this episode with someone who might need encouragement to start dreaming again—and use #EpicLivingPodcast! Don’t forget to download your free guide, “7 Ways to Start Living Epic,” at epiclivingwithjean.com. Let’s keep taking those steps to become who we’re meant to be—one decision at a time. Mentioned in this episode: Epic Stories is Part of the eWomenPodcastNetwork eWomenPodcastNetwork

    Unlocking Your Potential: Why There’s No Magic Pill to Becoming Extraordinary

  5. Aug 27

    Ordinary Moments, Epic Dreams: How Don Tincher Became Coach, Writer, and Community Connector

    Have you ever known exactly what you wanted, even if you had no idea how you’d get there? In this episode, I reconnect with my longtime friend and fellow storyteller, Don Tincher, for a conversation that’s as spontaneous as it is heartfelt. We talk about everything from growing up in Richmond, Indiana, to the power of small steps, mentors who change your life, and why storytelling—especially in sports—is really all about the people. We dive into Don’s journey, starting with his childhood dream to be a basketball coach and sportswriter, long before he had any plan or roadmap. Together, we discuss the evolution of news, the risks and rewards of technology and AI in storytelling, and what it really means to communicate and connect in today’s world. Key TakeawaysYou don’t need the whole plan. I learned from Don that following your interest and taking the next small step often gets you farther than waiting for the perfect roadmap.Mentors and opportunities matter. A single teacher or chance encounter can open the door to a life you never expected.Every story is about people. Whether it’s family history, teamwork in sports, or writing for a newspaper, I keep coming back to this lesson: focus on relationships and human connection.Truth and trust still count. In a digital world crowded with misinformation, taking responsibility for accuracy is non-negotiable for me.Communication is a skill—and a service. I was reminded how being honest, empathetic, and tuned in to another person’s needs makes all the difference, whether you’re interviewing a coach or supporting a loved one. What’s a dream you’ve been putting off because you don’t know how to make it happen? This week, let’s commit to taking just one step—reach out to someone in the field, read a book, volunteer, ask a question, or simply spend 30 minutes exploring where your curiosity wants to take you. I’d love to hear what your next step is! Share your story with me using #EpicLivingPodcast, or email me at jean@epiclivingwithjean.com. For more resources, free guides, or to find out how to work with me one-on-one, visit epiclivingwithjean.com. Remember: It’s always about the story. Mentioned in this episode: Epic Stories is Part of the eWomenPodcastNetwork eWomenPodcastNetwork

    Ordinary Moments, Epic Dreams: How Don Tincher Became Coach, Writer, and Community Connector

  6. Aug 6

    How a Simple Compliment Sparked a Movement—My Conversation with Megz West

    Have you ever wondered if one small act of kindness could change a life—or maybe even start a movement? That’s exactly what happened when my guest, Megz West, began shouting, “I like your bow!” at a youth cheer competition. What followed was bigger than either of us ever expected. In this episode, I sit down with Megz—also known as Miss Executive East Coast 2026 and founder of the nonprofit "I Like Your Bow"—to talk about how a single moment of encouragement became a powerful movement. We dive deep into her inspiring story, from supporting her son through alopecia and going viral for shaving her own head, to overcoming mental health struggles, losing over 180 pounds, and deciding she would never again shrink herself for someone else’s comfort. We also chat about what the Miss Executive pageant is really about (hint: more merit, less beauty), and Megs shares her bold vision to empower girls everywhere to dream as big as possible—even if it means storming Congress in D.C. or leading Fortune 500 companies! Key TakeawaysKindness takes zero effort. Sometimes, all it takes is saying, “I like your bow.”True empowerment is about refusing to make yourself small for someone else’s comfort.You don’t have to see every step ahead to start pursuing your dream—you just have to walk through the first open door.Community support, whether in youth sports or from other women leaders, is life-changing.Authenticity and vulnerability are strengths that open doors and inspire others. Ready for Your Own Epic Move?If this conversation sparked something in you—a dream, an idea, or the urge to encourage someone—don’t hold it back! Say your dream out loud. Give someone unexpected encouragement today. Share this episode, and join the movement with #ILikeYourBow. Want help uncovering or pursuing your own dreams? Connect with me at epiclivingwithjean.com and check out my Dream Manager program. Follow Megz West on social (@OhMyMegz) and join the kindness revolution. And be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode of Epic Stories—where every story is worth telling, and every life is worth living epic! Mentioned in this episode: Epic Stories is Part of the eWomenPodcastNetwork eWomenPodcastNetwork

    How a Simple Compliment Sparked a Movement—My Conversation with Megz West

  7. Jul 16

    What Are You Feeding Your Future? A Conversation on Food, Health, and Dreams

    Do you have big dreams—but wonder if your body can carry you there?This week on Epic Stories, I sit down with Annette King, an inspiring registered dietitian and certified diabetes educator. Together, we dive deep into how our health is truly the foundation for making any of our dreams a reality. In a world overflowing with diets, trends, and quick fixes, Annette King brings clarity, balance, and kindness to the conversation about food and self-care. In this episode, we move beyond shame and perfection, focusing instead on progress, simple education, and practical changes. Whether you’re worried about your energy, tackling diabetes, or just trying to eat better in a fast-paced world, this conversation is for you. What I Learned (and You Will Too):Your health underpins every dream you want to realize—no matter your goals, your body is the vehicle to get you there (00:54).The real difference between a registered dietitian and a nutritionist—and why choosing an expert like Annette King actually matters (05:05).Why our society is losing its connection to home-cooking, and how easy convenience foods are impacting our health (12:16).How to cut through the noise of conflicting nutrition messages and find what truly works (15:18).The rising tide of diabetes—especially in younger adults—and why prevention starts now (30:06).How carbs, protein, and fats all play an important role (and yes, you can stop fearing carbs!) (32:23).A balanced, stigma-free conversation about GLP1 weight loss medications—including who benefits, what the risks are, and when to seek support (43:44).Two ridiculously simple nutrition habits you can start TODAY for real change (01:02:42).Why choosing progress over perfection is always the best strategy—and how every meal offers a new chance to care for yourself. My Challenge to YouPick just one healthy habit to focus on for the next seven days. It might be drinking more water, eating one more vegetable, walking after dinner, or cooking at home just one extra night. Tell someone your goal, write it down, and then celebrate your follow-through. Small wins build momentum, and momentum changes your story. If this episode resonates with you, share it with someone who needs a little encouragement. Subscribe so you don’t miss these empowering stories each week. And if you’re ready to connect your health to your biggest dreams, let’s talk—visit Epic Living with Jean to schedule your free Dream Compass call. Let’s keep writing an epic story—one healthy choice at a time. Mentioned in this episode: Epic Stories is Part of the eWomenPodcastNetwork eWomenPodcastNetwork

    What Are You Feeding Your Future? A Conversation on Food, Health, and Dreams

  8. Jul 2

    Writing Your Future Resume: Becoming the Person You Dream to Be

    What if your resume wasn’t just a list of jobs and achievements, but a vision for who you want to become? In this episode of Epic Stories, I invite you to imagine your life ten years from now and ask: what would your future resume say? I share how a simple yet powerful idea from Jesse Cole, founder of the Savannah Bananas, got me thinking beyond traditional resumes. Instead of listing what I've done, what if I focused on who I intend to be? This episode is all about shifting from simply filling a resume with success to filling a life with significance—and the intentional daily choices that shape our stories. Key TakeawaysEmbracing the Future Resume: I explain how thinking about who I want to become, rather than just what I’ve done, helps me make better decisions each day.Focusing Beyond Work: I talk about the most meaningful additions to my personal resume—like repaired relationships, learned skills, or unforgettable experiences—that matter more than job titles.Living Intentionally: I share the realization that life rarely “settles down,” and it’s up to me to write my future through everyday choices, not just big events.Practical Challenge: I walk you through how you can create your own future resume—starting today, with a blank page and a bold vision.The Power of Dreaming: I remind you (and myself!) that every remarkable life starts with imagining a different future. Ready to join me on this journey? Take out a piece of paper, title it “My Future Resume,” and start writing about the person you intend to become and the life you want to live over the next ten years. Share your dreams with the hashtag #epiclivingpodcast, drop me a comment on my Facebook page, or visit epiclivingwithjean.com to discover more about living your own epic story. Let’s make intentional choices together—today and every day! Mentioned in this episode: Epic Stories is Part of the eWomenPodcastNetwork eWomenPodcastNetwork

    Writing Your Future Resume: Becoming the Person You Dream to Be
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When was the last time you really listened to someone’s story… or your own? Hi, I’m Jean Tillery, Certified Dream Manager and founder of Epic Living with Jean, and I believe it’s all about the story. Every one of us is living a story. Some chapters we planned. Others we never saw coming. There are dreams we’ve chased, dreams we’ve forgotten, challenges that changed us, people who shaped us, and moments when life took us somewhere completely unexpected. That’s what #epicStories: Stories of Dreams, Detours, and What Comes Next is all about. Through inspiring stories, honest conversations, and personal reflections, we’ll explore the moments that shape who we are and who we’re becoming—from pursuing big dreams and navigating unexpected life transitions to overcoming challenges, finding purpose, and figuring out what comes next. Sometimes I’ll share a story from my own life. Sometimes I’ll sit down with someone whose story I think you need to hear. Some stories will inspire you. Some might challenge you. Some may make you laugh or cry. And some may help you see your own story—and what might still be possible—in a completely new way. Because sometimes hearing someone else’s story is exactly what we need to remember a dream of our own. As a Certified Dream Manager, I believe dreaming isn’t just about creating a list of things you want to do someday. Our dreams tell us something about who we are, what matters to us, and the life we want to create. Living intentionally starts with giving ourselves permission to imagine what’s possible. And you are never too old, too busy, too stuck, or too far into your story to dream about what could come next. So come for the stories. Stay for the possibilities. And maybe, somewhere along the way, you’ll be inspired to dream again, live more intentionally, pursue what matters to you, and create a life worth telling stories about. Welcome to #epicStories.

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