The Ryan Fields-Spack (Dad) Show

Ryan Fields-Spack

Fatherhood is tough, but great dads build community! Join Ryan Fields-Spack, a dad of 3, for real talk on being a better husband, father, and provider. With 20+ years as a paramedic and a Master’s in Homeland Security, Ryan shares poise and confidence to win at fatherhood. Learn to model faith, support your family, and grow wealth for your kids’ legacy. This podcast empowers dads with practical tips on parenting, marriage, and financial success. Be the role model your kids need! #Fatherhood #Dads #Parenting

  1. Oct 15

    Want your kids to open up? Stop Fixing and Start Listening.

    Trying harder to control your kids can leave you feeling more frustrated and less connected. What can you do instead?In this conversation, life coach and mom of four Emily joins Ray to explore a different approach to parenting: managing your own reactions, listening with curiosity, and building influence through connection.Follow Emily: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/parenting-teens-for-lds-moms-improve-your-relationship/id1770846530https://www.emilyrickscoaching.com/Emily shares an honest story about parenting her teenage son, the struggle to control his choices, and what shifted when she began focusing on her own thoughts and emotions. Together, they discuss practical ways dads can support their children, their partners, and themselves.In this episode, we explore:• The difference between parental influence and control• How to love your children as they are while maintaining boundaries• What “holding space” means—and how to practice it• Listening without immediately fixing, dismissing, or judging• Staying grounded during difficult conversations• Helping teenagers navigate friendships, mistakes, and growing independence• Supporting your child’s confidence when others are unkind• How faith, community, and coaching can support your parenting journey You don’t have to have every answer. Sometimes, a stronger relationship begins with a calmer response and a better question.CHAPTERS00:00 The parenting control trap00:38 Introducing the conversation01:15 Meet Emily03:49 Letting go of control05:23 A personal story about parenting a teenager09:30 Choosing unconditional love—with boundaries12:06 How to hold space for your family16:20 Pause, breathe, and manage your reactions18:10 Preparing for the middle school years22:16 Helping teens build inner confidence25:20 Faith and parenting29:20 Making time for coaching32:12 What to look for in a coach33:18 Connecting with Emily34:25 One piece of advice for your children Chapter times follow the supplied SRT; adjust if the final video edit changes.What’s harder for you as a parent: letting go of control, staying calm, or listening without jumping in to fix things? Share your experience in the comments.Subscribe for more honest conversations about fatherhood, parenting, relationships, and personal growth.#Parenting #Fatherhood #ParentingTeens #ParentingPodcast #ParentChildConnection #MindfulParenting #ActiveListening #EmotionalRegulation

  2. Oct 1

    I Hate Clothes Shopping | These shirts changed my mind.

    I tried three Poncho shirts to see if they could make upgrading my dad wardrobe easier. This Poncho shirts review covers unboxing, first impressions, and a try-on of three long-sleeve western styles.I'm about 6'0" and 160 lbs, and I chose Medium Slim. I share how the shirts fit on me, how the heavier denim compares with the lighter performance shirts, and what I noticed about softness, stretch, pearl snaps, and rolled sleeves.Get your Poncho Shirts right here: https://www.ponchooutdoors.comDisclosure: Poncho sent me these three shirts for free. This video was not a paid sponsorship.If you're a dad who hates clothes shopping but wants to feel more put together, this one's for you. These are my initial impressions and try-on observations; I haven't completed a long-term wear or wash test.CHAPTERS00:00 Why I'm upgrading my dad wardrobe00:32 How I got these shirts00:53 Unboxing three Poncho shirts01:50 Lightweight fabric, snaps & sleeve details02:50 The navy shirt: first look03:41 The Ventura: heavier western denim04:43 Denim try-on & Medium Slim sizing05:26 Navy shirt try-on06:03 Light grey shirt try-on06:34 Final thoughts: style & confidence for dadsThe three styles featured: The Ventura, The Pacifico, and The San Saba.Which would you wear: sage denim, navy, or light grey? Let me know in the comments.Subscribe for more practical conversations about becoming better men, fathers, and husbands.#PonchoShirts #PonchoOutdoors #DadStyle

  3. Aug 6

    Frontotemporal Dementia: The Disease That Looks Like Mental Illness

    Doctors kept saying it was just anxiety or depression. They put her on 72-hour holds and sent her to behavioral health. It wasn’t. It was frontotemporal dementia (FTD). This video is for every son and only child who is watching their parent loop on the same fears — the power is being shut off, people are breaking into the house, the taxes aren’t paid, they have no health insurance — while the system keeps calling it a mental health problem. I walked this road with my mom starting in May 2024. I’m sharing exactly what happened, the signs I missed, the hard emotional truth, and the five things you need to do right now if this sounds familiar. You are not alone. Chapters00:00 – If your parent keeps looping on the same fears01:16 – Why I’m making this for sons and only children02:05 – The first signs02:45 – The confusing cascade (behavioral health holds)04:09 – The turning point: memory care finally named it05:42 – Life in memory care08:13 – The hard truth (talking to my pastor)09:50 – What you need to do right now (5 practical steps)13:33 – Closing: You are not alone Helpful resourceAssociation for Frontotemporal Degeneration (AFTD) Helpline: 866-507-7222 If this is your story, drop a comment and tell me where you are in it. Or email me — link in the about section. We will walk through the next steps together. #FrontotemporalDementia #FTD #Caregiver #Sons #DementiaAwareness

  4. Jul 30

    No More Dirty Falling Band-Aids: Testing Yehooheal Hydrocolloid on My Sons’ Road-Trip Injuries

    What’s going on, Dad? Summer means cuts, scrapes, trampoline wipeouts, and road-trip battle wounds. Traditional Band-Aids get dirty, fall off in the pool, and slow everything down. As a former paramedic with a large metropolitan fire department, I tested the Yehooheal Medical Grade Hydrocolloid Roll (0.006-inch optimally thin, storage case, 16.4 ft total) on both of my boys after our big Yosemite road trip. One had a trampoline toe injury. The other took a real chunk out of his finger. We cleaned them, applied the hydrocolloid, ran full pool days over the 4th of July weekend, and checked results a week later. Spoiler: the healing looked significantly better, the thin second-skin feel was a game-changer on knuckles and toes, and the waterproof claim held up well with occasional re-wrapping. Timestamps / Chapters0:00 – Summer cuts & why this is on Dad0:30 – Why traditional Band-Aids often fail active kids1:15 – Product reveal + full disclosure (sent by the brand, unbiased test)1:45 – My green first-aid kit2:00 – Cleaning Kellen’s toe (process walk-through)3:00 – Applying the hydrocolloid roll (thin film, dry skin, warm it, seal edges)4:30 – Pool-day plan5:00 – Bramley’s finger (the bigger chunk) – cleaning & wrapping7:20 – Multi-day pool results7:40 – One-week follow-up – healing progress & honest recommendation8:40 – New cut appears… back at it + next steps 🚑Get your rolls here (affiliate link helps the channel and you get the same great deal) https://amzn.to/4w0ihzh

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Fatherhood is tough, but great dads build community! Join Ryan Fields-Spack, a dad of 3, for real talk on being a better husband, father, and provider. With 20+ years as a paramedic and a Master’s in Homeland Security, Ryan shares poise and confidence to win at fatherhood. Learn to model faith, support your family, and grow wealth for your kids’ legacy. This podcast empowers dads with practical tips on parenting, marriage, and financial success. Be the role model your kids need! #Fatherhood #Dads #Parenting

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