Diary of an Ex Ho

Cheri Hardman

Comedian and Ex Ho Cheri Hardman talks to fellow comedians and friends about different aspects of sexuality. She approaches topics with wit and compassion.

  1. 11/19/2025

    Diary of an Ex Ho Episode 103 Mack Lee

    In this candid and hilarious episode of Diary of an Ex Ho, host Cheri Hardman welcomes bisexual Portland comedian and writer Mack Lee (they/them)! Mack, currently in an open relationship, dives deep into the complexities of their love life, including how their parents' caregiver dynamic warped their idea of love, dating within the comedy scene, and the spicy story of how they met and married their ex-wife (who was previously married to their childhood best friend!). You won't want to miss Mack's hot takes on: Marry, Shag, Kill (Nice Guy Edition): Bob Ross, Betty White, & Mr. Rogers! (1:19) The Comedy Scene: Hooking up with fellow comedians—the embarrassing one, the ongoing one, and the one who became a friend. (2:55) A Twisted Idea of Love: How growing up with a caregiver parent affected Mack's anxious attachment style and instinct to over-give. (4:30) Sexual Awakening: From grinding on the couch as a kid to their celebrity crush on emo singer Connor Oberst. (5:50) Dating App Turnoffs: Why marketing yourself online is just gross. (8:40) The Kink Corner: Why a 10/10 sex life is essential, the definition of amazing sex, and Mack's favorite intimate kink: piss play! (11:25) Sexual Regrets & Attachment Issues: The challenges of being a horny person who gets easily attached. (15:42) The Ex-Wife Origin Story: Sneaking around after her wife said "no" to a hookup, and the thrill of taboo, approved-then-unapproved cheating. (19:37) Instagram: bong-jon-bovi Catch Mack Live: Check out Mack's monthly comedy dating show, Heartthrob, every third Friday at 8:30 PM at Kickstand Comedy in Portland, Oregon! (Next one: December 19th - Holiday Heartthrob) @cherimmhmm https://www.cherihardman.com #MacLee #BisexualComedian #DiaryOfAnExHo #OpenRelationship #Polyamory #PissKink #Kink #ComedyPodcast #DatingStory #RelationshipAdvice #ComedianHookups #SexualAwakening #AnxiousAttachment #MarryShagKill 🌟 Follow Mac Lee🔥 Support Diary of an Ex Ho🔑 Keywords & Tags

    24 min
  2. 10/08/2025

    Diary of an Ex Ho Episode 102 Derek Gladson VR Porn

    🤯 VIRTUALLY WILD: Comedian Derek Gladson on VR PORN, Titanic, and Star Wars Rings! 💍 Welcome back to Diary of an Ex-Ho! Host Cheri Hardman sits down with comedian and podcaster Derek Gladson for a hilariously honest and super deep dive into sex, relationships, and the wild world of VR technology. Derek (who is engaged to the love of his life!) holds nothing back as he shares his personal journey, from recovering from addiction to finding true love and, yes, getting completely sucked into Virtual Reality Porn. Marry, Shag, Kill: Cartoon Edition! Derek makes some shocking choices with Olive Oil, Rosie the Maid, and Betty Rubble! The Power of a Stable Home: How having parents who are still happily married after 37 years influenced Derek's need for non-chaotic relationships. My Sexual Awakening: It all started with Lara Croft’s triangle t**s in the original Tomb Raider on the PlayStation 1. Titanic & VHS Tapes: The surprising movie scene that got a lot of rewinds (and ruined a VHS tape!). VR Porn Obsession: Derek hilariously explains why he knows he's "more fat than horny" after getting distracted by a pie while watching a specific MILF VR scene. Plus, thoughts on the new Hocus Pocus and Scooby-Doo parodies! Body Image & Recovery: Derek opens up about his 13 years of sobriety from heroin and how his recovery led to weight gain and changes in body image (and dick size!). Finding "The One": The sweet story of meeting his fiancé and proposing in front of the Millennium Falcon with Han Solo and Leia rings. 0:00 - Welcome & Introduction: Derek Gladson0:44 - Marry, Shag, Kill: Cartoon Chicks Edition! (Olive Oil, Rosie, Betty Rubble)2:36 - Hooking up because of comedy (or music!)3:39 - How stable parents affect relationships5:14 - Sexual Awakening: Tomb Raider, PS1, and Triangle Tits6:20 - Celebrity Crushes: Pink Power Ranger & Padmé (Natalie Portman)7:18 - Derek's "Type" & Biggest Turnoffs (Cigarette Smoking!)9:35 - Mainstream Movie Sex Scenes & Rewinding Titanic10:18 - The Wild World of VR Porn 🤯15:20 - The Importance of Sex in a Relationship (Scale of 1-10)16:20 - Definition of Amazing Sex: Passion & Connection18:08 - Warning Signs: Being Attracted to "The Sick Part"19:35 - Wheel of Dirty Questions: Favorite Sex Toy21:14 - Body Image, Recovery & The Heroin-Weight Gain Connection22:02 - Best Compliment on His Naked Body & Penis Size Theory23:11 - Sexual Regrets & Proposing at Disneyland’s Millennium Falcon 👍 LIKE this video if you enjoyed the honesty!🔔 SUBSCRIBE for more uncensored conversations from your Ex-Ho! Follow Cheri Hardman & Diary of an Ex-Ho:@cherimmhmm Follow Derek Gladson:@derekgladsoncomedy #DiaryOfAnExHo #DerekGladson #VRPorn #TombRaider #Comedian #Podcast #Interview #Relationships #Dating #SexualAwakening #RecoveryJourney #StarWars #TitanicMovie #ComedyPodcast #LoveAndSex #YouTubeSEO 🚀 In This Uncensored Episode:⏱ Episode Timestamps:

    35 min
  3. 09/17/2025

    Diary of an Ex Ho Episode 100 Javann Jones Black Thor

    Welcome to the 100th episode of Diary of an Ex-Ho! In this landmark episode, host Cheri Hardman is joined by special guest Javann Jones for a candid conversation that redefines modern dating.Javvan opens up about his identity as a pansexual and genderqueer individual, explaining what these terms mean to him and how they shape his life. As a polyamorous person, he shares a unique perspective on relationships and introduces a concept you might not have heard of: "polysaturation."He breaks down how managing multiple relationships is similar to the challenges faced in monogamy—it's all about time and energy. Don't miss this insightful episode that explores love, identity, and the boundaries of connection.Like and subscribe so you don't miss new episodes!Share your thoughts in the comments below!#DiaryOfAnExHoe #JavenJones #Polyamory #Pansexual #Genderqueer #Relationships #DatingAdvice #Polysaturation #Podcast #ExHoeCheri Hardman is a comedian from Tacoma, WA. She performs all over the United States and also has a podcast called Diary of an Ex Ho where she talks to other comedians about their love lives. Cheri's humor is irreverent and often deals with adult topics. She is available for private parties such as bachelorette or birthday parties.Cheri produces 2 independent comedy shows that she can bring to your town, Roast Your Ex and Diary of an Ex Ho Live.You can find her current schedule on her website at https://www.cherihardman.com

    41 min

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Comedian and Ex Ho Cheri Hardman talks to fellow comedians and friends about different aspects of sexuality. She approaches topics with wit and compassion.