becoming babyREADY with Sam Leeson - All About Queer Family Planning & Creation

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"becoming babyREADY" is a Queer-centred podcast exploring the journeys of 2SLGBTQIA+ family creation. Through conversations with Queer parents and professionals, we dive into what it takes to build intentional families — from legal and financial prep to emotional support and hands-on care. Rooted in Canada and reaching around the world, these stories offer insight, inspiration, and community for anyone growing their family with pride.

  1. 4d ago

    Two Moms, One Storm, and a Baby Boy - Emma & Julianna's Path to Parenthood

    Emma and Julianna both knew, early on, that they wanted to become parents. But wanting a family and building one are two different things — and for a while, the how stayed unspoken. Julianna pictured adoption but wasn't sure it was their path; Emma quietly hoped she would one day carry a child herself. Then, on a rainy drive to the cottage in the early days of Covid, things shifted and they conversation evolved. This discussion sparked a decision, and from there, Emma and Julianna began mapping out the road ahead — the choices, the hopes, and the plans that would shape their family. With the help of a known donor, they welcomed a beautiful baby boy. Their path to parenthood unfolded exactly the way it needed to. In this episode, we talk about: The conversation that shifted everything from "someday" to "now"Navigating the decision between adoption and carryingChoosing donor-assisted family building — and what that choice meant to themHow that conversation shaped their timeline and their plansWhat it feels like to finally hold the family you dreamed of This episode is for educational and storytelling purposes and is not medical or legal advice.

    Two Moms, One Storm, and a Baby Boy - Emma & Julianna's Path to Parenthood

  2. Sep 24

    She Knew She’d Become a Mom — Just Not How - a conversation with Zoë Kellett

    For many of us, there’s an almost automatic assumption that when we become parents, we’ll do it with a partner. We rarely begin the journey thinking, I want to do this my way — and I think I want to do it on my own. Zoë did. She knew from the beginning that becoming a parent was something she wanted to experience on her own terms. She also knew she wanted to have two very different experiences of becoming a parent: pregnancy and birth, and adoption. For Zoë, pregnancy wasn’t necessarily about having a biological connection to a child. It was about wanting to know what it felt like to grow and bring another human being into the world. And because she wasn’t sure how pregnancy would affect her body, she felt that if she was going to experience pregnancy and birth, she wanted to do it before pursuing adoption. Her path took her through both IUI and IVF. And as that process was winding down, Zoë began looking more closely at the foster care system. What followed was a family-building journey that took years — and eventually brought her to five-week-old twins who were in foster care. Fast forward to today, and those tiny babies are now three-year-old boys who Zoë officially adopted in August 2026. Her story is a beautiful reminder that there is no single blueprint for becoming a parent. Sometimes the path we imagine at the beginning changes completely along the way. Sometimes family arrives through a combination of paths we never expected. And sometimes the most important part is simply knowing that you get to decide what your journey to parenthood looks like. You can follow Zoë and her family on Instagram at @the_colorful_kelletts.

    She Knew She’d Become a Mom — Just Not How - a conversation with Zoë Kellett

  3. Sep 17

    Becoming Mom, Twice Over: Ariana's Journey Through RIVF and Foster-to-Adopt

    Ariana dreamed of being a mom since she was a little girl — and as a queer woman, she always knew that path might not be simple. In this episode, we talk with Ariana about the two very different roads she's walked to build her family. Ariana's journey began when she partnered with a woman who also wanted to be a parent. Her partner didn't want to carry a pregnancy, but she did want a genetic connection to the child, which led them to reciprocal IVF (RIVF). It's a beautiful option, but not an inexpensive one — Ariana walks us through the months of research it took to find a fertility clinic whose payment plan let them delay payments until after their son was born. After their son arrived, Ariana's relationship broke down — but she knew her family-building journey wasn't finished. She felt called to adopt a child who needed a home, and set out on an entirely different path: working with child protective services, completing the required courses, home studies, and casework to apply through the umbrella foster-to-adopt program. Five months ago, a two-month-old baby boy was placed in Ariana's care. Now, as they wait for the courts to complete their due diligence, Ariana is holding onto hope that by the end of his first year, she'll be able to call herself his mother — formally and legally. This is a story about persistence, about the many forms family can take, and about what it means to keep showing up for the dream you've had since childhood. In this episode: Growing up queer and dreaming of motherhoodChoosing reciprocal IVF (RIVF) as a path to parenthoodNavigating the cost and logistics of fertility treatmentFinding a clinic with a payment plan built for real familiesLife after a relationship ends but the dream doesn'tFoster-to-adopt: the courses, casework, and waitingHoping for a legal, forever "mom" title within the first yearResources mentioned: Fertility clinic: CNY Fertility https://www.cnyfertility.comConnect with Ariana: Follow her family's story on TikTok @a_dennis21

    Becoming Mom, Twice Over: Ariana's Journey Through RIVF and Foster-to-Adopt

  4. Sep 10

    From Best Friends to Best Life: Sydney & Brit's Journey to Building Their Family

    How many times have you heard someone say they want to fall in love with their best friend? For Sydney and Brit, that wasn't just a wish — it's their real life. In this episode, we sit down with Sydney, who first met Brit in high school when their overlapping friend groups brought them together. What started as friendship deepened into something much bigger when they decided to spend their gap year exploring the world together before college. By the time they came home, they were, forever both changed and connected. Life pulled them apart geographically — Brit headed to school on the west coast, Sydney to the east — but it didn't take long for Sydney to realize her small liberal arts community wasn't the right fit. She packed up, moved home, and within months, she and Brit finally admitted what had been building between them all along. From there, things moved fast in the best way. By their second date, they'd already mapped out a shared dream: four kids. Turns out mother nature had other plans — the two of them ended up with four children and a bonus fifth, like a little gift with purchase. Today, Sydney and Brit are raising their beautifully dynamic family and sharing their story with the world on Instagram at @thesharonmoms. Tune in to hear how a high school friendship turned into a lifelong love story — and a family five kids strong. In this episode: How Sydney and Brit's friendship first formed in high schoolWhy they chose to spend a gap year traveling togetherThe turning point that brought them back to each otherFalling in love with your best friend — and what that really looks likePlanning a family of four... and getting fiveBuilding a beautifully dynamic, blended family lifeConnect with Sydney & Brit: Follow their family's story on Instagram @thesharonmoms

    From Best Friends to Best Life: Sydney & Brit's Journey to Building Their Family

  5. Sep 3

    Three Weeks of Heartbreak, One Miracle: The Journey to Becoming Dads - a conversation with Jake and Mike

    Sometimes the path to parenthood begins with a swipe right. Jake and Mike first connected online through social media. They worked in similar professions and had initially followed one another simply to see how the other approached their work. Then, in 2019, they matched—and swiped right. The rest, as they say, is history. When the pandemic arrived, COVID brought them together under one roof much earlier than they might otherwise have planned. It turns out, though, that they were exactly where they were meant to be. Years later, they're still together, stronger than ever, and building the family they had always dreamed about. Once they were married, Jake and Mike began researching the many different ways they could become parents. Adoption quickly emerged as the path that felt right for them, and they jumped in with both feet. But their journey was anything but simple. There were incredible highs and devastating lows. And then came three long weeks that brought every adoptive parent's worst nightmare to life. And then… a miracle. Today, Jake and Mike are a family of three. And as of July 2026, it is officially official: these two beautiful humans are proud dads to their son. In this episode of becoming babyREADY, Jake and Mike share the very real, emotional and ultimately joyful story of how they became parents. Their journey is a powerful reminder that family-building doesn't always follow a predictable path—and that sometimes, after the hardest chapters, comes the most extraordinary one of all. They also talk about Connecting Hearts, an organization that played a role in their journey and may be a valuable resource for others considering adoption. https://www.connectingheartsadoption.com And if you'd like to follow along as this family continues to blossom and grow, find Jake and Mike on Instagram at @twofloridadads

    Three Weeks of Heartbreak, One Miracle: The Journey to Becoming Dads - a conversation with Jake and Mike

  6. Aug 27

    Love, Family & the Unexpected Twists Along the Way - a chat with Lisa Boccuzzi

    When Lisa met Ali in 2013, she was simply taking a class that Ali was teaching. What began as a friendship would grow into a partnership, a marriage, and eventually, a family. After spending time living on both coasts, Lisa and Ali ultimately returned to the tri-state area, where their roots run deepest. Along the way, their relationship has been filled with moments that have shaped not only their own family, but also the families of some of the people closest to them. They took turns proposing to one another, married in 2022, and then began the exciting—and sometimes unexpected—journey of creating a family together. Lisa's story is a wonderful reminder that there isn't one prescribed route to building a family. Sometimes the path takes turns you couldn't have anticipated. Sometimes the people you meet along the way become part of your family in ways you never imagined. And sometimes the twists and turns that make your journey uniquely yours are exactly what make your family story so meaningful. In this episode of becoming babyREADY, Lisa shares the story of her relationship with Ali, their journey to marriage and parenthood, and the unexpected twists that helped shape the family they have today—and even influenced the family-building journeys of some of their closest friends. It's a story about love, friendship, chosen family, and discovering that there may be far more than one way to create the family you've dreamed about. Follow Lisa: @lisaboccuzzi on Instagram and TikTokRead Lisa & Allie's Substack: She's Not My Roommate — shesnotmyroommate.substack.com

    Love, Family & the Unexpected Twists Along the Way - a chat with Lisa Boccuzzi

  7. Aug 20

    The Very Best Part: 18 Queer Parents Share What They Love Most About Parenting

    What’s your favourite part of being a parent? It’s a question I ask at the end of every episode of becoming babyREADY — and this week, I decided to bring some of those answers together. In this special episode, I’ve gathered clips from 18 conversations with Queer parents, each answering the same simple but wonderfully revealing question: “What is your very favourite part of parenting your child or children?” The answers are as wonderfully varied as the families themselves. Some talk about the little everyday moments. Some talk about watching their children become fully themselves. Some make us laugh. Some might make you a little teary. And together, they offer something I think we could all use a little more of: a reminder of just how much joy, connection, discovery and love there is in parenting. Because while becoming a parent can involve navigating fertility, pregnancy, birth, adoption, donor conception, surrogacy, healthcare systems, family dynamics and a whole host of questions that can feel uniquely complicated for Queer families… Sometimes, it’s simply about the really, really good stuff. I had so much fun putting this episode together that I have a feeling this may not be the last time I create one of these “best of” episodes. There are still plenty of wonderful answers hiding in the archives! So settle in, listen to 18 Queer parents talk about the parts of parenting that make their hearts happiest — and maybe think about your own answer. What is YOUR very favourite part of parenting?

    The Very Best Part: 18 Queer Parents Share What They Love Most About Parenting

  8. Aug 13

    Perimenopause Isn't Just About Midlife—It's a Fertility Conversation (with Dr. Sheila Dyer, ND) Too

    At first glance, a conversation about perimenopause might seem like an unexpected topic for a podcast dedicated to family building. But as you'll discover in this episode, hormones influence so much more than we often realize—including fertility, pregnancy, and your overall reproductive health. This week, Sam sits down with Dr. Sheila, a naturopathic doctor whose practice focuses on hormonal health, fertility, and perimenopause. Together, they explore why understanding your body before beginning a fertility journey can make a meaningful difference. Dr. Sheila explains how comprehensive hormone testing—including Day 3 blood work, vitamin levels, and thyroid function—can help identify concerns before you begin fertility treatments, allowing you to move forward feeling informed and better prepared. The conversation also becomes deeply personal as Dr. Sheila shares their own experience navigating egg retrieval, IVF, and the emotional realities of building their own family. Whether you're just beginning to think about becoming a parent, preparing for IVF or IUI, or simply wanting to better understand your body, this episode offers practical information, compassionate insight, and plenty of hope. In this episode you'll learn: Why hormone health matters long before pregnancy.How naturopathic medicine can complement fertility care.What Day 3 hormone testing can reveal.The importance of checking thyroid and vitamin levels before treatment.One doctor's personal experience with retrieval and IVF.How proactive preparation can support your family-building journey.Learn more about Dr. Sheila:📸 Instagram: @drsheila_nd🌐 Website: sheiladyernd.com If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who is planning or growing their family. Every family has a beginning—we'd be honoured to be part of yours.

    Perimenopause Isn't Just About Midlife—It's a Fertility Conversation (with Dr. Sheila Dyer, ND) Too
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"becoming babyREADY" is a Queer-centred podcast exploring the journeys of 2SLGBTQIA+ family creation. Through conversations with Queer parents and professionals, we dive into what it takes to build intentional families — from legal and financial prep to emotional support and hands-on care. Rooted in Canada and reaching around the world, these stories offer insight, inspiration, and community for anyone growing their family with pride.

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