Getting Out With Jesse Xander

Jesse Xander

Raw, unfiltered, conversations and interviews filled with laughter. Getting Out is Hosted By Me, Jesse Xander, Im a singer/songwriter, musician, and audio engineer…..oh yeah, I’m also an ex con and a recovering addict. I spent 3 years in prison, during the covid pandemic and locked down 24 hours a day for the majority of my time. So every day is a gift that I have to remind myself to even open.  I spent most of my young life in the Entertainment industry. I had the privilege to work with artists such as The Sugar Hill Gang, Biz Markie, Poppa Don, Inner Party System, Ty Wiz and many others but before I knew it I was in sooo deep I didn't think id ever be able to GET OUT, let alone repair all the damage I caused. But I’m alive and I’m free. I started Getting Out to tackle topics such as addiction, mental health and Prison Life-which comes with stories of loved ones passing and a lot of pain. But also stories of redemption and over coming. GETTING OUT gives us a chance to look at ourselves our past mistakes, and hopefully help someone that is dealing with something similar.. Or maybe you’re just interested in what prison life is like and want a good laugh? We got you.   Learn to laugh at the person you were, use your mistakes as your personal super power. So lets get out together!  Check out Youtube for Exclusive videos and our website(Are you in the Central Jersey Area? Send us a message, we are always looking for new guests with a good story! Message Jesse@gettingoutthepodcast.com,  Gettingoutthepodcast@gmail.com or click the link below! for details!) New VIDEOS every week so if you don’t see it here check our YouTube! But I will be posting a lot more audio only content in the years to come. Thank you all for listening and watching, the show wouldn't exist without your support!A Say I wont Production

  1. 6D AGO

    When The Scam Goes Off The Rails

    A phone scam doesn’t usually end with sirens, a body cam, and a courtroom verdict, but that’s exactly where this story goes. We start with an elderly Ohio man calling 911 and admitting he shot a woman outside his home, convinced he’s being targeted by criminals who are still watching him. Dispatch races to get medics on scene, deputies try to lock down the threat, and every new detail makes the situation feel more unstable. As we piece it together, the scam itself comes into focus: a classic grandparent scam turned up to maximum pressure. The caller impersonates authority figures, demands cash, and keeps the victim on the phone for hours while the threats escalate from urgent warnings to explicit promises of murder. Then comes the moment that changes how you understand everything, including who the woman in the driveway really is. Detectives discover she’s an Uber driver who accepted a request connected to the fraud, and her dash cam captures a quiet, uneasy wait that turns into a deadly confrontation in minutes. We walk through what the footage suggests, why “fear” and “self-defense” aren’t the same thing in court, and how the case ends with a murder conviction, an appeal, and a wrongful death lawsuit while the scammers remain unidentified. If you care about true crime, online fraud, and the real-life consequences of social engineering, this one will stick with you. Subscribe, share this with a friend who needs scam red flags, and leave a review with your take: where should the line be between panic and accountability? Blog Post CONTACT US HERE Music By Jesse Alxander Support the show Join the family here! -  https://www.patreon.com/GettingOutThePodcast Gettingoutthepodcast.com (under construction) Follow us on Instagram  - https://www.instagram.com/gettingout_podcast/ Stay tuned to twitch for streams - https://www.twitch.tv/gettingoutthepodcast Find all of our other links here - https://linktr.ee/gettingoutthepodcast   New episodes every weekend. If you'd like to SUPPORT the show please subscribe, leave a comment or check out our Patreon. Don't forget to check our YouTube for more content! -SayIWon'tProductions

    21 min
  2. MAR 2

    Unmasking The Epstein Files

    The doors swung open on more than three million “unredacted” files, and what we found was a maze: survivors named in full view while alleged co‑conspirators stayed cloaked behind fresh black bars. People are not taking this sitting down and many indipendent journalists decided to pick up their cameras and head to Washington, D.C. What happens when four DOJ terminals are all that stand between Congress and the most consequential trove of abuse and corruption in recent memory? we focus on what listeners can do. Demand full release of co‑conspirator documents, enforce penalties for unlawful redactions, support survivor services, and hold representatives to clear litmus tests on transparency. If the system keeps shielding the powerful, trust will continue to shatter. If we insist on names, timelines, and charges that stand up in court, survivors can finally see justice and the public can start to believe again. Listen, share, and leave a review with the one reform you want passed now—your voice is leverage. CONTACT US HERE Music By Jesse Alxander Support the show Join the family here! -  https://www.patreon.com/GettingOutThePodcast Gettingoutthepodcast.com (under construction) Follow us on Instagram  - https://www.instagram.com/gettingout_podcast/ Stay tuned to twitch for streams - https://www.twitch.tv/gettingoutthepodcast Find all of our other links here - https://linktr.ee/gettingoutthepodcast   New episodes every weekend. If you'd like to SUPPORT the show please subscribe, leave a comment or check out our Patreon. Don't forget to check our YouTube for more content! -SayIWon'tProductions

    42 min
  3. JAN 13

    Exposing A Corrupt Cop

    A badge can feel like a promise: safety, order, truth. Tirzah thought she found all three when a detective slipped her his number under the guise of neighborhood safety. What followed was a masterclass in manipulation—love-bombing, boundary testing, and a slow, steady shift from romance to control. We walk through the pivotal beats: on-duty pull-ups with her in the car, drinking on shift, and confidential case details shared like party trivia. He mapped out a future—house hunting, kids’ schools, marriage talk—while quietly moving the goalposts and keeping her on his schedule and on his terms. The most painful turns happen behind closed doors. Sex becomes leverage, not intimacy. Clear no’s are litigated into yes’s, and hesitations become accusations. He pressures her to quit a past life to “build a family,” then demands she reenter it to “fix” his finances, complete with degrading rules and a Total abuse of power. This is just the beginning of a long story that we dive DEEP into. NO PUN INTENDED. Lets Go! Episode 2 coming soon..... CONTACT US HERE Music By Jesse Alxander Support the show Join the family here! -  https://www.patreon.com/GettingOutThePodcast Gettingoutthepodcast.com (under construction) Follow us on Instagram  - https://www.instagram.com/gettingout_podcast/ Stay tuned to twitch for streams - https://www.twitch.tv/gettingoutthepodcast Find all of our other links here - https://linktr.ee/gettingoutthepodcast   New episodes every weekend. If you'd like to SUPPORT the show please subscribe, leave a comment or check out our Patreon. Don't forget to check our YouTube for more content! -SayIWon'tProductions

    1h 6m
  4. 11/07/2025

    Timbaland's New A.I. Artist TATA

    We return after loss and health scares to unpack a storm in music tech: AI tools that help creators versus AI “artists” that replace them. From layered kicks to lawsuits, we draw a line between inspiration and extraction and make a case for human craft and fair credit. • grief, resilience and why art matters • overview of Suno, Tata and Timbaland’s AI pivot • tool vs replacement in DAWs and production • voice cloning ethics and legacy boundaries • lawsuits over training data and catalog scraping • streaming thresholds, revenue squeeze and discoverability • producer craft: layering kicks, transient design, mix iteration • sampling norms, credit culture and registration basics • the KFresh beat case and public apologies • the band feeling, collaboration and live connection Keep listening if you want to hear the new song. The rest, you're gonna have to tune in to SoundCloud Jesse Xander or Alexander A-L-X-A-N-D-E-R. CONTACT US HERE Music By Jesse Alxander Support the show Join the family here! -  https://www.patreon.com/GettingOutThePodcast Gettingoutthepodcast.com (under construction) Follow us on Instagram  - https://www.instagram.com/gettingout_podcast/ Stay tuned to twitch for streams - https://www.twitch.tv/gettingoutthepodcast Find all of our other links here - https://linktr.ee/gettingoutthepodcast   New episodes every weekend. If you'd like to SUPPORT the show please subscribe, leave a comment or check out our Patreon. Don't forget to check our YouTube for more content! -SayIWon'tProductions

    1h 23m
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About

Raw, unfiltered, conversations and interviews filled with laughter. Getting Out is Hosted By Me, Jesse Xander, Im a singer/songwriter, musician, and audio engineer…..oh yeah, I’m also an ex con and a recovering addict. I spent 3 years in prison, during the covid pandemic and locked down 24 hours a day for the majority of my time. So every day is a gift that I have to remind myself to even open.  I spent most of my young life in the Entertainment industry. I had the privilege to work with artists such as The Sugar Hill Gang, Biz Markie, Poppa Don, Inner Party System, Ty Wiz and many others but before I knew it I was in sooo deep I didn't think id ever be able to GET OUT, let alone repair all the damage I caused. But I’m alive and I’m free. I started Getting Out to tackle topics such as addiction, mental health and Prison Life-which comes with stories of loved ones passing and a lot of pain. But also stories of redemption and over coming. GETTING OUT gives us a chance to look at ourselves our past mistakes, and hopefully help someone that is dealing with something similar.. Or maybe you’re just interested in what prison life is like and want a good laugh? We got you.   Learn to laugh at the person you were, use your mistakes as your personal super power. So lets get out together!  Check out Youtube for Exclusive videos and our website(Are you in the Central Jersey Area? Send us a message, we are always looking for new guests with a good story! Message Jesse@gettingoutthepodcast.com,  Gettingoutthepodcast@gmail.com or click the link below! for details!) New VIDEOS every week so if you don’t see it here check our YouTube! But I will be posting a lot more audio only content in the years to come. Thank you all for listening and watching, the show wouldn't exist without your support!A Say I wont Production