Getting Out The Podcast

Jesse Xander

Raw, unfiltered, conversations and interviews filled with laughter. Getting Out is Hosted By Me, Jesse Xander, Im a singer/songwriter, musician, and audio engineer…..oh yeah, I’m also an ex con and a recovering addict. I have 6 years clean from heroin. 3 of which were spent in prison, all during covid and locked down 24 hours a day for the majority of my time. So every day is a gift that I have to remind myself to even open.  I spent most of my young life in the Entertainment industry. I had the privilege to work with artists such as The Sugar Hill Gang, Biz Markie, Poppa Don, Inner Party System, and many others but I went down the wrong path. Before I knew it I was in sooo deep I didn't think id ever be able to GET OUT, let alone repair all the damage I caused. But I’m alive and I’m free. I started Getting Out to tackle topics such as addiction, mental health and Prison Life-which comes with stories of loved ones passing and a lot of pain. But also stories of redemption and over coming. GETTING OUT gives us a chance to look at ourselves our past mistakes, and hopefully help someone that is dealing with something similar.. Or maybe you’re just interested in what prison life is like and want a good laugh? We got you.   Learn to laugh at the person you were, use your mistakes as your personal super power. Only way past it….is THROUGH IT. So lets get out together! Hit play, subscribe, and become an part of the family today! Check out Youtube for Exclusive videos and our website(Are you in the Central Jersey Area? Send us a message, we are always looking for new guests with a good story! Message Jesse@gettingoutthepodcast.com,  Gettingoutthepodcast@gmail.com or click the link below! for details!) New VIDEOS every weekend so if you don’t see it here check our YouTube! But we will be posting a lot more audio only content this year. Thank you all for listening and watchingA Say I wont Production

  1. JAN 13

    Badges, Lies and a Double Life

    A badge can feel like a promise: safety, order, truth. Tirzah thought she found all three when a detective slipped her his number under the guise of neighborhood safety. What followed was a masterclass in manipulation—love-bombing, boundary testing, and a slow, steady shift from romance to control. We walk through the pivotal beats: on-duty pull-ups with her in the car, drinking on shift, and confidential case details shared like party trivia. He mapped out a future—house hunting, kids’ schools, marriage talk—while quietly moving the goalposts and keeping her on his schedule and on his terms. The most painful turns happen behind closed doors. Sex becomes leverage, not intimacy. Clear no’s are litigated into yes’s, and hesitations become accusations. He pressures her to quit a past life to “build a family,” then demands she reenter it to “fix” his finances, complete with degrading rules and a Total abuse of power. This is just the beginning of a long story that we dive DEEP into. NO PUN INTENDED. Lets Go! Episode 2 coming soon..... CONTACT US HERE Music By Jesse Alxander Support the show Join the family here! - https://www.patreon.com/GettingOutThePodcast Gettingoutthepodcast.com (under construction) Follow us on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/gettingout_podcast/ Stay tuned to twitch for streams - https://www.twitch.tv/gettingoutthepodcast Find all of our other links here - https://linktr.ee/gettingoutthepodcast New episodes every weekend. If you'd like to SUPPORT the show please subscribe, leave a comment or check out our Patreon. Don't forget to check our YouTube for more content! -SayIWon'tProductions

    1h 6m
  2. 11/07/2025

    Timbaland's New A.I. Artist TATA

    We return after loss and health scares to unpack a storm in music tech: AI tools that help creators versus AI “artists” that replace them. From layered kicks to lawsuits, we draw a line between inspiration and extraction and make a case for human craft and fair credit. • grief, resilience and why art matters • overview of Suno, Tata and Timbaland’s AI pivot • tool vs replacement in DAWs and production • voice cloning ethics and legacy boundaries • lawsuits over training data and catalog scraping • streaming thresholds, revenue squeeze and discoverability • producer craft: layering kicks, transient design, mix iteration • sampling norms, credit culture and registration basics • the KFresh beat case and public apologies • the band feeling, collaboration and live connection Keep listening if you want to hear the new song. The rest, you're gonna have to tune in to SoundCloud Jesse Xander or Alexander A-L-X-A-N-D-E-R. CONTACT US HERE Music By Jesse Alxander Support the show Join the family here! - https://www.patreon.com/GettingOutThePodcast Gettingoutthepodcast.com (under construction) Follow us on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/gettingout_podcast/ Stay tuned to twitch for streams - https://www.twitch.tv/gettingoutthepodcast Find all of our other links here - https://linktr.ee/gettingoutthepodcast New episodes every weekend. If you'd like to SUPPORT the show please subscribe, leave a comment or check out our Patreon. Don't forget to check our YouTube for more content! -SayIWon'tProductions

    1h 23m
  3. 02/27/2025

    Unlocking the Mind: A Journey through Remote Viewing and Consciousness W Mike Totaro

    Dive into an enthralling exploration of consciousness, remote viewing, and the untapped potential of the mind in this episode of Getting Out. I sit down with an old friend Mike Totaro, who has dedicated the last decade-or 2 of his life trying to learn more about whats really going on around us and more importantly inside our brain.   We unravel the mysteries surrounding the power of thought and belief, shedding light on how our perceptions can shape our reality. Highlighting personal journeys and encounters with the extraordinary, our guest shares experiences that challenge traditional beliefs about psychic abilities and the unseen forces at play in our lives. As we discuss the relationship between consciousness and energy, we introduce the intriguing phenomena of plasmoids—entities existing in our atmosphere, revealing a crossover between the physical and spiritual worlds. We also touch upon the profound implications of diet on psychic capabilities, emphasizing the connection between what we consume and our cognitive abilities.  Throughout the conversation, we address prevalent myths surrounding extraterrestrial life and the increasing evidence pointing towards a profound connection with the universe. With discussions inspired by scientific curiosity, we encourage listeners to embrace a more expansive understanding of reality, moving beyond skepticism towards a place of inquiry and wonder. Join us as we encourage a shift in thinking—become part of a journey that offers insights into our collective consciousness and the profound connection we have with the universe. Tune in, engage your curiosity, and embark on your own exploration into the infinite possibilities that lie before us! CONTACT US HERE Music By Jesse Alxander Support the show Join the family here! - https://www.patreon.com/GettingOutThePodcast Gettingoutthepodcast.com (under construction) Follow us on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/gettingout_podcast/ Stay tuned to twitch for streams - https://www.twitch.tv/gettingoutthepodcast Find all of our other links here - https://linktr.ee/gettingoutthepodcast New episodes every weekend. If you'd like to SUPPORT the show please subscribe, leave a comment or check out our Patreon. Don't forget to check our YouTube for more content! -SayIWon'tProductions

    2h 8m
  4. 10/07/2024

    Getting Out #65 Diddy or Diddy Not Get Exposed By Kat Williams?

    Is the entertainment industry a web of deception, or are we simply not looking closely enough?" Join us for a deep dive into the shadowy corridors of fame, where ethical dilemmas and rapid rises to stardom seem to dance hand in hand. Drawing from personal tales and industry insights, we unpack the enigmatic world of entertainment with a focus on controversial figures like Diddy. With Katt Williams' candid interview with Shannon Sharpe as a backdrop, we unravel the strange social dynamics and the moral tests that aspiring stars often face in their quest for success. Our exploration doesn't stop there. We shift gears to the intricate contracts and control mechanisms that can bind artists, using high-profile cases like Britney Spears as cautionary tales. Hear compelling stories about Kevin Hart and Dave Chappelle's struggles for creative freedom amid the industry's demands. We expose the systemic issues that manipulate and constrain artists, casting light on a world where power dynamics dictate careers and creative visions are often sidelined. Stay Frosty CONTACT US HERE Support the show Join the family here! - https://www.patreon.com/GettingOutThePodcast Gettingoutthepodcast.com (under construction) Follow us on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/gettingout_podcast/ Stay tuned to twitch for streams - https://www.twitch.tv/gettingoutthepodcast Find all of our other links here - https://linktr.ee/gettingoutthepodcast New episodes every weekend. If you'd like to SUPPORT the show please subscribe, leave a comment or check out our Patreon. Don't forget to check our YouTube for more content! -SayIWon'tProductions

    55 min
  5. 10/01/2024

    Getting Out #64 Are You A Racist? Sweet Baby Inc Will Tell You?

    Adam and Johnny are back! take a seat or stand up and join us as we talk about the stark contrasts between the American and British education systems. We can't help but voice our concerns for the current state of U.S. public schools, calling for more life skills and less standardised testing. What do shows like "Modern Family" and video game characters in wheelchairs have in common? One Hint SWEET BABY INC, fine one more D,E,I everywhere and we really need to know.....Are We All Racist? Doesn't sit seem diversity quotas sometimes overshadows the story it's trying to tell, let alone the impact of this on today's kids. The paradox of anti-racism "training"  fostering racism, and the raw authenticity of old-school rap versus modern narratives. The upcoming Ubisoft Japanese-themed Assassin's Creed game, featuring a black samurai ......... Leets GOOO CONTACT US HERE Support the show Join the family here! - https://www.patreon.com/GettingOutThePodcast Gettingoutthepodcast.com (under construction) Follow us on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/gettingout_podcast/ Stay tuned to twitch for streams - https://www.twitch.tv/gettingoutthepodcast Find all of our other links here - https://linktr.ee/gettingoutthepodcast New episodes every weekend. If you'd like to SUPPORT the show please subscribe, leave a comment or check out our Patreon. Don't forget to check our YouTube for more content! -SayIWon'tProductions

    48 min
  6. 09/23/2024

    Getting Out #63 Black Mirror, Trippy Stories! "Life Is Like Watching TV"

    "Black Mirror" on Netflix and the game-changing "Bandersnatch" choose your own adventure episode!  Or The episode that started it all! The recording eyes! You know what I mean if you know what I mean! Join us as we bring the Goosebumps and Lemonys shnickitty days back. Maybe you can learn something from our personal experiences with those crazy mushrooms Mario eats. Spoiler: You don't become 2 times bigger. Ever had a psychedelic trip that felt more like a mission than a high? That's this episode. We’ve got some wild stories to share, from a friend’s obsession with saying "pickles" to the chaos of guiding another through his first shroom experience. Alongside these trippy tales, we reflect on the early days of social media, (MYSPACE) the reality of living with digital footprints, and even personal brushes with the legal system.  CONTACT US HERE Support the show Join the family here! - https://www.patreon.com/GettingOutThePodcast Gettingoutthepodcast.com (under construction) Follow us on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/gettingout_podcast/ Stay tuned to twitch for streams - https://www.twitch.tv/gettingoutthepodcast Find all of our other links here - https://linktr.ee/gettingoutthepodcast New episodes every weekend. If you'd like to SUPPORT the show please subscribe, leave a comment or check out our Patreon. Don't forget to check our YouTube for more content! -SayIWon'tProductions

    46 min
5
out of 5
4 Ratings

About

Raw, unfiltered, conversations and interviews filled with laughter. Getting Out is Hosted By Me, Jesse Xander, Im a singer/songwriter, musician, and audio engineer…..oh yeah, I’m also an ex con and a recovering addict. I have 6 years clean from heroin. 3 of which were spent in prison, all during covid and locked down 24 hours a day for the majority of my time. So every day is a gift that I have to remind myself to even open.  I spent most of my young life in the Entertainment industry. I had the privilege to work with artists such as The Sugar Hill Gang, Biz Markie, Poppa Don, Inner Party System, and many others but I went down the wrong path. Before I knew it I was in sooo deep I didn't think id ever be able to GET OUT, let alone repair all the damage I caused. But I’m alive and I’m free. I started Getting Out to tackle topics such as addiction, mental health and Prison Life-which comes with stories of loved ones passing and a lot of pain. But also stories of redemption and over coming. GETTING OUT gives us a chance to look at ourselves our past mistakes, and hopefully help someone that is dealing with something similar.. Or maybe you’re just interested in what prison life is like and want a good laugh? We got you.   Learn to laugh at the person you were, use your mistakes as your personal super power. Only way past it….is THROUGH IT. So lets get out together! Hit play, subscribe, and become an part of the family today! Check out Youtube for Exclusive videos and our website(Are you in the Central Jersey Area? Send us a message, we are always looking for new guests with a good story! Message Jesse@gettingoutthepodcast.com,  Gettingoutthepodcast@gmail.com or click the link below! for details!) New VIDEOS every weekend so if you don’t see it here check our YouTube! But we will be posting a lot more audio only content this year. Thank you all for listening and watchingA Say I wont Production