Hanging Out 4ever

Grant Blackwell & Aja Corynn
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We couldn’t find a therapist, so we started a podcast.  After 7 years of dating we nearly came to a breaking point and decided it was time to try something new, to talk about our feelings and record them. Our podcast is not the highlight reel of our relationship, it is our relationship, as authentic as possible. Dating and long term relationships can be difficult. Especially, when the internet seems so focused on only happy moments. We share our truth  and hope it resonates with you and makes you feel less alone in the dating/ Long Term Relationship world. Let's all figure this dating thing out together.✨-Aja & GrantWATCH US ON YOUTUBE https://www.youtube.com/@HangingOut4ever 

  1. I Had to Become a Man in My Relationship (Before I Lost Her)

    1D AGO

    I Had to Become a Man in My Relationship (Before I Lost Her)

    This episode was one we knew we had to have, and it was a long time coming. Grant opens up to Aja about the moments he realized he wasn't man enough for the relationship he wanted to have with her. From being emotionally passive, to struggling financially, to putting in the bare minimum, and almost losing Aja completely — Grant shares what the most difficult parts of growing up while being in a relationship really look like, which is something people don't talk about nearly enough. Aja and I have been together since our early 20s, and you don't realize how far you have to grow until somebody is putting a mirror in your face and showing you exactly what needs to change. Growing to be the man she needed wasn't easy, but it was what it took to become the partner Aja deserved. In this episode, we get into the years of clashing, the resentment that built up, and the breaking point where Aja couldn't see a future with me anymore and how she felt as someone who refused to lower her standards for love. We talk about what it actually felt like for me to not show up as the man in the relationship, what finally pushed me to change, and how Aja began to trust me again — the small moments, the big shifts, and everything in between. If you're in a relationship where you feel like you're falling behind, struggling with how to be the man your partner needs, or trying to figure out how to rebuild trust after you've dropped the ball, we made this episode for you.  This is our real experience and relationship advice as two people who lived through it, chose each other anyway, and made it to the other side.  Leave us a comment and let us know where you are in your journey, let's talk it out and hopefully we can help get you to the other side too. Because we love it over here and want that for you. Comment Your Thoughts! Send us a text and let us know what y'all think on this one. Love you Besties! -Grant & Aja

    49 min
  2. Would You Rather: Couples Edition | Loyalty, Love & Red Flags

    4D AGO

    Would You Rather: Couples Edition | Loyalty, Love & Red Flags

    Hey Besties! We’re keeping it light on this week’s episode… but trust us, the next few weeks are about to get heavy. So before we dive into all of that, we decided to switch it up and ask each other some very serious “Would You Rather” questions. And by serious, we mean the kind that lowkey reveal how you really think about love, loyalty, jealousy, boundaries, and SECRETS. Let's get into this would you rather couples edition and see if either of us are a red flag 👀 p.s. Sorry Vegans :( Send us a Listener Letter: https://form.jotform.com/hangingout4everpod/hanging-out-4ever-submissions Apply to be on our dating show: https://forms.gle/eEfnfpp7vh2BTadT7 Comment Your Thoughts! Send us a text and let us know what y'all think on this one. Love you Besties! -Grant & Aja

    37 min

  3. FEB 20

    WHY Women Need Higher Standards in bed ft. Lady Kay

    Hey Besties! We sat down with pro-sex content creator Lady K to talk about how Women experience pleasure, shame, ego, submission, dominance, and what happens when a Woman stops centering men and starts centering herself in the bedroom. There’s this weird thing in society where Women are allowed to be sexualized but are made to feel that aren't actually allowed to enjoy sex, not allowed to want more and not allowed to raise the bar. That Women are seen as sources of pleasure for men while being shamed for exploring their own sense of pleasure in the same way men do. Y'all know we hate patriarchal double standards over here so Aja and Lady K dive deep into all of it from why strong Women desire being dominated in bed to what men get wrong about Women's desire as a whole. Let us know what y'all think about everything and if you've ever had problems exploring your sexuality out of shame, nervousness or anything else! Comment Your Thoughts! Send us a text and let us know what y'all think on this one. Love you Besties! -Grant & Aja

    1 hr
  4. I Was Married To A P*RN ADDICT | HO4 Listener Letter Episode

    JAN 30

    I Was Married To A P*RN ADDICT | HO4 Listener Letter Episode

    You read that title right!  BUCKLE UP BESTIES WE'RE IN FOR A WILD RIDE!  As promised, we're back with another listener letter straight from our HO4 (Hanging Out 4ever, duh lol) community This episode feels like that one Wendy Williams shook meme and we have major whiplash. This might be our favorite episode to date, we let loose, get a lil crazy and read some even crazier stories. Here's the stories we dive into today,  Nasty ToenailsI Was Married To A P*rn Addict(WE'RE GONNA LET THIS ONE BE A SURPRISE 🥵🫣👀)To submit your own listener letters clickhere  If you wanna watch out live reactions to this episode, check us out on youtube! Comment Your Thoughts! Send us a text and let us know what y'all think on this one. Love you Besties! -Grant & Aja

    56 min
  5. The Truth About KRISTY & DESMOND SCOTT

    JAN 20

    The Truth About KRISTY & DESMOND SCOTT

    OK BESTIES WE NEED TO HAVE A TALK.. The news of Kristy and Desmonds divorce is SHAKING the internet and we're here to clear the air and share the truth behind relationship content creators and the SIDE EFFECTS of MONETIZING your love life Grant goes off on a rant, we discuss gender dynamics in the influencer space and as always, KEEP IT REAL Comment Your Thoughts! Send us a text and let us know what y'all think on this one. Love you Besties! -Grant & Aja

    51 min
  6. Telling My Mom I'm Depressed ft Aja's Mom

    JAN 8

    Telling My Mom I'm Depressed ft Aja's Mom

    Y'all know Aja is lowkey a crier. Her and her Mommy sit down in this episode to talk about Aja's childhood struggles with identity, self worth and depression. It's never easy talking about depression, let alone with your parents and even more so the entire world. Hopefully, this episode makes some of y'all feel seen and heard. People don't talk enough about what it's like being depressed, especially Women and you already know if it's happening, Aja's gonna talk about it. BTW, welcome to our first podcast of the year  Let us know how you feel about this one Besties. P.S. Aja's a bit sniffly in this episode because as we said, she a crier lol SOWWY Comment Your Thoughts! Send us a text and let us know what y'all think on this one. Love you Besties! -Grant & Aja

    58 min
  7. A Very Naughty Christmas

    12/20/2025

    A Very Naughty Christmas

    Ho, ho, ho Besties! Welcome to our very first Christmas Special. We've swapped out Grant and Aja for Mr. & Mrs. Claus, and we get into in this episode sharing HOT questions and even HOTTER takes. Have we been naughty or nice this year? Have YOU?  👀 👀 Comment Your Thoughts! Send us a text and let us know what y'all think on this one. Love you Besties! -Grant & Aja

    50 min

  8. 11/13/2025

    I Was His Sidechick, NOT His Girlfriend

    WE'RE CELEBRATING HITTING 50K FOLLOWERS ON INTSTAGRAM!!!! We're honoring this milestone by reading listener letters from our Besties once again. This episode is truly a rollercoaster and not the kind you'd expect. Buckle up babies, we're going for a ride. Thanks to these besties for submitting their stories to us. Friendly Reminder: The last letter is truly vulnerable and deep, so be kind on that one and give her some grace Let us know what y'all think about everything Have a story you wanna share, submit it here or scan/screenshot the QR code at the end https://form.jotform.com/hangingout4e... Comment Your Thoughts! Send us a text and let us know what y'all think on this one. Love you Besties! -Grant & Aja

    53 min
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Ratings & Reviews

5
out of 5
7 Ratings

About

We couldn’t find a therapist, so we started a podcast.  After 7 years of dating we nearly came to a breaking point and decided it was time to try something new, to talk about our feelings and record them. Our podcast is not the highlight reel of our relationship, it is our relationship, as authentic as possible. Dating and long term relationships can be difficult. Especially, when the internet seems so focused on only happy moments. We share our truth  and hope it resonates with you and makes you feel less alone in the dating/ Long Term Relationship world. Let's all figure this dating thing out together.✨-Aja & GrantWATCH US ON YOUTUBE https://www.youtube.com/@HangingOut4ever 

Information

  • Creator
    Grant Blackwell & Aja Corynn
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    35
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Hanging Out 4ever
  • Show Website
    Hanging Out 4ever

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