What I Wish I Knew beyond Pregnancy Loss

Sharna Southan

What I wish I knew beyond Pregnancy Loss: The Intersection of Fertility, Trauma & Purpose This podcast is a space for deep, honest conversations about fertility struggles, pregnancy loss, and the unseen layers of healing. Here, we explore the intersection of trauma, the nervous system, and emotional recovery—because healing is not just about moving forward; it’s about understanding how loss changes us and how we can reclaim our power. Whether you’re navigating life after loss, facing reproductive challenges, or seeking purpose in your own healing journey, this is where we go beyond the surface. Through expert insights, personal stories, and trauma-informed support, you’ll gain the tools to heal, grow, and step into a future that honours your past while embracing what’s next. Your story matters. Your healing matters. And there is more waiting for you beyond loss

  1. 5d ago

    EP143: The root cause no one looks for: Miscarriage, MTHFR & reclaiming your body after loss with Guest Molly Sellers

    ✨ Join the FREE Masterclass: The Mental Health Care Gap for Bereaved Mothers  If you support women and have ever wondered “What am I missing?” after pregnancy loss, this training is for you. Discover what standard frameworks can overlook and leave knowing what to look for, what questions to ask, and where your role fits in supporting the whole woman after loss. Join the free masterclass here → https://www.facebook.com/groups/thereproductivelossleadershipnetwork      In this episode, I sit down with Molly Sellers, a certified nutritional therapy practitioner whose work is shaped by her own experience with two pregnancy losses — including a partial molar pregnancy — stage four endometriosis, burnout, and perimenopause. Molly specializes in root-cause, bio-individual care: hormone balance, mineral support through HTMA testing, blood sugar regulation, and nervous system health. We talk about what happens when the medical system hands you a "try again in six months" and nothing else — and why so many women are left to do the digging themselves after a loss. Molly shares her own story of miscarriage, an undiagnosed MTHFR gene mutation, a 15-year road to an endometriosis diagnosis, and how she eventually found her way to functional, whole-body healing. We cover: Molly's story of two pregnancy losses, including a partial molar pregnancy and emergency D&C The MTHFR gene mutation, synthetic folic acid, and why standard prenatal vitamins can do more harm than good for some women Why the body needs to feel safe before fertility can "come back online" — and how trauma and stress get stored in the body The emotional weight of watching others get pregnant easily — resentment, jealousy, and self-doubt Why a 15-year wait for an endometriosis diagnosis is far too common, and how to advocate for yourself The missing conversation around preconception care, and the total lack of support around perimenopause Molly's practical starting points for anyone trying again after loss: trauma-informed therapy, a provider who will actually listen, pelvic floor/body work, and a supportive network Why symptoms are communication, not something to dismiss — and how to reconnect with a body you no longer trust after loss A reminder from this conversation: you are not broken, and you don't have to have all the answers today — just permission to get curious about what your body is trying to tell you. Connect with Molly Sellers: Instagram: @goodforyoufd Website: www.goodforyoufood.net  Offers free 30-minute discovery calls, HTMA (hair mineral) testing, and 1:1 coaching If this episode resonated with you, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts — it helps these conversations reach the women who need them.   Connect with Sharna  Find me here: @reproductivelossleadership  If today's conversation resonated with you, I'd love to stay connected. My mission is to help change the landscape of pregnancy loss care through education, advocacy, research, and evidence-informed, trauma-informed support. Whether you're navigating your own loss, supporting someone you love, or you're a healthcare professional wanting to improve the care you provide, there's a place for you here. You can follow my work, explore educational resources, listen to more podcast episodes, or learn about the Pregnancy loss recovery method & Integrated Pregnancy Loss Care framework Or the Pregnancy Loss & Trauma-Informed Specialist Certification. Together, we're creating a future where every pregnancy loss is acknowledged, every family is supported, and every practitioner feels confident to provide compassionate, person-centred care. I'd love to hear what resonated with you from today's episode. Share your thoughts, leave a review, or connect with me on social media—your voice helps shape this conversation and reach more families who need it. Thank you for being part of this community. Together, we're changing the future of pregnancy loss care. Follow the podcast page: @pregnancyloss_podcast If this episode resonated with you, share it with someone who needs to hear it. And if you are a practitioner supporting women through reproductive loss and want to go deeper on the neuroscience and body-based frameworks behind this work — the Pregnancy Loss & Trauma-Informed Specialist Certification is where we take all of this further.

  2. Aug 9

    EP142: When the system sends you home and calls It care — with Guest Atara Parkinson

    ✨ Join the FREE Masterclass: The Mental Health Care Gap for Bereaved Mothers  If you support women and have ever wondered “What am I missing?” after pregnancy loss, this training is for you. Discover what standard frameworks can overlook and leave knowing what to look for, what questions to ask, and where your role fits in supporting the whole woman after loss. Join the free masterclass here → https://www.facebook.com/groups/thereproductivelossleadershipnetwork      There is a moment that Atara Parkinson describes in this episode that will stop you in your tracks. She has just given birth after 32 hours of labour. Third degree tears. A baby in the NICU. And a security guard who tells her — as her husband attempts to wheel her out of the hospital — that she cannot take the wheelchair. It can't leave hospital grounds. Figure it out. That moment, she says, became the image that defined her entire career. Because once the baby is out, it is as though the mother disappears. Atara is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with 14 years in the mental health field, a certified integrative practitioner, and a mother of four — three of whom were NICU babies. Her work sits at the intersection of holistic healing, nervous system regulation, minerals and brain health, and postpartum support. She is also one of the most articulate voices I have encountered on what is actually happening inside the body when a woman cannot seem to move through her grief — and why. This conversation goes somewhere most conversations don't. We talk about the biochemistry of getting stuck. About what happens at a cellular level when trauma enters the body and the nervous system decides it is not yet safe to let the guard down. About why the calcium spikes. Why the magnesium can't get in. Why your body is not failing you — it is protecting you. And what it actually takes to move through that, not just talk about it. We also talk about the gap between what the medical system offers and what women actually need. About why talk therapy, as valuable as it is, is only ever engaging one part of the brain. And about why the body is sending 80% of the signals in this conversation — not the brain. If you have ever felt stuck in your grief and wondered why — this episode is for you. In this episode we cover: Atara's own story — three NICU babies, a gap in postpartum care, and the moment that shaped her life's work Why our culture treats the mother as invisible once the baby arrives — and how that plays out in pregnancy loss The shame–isolation loop and why connection (the right kind) is not optional in healing Why talk therapy alone cannot access where reproductive trauma is stored in the body The biochemistry of staying stuck — what happens when calcium spikes after trauma, why the protective shell forms, and what needs to shift for the body to feel safe again The role of magnesium and potassium in emotional regulation and nervous system calm How physical symptoms — disrupted sleep, shallow breathing, altered posture, blunted affect — are expressions of biochemical dysregulation, not separate problems The 80/20 communication ratio: why the body sends more signals to the brain than the brain sends to the body Why you cannot detox, heal, or regulate from inside a chronic stress state The 1% shift — how Atara approaches change with clients who are already overwhelmed Connect with Atara: Instagram: @atara.parkinson NICU & birth trauma focus: @nicufreedom Website: https://www.ataraparkinson.com/  Resources mentioned: The Body Keeps the Score — Bessel van der Kolk (heads up: it's a heavy read, but an important one) Connect with Sharna  Find me here: @reproductivelossleadership  If today's conversation resonated with you, I'd love to stay connected. My mission is to help change the landscape of pregnancy loss care through education, advocacy, research, and evidence-informed, trauma-informed support. Whether you're navigating your own loss, supporting someone you love, or you're a healthcare professional wanting to improve the care you provide, there's a place for you here. You can follow my work, explore educational resources, listen to more podcast episodes, or learn about the Pregnancy loss recovery method & Integrated Pregnancy Loss Care framework Or the Pregnancy Loss & Trauma-Informed Specialist Certification. Together, we're creating a future where every pregnancy loss is acknowledged, every family is supported, and every practitioner feels confident to provide compassionate, person-centred care. I'd love to hear what resonated with you from today's episode. Share your thoughts, leave a review, or connect with me on social media—your voice helps shape this conversation and reach more families who need it. Thank you for being part of this community. Together, we're changing the future of pregnancy loss care. Follow the podcast page: @pregnancyloss_podcast If this episode resonated with you, share it with someone who needs to hear it. And if you are a practitioner supporting women through reproductive loss and want to go deeper on the neuroscience and body-based frameworks behind this work — the Pregnancy Loss & Trauma-Informed Specialist Certification is where we take all of this further.

  3. Jul 26

    EP141: Stillbirth, silence, and the grief you're never told you can feel — with Jennifer Senn

    If this episode named something in you, I want you to know there's a next step. Loss to Legacy is my four-week immersion for practitioners who know they're called to support women through pregnancy loss, but haven't yet found the clarity, the viability, or the roadmap to actually build it. Over four weeks, we work through exactly that — your specific vision, whether it holds up, and a 12-month plan you can actually follow. Loss to Legacy opens for a new intake on 4th August. Five spots. If you're ready to stop sitting with the idea, send me the word LEGACY and let's talk about the role you're here to play.  DM me HERE   In this episode, Jennifer shares her story with unflinching honesty: the impossible decisions made in shock (do you hold your baby? do you take photos?), the guilt that follows women for years after, and the physical reality no one prepares you for — a body that keeps producing milk for babies who aren't coming home. She spent nearly seven years running from her grief before it caught up with her, eroding her marriage and her health, until she finally chose to face it. Now a certified coach and founder of Navigating Baby Loss, Jennifer helps bereaved mothers release guilt, rebuild trust in their bodies, and find their way back to hope — including the complicated, fear-laced hope of a future pregnancy. Sharna Southan hosts this conversation, exploring the parts of stillbirth and baby loss that rarely get airtime. We talk about: What actually happens in the hours after a stillbirth diagnosis, and why there's no "right" way to handle it Why guilt is one of the heaviest and most persistent emotions in baby loss How grief lives in the body, not just the mind — and can resurface years later, unannounced Why relationships often buckle under the weight of loss (and the startling statistic on stillbirth and separation) The difference between therapy and grief-informed coaching, and why lived experience matters What to actually say (and not say) to someone living through this Why there's no timeline for healing, and why "you'll have another one" is never the answer This is a raw, generous conversation about a topic that doesn't get talked about nearly enough — and a reminder that no one should have to navigate this kind of grief alone. About Jennifer Senn Jennifer Senn is a certified coach, the founder of Navigating Baby Loss, and mom to twin daughters who were stillborn at 32 weeks. She helps bereaved mothers release guilt, overcome isolation, and move through overwhelming grief — empowering them to find peace and hope for a future that may include the joy of a new baby, with less fear and more confidence. Connect with Jennifer: Social: @navigatingbabyloss Website: https://navigatingbabyloss.com/  Navigating Baby Loss Podcast Free workshop (runs ~twice monthly): Practical Ways to Release Guilt and Navigate Grief After Pregnancy Loss A Note on This Episode This conversation discusses stillbirth, pregnancy loss, and grief in detail. Please take care while listening. If you're navigating loss yourself, know that support exists beyond what you may have been offered — you don't have to do this alone. Connect with Sharna  Find me here: @reproductivelossleadership  If today's conversation resonated with you, I'd love to stay connected. My mission is to help change the landscape of pregnancy loss care through education, advocacy, research, and evidence-informed, trauma-informed support. Whether you're navigating your own loss, supporting someone you love, or you're a healthcare professional wanting to improve the care you provide, there's a place for you here. You can follow my work, explore educational resources, listen to more podcast episodes, or learn about the Pregnancy loss recovery method & Integrated Pregnancy Loss Care framework Or the Pregnancy Loss & Trauma-Informed Specialist Certification. Together, we're creating a future where every pregnancy loss is acknowledged, every family is supported, and every practitioner feels confident to provide compassionate, person-centred care. I'd love to hear what resonated with you from today's episode. Share your thoughts, leave a review, or connect with me on social media—your voice helps shape this conversation and reach more families who need it. Thank you for being part of this community. Together, we're changing the future of pregnancy loss care. Follow the podcast page: @pregnancyloss_podcast

  4. Jul 19

    EP140: Six Losses, one foundation: Guest Catherine MacLennan on building the support she never dad

    Ready to stop wondering what you're here to build? If something in this episode landed for you — if you recognised yourself in it, either as a woman who has lived through pregnancy loss or as a practitioner who has felt the gap in your own work — I want to invite you into Loss to Legacy. It's my four-week immersion for women ready to move from "maybe there's something I'm meant to do with this" to complete clarity on your story, your purpose, and what you're actually here to build. Not a business course. Not a certification. The step that comes before all of it. 📅 Starts 4th August 🤍 FIVE spots only DM me LEGACY on Instagram: @reproductivelossleadership   Now into the show. Catherine MacLennan has been through six pregnancy losses — three of them in the second trimester, all of them traumatic. When she went looking for support, she found almost none. So she built it herself: first the Pinks and Blues, a peer support community, and later the Vilomah Foundation, a UK charity offering free, ongoing support to anyone navigating pregnancy loss or pregnancy after loss. In this conversation, we talk about what rarely gets named out loud: the trauma that doesn't get validated, the identity that has to be rebuilt from scratch, the partners grieving in silence because they didn't "physically" go through it, and the grandparents mourning a grandchild they never met. We also get into Catherine's workplace training — what happens when a compassionate manager gets replaced by a tick-box HR process, and why the way an organisation responds to loss determines whether an employee comes back at all. This is a conversation about grief without a timeline, about validation, and about what it actually looks like to build the support system that should have existed all along. In This Episode Catherine's story: six pregnancy losses and the search for support that wasn't there Why she started the Pinks and Blues, and later the Vilomah Foundation How Vilomah supports people through Zoom — free sessions, no limit, from loss through pregnancy after loss The silence and shame around pregnancy loss, and why validation matters so much Naming trauma: what it meant for Catherine to hear a therapist call her experience traumatic Miscarriage awareness gaps — including that UK miscarriage is recognized up to 24 weeks The identity shift after loss: redefining who you are when everything gets stripped back Supporting partners: why their grief is valid even when they "didn't go through it physically" The ripple effect on grandparents and extended family Pregnancy loss in the workplace: compassionate management vs. tick-box HR The UK's new pregnancy loss bereavement leave law, and what it does (and doesn't yet) cover Why grief has no timeline — and what workplaces can do to make room for that About Catherine MacLennan Catherine MacLennan is the founder of the Vilomah Foundation, a UK-based pregnancy loss support and charity organization dedicated to walking alongside families through one of the most profound losses. As a specialist coach, Catherine offers personalised support to individuals and couples navigating pregnancy loss and pregnancy after loss, and delivers workplace training on how organizations can support employees through pregnancy loss. Connect with Catherine & the Vilomah Foundation LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-vilomah-foundation/ Instagram @thevilomahfoundation TikTok @the.vilomah.found Facebook https://www.facebook.com/share/1DQWzbthY4/?mibextid=wwXIfr Website www.thevilomahfoundation.org.uk Email hello@thevilomahfoundation.org.uk   A Note on This Episode This episode discusses pregnancy loss, miscarriage, and trauma in detail. Please take care while listening, and know that support is available if this brings anything up for you. If this episode was valuable to you, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts — it helps more people find these conversations. Connect with Sharna  Find me here: @reproductivelossleadership  If today's conversation resonated with you, I'd love to stay connected. My mission is to help change the landscape of pregnancy loss care through education, advocacy, research, and evidence-informed, trauma-informed support. Whether you're navigating your own loss, supporting someone you love, or you're a healthcare professional wanting to improve the care you provide, there's a place for you here. You can follow my work, explore educational resources, listen to more podcast episodes, or learn about the Pregnancy loss recovery method & Integrated Pregnancy Loss Care framework Or the Pregnancy Loss & Trauma-Informed Specialist Certification. Together, we're creating a future where every pregnancy loss is acknowledged, every family is supported, and every practitioner feels confident to provide compassionate, person-centred care. I'd love to hear what resonated with you from today's episode. Share your thoughts, leave a review, or connect with me on social media—your voice helps shape this conversation and reach more families who need it. Thank you for being part of this community. Together, we're changing the future of pregnancy loss care. Follow the podcast page: @pregnancyloss_podcast

  5. Jul 6

    EP139: The silo effect: Why your doctors aren't seeing the whole picture - Guest Dr Marc Sklar

    The preconception conversation that nobody is having — what pregnancy loss actually does to the body before the next pregnancy, and why standard care is missing the layer that matters most. Join my FREE live training Preconception Readiness After Loss, Wednesday 8th July, 9:30am AEST. Register HERE   Dr. Marc Sklar — natural fertility specialist, Doctor of Acupuncture and Oriental Medicine, Harvard Medical School Mind/Body Medical Institute-trained, Fellow of the American Board of Oriental Reproductive Medicine, creator of Fertility TV, co-founder of Rejuve Fertility, and founder of Reproductive Wellness Clinics in San Diego. In this episode: Sharna sits down with Dr. Marc Sklar for a conversation about what's actually missing from most fertility care — a whole-body, whole-person view. They dig into why so many couples are told their journey is "unexplained," and why that label often just means no one looked past their own specialty. Topics covered: Why digestive health shows up in an estimated 70–75% of the fertility cases Dr. Sklar sees The "silo problem" in modern medicine — why your gynecologist, endocrinologist, and therapist rarely talk to each other, and what gets missed in the gaps Sharna's own journey through an inflammatory bowel misdiagnosis, a missed miscarriage, and finding an integrative doctor who finally treated her as one connected system Why fear-based medicine keeps couples stuck on the "IVF hamster wheel" The age "light switch" myth — reframing fertility decline as a dimmer switch, not a deadline Nervous system regulation and why the body won't prioritize reproduction in survival mode Trusting intuition and body-based decision-making over purely logical, fear-driven choices Why creating space — not pushing harder — is often the actual path forward after loss A key moment: Dr. Sklar's take on the "birthday deadline" belief many patients carry, and why treating fertility as a light switch instead of a dimmer does real harm. Connect with Dr. Mark Sklar: YOUTUBE - http://bit.ly/thefertilityexpert FACEBOOK - https://www.facebook.com/thefertilityexpert INSTAGRAM - https://www.instagram.com/the_fertility_expert/ TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@the_fertility_expert WEBSITE https://marcsklar.com/    Connect with Sharna  Find me here: @reproductivelossleadership  If today's conversation resonated with you, I'd love to stay connected. My mission is to help change the landscape of pregnancy loss care through education, advocacy, research, and evidence-informed, trauma-informed support. Whether you're navigating your own loss, supporting someone you love, or you're a healthcare professional wanting to improve the care you provide, there's a place for you here. You can follow my work, explore educational resources, listen to more podcast episodes, or learn about the Pregnancy loss recovery method & Integrated Pregnancy Loss Care framework Or the Pregnancy Loss & Trauma-Informed Specialist Certification. Together, we're creating a future where every pregnancy loss is acknowledged, every family is supported, and every practitioner feels confident to provide compassionate, person-centred care. I'd love to hear what resonated with you from today's episode. Share your thoughts, leave a review, or connect with me on social media—your voice helps shape this conversation and reach more families who need it. Thank you for being part of this community. Together, we're changing the future of pregnancy loss care. Follow the podcast page: @pregnancyloss_podcast

  6. Jun 28

    EP138: When your body fears what your heart wants: Tokophobia, Reproductive Anxiety Disorder — with Alexia Leachman

    The preconception conversation that nobody is having — what pregnancy loss actually does to the body before the next pregnancy, and why standard care is missing the layer that matters most. Join my FREE live training Preconception Readiness After Loss, Wednesday 8th July, 9:30am AEST. Register HERE   Now for todays episode: Some women know they want to be a mother. And yet something inside them, something wordless, something physical, makes every step toward that feel impossible. Not because they don't want it. Because their nervous system has decided it isn't safe. That experience finally has a name. In this episode, I'm joined by Alexia Leachman, founder of Fearless Birthing, creator of the Head Trash Clearance Method, and the originator of Reproductive Anxiety Disorder (RAD). After her own pregnancy loss and a journey to understand a fear she couldn't explain, Alexia has spent over a decade helping women and professionals understand what happens when the body fears what the heart wants most. This conversation goes deep, and it might give you language you've been searching for your whole life.   We cover: What tokophobia actually is — and why so many women live with it without ever knowing it has a name The moment Alexia calls "the casse" — when a pregnancy test broke something open inside her that she couldn't explain How pregnancy loss intersects with tokophobia, including women who terminate wanted pregnancies because their nervous system cannot tolerate being pregnant Why the root of reproductive fear is often pre-verbal — rooted in your own birth, your mother's nervous system, and intergenerational trauma Reproductive Anxiety Disorder: why Alexia believes tokophobia is far bigger than one window of a woman's life, and how it shows up from puberty through perimenopause How unresolved reproductive fear affects fertility — and why the body won't allow conception when it doesn't feel safe to birth The Head Trash Clearance Method: why Alexia built it, how it works with the energy system to clear fear from the body, and why she believes in getting rid of anxiety rather than managing it What it looks like when two daughters are born into very different nervous system environments — and how Alexia sees that playing out now Why professionals — therapists, midwives, doulas, GPs — need to know this framework, and what screening for RAD could change for women everywhere     Connect with Alexia www.head-trash.com   www.fearless-birthing.com  https://www.facebook.com/alexia.leachman  https://www.linkedin.com/in/alexialeachman/ Podcasts: Fear Free Childbirth Head Trash & Healing Show Tik-Tokophobia   Resources mentioned: Alexia's main hub: headtrash.com Fearless Birthing: fearlessbirthing.com Personal site & private work: alexialeachman.com RAD white paper (free download): fearlessbirthing.com/whitepaper Free 1-hour professional training on tokophobia and RAD available via Fearless Birthing Books: Betrayed by Your Biology, Fearless Birthing, Clear Anxiety for Good   If this episode resonated with you: If you're a woman who has felt confused, broken, or ashamed by your relationship with pregnancy, fertility, or birth — this episode was made for you. You are not broken. Your body has been trying to protect you. And there is a path through. If you're a practitioner who works with women in their reproductive years — this is the framework your training didn't give you. Understanding tokophobia and RAD could change everything about how you show up for your clients. Leave a review on Apple Podcasts if this conversation gave you something — it helps more women find their way here.   Connect with Sharna  Find me here: @reproductivelossleadership  If today's conversation resonated with you, I'd love to stay connected. My mission is to help change the landscape of pregnancy loss care through education, advocacy, research, and evidence-informed, trauma-informed support. Whether you're navigating your own loss, supporting someone you love, or you're a healthcare professional wanting to improve the care you provide, there's a place for you here. You can follow my work, explore educational resources, listen to more podcast episodes, or learn about the Pregnancy loss recovery method & Integrated Pregnancy Loss Care framework Or the Pregnancy Loss & Trauma-Informed Specialist Certification. Together, we're creating a future where every pregnancy loss is acknowledged, every family is supported, and every practitioner feels confident to provide compassionate, person-centred care. I'd love to hear what resonated with you from today's episode. Share your thoughts, leave a review, or connect with me on social media—your voice helps shape this conversation and reach more families who need it. Thank you for being part of this community. Together, we're changing the future of pregnancy loss care. Follow the podcast page: @pregnancyloss_podcast

  7. Jun 14

    EP137: The grief nobody talks about: Abortion, trauma, and the emotions you're allowed to feel- Guest Shalina

    In this episode, Sharna sits down with Shalina Lodhia, criminologist counsellor and founder of a trauma-informed practice specialising in intergenerational trauma, domestic and family violence, and abortion grief. Shalina shares her own deeply personal experience of navigating abortion, twice, under very different life circumstances, and what she's learned about the grief that so often follows in silence. This is a conversation about the emotions no one tells you it's okay to feel. The paradox of relief and loss. The isolation of having to hide an experience that your body is living through. And the complete absence of support that so many women encounter both during and after. In this episode, Shalina and Sharna explore: The emotional reality of having an abortion at 23, in hiding, with no support and no information about what comes after How the experience shifted in her thirties as awareness, spirituality, and self-knowledge changed how she processed the grief Why the medical system so often fails women in these moments, treating them as a number rather than a human being in distress The paradox of conflicting emotions, relief, grief, guilt, peace, and why all of them are valid at the same time The role of intergenerational trauma and why, for some women, the decision not to continue a pregnancy is an act of conscious cycle-breaking How Shalina now supports other women through abortion grief, including those in abusive relationships navigating impossible choices Why post-abortion support is one of the most overlooked gaps in women's healthcare in Australia A message for anyone listening: Whatever your reason for having an abortion, it is valid. You are allowed to feel every emotion, including ones that seem to contradict each other. You are not alone in this. If this episode resonates with you, please share it with someone who might need to hear it. And if you're ready to talk to someone who gets it, Shalina's details are linked below. Connect with Shalina Lodhia:  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/counsellorshalinalodhia/ Instagram: counsellorshalina TikTok: counsellorshalina LinkedIn: @counsellorshalina YouTube: @SED8official (my musical channel, and a few of my old podcast episodes are there) If you found this episode valuable, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts. It helps more women find these conversations when they need them most.   Connect with Sharna  Find me here: @reproductivelossleadership  If today's conversation resonated with you, I'd love to stay connected. My mission is to help change the landscape of pregnancy loss care through education, advocacy, research, and evidence-informed, trauma-informed support. Whether you're navigating your own loss, supporting someone you love, or you're a healthcare professional wanting to improve the care you provide, there's a place for you here. You can follow my work, explore educational resources, listen to more podcast episodes, or learn about the Pregnancy loss recovery method & Integrated Pregnancy Loss Care framework Or the Pregnancy Loss & Trauma-Informed Specialist Certification. Together, we're creating a future where every pregnancy loss is acknowledged, every family is supported, and every practitioner feels confident to provide compassionate, person-centred care. I'd love to hear what resonated with you from today's episode. Share your thoughts, leave a review, or connect with me on social media—your voice helps shape this conversation and reach more families who need it. Thank you for being part of this community. Together, we're changing the future of pregnancy loss care. Follow the podcast page: @pregnancyloss_podcast

  8. Jun 7

    EP136: The Missing Piece Day 1: The Gap in Pregnancy Loss Care - with Sharna Southan

    Pregnancy loss is not being fully understood, and because of it, it is not being fully supported. Join the free community to access all three replays: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thereproductivelossleadershipnetwork  In Day 1 of The Missing Piece Masterclass, Sharna opens with the foundational question: what has the entire field been getting wrong, and what is it costing your clients? She walks through: Why the medical system classifies pregnancy loss as a resolved event once bleeding stops, and why that's dangerously incomplete The somatic blind spot: why talk therapy alone cannot reach trauma stored in the body, the nervous system, and the cells The language gap: how the words society and providers use flatten a woman's experience and prolong her healing The systemic gap: why practitioners aren't failing their clients, the system they were trained inside is Day 2 covers the science. Day 3 covers the solution. Join the free community to access all three replays: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thereproductivelossleadershipnetwork    Connect with Sharna  Find me here: @reproductivelossleadership  If today's conversation resonated with you, I'd love to stay connected. My mission is to help change the landscape of pregnancy loss care through education, advocacy, research, and evidence-informed, trauma-informed support. Whether you're navigating your own loss, supporting someone you love, or you're a healthcare professional wanting to improve the care you provide, there's a place for you here. You can follow my work, explore educational resources, listen to more podcast episodes, or learn about the Pregnancy loss recovery method & Integrated Pregnancy Loss Care framework Or the Pregnancy Loss & Trauma-Informed Specialist Certification. Together, we're creating a future where every pregnancy loss is acknowledged, every family is supported, and every practitioner feels confident to provide compassionate, person-centred care. I'd love to hear what resonated with you from today's episode. Share your thoughts, leave a review, or connect with me on social media—your voice helps shape this conversation and reach more families who need it. Thank you for being part of this community. Together, we're changing the future of pregnancy loss care. Follow the podcast page: @pregnancyloss_podcast

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What I wish I knew beyond Pregnancy Loss: The Intersection of Fertility, Trauma & Purpose This podcast is a space for deep, honest conversations about fertility struggles, pregnancy loss, and the unseen layers of healing. Here, we explore the intersection of trauma, the nervous system, and emotional recovery—because healing is not just about moving forward; it’s about understanding how loss changes us and how we can reclaim our power. Whether you’re navigating life after loss, facing reproductive challenges, or seeking purpose in your own healing journey, this is where we go beyond the surface. Through expert insights, personal stories, and trauma-informed support, you’ll gain the tools to heal, grow, and step into a future that honours your past while embracing what’s next. Your story matters. Your healing matters. And there is more waiting for you beyond loss

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