Send us Fan Mail That gut-drop moment when you think, “I’m not supposed to be here,” can hit even the strongest leaders, and it often shows up right when you are growing. We sit down with executive coach and former military officer Mike Sweeney to talk about imposter syndrome in leadership, why it feels so personal, and why it is also incredibly common. Mike shares a candid story from a demanding, high-performance environment where he went back to his boss and asked if he was hired for the right reasons, despite months of hard work and credibility building. We connect that to real-life triggers many professionals face: being a first-generation corporate leader, walking into rooms where you feel like the “only,” or switching industries and going from expert to beginner overnight. We also dig into the leadership side of the problem: how organizations can unintentionally create more self-doubt with rushed expectations, and how structured onboarding, peer buddies, and psychological safety that is safe to be brave can change the outcome. Then we get practical. Mike walks through tools we can use when the inner critic gets loud, including going back to observable data, writing a “hero’s rebuttal” script, and using self-compassion to understand what that protective voice is trying to do. We even explore how challenge-based outdoor experiences like rappelling and blindfolded driving can surface the same fear patterns leaders feel at work and turn them into learning. If you have ever over-prepared, downplayed praise, or wondered if you belong at the table, this conversation will give you language, perspective, and next steps. Subscribe, share this with a leader who needs it, and leave a review with the moment that hit closest to home. Mike Sweeney: Mike R. Sweeney | LinkedIn SABER COACHING How to find common ground when there is none | Mike Sweeney | TEDxWilliam James College Episode references: Tools: Use observable data (think Ladder of Inference)Hero's RebuttalCuriosity and Care towards Critic Voice (Self-Compassion/IFS)Saboteur AssessmentSystem review (is this simply a rational response?)Books: The Alter Ego Effect (Herman)Self-Compassion (Neff)Inner Game of Tennis (Gallwey)Assessments: Clance IP Scale: https://paulineroseclance.com/pdf/IPTestandscoring.pdfSaboteur Assessment: https://positiveintelligence.com/saboteurs/Recent Studies: Šoková, B., Greškovičová, K., Halamová, J., & Baránková, M. (2025). Breaking the vicious cycles of self-criticism: a qualitative study on the best practices of overcoming one’s inner critic. BMC Psychology, 13, 266 https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/40102992/Zhang, Y., Chen, B., Hu, X., & Wang, M. (2025). The Impact of Self-Affirmation Interventions on Well-Being: A Meta-Analysis. American Psychologist. https://www.apa.org/pubs/journals/releases/amp-amp0001591.pdfFollow us on Instagram or on Threads @LEADERSHIPEXCHANGEPODCAST. We'd love to hear from you! What topics you'd like us to explore with you? What questions on our topics do you have? Say hello and start the dialogue!