ABCs of Parenting Adult Children

James C Moffitt Jr.

ABC’s of Parenting Adult Children is a thoughtful, compassionate podcast hosted by James Moffitt for parents navigating the challenges of relationships with adult sons and daughters. Through honest conversations and real-life stories, the show explores communication, boundaries, identity, LGBTQ+ acceptance, grief, faith, reconciliation, and emotional healing. Whether your relationship is strong, strained, or broken, this podcast offers insight, hope, and practical wisdom for parenting adult children with empathy and understanding. Want to be a guest on ABCs of Parenting Adult Children?  Send James Moffitt a message on PodMatch https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/parentingadultchildren

  1. 4D AGO

    Parenting Adult Children: What They Still Need From You

    Send a text In this episode, James Moffitt and Robert Hunt discuss the complexities of parenting adult children, emphasizing the importance of accountability, modeling behavior, and transitioning from a parent-child relationship to a mentoring role. They explore how parents can foster healthy communication, navigate differences in perspectives, and encourage personal growth in their children while maintaining their own accountability. The conversation highlights the significance of being present, understanding, and supportive as children navigate their own paths in adulthood. Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system.  Hello, James here ! Please click on the subscribe button to gain access to premium episodes. Please go to parentingadultchildren.org website and sign up for the email list and leave a review for this episode.  If you have any requests for future topics send me an email to TalkPAC@proton.me Please share this podcast with your friends and family. Now for today's guest intervi Support the show Social Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@JamesMoffitt https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.

    38 min
  2. FEB 6

    When ADHD Affects the Whole Family: A Mindful Way Forward

    Send a text Keywords ADHD, parenting, executive functioning, mindfulness, neurodiversity, family dynamics, young adults, parenting strategies, support systems, personal obligations Summary In this episode of ABC's Parenting Adult Children podcast, host James Moffitt speaks with ADHD coach Corie  Wightlin about the challenges and strategies for parenting young adults with ADHD. They discuss the importance of connection in parenting, the impact of executive dysfunction, and the role of mindfulness in managing ADHD. Corie shares her personal experiences as a parent of neurodiverse children and offers practical tools for creating supportive family dynamics. The conversation emphasizes the need for understanding, patience, and effective communication in navigating the complexities of ADHD within family settings. Takeaways Connection is the primary goal in parenting. ADHD can create significant challenges in executive functioning. Mindfulness practices can enhance awareness and emotional regulation. Parents must set boundaries to maintain their well-being. Neurodiversity impacts family dynamics and relationships. Resources like CHADD can provide valuable support for parents. Creating a visual calendar can help ADHD individuals stay organized. Communication styles should be adapted for ADHD family members. Flexible routines can reduce resistance in ADHD children. Sticky notes are a practical tool for reminders and organization. Titles Navigating ADHD in Parenting Mindfulness and ADHD: A Family Approach Sound bites "Connection before everything else." "You can't pour from an empty cup." "ADHD affects the entire family." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Parenting Challenges 02:41 Understanding ADHD and Parenting Dynamics 05:38 Navigating Executive Functioning in Young Adults 08:30 Daily Life with ADHD 11:09 The Role of Mindfulness in Managing ADHD 14:15 Balancing Parenting with Personal Obligations 18:17 Navigating Parenting Challenges with ADHD 23:29 Understanding Neurodiversity in Family Dynamics 28:40 Resources and Support for ADHD Families 33:49 Creating Sustainable Family Systems for ADHD Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system.  Hello, James here ! Please click on the subscribe button to gain access to premium episodes. Please go to parentingadultchildren.org website and sign up for the email list and leave a review for this episode.  If you have any requests for future topics send me an email to TalkPAC@proton.me Please share this podcast with your friends and family. Now for today's guest intervi Support the show Social Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@JamesMoffitt https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.

    41 min
  3. JAN 30

    From Pain to Purpose: Healing Childhood Wounds With Courage and Grace

    Send a text Keywords conscious parenting, inner child, reparenting, emotional intelligence, childhood trauma, authenticity, spirituality, parenting strategies, adult children, healing Summary In this episode, James Moffitt interviews Lisa Watson, a transformational life and parenting coach, discussing the principles of conscious parenting, the importance of understanding and healing the inner child, and the process of reparenting oneself. Lisa shares her journey into parenting coaching, emphasizing the significance of emotional intelligence, authenticity, and spirituality in fostering healthier family dynamics. The conversation provides practical strategies for parents of adult children, encouraging them to support their children's autonomy while also addressing their own past traumas. Takeaways Lisa Watson is a transformational life and parenting coach. Conscious parenting involves being present and aware in the moment. The subconscious mind is formed in the first seven years of life. Healing childhood trauma is essential for personal growth. Reparenting oneself can change disempowering belief systems. Authenticity is crucial for emotional well-being. Parents should validate their children's feelings and experiences. Spirituality can enhance emotional intelligence in parenting. It's important to model behaviors rather than just lecturing children. Parents should support their adult children without judgment.  Sound bites "I help people to reparent themselves." "All we have is the now moment." "You are worthy and you are deserving." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Conscious Parenting 02:32 Lisa's Journey into Parenting Coaching 05:16 Understanding Conscious Parenting 08:23 Reparenting Yourself and Your Inner Child 11:12 The Role of Authenticity in Parenting 14:02 Healing Family Dynamics through Emotional Intelligence 17:04 Spirituality and Parenting 19:50 Practical Strategies for Parents of Adult Children Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system.  Hello, James here ! Please click on the subscribe button to gain access to premium episodes. Please go to parentingadultchildren.org website and sign up for the email list and leave a review for this episode.  If you have any requests for future topics send me an email to TalkPAC@proton.me Please share this podcast with your friends and family. Now for today's guest intervi Support the show Social Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@JamesMoffitt https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.

    38 min
  4. JAN 23

    Parenting Before the Crisis: How Proactive Strategies Change Everything

    Send a text Keywords parenting, adult children, family dynamics, recovery, emotional wellbeing, financial literacy, proactive parenting, spirituality, life skills, communication Summary In this episode of The Parenting Adult Children Podcast, host James Moffitt speaks with Steve Ward about the challenges of parenting adult children, particularly those transitioning from adolescence to adulthood. They discuss the importance of adapting parenting styles, breaking generational patterns, and the necessity of proactive parenting. Steve shares insights from his own family's journey through substance abuse and recovery, emphasizing the need for emotional, social, and financial literacy in parenting. The conversation also touches on the integration of faith and spirituality in raising children, the significance of modeling behavior, and practical steps parents can take to prepare for potential crises. Ultimately, the episode serves as a resource for parents seeking to navigate the complexities of raising adult children with compassion and understanding. Takeaways Parents need to adapt their parenting styles as children grow. Breaking generational patterns is crucial for effective parenting. Proactive parenting involves preparation and awareness of children's needs. Financial literacy is an essential skill for adult children. Emotional and social skills are vital for children's development. Modeling good behavior is key to teaching children values. Recognizing early signs of anxiety can prevent crises. Setting boundaries with love is important during challenging times. Parents can make mistakes and still raise successful children. Faith and spirituality play a significant role in parenting.  Sound bites "We are all holistic integrated beings." "It's important to model good behavior." "You need to change your approach." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Parenting Challenges 02:05 Navigating Substance Abuse in Family Dynamics 04:47 Transitioning from Teen to Adult: A Parent's Role 07:51 Breaking Generational Patterns in Parenting 10:29 Nudging Adult Children Towards Independence 12:42 The Importance of Life Skills in Parenting 16:19 Financial Literacy: A Critical Life Skill 18:42 Emotional and Social Skills in Parenting 21:13 Integrating Faith and Spirituality in Parenting 26:04 The Bur Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system.  Hello, James here ! Please click on the subscribe button to gain access to premium episodes. Please go to parentingadultchildren.org website and sign up for the email list and leave a review for this episode.  If you have any requests for future topics send me an email to TalkPAC@proton.me Please share this podcast with your friends and family. Now for today's guest intervi Support the show Social Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@JamesMoffitt https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.

    55 min
  5. JAN 16

    Letting Go Without Losing Connection: The Transition to Adulthood

    Send a text Keywords parenting, adult children, transition to adulthood, parent-child dynamics, emotional intelligence, self-care, clarity, perspective, expectations, personal growth Summary In this episode of the ABCs of Parenting Adult Children podcast, host James Moffitt and guest Lindy Van Heerden discuss the complexities of parenting adult children, the transition to adulthood, and the importance of understanding both perspectives in parent-child dynamics. They explore the challenges faced by young adults in finding clarity in their lives and the role of parents in supporting them through this journey. The conversation emphasizes the need for open communication, emotional intelligence, and self-care for both parents and children as they navigate this evolving relationship. Takeaways Parenting adult children requires a shift in roles. The transition to adulthood is challenging for both parents and children. Understanding each other's perspectives is crucial for effective communication. Clarity is often a myth; taking action leads to clarity. Parents' fears can influence their children's decisions. Self-care is essential for parents navigating this transition. Mistakes are valuable learning experiences for both sides. Emotional intelligence plays a key role in parent-child relationships. Encouraging independence in children can be difficult for parents. Open conversations can bridge the gap between generations. Titles Navigating the Challenges of Parenting Adult Children Understanding the Transition to Adulthood Sound bites "Parenting doesn't end at 18." "Life teaches some valuable lessons." "Clarity keeps young adults stuck." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Parenting Adult Children 02:30 The Transition to Adulthood 05:32 Understanding Parent-Child Dynamics 08:36 The Importance of Perspective 11:47 Navigating Expectations and Reality 14:31 The Role of Clarity in Young Adults' Lives 17:36 Learning from Mistakes and Experiences 20:38 The Journey of Self-Discovery 23:21 Closing Thoughts and Future Conversations Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system.  Hello, James here ! Please click on the subscribe button to gain access to premium episodes. Please go to parentingadultchildren.org website and sign up for the email list and leave a review for this episode.  If you have any requests for future topics send me an email to TalkPAC@proton.me Please share this podcast with your friends and family. Now for today's guest intervi Support the show Social Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@JamesMoffitt https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.

    51 min
  6. JAN 9

    Healing Tension With Adult Children: A Respect‑Centered Approach

    Send a text Summary:** In this episode, Katherine Sellery, a renowned parenting coach, joins James Moffitt to discuss the challenges and strategies of parenting adult children. They explore the impact of emotional intelligence and communication, focusing on fostering respectful and empowered relationships beyond typical power struggles. Katherine shares insights from her experience and research, emphasizing the importance of connection over correction and the role of self-awareness in effective parenting. Keywords: parenting adult children, emotional intelligence, communication, power struggles, connection over correction Takeaways: Retaliation, rebellion, and resistance are common reactions to authoritarian parenting.Emotional intelligence is crucial in navigating relationships with adult children.Connection should be prioritized over correction in family conflicts.Parents should focus on understanding rather than controlling their children.Self-awareness helps parents manage their emotional triggers.Observation without evaluation is key to effective communication.Perfectionism hinders creativity and self-esteem in children.Acknowledgment, not praise, fosters genuine self-esteem in children.Parents should model empathy and compassion to encourage the same in their children.Letting go of perfection allows for growth and exploration.Sound bites: "Retaliation, rebellion, and resistance are common.""Connection over correction is key.""Emotional intelligence is crucial.""Let go of perfection for growth.""Observation without evaluation is vital.""Acknowledge, don't praise, for self-esteem.""Model empathy and compassion.""Self-awareness helps manage triggers.""Foster respectful relationships.""Break free from power struggles."Chapters: 00:00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction00:00:00 The Three Rs: Retaliation, Rebellion, Resistance00:00:00 Emotional Intelligence and Communication00:00:00 Connection Over Correction00:00:01 Self-Awareness and Emotional Triggers00:00:01 Letting Go of Perfection00:00:01 Conclusion and ResourcesIf you need further assistance or want to explore more options for promoting this episode, just l Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system.  Hello, James here ! Please click on the subscribe button to gain access to premium episodes. Please go to parentingadultchildren.org website and sign up for the email list and leave a review for this episode.  If you have any requests for future topics send me an email to TalkPAC@proton.me Please share this podcast with your friends and family. Now for today's guest intervi Support the show Social Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@JamesMoffitt https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.

    47 min
  7. JAN 3

    From Distance to Connection: Supporting Your LGBTQ+ Adult Child

    Send a text Key words LGBTQ+, parenting, grief, relationships, storytelling, empathy, personal growth, creativity, emotional intelligence, family dynamics, LGBTQ+, parenting, acceptance, emotional intelligence, family dynamics, identity, relationships, advice for parents, societal norms, validation summary In this episode of the Parenting Adult Children podcast, host James Moffitt speaks with Paul Cramm about the intersection of creativity, empathy, and LGBTQ+ representation. The conversation delves into personal stories of loss, the complexities of parental relationships, and the importance of understanding and accepting diverse identities. Paul shares his experiences growing up in a fundamentalist environment and the challenges he faced in coming out, while James reflects on his relationship with his late son, Jeremy, who identified as LGBTQ+. Together, they explore the significance of open communication and the need for inclusive spaces for discussions about identity and family dynamics. In this conversation, Paul Cram and James Moffitt explore the complexities of growing up gay, the dynamics of family acceptance, and the importance of emotional intelligence in parenting. They reflect on their personal experiences, the societal changes regarding LGBTQ+ acceptance, and offer advice for parents on how to foster healthy relationships with their children. The discussion emphasizes the need for validation, understanding, and the freedom to pursue one's dreams and aspirations without the constraints of societal expectations. I Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system.  Hello, James here ! Please click on the subscribe button to gain access to premium episodes. Please go to parentingadultchildren.org website and sign up for the email list and leave a review for this episode.  If you have any requests for future topics send me an email to TalkPAC@proton.me Please share this podcast with your friends and family. Now for today's guest intervi Support the show Social Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@JamesMoffitt https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.

    52 min
  8. 12/26/2025

    How to Stay Connected to Your Adult Children With Emotional Maturity

    Send a text Talia is the CEO and Founder of Newport Counseling Center, Inc. and Coaching with Talia, Inc. She holds a Master’s Degree in Clinical Psychology with an Emphasis in Marriage and Family Therapy. Talia has completed post-graduate certification in Psychodynamic Psychotherapy, Psychoanalytic Couples Therapy and Infant, Child, and Adolescent Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy. Her work centers on uncovering the unconscious material within a client’s psyche to relieve psychic tension—inner conflict that often originates in early childhood and arises during times of intense stress or emotional turmoil. In other words, it all goes back to childhood. Once this is understood and tended to, we can reclaim our adult selves and be more authentic.  Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system.  Hello, James here ! Please click on the subscribe button to gain access to premium episodes. Please go to parentingadultchildren.org website and sign up for the email list and leave a review for this episode.  If you have any requests for future topics send me an email to TalkPAC@proton.me Please share this podcast with your friends and family. Now for today's guest intervi Support the show Social Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@JamesMoffitt https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.

    35 min
4.5
out of 5
8 Ratings

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ABC’s of Parenting Adult Children is a thoughtful, compassionate podcast hosted by James Moffitt for parents navigating the challenges of relationships with adult sons and daughters. Through honest conversations and real-life stories, the show explores communication, boundaries, identity, LGBTQ+ acceptance, grief, faith, reconciliation, and emotional healing. Whether your relationship is strong, strained, or broken, this podcast offers insight, hope, and practical wisdom for parenting adult children with empathy and understanding. Want to be a guest on ABCs of Parenting Adult Children?  Send James Moffitt a message on PodMatch https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/parentingadultchildren