Wicked Psychotherapists

Tanya & Erin
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What do therapy, ’80s and ’90s nostalgia, today’s hottest shows and movies—and a surprising number of Adam Sandler films—have in common? Tanya Dos Santos and Erin Gray—two licensed psychotherapists with a wicked New England twist—are here to spill the tea and the therapeutic insights. On The Wicked Psychotherapists Podcast, Tanya and Erin break down the mental health themes that matter most—anxiety, identity, burnout, self-worth, relationships, and resilience—through the lens of pop culture. From the rad classics of the ’80s and ’90s to today’s buzziest series and films, nothing is off-limits… especially when it somehow connects back to Adam Sandler. Yes, we said it. From revisiting old favorites to analyzing newer Sandler movies—and exploring the six degrees of separation of Adam Sandler—this podcast blends humor, nostalgia, and psychological insight in a way that’s smart, entertaining, and refreshingly real. Whether you’re comfort-watching a childhood favorite, bingeing something new, or wondering why a goofy comedy hit you right in the feelings, we’re here to help you connect the dots between what you watch and how you feel. Expect: Candid therapy talk with heart and humorPop culture deep dives with a mental health lens’80s, ’90s, and today’s movies and shows (yes, including lots of Adam Sandler)A dose of nostalgia, a dash of sass, and a lot of wisdom🎙️ New episodes every Wednesday. 💬 Don’t forget to leave a review, share with your people, and follow us on Instagram and YouTube @WickedPsychotherapists. Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional therapy or mental health care, and listening does not create a therapist–client relationship. Stay Wicked… and keep your mind well.

  1. 4d ago

    The Wedding Singer: Why Adam Sandler's Sweetest Character Still Resonates

    Send us a Text Message we would love to hear what you thought of the show. 🎙️ Originally released in January, we're bringing this fan-favorite episode back at the perfect time! With Adam Sandler making headlines again, we thought it was the perfect opportunity to revisit one of his most beloved films: The Wedding Singer (1998). Is Robbie Hart simply a goofy wedding singer, or is he actually one of Adam Sandler's most emotionally intelligent and lovable characters? In this episode, licensed psychotherapists Erin Gray and Tanya revisit The Wedding Singer through a psychology lens, exploring emotional regulation, attachment, grief, self-worth, healthy relationships, and why this classic '90s comedy continues to resonate nearly three decades later. We also discuss: Adam Sandler's evolution as an actorRobbie Hart's emotional sensitivity and resilienceJulia's struggles with self-esteem and unhealthy relationshipsThe psychology behind finding purpose and meaningful workWhy kindness is often mistaken for weaknessThe unforgettable supporting cast, including Steve Buscemi, Billy Idol, and Drew BarrymoreOur fun "food barter" challenge question at the end!Whether you're an Adam Sandler fan, love psychological movie analysis, or simply enjoy revisiting classic '90s films, this episode blends humor, nostalgia, and meaningful conversation. 💬 Join the conversation! What's your favorite moment from The Wedding Singer? Do you think Robbie Hart is Adam Sandler's sweetest character? Let us know in the comments! ⭐ If you enjoyed this episode, please like, subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who loves movies, psychology, or both! Connect with Wicked Psychotherapists: 🌐 https://www.wickedpsychotherapists.com 🔗 https://linktr.ee/thewickedpsychotherapists Disclaimer: The Wicked Psychotherapists podcast is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for therapy, mental health treatment, or medical advice. Listening to this podcast does not establish a therapeutic relationship. Connect with us! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wickedpsychotherapists/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Wickedpodcasts/ Linktre.ee :  https://linktr.ee/thewickedpsychotherapists Website :  https://www.wickedpsychotherapists.com Youtube : https://www.youtube.com/@Wickedpsychotherapists

    38 min

  2. Jul 1

    The Hidden Psychology of Adam Sandler's Spaceman

    Send us a Text Message we would love to hear what you thought of the show. This week on Wicked Psychotherapists, we're diving into Adam Sandler's Spaceman and exploring the hidden psychology behind one of his most thought-provoking performances. At first, we weren't quite sure what to expect from this quiet sci-fi film, but it quickly became a fascinating look at loneliness, emotional isolation, unresolved trauma, grief, attachment, and the importance of human connection. We discuss Jakob's emotional journey, Hanush's surprising role as an unlikely therapist, and how the movie reflects struggles we often see with clients in real life. We also talk about the symbolism throughout the film, why relationships can suffer when we disconnect from ourselves, and why healing often begins by allowing someone else to truly see us. Along the way, we admit the parts that completely confused us, laugh about Adam Sandler's signature basketball shorts, wonder where Steve Buscemi was hiding, and finish with one of our signature fun questions. Have you seen Spaceman? We'd love to hear your interpretation of the movie and what you think we may have missed! 🎙️ Wicked Psychotherapists is where two licensed psychotherapists explore movies, television, and pop culture through a mental health lens—with insight, curiosity, and plenty of laughs. Connect with us! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wickedpsychotherapists/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Wickedpodcasts/ Linktre.ee :  https://linktr.ee/thewickedpsychotherapists Website :  https://www.wickedpsychotherapists.com Youtube : https://www.youtube.com/@Wickedpsychotherapists

    1h 1m

  3. Jun 10

    You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah: Why Middle School Still Haunts Us

    Send us a Text Message we would love to hear what you thought of the show. This week, Erin and Tanya discuss Netflix's You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah and find themselves unexpectedly transported back to the awkward, confusing, and sometimes painful years of crushes, friendship drama, embarrassing moments, and trying desperately to fit in. From Stacy's obsession with the "cool" soccer player to friendship betrayals, social status, and learning how to take accountability for your actions, the movie does a surprisingly good job capturing what it feels like to be 13.  The conversation also explores people-pleasing, repairing friendships after trust is broken, social media's impact on today's kids, and why so many adults still carry middle school wounds decades later.  Along the way, Erin and Tanya share stories from their own adolescent years, debate Bat Mitzvah themes, and wonder why every town seemed to have that one older guy hanging around teenage parties. Whether you loved middle school, hated it, or blocked most of it from your memory, this episode is a funny and thoughtful look at growing up, making mistakes, and learning that being mature sometimes means admitting when you're wrong. Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for therapy, mental health treatment, or professional advice. Connect with us! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wickedpsychotherapists/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Wickedpodcasts/ Linktre.ee :  https://linktr.ee/thewickedpsychotherapists Website :  https://www.wickedpsychotherapists.com Youtube : https://www.youtube.com/@Wickedpsychotherapists

    42 min

  4. May 27

    The Cobbler Is Way Deeper Than We Expected!

    Send us a Text Message we would love to hear what you thought of the show. In this episode of Wicked Psychotherapists, we dive into the surprisingly layered Adam Sandler film The Cobbler — a movie that didn’t exactly win over critics, but absolutely won over us. What starts as a quirky, magical-realism story about a cobbler who can literally become other people by wearing their shoes quickly turns into something deeper: identity, loneliness, generational patterns, grief, and what it means to finally step outside your own life long enough to really see someone else. We talk about Max’s emotional isolation, family legacy, hidden trauma, and those subtle “wait… that’s actually profound” moments that sneak up on you in this film. Plus, yes—we get into pickles, Steve Buscemi appreciation, and why this movie hits way harder than its Rotten Tomatoes score would suggest. If you’ve ever felt stuck in your own story or wondered what life looks like from the inside of someone else’s world… this one’s for you. Connect with us! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wickedpsychotherapists/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Wickedpodcasts/ Linktre.ee :  https://linktr.ee/thewickedpsychotherapists Website :  https://www.wickedpsychotherapists.com Youtube : https://www.youtube.com/@Wickedpsychotherapists

    50 min

  5. May 14

    Chuck & Larry: Our Take

    Send us a Text Message we would love to hear what you thought of the show. This week on Wicked Psychotherapists, we revisit the 2007 Adam Sandler and Kevin James comedy I Now Pronounce You Chuck & Larry and ask: did this movie age poorly? We’re not film critics — we’re therapists who love (and sometimes question) Adam Sandler movies and what they reveal about people, relationships, and culture. What felt like a light comedy in 2007 hits very differently today. We talk through the humor, the stereotypes, and the way the film portrays friendship, masculinity, grief, identity, and partnership through a modern psychological lens. We also dig into the emotional side of the story — grief, loyalty, long-term friendship bonds, and what happens when systems force people into impossible choices. Along the way, we explore first responder culture, relationship dynamics, and why certain parts of the movie still work emotionally even when others don’t. It’s a nostalgic rewatch, a psychology conversation, and a very real-time reaction to a movie that feels very much like its era. Connect with us! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wickedpsychotherapists/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Wickedpodcasts/ Linktre.ee :  https://linktr.ee/thewickedpsychotherapists Website :  https://www.wickedpsychotherapists.com Youtube : https://www.youtube.com/@Wickedpsychotherapists

    46 min

  6. Apr 29

    From Pauly Shore to Click: Back in the Adam Sandler-verse

    Send us a Text Message we would love to hear what you thought of the show. We kick things off with a very quick review of Pauly Shore Is Dead (yes, really), then dive into Click—and what it says about doomscrolling, burnout, and living life on autopilot. We talk about work, distraction, emotional avoidance, and what it looks like when life starts feeling like it’s on fast-forward without your permission. And as always, we wrap it up with a question that might make you think differently about your own “remote control” moments. Disclaimer: This episode is for entertainment and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for therapy, diagnosis, or professional mental health treatment. Connect with us! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wickedpsychotherapists/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Wickedpodcasts/ Linktre.ee :  https://linktr.ee/thewickedpsychotherapists Website :  https://www.wickedpsychotherapists.com Youtube : https://www.youtube.com/@Wickedpsychotherapists

    58 min

  7. Apr 16

    We Watched Adam Sandler’s Bulletproof (1996) So You Don’t Have To

    Send us a Text Message we would love to hear what you thought of the show. Let’s just say… this one was definitely a very 90s experience. We’re breaking down the buddy-cop chaos with Damon Wayans, the over-the-top action scenes, visible stunt doubles, classic Adam Sandler humor, and all the cheesy moments that somehow still make it entertaining to talk about. From friendship and betrayal to ridiculous plot twists and full-on nostalgia, we give our honest take on whether this forgotten Adam Sandler movie is worth revisiting — or better left in the 90s. Do you remember Bulletproof? Is it a hidden gem, a cult classic, or just plain bad? Let us know your favorite 90s buddy-cop movie in the comments. 🎙 Follow Wicked Psychotherapists for movie reviews, psychology takes, and all things Adam Sandler. Disclaimer: This podcast is for entertainment, educational commentary, and discussion purposes only. The opinions shared are our own and are not a substitute for therapy, mental health treatment, diagnosis, or professional advice. Connect with us! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wickedpsychotherapists/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Wickedpodcasts/ Linktre.ee :  https://linktr.ee/thewickedpsychotherapists Website :  https://www.wickedpsychotherapists.com Youtube : https://www.youtube.com/@Wickedpsychotherapists

    44 min

  8. Apr 1

    Heathers Revisited: 37 Years Later & 6 Degrees of Adam Sandler

    Send us a Text Message we would love to hear what you thought of the show. “Greetings and Salutations!” We’re doing a special re-release of our Heathers episode in honor of the 37th anniversary of the film’s release (March 31, 1989).  You might be wondering, “Is Adam Sandler in this movie?” He’s not—but Heathers is only six degrees from Adam since Winona Ryder starred in Mr. Deeds. We dive into the twisted relationship between Veronica and JD, explore the film’s dark humor, high school hierarchy, and deep psychological layers.  Plus, we discuss a fascinating fan theory about JD and debate whether Veronica’s ending is as triumphant as it seems. Join us for an 80s nostalgia trip full of wicked insights! Stay wicked and keep your mind well. This podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. Connect with us! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wickedpsychotherapists/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Wickedpodcasts/ Linktre.ee :  https://linktr.ee/thewickedpsychotherapists Website :  https://www.wickedpsychotherapists.com Youtube : https://www.youtube.com/@Wickedpsychotherapists

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What do therapy, ’80s and ’90s nostalgia, today’s hottest shows and movies—and a surprising number of Adam Sandler films—have in common? Tanya Dos Santos and Erin Gray—two licensed psychotherapists with a wicked New England twist—are here to spill the tea and the therapeutic insights. On The Wicked Psychotherapists Podcast, Tanya and Erin break down the mental health themes that matter most—anxiety, identity, burnout, self-worth, relationships, and resilience—through the lens of pop culture. From the rad classics of the ’80s and ’90s to today’s buzziest series and films, nothing is off-limits… especially when it somehow connects back to Adam Sandler. Yes, we said it. From revisiting old favorites to analyzing newer Sandler movies—and exploring the six degrees of separation of Adam Sandler—this podcast blends humor, nostalgia, and psychological insight in a way that’s smart, entertaining, and refreshingly real. Whether you’re comfort-watching a childhood favorite, bingeing something new, or wondering why a goofy comedy hit you right in the feelings, we’re here to help you connect the dots between what you watch and how you feel. Expect: Candid therapy talk with heart and humorPop culture deep dives with a mental health lens’80s, ’90s, and today’s movies and shows (yes, including lots of Adam Sandler)A dose of nostalgia, a dash of sass, and a lot of wisdom🎙️ New episodes every Wednesday. 💬 Don’t forget to leave a review, share with your people, and follow us on Instagram and YouTube @WickedPsychotherapists. Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional therapy or mental health care, and listening does not create a therapist–client relationship. Stay Wicked… and keep your mind well.

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  • Creator
    Tanya & Erin
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    119
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Wicked Psychotherapists
  • Show Website
    Wicked Psychotherapists