You’ve figured out your retirement paycheck—but who are you having brunch with? Leaving work changes more than your income. It can also change your routine, your friendships, and your sense of purpose. In this episode of Take Pride in Retirement, my husband and co-host, Josh Rhett Noble, joins me to talk about planning a social life you can take pride in. We explore why the everyday connections we make at work can be harder to replace than we expect, and why it helps to start building your retirement routine before your last day on the job. We discuss maintaining friendships, finding welcoming LGBTQ+ groups, staying connected with chosen family, and balancing shared activities with individual interests in a relationship. We also connect those goals to the financial plan, including budgeting for meals with friends, classes, memberships, transportation, and visits to loved ones who live elsewhere. Whether you’re single, partnered, already retired, or still looking ahead, we share a simple place to start: one recurring activity, one relationship to maintain, and one new experience to try. Your retirement plan should support the people and experiences that make your days meaningful. -- Request your free RSSA Roadmap for Social Security optimization Watch full episodes on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@TakePrideinRetirementShow Follow on BlueSky, Threads, Facebook, Instagram — just search Take Pride in Retirement -- About Take Pride in Retirement: Take Pride in Retirement is a podcast dedicated to retirement planning solutions for the LGBTQ community. Host Matt McClure, a licensed fiduciary financial advisor, shares strategies to protect your hard-earned money while pursuing market-like growth. Matt holds the RSSA® credential as a Registered Social Security Analyst®, helping clients optimize their Social Security filing strategies to potentially increase lifetime income. He’s also a Certified Annuity Specialist® (CAS®), a designation earned through a 135+ hour graduate-level program in fixed-rate and variable annuities from the Institute of Business & Finance. Based in Georgia with his husband and two dogs, Matt spent over a decade in New York City, working with The Wall Street Journal Radio Network, NY1, and WCBS Newsradio 880. A career highlight includes reporting from the floor of the New York Stock Exchange. Chapters (00:00:00) - Introduction and Show Welcome(00:02:25) - Planning Social Life Alongside Retirement Income(00:03:29) - What You Lose When You Leave Work(00:05:37) - Dealing with an Empty Calendar and Routine Loss(00:07:14) - Balancing Partner Relationships and Individual Interests(00:09:54) - Building Connections with Chosen Family and Community(00:10:51) - Being Okay Apart and Maintaining Communication(00:12:31) - Matching Retirement Activities to Your Budget(00:14:38) - Finding Groups and Shared-Interest Communities(00:17:01) - Personal Styles of Connecting with Others(00:18:36) - Making Retirement Choices That Fit You, Not Others(00:19:05) - Budgeting for Social Activities and Travel(00:22:37) - Practical Steps to Start Building a Social Life This Week(00:25:24) - Key Questions Beyond Just Money for Retirement(00:26:32) - Closing Thoughts and Contact Information(00:27:31) - Disclosures and Credits