NeuroConversant Leadership

Jeremy Doran

Effective Communication in the S.T.E.M. workplace. Jeremy is a leadership coach who specializes in helping engineers and other S.T.E.M. professionals become great managers and leaders. Being a great leader requires exceptional communication skills, especially in environments where there are a lot of Neuro-Diverse people. We explore communicating well with people who think, communicate and see the world very differently than most. The world needs this diversity in order to make progress. Leaders who can communicate well across this diversity will set themselves apart from the rest!

  1. 4D AGO

    Why Girls with ADHD, Autism and Dyslexia go Undiagnosed

    Girls with ADHD, autism, and dyslexia are diagnosed three to five times less often than boys — and it's not because they're less affected. It's because they're better at hiding it. In this episode, I break down the three reasons neurodivergent girls go undetected: how socialization teaches them to mask their symptoms, why female brains are naturally better at compensating, and how our diagnostic tools were built entirely on male research subjects. Key Topics: The differences in diagnosis rates between boys and girls for neurodivergent conditionsHow societal socialization encourages girls to mimic behaviors and suppress visible signs of neurodivergenceBiological variations: women excel at decoding facial expressions and verbal skills, which can mask internal strugglesDiagnostic challenges: criteria based on studies of men often overlook how girls and women present different symptomsThe high tendency for women to mask symptoms, leading to emotional exhaustion and misdiagnosis as anxiety or depressionSigns for parents and educators to watch for in quiet or withdrawn children that may suggest neurodivergenceThe importance of listening to personal stories to improve understanding and diagnosis accuracyChapters :00:00 - The significance of communication in neurodivergence and leadership0:18 - Why girls are underdiagnosed in neurodivergency and societal influences0:48 - Social training for girls: reading the room, regulating emotions, and mimicking1:16 - The impact of neurodivergence on social behavior and masking strategies2:13 - Fidgeting and behaviors often suppressed or ignored2:27 - Gender differences in physical signs and diagnosis timing2:57 - Brain differences: emotional cue recognition and masking skills3:26 - Brain scan insights and gender variations in autism, ADHD, and dyslexia3:57 - Developmental language skills as a diagnostic mask4:26 - How diagnostic criteria are based predominantly on male populations4:56 - Disparities in dyslexia diagnosis rates between sexes and the masking phenomenon5:37 - Adult diagnosis challenges and symptoms of burnout and exhaustion6:16 - The discrepancy between diagnosis rates and actual prevalence6:39 - Masking as an emotional and physical toll on women7:07 - Consequences of masking: exhaustion, anxiety, depression7:36 - Recognizing the core issues behind symptoms and burnout8:02 - The importance of awareness for parents and educators8:30 - Encouragement for sharing stories to improve understanding and diagnosis8:53 - Connecting on LinkedIn to share experiences and support Connect with Jeremy linkedin.com/in/jeremydoranspeaks

    8 min
  2. MAR 5

    The Engineer Who Designed His Own Leadership Path - with Dominic Bowlin

    What does it look like when a technical professional doesn't just fall into leadership — but intentionally designs their path there? In this episode of NeuroConversant Leadership, Jeremy Doran sits down with Dominic Bowlin, Engineering Manager at JBC Technologies, to unpack one of the most deliberate career transitions you'll hear about in the STEM world: moving from individual contributor to people leader with a plan. Dominic shares how a materials engineer with a passion for polymers and mechanical systems found himself leading a team of 8–10 engineers across 40+ machines, two shifts, and hundreds of active customers — and how a great mentor helped him build the roadmap to get there. If you've ever wondered how to grow into leadership on purpose, how to communicate across departments with completely different thinking styles, or how to let go of the technical work so your team can grow — this episode is for you. WHAT YOU'LL LEARN Why the biggest constraints for technical professionals aren't technical — they're communication, prioritization, and capacity alignmentHow to use influence before you have authority — and why that's what gets you the titleThe real reason delegation is an investment, not a shortcutHow to separate intent from impact when navigating conflict between engineering, sales, quality, and operationsWhy understanding personality styles is the "irrational variable" engineers never account for — and how to fix thatHow to know whether you're wired for leadership or the individual contributor track — before you make the wrong moveWhy simplicity, transparency, and trust-building are the foundation of effective technical leadershipTIMESTAMPS 00:00 – Introduction — Dominic's background in materials engineering and manufacturing02:46 – The shift from individual contributor to manager: hands-on vs. hands-off04:17 – The hardest part of leading technical people: letting go of the fun stuff05:29 – Why delegation is an investment, not a shortcut06:20 – How Dominic designed his own leadership path inside a growing company08:35 – Mentorship: how a great boss helped Dominic build a career development plan12:17 – Choosing your path: leadership vs. senior individual contributor19:00 – Conflict resolution in manufacturing: separating intent from impact21:19 – How to communicate across departments with different thinking styles23:26 – DISC, Culture Index, and Surrounded by Idiots — tools Dominic swears by25:26 – Why personality training changes your home life, not just your work life26:49 – Dominic's one piece of advice: keep it simple, credible, and groundedRESOURCES MENTIONED Surrounded by Idiots by Thomas Erikson — a four-personality framework for understanding communication stylesDISC Personality Assessment — used by Dominic's team for interviewing, onboarding, and leadership developmentCulture Index — used at JBC Technologies to gauge personality tendencies across the organizationJBC Technologies — engineering-led die cutting and converting companyConnect with Dominic Bowlin on LinkedInCALL TO ACTION Enjoyed this episode? Subscribe to NeuroConversant Leadership on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen. New episodes drop every Thursday. If you're a technical professional navigating the leap into leadership — or you lead engineers and need to close the communication gap — visit jeremydoran.com to learn about keynote speaking and coaching programs. Leave a review. Share this episode. Tag a technical professional who needs to hear it

    26 min
  3. JAN 29

    Skip the Meeting: Alternatives Do Exist! #132

    90% of people describe their meetings as unproductive, and yet they spent one third to one half of their time in them! In this episode, we talk to Chris Fenning who recently published a book titled "Effective Meetings: Great Results. Less Pain. Every Time." We explore how to make meetings more productive, or how they can be replaced by something more productive and less time consuming. Learn more about Chris at www.ChrisFenning.com Takeaways Effective communication is crucial in STEM leadership. Frameworks can help engineers communicate more clearly. Understanding the audience's intent is key to effective conversations. Meetings should have a clear purpose and output. Avoid unnecessary meetings to improve productivity. Meeting-free days can significantly boost team efficiency. Identify the right participants for each meeting. Clear meeting invitations enhance engagement and relevance. Virtual meetings have increased but can lead to disengagement. Pausing before speaking can improve communication quality. Chapters 02:03 Frameworks for Clear and Concise Communication 08:21 Understanding Intent and Audience in Conversations 13:44 The Importance of Effective Meetings 19:25 When to Hold a Meeting: Key Considerations 22:54 The Impact of Meeting-Free Days on Productivity 28:47 Identifying the Right Participants for Meetings 32:28 Avoiding Unnecessary Meeting Invitations 37:34 The Rise of Virtual Meetings and Their Challenges 44:20 Conclusion and Key Takeaway on Communication

    45 min
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Effective Communication in the S.T.E.M. workplace. Jeremy is a leadership coach who specializes in helping engineers and other S.T.E.M. professionals become great managers and leaders. Being a great leader requires exceptional communication skills, especially in environments where there are a lot of Neuro-Diverse people. We explore communicating well with people who think, communicate and see the world very differently than most. The world needs this diversity in order to make progress. Leaders who can communicate well across this diversity will set themselves apart from the rest!