In our final episode in our collaborative mini series with Lucy Legal, Caroline chats to Rachel Childs. Rachel is a relationship coach and founder of Parents That Work, and shares insights on maintaining connection, equality, and emotional support in relationships after parenthood. This episode explores the impact of COVID, gender norms, and practical strategies for healthier partnerships. This episode is brought to you in collaboration with Lucy Legal and her Get Legit Hub. Don't trust ChatGPT for legal advice! Go to www.lucylegal.co.uk/the-hub for real legal guidance, templates and support. To hear the rest of collaboration with Lucy Legal listen to Episode 102 - Mum guilt, leveraging audiences and making £23k in 48hours with Lucy Legal Episode 103 - My experience of motherhood, business and what I would have done differently, Lucy Legal interviews Caroline Episode 104 - Preparing your business (and life!) for Maternity Leave with Lucy Legal Episode 105 - Twins, fintech and NICU recovery with Sophia Jarvis Episode 106 - How to use AI for female founders and mums with Lucy Legal To hear Caroline's original conversation with Lucy, please listen to Episode 17 - "Every single person thought I was crazy" Resources: Beyond Baby Talk book Topics: Impact of COVID on family life Gender norms and maternal gatekeeping Shared parenting and mental load Conversations about finances and careers Supporting emotional well-being in relationships Chapters: 01:00 Navigating the Landscape of Parenting Support 05:10 Career Transitions and the Impact of Parenthood 07:39 The Role of Gender Equity in Parenting 09:46 The Challenges of Managing Multiple Children 14:54 Understanding Relationship Dynamics in Parenthood 17:29 The Impact of COVID-19 on Parenting 20:14 The Future of Work and Parenting Dynamics 24:22 The Pressure to Parent Equally 28:04 The Reality of Parenting Dynamics 32:09 Transforming Antenatal Conversations 35:04 Navigating Financial Decisions in Parenthood 39:02 Emotional Support and Communication in Relationships 41:58 Maternal Gatekeeping and Its Impact 47:27 The Path to Parental Equity 51:42 Building a Supportive Community for Parents Links: Website: https://www.bumptobusinessowner.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bumptobusinessowner/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carolinepooley/ About Rachel Childs Rachel Childs is a relationship coach, author, podcast host and founder of Parents That Work, helping couples navigate the transition into parenthood without losing their connection, ambition, or sense of teamwork. After a career in corporate talent development, Rachel moved into coaching and relationship work, combining professional expertise with her own lived experience of unequal parenting and the realities many couples face after having children. She is certified in Hogan Assessments, a Bringing Baby Home Educator, and a Transformational Coach. Through Parents That Work, Rachel supports couples in building stronger parenting partnerships rooted in equality, communication, and emotional connection. Helping families move away from resentment, burnout, and the "default parent" dynamic so many experience in the early years. Rachel is also the creator of The Team Blueprint, author of Beyond Baby Talk, and host of the podcast Equalish, where she explores modern relationships, invisible labour, shared parenting, careers, and why equality in family life can feel far harder in practice than in theory. Rachel Childs' Links: Website: www.parentsthatwork.co.uk Podcast: https://podfollow.com/1840151862 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rachelchilds-couplescoach/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/parents_that_work/ Music by AudioCoffee: https://www.audiocoffee.net/