Hello Me, It's Me : Vulnerable AF

Nikki D Lovely
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A Nikki D Lovely podcast that addresses raw & real revelations and conversations. Five years after writing the book, No F*** boys Allowed, and practicing celibacy Nikki moves from LA to La, dives into dating, and attempts to find herself again. She realizes that over the years she has never allowed herself to be vulnerable so this is her - being as open and honest as one can be for the first time. Join in, you might learn something about yourself during her process of self-discovery.

  1. JAN 28

    Learning to Ask for What You Want

    In this episode, Nikki explores the importance of vulnerability and the necessity of asking for what you want, particularly in the context of parenting. She shares personal experiences emphasizing the need to break free from societal conditioning that discourages assertiveness, especially in women. The conversation encourages listeners to practice asking for their needs and desires, highlighting the emotional and psychological benefits of doing so. Join us!

    27 min

  2. JAN 13

    When Healing Brings You Home : Moving Back in with Parents

    What happens when healing brings you back to the place that shaped you? In this episode of Hello Me, It’s Me, Vulnerable AF, Nikki D. Lovely sits down with Nicole to talk about what it really means to return home during a season of rebuilding. Together, they explore vulnerability, healing in real time, and the complicated emotions that surface when you’re navigating family dynamics, cultural expectations, and generational trauma, all under one roof. This conversation isn’t about having it all figured out. It’s about learning to set boundaries, advocate for yourself, and choose rest in a world that rewards burnout. Nikki and Nicole reflect on the lessons this season has taught them and why healing doesn’t erase triggers, it changes how you meet them. At its heart, this episode asks an honest question:How do you keep growing when healing leads you back home?

    47 min

  3. JAN 6

    The Cost of Independence in Modern Dating

    In this episode, Nikki discusses the complexities of independence for women, particularly in the context of dating and relationships. She reflects on her personal experiences and the societal pressures that influence women's choices. The conversation explores the emotional toll of being independent, the challenges of dating in today's economy, and the importance of knowing one's values and not settling for less in relationships. Nikki emphasizes the need for support and partnership while navigating these challenges, encouraging listeners to ask the right questions and prioritize their emotional well-being.

    16 min

  4. 12/30/2025

    The Version of Me I’m Not Taking Into 2026

    Healing doesn’t mean you stop getting triggered.It means you stop abandoning yourself when it happens. This episode is a year-end reflection on what we’re leaving in 2025 and what we’re intentionally carrying into 2026. We’re talking about healed reactions versus old patterns, emotional awareness, and how growth shows up when life still life’s. Healing is about recognizing, taking responsibility, and choosing differently than you have in the past. The question we begin with and leave you with is simple but honest: What are you leaving behind in 2025, and changing about yourself into the new year?

    22 min

  5. 12/24/2025

    From Pride to Peace: Just Keep Going

    In this episode, Nikki shares her journey of temporarily moving back in with her parents, reflecting on personal growth, family dynamics, and the challenges of managing debt. She discusses the importance of healing, forgiveness, and the lessons learned about pride and peace, while also emphasizing the need for self-reflection while navigating life's challenges. Join us if you know the feeling!

    24 min

  6. 08/31/2025

    Packing Up & Letting Go (with Gratitude)

    In this episode, Nikki shares her personal struggles with moving, self-compassion, and the emotional challenges that arise during transitions. She reflects on her past decisions, the importance of giving oneself grace, and the lessons learned from her experiences. The conversation emphasizes the need for self-reflection, understanding emotions, and the journey of personal growth.

    16 min

  7. 07/13/2025

    Attachment Styles: From Avoidance to Authenticity

    Join us as we discuss the journey from avoidant and anxious attachment styles to achieving a secure and healthy mindset. My guest, Nicole Yvette, shares her experiences with social media detox, the impact of algorithms on self-perception, and the importance of self-reflection and therapy. Together, we unpack the challenges of dating, why I needed 5 years of celibacy, the significance of vulnerability, and the power of healing. If you're suffering from emotional unavailability, this is an insightful conversation you won't want to miss.

    1h 16m

  8. 06/09/2025

    When Friendships Shift & So Do You

    In this soul-stirring conversation, Nikki and ShebaSpeaksVolumes unpack the quiet heartbreak of transactional friendships, the ache of abandonment, and the power of choosing yourself. They reflect on how friendships evolve, how self-worth shifts with healing, and why it's okay to outgrow what no longer fits. This episode is a tender reminder: don’t just show up for others, show up for you, too.

    1 hr
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A Nikki D Lovely podcast that addresses raw & real revelations and conversations. Five years after writing the book, No F*** boys Allowed, and practicing celibacy Nikki moves from LA to La, dives into dating, and attempts to find herself again. She realizes that over the years she has never allowed herself to be vulnerable so this is her - being as open and honest as one can be for the first time. Join in, you might learn something about yourself during her process of self-discovery.

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