Stop Parenting & Start Coaching

Nate Crandall and Steve Galley
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Parenting is the hardest job and there's not a close second! And, parenting children and teens who are athletes and performers provides a unique set of challenges. It requires parents to approach their relationships and interactions from a new perspective. Join Certified High Performance Coaches™ Nate Crandall & Steve Galley, who with their nearly 60 years of coaching, teaching, and parenting experience, guide you on a fun and enlightening journey in the challenging and exciting world of parenting uh, coaching your teen athlete or performer! The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast will provide you with impactful insights and practical tips to help you to transform your parenting. Thank you for watching and/or listening on YouTube (The STOP PARENTING & START COACHING Podcast), Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts!

  1. 5D AGO

    "Stop Parenting & Start Coaching?" What in the World Does That Mean?!

    "Stop Parenting & Start Coaching." Yeah, we know it's a bit provocative. Yes, we know it turns some people away. But for the high achieving parents and their teens that we work with, it makes perfect sense. Give us a few minutes and we'll tell you exactly what it means to us and why it could just be what you need to reduce the friction in the conversations and relationships with your teen athlete or performer. Let's go MVPs! Hey there Most Valuable Parents! We have created a world-class podcast for parents of teen athletes and performers on YouTube. We can also be found on the other usual places you get your podcasts like Apple Podcasts and Spotify. New episodes drop every MONDAY. We would be most grateful if you would SUBSCRIBE to our YouTube channel where our unique show for parents of teen athletes and performers resides. The name of our podcast is the same name as our YouTube channel: The STOP PARENTING & START COACHING Podcast! We're also posting valuable content on LinkedIn. Please follow us and connect with us:Please follow us and connect with us: Search "Steve Galley" on LinkedIn. Let’s gooooooooo moms and dads–you got this! -Nate & Steve

    13 min
  2. Blueprint to Bluechip: A Conversation with Erin Sarles & Thomas Roe

    MAR 24

    Blueprint to Bluechip: A Conversation with Erin Sarles & Thomas Roe

    Character architects. Decision makers. Putting the fun and joy back back into playing sports. Yeah, let's do this. In today's special guest episode we talk with Erin Sarles and Thomas Roe, the dynamic duo and cofounders of Bluechip to Blueprint. You're gonna love this one moms and dads! Erin Sarles brings 20+ years of corporate executive expertise to the youth sports arena, where she saw firsthand—as both a professional and a mother of competitive athletes—the devastating impact of performance-based identity. As CEO and co-creator of Blueprint to Bluechip's proprietary CADI Framework (Character Over Clout, Accountability Over Excuses, Discipline Over Motivation, Integrity Over Image), Erin addresses the character crisis in youth sports with the same systematic rigor she brought to developing corporate leaders. Thomas Roe co-founded Blueprint to Bluechip after spending decades building and repairing bodies—and witnessing the character crises that come when physical development outpaces personal development. As founder of TRoe Fitness-Sports Rehab & Recovery, Thomas has trained athletes at every level, from professionals to weekend warriors & every athlete in between. Thomas understands that sustainable success in sports requires more than physical strength. You can get in touch with Erin and Thomas here: Let's Talk! You can also find them on LinkedIn, Instagram, and Facebook. Search for Blueprint to Bluechip. The Timestamps 00:00 Introduction to the Journey 01:58 The Athletic Experience and Its Impact 05:23 The Birth of Blueprint to Bluechip 07:47 Dysfunction in Youth Sports 14:19 Character Development in Sports 19:11 Becoming Character Architects 22:51 Navigating Challenges in Sports and Life 25:12 Consequences of Careless Decisions 26:24 Character Development in Sports 27:40 The Dilemma of Specialization 28:51 Supporting Your Child's Dreams 31:34 The Risks of Single-Sport Focus 35:14 Aligning Goals with Reality 38:55 The CADI Framework for Decision Making 42:35 Encouragement for Parents Hey there Most Valuable Parents! We are creating a world-class podcast for parents of teen athletes and performers on YouTube. We can also be found on the other usual places you get your podcasts like Apple Podcasts and Spotify. New episodes drop every MONDAY. We would be most grateful if you would SUBSCRIBE to our YouTube channel where our unique show for parents of teen athletes and performers resides. The name of our podcast is the same name as our YouTube channel: The STOP PARENTING & START COACHING Podcast! We're also posting valuable content on LinkedIn. Please follow us and connect with us:Please follow us and connect with us: Search "Steve Galley" on LinkedIn. Let’s gooooooooo moms and dads–you got this! -Nate & Steve

    47 min
  3. Steve's Big Confession!

    MAR 17

    Steve's Big Confession!

    Parents, this episode is personal. Steve makes a big confession that gets right to the heart of coaching, parenting, pride, and the mindset shifts that can either help your teen grow or quietly hold them back. So...let's get right to the truth. Are you helping your teen think for themselves, or are you still stuck giving advice that no longer lands? In this episode, we unpack the difference between coaching and consulting, why human connection matters, and how better questions can create real growth at home. The Timestamps 00:00 The Misconception of Coaching Worth 03:12 Understanding the Barriers to Coaching 06:02 The Importance of High-Level Coaching 08:27 The Distinction Between Coaching and Consulting 11:07 Encouraging Independent Thinking in Parenting Takeaways Why Everyone Deserves Coaching (Why Steve was Wrong!)How pride and ignorance hinder coachingThe difference between coaching and consultingThe importance of human connection in coachingThe role of follow-up questions in effective coachingParenting strategies to develop kids' thinking skills Hey there Most Valuable Parents! We are creating a world-class podcast for parents of teen athletes and performers on YouTube. We can also be found on the other usual places you get your podcasts like Apple Podcasts and Spotify. New episodes drop every MONDAY. We would be most grateful if you would SUBSCRIBE to our YouTube channel where our unique show for parents of teen athletes and performers resides. The name of our podcast is the same name as our YouTube channel: The STOP PARENTING & START COACHING Podcast! We're also posting valuable content on LinkedIn. Please follow us and connect with us:Please follow us and connect with us: Search "Steve Galley" on LinkedIn. Let’s gooooooooo moms and dads–you got this! -Nate & Steve

    19 min
  4. PARENTS: How Much is TOO Much?

    MAR 10

    PARENTS: How Much is TOO Much?

    What if your teen does not need more pressure, more reminders, or more to-do’s, but better clarity? In this conversation, we fire some easy fastballs down the middle and then unleash a curveball that's gonna make your knees wobble a bit! Let's face what your teen is facing if their schedule is packed tighter than a dugout with 25 stinky baseball players. Le'ts also step up to the plate and learn how The Question Only Conversation can help you guide their decisions with better communication that gets built upon playing the long game with trust! Let's go Most Valuable Parents--you got this! The Timestamps 00:00 The Badge (& Burden) of Busyness 03:18 Balancing School, Sports, and Social Life 05:57 The Importance of Honest Conversations 08:49 Introducing the Curveball: The #4 Category 10:43 Navigating Priorities as a Parent Takeaways Teens can only be GREAT in 2 of these 3 areas: school, sports, social life.Honest conversations about priorities build trust and clarity.Adding a job can teach valuable life skills but compromises them and increases stress.Parents should use targeted questions to guide teens' decision-making.Clarity about priorities leads to better time management, productivity, and well-being.Hey there Most Valuable Parents! We are creating a world-class podcast for parents of teen athletes and performers on YouTube. We can also be found on the other usual places you get your podcasts like Apple Podcasts and Spotify. New episodes drop every MONDAY. We would be most grateful if you would SUBSCRIBE to our YouTube channel where our unique show for parents of teen athletes and performers resides. The name of our podcast is the same name as our YouTube channel: The STOP PARENTING & START COACHING Podcast! We're also posting valuable content on LinkedIn. Please follow us and connect with us:Please follow us and connect with us: Search "Steve Galley" on LinkedIn. Let’s gooooooooo moms and dads–you got this! -Nate & Steve

    16 min
  5. ROB GEERTSEN: His Son's High School Transfer Story

    MAR 3

    ROB GEERTSEN: His Son's High School Transfer Story

    If you’ve ever contemplated a school transfer for your high school son or daughter and asked “Should we stay… or should we go?” you’re not alone! In this episode, we interview Rob Geertsen, a proud and present father and an experienced coach. Rob tells his son Zack's high school transfer story—what they did before any paperwork, how they evaluated the new environment, and why academics and “culture fit” mattered as much or more than the athletics. If you are mulling over whether transferring is the right thing for your son/daughter, Rob will share what requires serious consideration before making the move. Let's go Most Valuable Parents!!! Want to talk to Rob personally about your transfer questions? Contact him at robert.geertsen@canyonsdistrict.org. We guarantee that he will find time for you if you are genuinely interested in an honest and straightforward conversation! The Timestamps 00:00 Introduction to Zack Geertsen's HS Transfer Story 02:57 The Decision to Transfer Schools 06:57 Defining Success for Zack 11:33 Culture is Critical 14:57 Involving Zack in the Decision-Making Process 18:50 Due Diligence Before the Transfer 23:26 Exit Conversations and Integration into New Team 30:14 The Commitment of a Dedicated Parent 33:58 Navigating Challenges of Transfer Decisions 36:51 Building Relationships in a New Environment 42:24 The Reality of Making the Transfer 45:07 Advice for Parents Considering Transfers 49:25 The Risks of Transferring for the Wrong Reasons 55:06 Reflecting on the Journey and Future Aspirations 57:34 Wrapping Up with Wisdom and Humor 59:09 OUTRO Video BK 2025 FINAL.mp4 Hey there Most Valuable Parents! We are creating a world-class podcast for parents of teen athletes and performers on YouTube. We can also be found on the other usual places you get your podcasts like Apple Podcasts and Spotify. New episodes drop every MONDAY. We would be most grateful if you would SUBSCRIBE to our YouTube channel where our unique show for parents of teen athletes and performers resides. The name of our podcast is the same name as our YouTube channel: The STOP PARENTING & START COACHING Podcast! We're also posting valuable content on LinkedIn. Please follow us and connect with us:Please follow us and connect with us: Search "Steve Galley" on LinkedIn. Let’s gooooooooo moms and dads–you got this! -Nate & Steve

    1 hr
  6. PARENTS: Are You Sleeping on This?!

    FEB 24

    PARENTS: Are You Sleeping on This?!

    Here’s the truth: sleep is a system, not a character issue. So if your plan is “hope they choose better,” you’ll keep getting the same results. In this episode, we ask the questions you need to build a practical sleep system with mutual agreements. Using our Question Only Conversation approach will increase buy-in and cooperation that will help you both sleep well--like a baby (that doesn't wake up all night!). And if you stick around to the end you'll get the 3-2-1 framework, a simple system to help you create a high performance sleep habit!! Let's goooooooooooo................................to sleep! Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz. The Timestamps 00:00 The Importance of Sleep Conversations 02:47 Understanding Sleep as a Biological Need 05:24 Empowering Teens to Own Their Sleep 08:12 Effective Communication Strategies for Parents 10:07 The Question-Only Conversation Technique 12:28 Challenging the Grind Mentality 14:50 Creating a Sleep Agreement 17:45 The 321 Sleep Framework Key Topics -Sleep is a system, not a character issue. -Mutual sleep agreements and conversations must happen. -The tried and true 3-2-1 sleep framework! -Question-only conversations to influence teen behavior. - The impact of sleep on performance and mental health. Hey there Most Valuable Parents! We are creating a world-class podcast for parents of teen athletes and performers on YouTube. We can also be found on the other usual places you get your podcasts like Apple Podcasts and Spotify. New episodes drop every MONDAY. We would be most grateful if you would SUBSCRIBE to our YouTube channel where our unique show for parents of teen athletes and performers resides. The name of our podcast is the same name as our YouTube channel: The STOP PARENTING & START COACHING Podcast! We're also posting valuable content on LinkedIn. Please follow us and connect with us:Please follow us and connect with us: Search "Steve Galley" on LinkedIn. Let’s gooooooooo moms and dads–you got this! -Nate & Steve

    25 min
  7. PARENTS: Are They Getting Enough?!

    FEB 17

    PARENTS: Are They Getting Enough?!

    Teen sleep isn’t just “discipline”—it’s biology. We unpack the teen brain, circadian shifts, recovery, and why inconsistent schedules sabotage energy and focus. We also talk school start times and the ripple effects on mental health and performance. Then we translate it into practical routines you can actually implement by sharing our Sleep Starter Pack with you. Let's go Most Valuable Parents!!!! The Timestamps 00:00 The Importance of Sleep for Performance 03:12 Understanding Recovery and Brain Development 05:55 Equipping Teens for Better Sleep 08:43 The Impact of Sleep on Mental Health and Injury Prevention 10:57 The Role of Consistency in Sleep Patterns 13:13 Advocating for Later School Start Times 15:35 The Sleep Starter Pack: Practical Tips for Parents Takeaways -Equipping kids with energy is crucial for performance. -Sleep is essential for brain development and recovery. -Teens need 8 to 10 hours of sleep for optimal health. -Sleep problems can lead to emotional and mental health issues. -Inadequate sleep increases the risk of injury in teens. -Consistency in sleep schedules is vital for teens. -School start times should be later to benefit students. -Parents should engage in conversations about sleep with their teens. -Creating a sleep starter pack can help facilitate discussions. -Understanding the biological needs of teens can improve sleep habits. Hey there Most Valuable Parents! We are creating a world-class podcast for parents of teen athletes and performers on YouTube. We can also be found on the other usual places you get your podcasts like Apple Podcasts and Spotify. New episodes drop every MONDAY. We would be most grateful if you would SUBSCRIBE to our YouTube channel where our unique show for parents of teen athletes and performers resides. The name of our podcast is the same name as our YouTube channel: The STOP PARENTING & START COACHING Podcast! We're also posting valuable content on LinkedIn. Please follow us and connect with us:Please follow us and connect with us: Search "Steve Galley" on LinkedIn. Let’s gooooooooo moms and dads–you got this! -Nate & Steve

    23 min
  8. Are You in the Market for Relationship Insurance?

    FEB 10

    Are You in the Market for Relationship Insurance?

    In this episode--the third in a series about playing time--we get blunt and right to the truth about the fact that parents struggle to stay neutral. Confirmation bias creeps in and rescuing becomes a habit. What follows is pressure and tension in every conversation or or coach bashing ensues. You love them so much and your intentions are pure, but why is this not working? Much of it is the proximity of you to them and the emotions swirling around in this relationship. So we give you a better play: protect the sacred parent-teen relationship with “relationship insurance.” Learn how to communicate without escalating and how to support emotionally without performing as their designated sport coach. As well as understanding that a neutral, outside voice is the smartest move you can make for your teen’s development—and your connection. The Timestamps 00:00 The Challenge of Coaching Your Own Kids 02:23 Understanding Parental Bias in Youth Sports 05:10 The Impact of Emotional Proximity 07:56 The Role of Outside Voices in Mindset Coaching 10:45 Navigating Status Panic and Expectations 13:09 Building Relationship Insurance with Teens Takeaways -Parents often struggle with neutrality when coaching their own children. -Confirmation bias can cloud parents' judgment regarding their child's performance. -Rescuing behavior can undermine a teen's ability to handle challenges independently. -Neutrality is essential for effective mindset coaching. -Outside voices can provide valuable support and perspective for teens. -Parents should focus on emotional support rather than performance pressure. -The relationship between parents and teens is sacred and irreplaceable. -Bringing in outside voices helps maintain a safe and supportive environment for teens. Hey there Most Valuable Parents! We are creating a world-class podcast for parents of teen athletes and performers on YouTube. We can also be found on the other usual places you get your podcasts like Apple Podcasts and Spotify. New episodes drop every MONDAY. We would be most grateful if you would SUBSCRIBE to our YouTube channel where our unique show for parents of teen athletes and performers resides. The name of our podcast is the same name as our YouTube channel: The STOP PARENTING & START COACHING Podcast! We're also posting valuable content on LinkedIn. Please follow us and connect with us:Please follow us and connect with us: Search "Steve Galley" on LinkedIn. Let’s gooooooooo moms and dads–you got this! -Nate & Steve

    18 min
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Parenting is the hardest job and there's not a close second! And, parenting children and teens who are athletes and performers provides a unique set of challenges. It requires parents to approach their relationships and interactions from a new perspective. Join Certified High Performance Coaches™ Nate Crandall & Steve Galley, who with their nearly 60 years of coaching, teaching, and parenting experience, guide you on a fun and enlightening journey in the challenging and exciting world of parenting uh, coaching your teen athlete or performer! The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast will provide you with impactful insights and practical tips to help you to transform your parenting. Thank you for watching and/or listening on YouTube (The STOP PARENTING & START COACHING Podcast), Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts!

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