Living OUT Loud Podcast

michele flamer
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Living OUT Loud with Michele Flamer is a space for courage, truth, and belonging. The podcast celebrates Queer voices and the people in our communities who are living out loud with intention. Each episode lifts up authentic stories of self-discovery, purpose, and the moments that shaped who we become. Michele welcomes a wide range of guests who are opening doors and extending their hearts. From everyday heroes to community organizers, from artists and authors to politicians and advocates, these conversations honor the resilience and bravery found in Queer communities across the country. Together, they explore what it means to lead with vulnerability, to create connection, and to stand firmly in our truth. Through honest conversation, curiosity, and compassion, Michele invites listeners to reflect on their own stories and the power of showing up as their whole selves. Because when we live out loud, we create space for others to do the same. Thanks for listening and sharing.  Stay Loud and Stay Proud!  Michele

  1. 4d ago

    The Fairness Campaign

    If you haven't heard this episode yet, I thought it was an important one coming so close to the election. The conversation features Chris Hartman, the executive director of Kentucky's Fairness Campaign, discussing his journey of coming out, the importance of LGBTQ+ advocacy, and the impact of community support in small towns. Hartman shares personal anecdotes and highlights the significance of storytelling in advancing non-discrimination protections for LGBTQ+ individuals. The conversation focuses on the importance of inclusivity in sports and the broader LGBTQ+ community, highlighting the challenges faced by transgender youth and the need for support and advocacy. Chris Hartman discusses the progress being made in Kentucky regarding LGBTQ+ rights and the significance of community involvement in fostering change. Website: The Fairness Campaign YouTube: The Fairness Campaign Takeaways Importance of community supportStorytelling in advocacy Inclusivity in sports is vitalCommunity support drives progress Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Chris Hartman02:49 Coming Out Journey09:15 Building Community in High School12:58 The Robust LGBTQ+ Community in Louisville13:07 Moments of Affirmation in Advocacy17:20 Path to Nonprofit Leadership22:07 Humanizing LGBTQ+ Advocacy25:41 The Importance of Inclusivity in Sports27:56 The Movement for Fairness and Progress30:18 Navigating Challenges and Building Resilience32:55 Trans Rights and Community Support36:31 The Role of Advocacy and Personal Growth40:27 Living Authentically and Finding Fulfillment

  2. Oct 21

    Dr. Lorri Sulpizio

    What does it take to be fully yourself in your relationships, your family, and the rooms where your voice matters? In this episode of Living OUT Loud, I’m joined by Dr. Lorri Sulpizio, leadership educator, coach, former college basketball coach, and queer mom, for a heartfelt conversation about identity, belonging, and the courage to show up honestly. Together, we explore finding our voices without shrinking ourselves, building connection through difficult conversations, and what parenting can teach us about listening, love, and letting go of having all the answers. Lorri brings wisdom, warmth, and a queer perspective to the ways we lead, love, and make room for one another. For anyone who has ever held back a part of themselves to feel accepted, this conversation is an invitation to consider what becomes possible when we feel safe enough to be seen. Learn more about Lorri at lorrisulpizio.com. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lorrisulpizio/

  3. Oct 14

    Your Dating Life Is Not Someone Else's Entertainment

    Your Dating Life Is Not Someone Else's Entertainment | Living OUT Loud When did trying to find love become something people should be embarrassed about? We've gotten pretty comfortable sharing screenshots of dating profiles, awkward introductions, and private messages in Facebook groups and online communities. Sometimes it's about protecting one another. But other times? It's simply entertainment at someone else's expense. And I think we need to talk about that. In this week's Living OUT Loud solocast, I'm exploring something that's been weighing on my heart, especially within our lesbian and LGBTQ+ dating communities. Behind every dating profile is a real person. Someone who may be coming out later in life, dating after heartbreak, or finding the courage to put themselves out there again. There's a difference between accountability and cruelty. And kindness doesn't mean lowering your standards. We can recognize red flags, protect ourselves, establish healthy boundaries, and still treat people with dignity. So here's my question: Are we creating dating spaces where vulnerability feels safe, or are we making people afraid to show up as themselves? Because finding love is hard enough without becoming someone else's punchline. Let's have this conversation. I'd genuinely love to hear where you believe the line should be drawn. 🎙️ Living OUT Loud with Michele Flamer #LivingOUTLoud #LesbianDating #QueerDating #LGBTQCommunity #DatingWithIntention #KindnessMatters

  4. Oct 7

    Scott Wells

    What do meeting a serial killer and befriending Rosa Parks have in common? For Scott Wells, they’re both chapters in one extraordinary life. On this episode of Living OUT Loud, I sit down with author Scott Wells for a conversation that went places I never expected. Scott takes us back to a chilling encounter with a man he would later believe was serial killer Robert Durst, an experience that ultimately helped inspire his novel Phantom Ranch. But then there’s another remarkable chapter of Scott’s life. Years earlier, while serving his mission, Scott met and befriended the legendary Rosa Parks. Yes, that Rosa Parks. And hearing him talk about the woman behind the history books, and the impact she had on him personally, is something I won't soon forget. But this conversation is about more than the famous people Scott has crossed paths with. We talk about being gay, faith and identity, family, belonging, the stories we carry, the wild places that call us back to ourselves, and why certain encounters can change the trajectory of our lives forever. Some people have a story. Scott Wells seems to have lived several of them. This is one of those Living OUT Loud conversations that reminds us that we never really know which person, moment, or unexpected turn will become part of the story of who we eventually become. 🎙️ Living OUT Loud with Michele Flamer-Powell Guest: Scott Wells, author of Phantom Ranch Takeaways Embracing personal truthThe impact of formative experiences. Coming out is a lifelong journeyWriting can facilitate self-expressionhttps://www.scottwellsauthor.com/ Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Scott Wells02:53 Scott's Early Life and Mission05:49 Life-Changing Encounters12:30 Reflections on Rosa Parks17:50 Coming to Terms with Identity24:36 Navigating Relationships and Regrets32:17 The Journey of Coming Out35:44 The Experience of Writing a Book46:08 The Grand Canyon: A Magical Place51:50 Living Out Loud: Embracing Authenticity

  5. Sep 30

    Your Voice. Your Vote. Our Future.

    In this important Solocast, Michele Flamer emphasizes the critical importance of voting and political engagement, particularly for the LGBTQ community. She discusses the upcoming elections, the impact of local and state decisions, and encourages listeners to be informed and active participants in democracy. Here’s your homework. And I promise it’s not complicated. 1. Check your voter registration. 2. Find your ballot. 3. Research the candidates and ballot measures. 4. Make a voting plan. Check here to see if you are registered. Another place to check: https://www.usa.gov/confirm-voter-registration Takeaways Importance of votingEngagement in democracy Chapters 00:00 The Importance of Showing Up05:09 Understanding the Ballot11:01 Engaging with Politics16:07 The Power of Participation21:03 Visibility at the Ballot Box

  6. Sep 23

    Michele - Solocast

    Hey single people!! Michele was excited to share this Solocast. It discusses healthy relationships and self-love, emphasizing the importance of self-knowledge and boundary-setting. She also introduces the 'relationship reset' workshop and shares insights on building a life that feels aligned with the love one desires. Takeaways Self-love and healthy relationships require knowing oneself and setting boundaries.Being single is not a waiting room for real life; it's about building a life that feels aligned with the love one desires.MicheleFlamer.com Thanks for listening, and please share this episode. You can find me on TikTok, Instagram, and Facebook. Chapters: 00:00 Introducing Relationship Reset01:13 The Question of Self-Discovery05:30 The Concept of Compatibility09:55 Being Your Whole Self13:03 Healthy Love and Partnership24:51 Building a Life Aligned with Love

  7. Sep 16

    Liz Burke + Michele

    This episode, Liz is back and the conversation explores the experience of introducing a partner to one's family and friends, the dynamics of chosen family, and the impact of meeting each other's people. It delves into the significance of blending lives, the nervousness and excitement of meeting loved ones, and the evolution of relationships within different social circles. The conversation explores the theme of maintaining tenderness in a relationship and the importance of setting boundaries with family. It delves into the significance of self-care and sovereignty in nurturing a loving connection. Takeaways Chosen family dynamicsNavigating nervousness and excitementThe evolution of relationships within different social circles Tenderness within a relationship is nurtured by staying tender-hearted with oneself first.Setting boundaries with family is crucial for maintaining a healthy relationship and prioritizing the couple's well-being. Find us on social media. Relationship Ready Lesbians - Jump on the waitlist TikTok Instagram LizBurke.com MicheleFlamer.com Chapters 00:00 Introducing Your Partner to Your People02:26 Blending Lives and Chosen Family Dynamics03:10 Navigating Nervousness and Excitement05:22 The Evolution of Relationships Within Different Social Circles09:49 The Impact of Meeting Each Other's People16:02 Maintaining Love Amidst the Inclusion of Family, Friends, and Histories20:34 Maintaining Tenderness in a Relationship29:18 The Importance of Setting Boundaries with Family

  8. Sep 9

    Darrell Wood

    What if healing could happen somewhere beyond the hospital room? In this episode of Living OUT Loud, I sit down with Darrell Wood, founder and executive director of Cues For Cancer, a nonprofit using the power of musical theater to bring hope, connection, and moments of joy to individuals and families facing cancer. Darrell believes that while medicine treats the body, people also need something that reminds them who they are beyond the diagnosis. We talk about what inspired him to turn creativity into service, the realities of building a mission-driven organization from the ground up, and why the arts deserve a much bigger place in our conversations about healing. We also explore the loneliness that can accompany cancer, the importance of giving families moments where they can simply be human again, and Darrell's belief that hope isn't a luxury. It's part of the medicine. This is a conversation about cancer, but even more than that, it's about purpose, creativity, resilience, and what becomes possible when we use the gifts we've been given to show up for someone else. Because sometimes healing isn't about changing what we're going through. Sometimes it's about remembering we're not going through it alone. #CuesForCancer #LivingOUTLoudPodcast #HealingThroughTheArts #CancerSupport #PurposeDriven

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Living OUT Loud with Michele Flamer is a space for courage, truth, and belonging. The podcast celebrates Queer voices and the people in our communities who are living out loud with intention. Each episode lifts up authentic stories of self-discovery, purpose, and the moments that shaped who we become. Michele welcomes a wide range of guests who are opening doors and extending their hearts. From everyday heroes to community organizers, from artists and authors to politicians and advocates, these conversations honor the resilience and bravery found in Queer communities across the country. Together, they explore what it means to lead with vulnerability, to create connection, and to stand firmly in our truth. Through honest conversation, curiosity, and compassion, Michele invites listeners to reflect on their own stories and the power of showing up as their whole selves. Because when we live out loud, we create space for others to do the same. Thanks for listening and sharing.  Stay Loud and Stay Proud!  Michele

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  • Creator
    michele flamer
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    186
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 michele flamer
  • Show Website
    Living OUT Loud Podcast

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