Running Man Self Regulation Skills Project

Armando Dominguez PhD Health Psychology, Educator, Martial Artist, Researcher

Understanding Stress, Anxiety, and Decision-Making: Unveiling Your Paleo-Caveperson Wiring Explore the fascinating interplay of stress, anxiety, and pain on our ability to think, choose, and act in modern life through the lens of our paleo-caveperson wiring and survival programming. Discover why we sometimes exhibit socially inappropriate behaviors under stress and find it challenging to make sound decisions in tense situations. Gain insights from psychology, neuropsychology, physiology, sociology, biology, and social dynamics, explained in everyday language without overwhelming scientific jargon. Tell me what you would like to hear on the podcast and your feedback is appreciated: runningmangetskillsproject@gmail.com  rogue musician/creator located at lazyman 2303 on youtube.     Music intro and outro: Jonathan Dominguez  You can Support the running man self regulation skill project at:  https://www.buzzsprout.com/2216464/support

  1. Confidence Under Pressure: The Skill Most People Never Train

    51M AGO

    Confidence Under Pressure: The Skill Most People Never Train

    Ep 140. In a stressful life, confidence can feel like a fragile commodity. When stress, fear, and anxiety become frequent visitors in our personal world, our sense of certainty and control can disappear quickly. The human nervous system is constantly scanning the environment for signals of safety or threat. Every moment, our internal state responds to cues from the outside world, telling us whether we are secure or at risk. Because of this, confidence is not simply a personality trait—it is often the result of nervous system regulation and emotional resilience. This is where self-regulation skills become essential. Self-regulation allows us to navigate both high-stress situations and everyday experiences with greater clarity, composure, and control. When we learn how to manage our breathing, focus our attention, and regulate emotional responses, we create the internal conditions necessary for better decision-making, stronger relationships, and higher-quality experiences in life. But developing self-regulation is not as simple as telling ourselves, “Next time I feel anxious, I’ll just breathe and everything will be fine.” Real skill development does not happen through wishful thinking. It happens through practice. Just like riding a bicycle, learning a new language, swimming, or mastering a piece of software, emotional regulation requires repetition and training. Over time, deliberate practice builds familiarity within the nervous system. What once felt overwhelming begins to feel manageable. What once caused hesitation or avoidance begins to feel like a challenge we can face with composure. This process is known as building conscious competence. Through repeated exposure and intentional practice, the mind and body begin to understand how to respond effectively under pressure. Eventually, something powerful happens: confidence begins to emerge naturally. When we have practiced self-regulation during low-stakes moments—through breathing techniques, awareness training, and emotional control—our nervous system becomes prepared for higher-stakes situations. Stressful environments that once caused fear, anxiety, or avoidance begin to feel more navigable. Over time, the skills become second nature. We begin to walk into situations that once triggered stress with greater ease and clarity. Confidence is no longer something we hope for—it becomes something we carry with us, built through experience and practice. The path is simple, though not always easy:  Practice the skill until the skill becomes who you are. Take care. Walk well. Hey folks, let me know what you think about the Running Man Podcast. Let me know where you're from and how you are doing in your little part of the world! Support the show intro outro music for episodes 1 through 111 done by Jonathan Dominguez Rogue musician. He can be found on youtube at Lazyman2303. New musical intro and outro music created by Ed Fernandez guitarist extraordinaire. To get in contact with Ed please send me an email at runningmangetskillsproject@gmail.com and I will forward him the contact. Donations are not expected but most certainly appreciated. Any funds will go toward further development of the podcast for equipment as we we grow the podcast. Many thanks in advance. https://www.buzzsprout.com/2216464/support

    31 min
  2. Time Poverty vs Flow State: Mastering Your Experience of Time

    MAR 7

    Time Poverty vs Flow State: Mastering Your Experience of Time

    Ep 139. Time is one of the most powerful forces shaping human experience. Yet most people feel as though they never have enough of it. Deadlines, responsibilities, emergencies, and perceived threats create a psychological compression of time. In moments of urgency or danger, the nervous system shifts into survival mode, and our sense of time becomes intensified. Seconds feel precious, decisions feel heavier, and pressure increases. But the human experience of time is not fixed—it is deeply influenced by our state of awareness, emotional regulation, and perception. When we are in harmony with time, life feels different. Instead of urgency and pressure, we experience flow—a state where attention becomes fully engaged in the present moment. In this state, time can feel expansive. Minutes pass gently. Creativity increases. Gratitude and curiosity arise naturally. Rather than feeling rushed, we feel grounded, focused, and connected to what we are doing. Psychologists sometimes describe the opposite experience as “time poverty.” When we feel time-poor, our awareness is dominated by the sense that time is slipping away too quickly. We become trapped in what could be called uptime awareness—constantly watching the clock, anticipating the next obligation, and feeling that there is never enough space to breathe. Fortunately, our relationship with time can be trained. Practices such as mindfulness, gratitude, present-moment awareness, and intentional focus can expand our subjective experience of time. When we cultivate appreciation and presence, the mind slows down enough to perceive more detail, more opportunity, and more possibility within each moment. Over time, this becomes a skill. Learning to regulate our perception of time allows us to perform better under pressure and experience greater enjoyment in daily life. This ability becomes a powerful resource for self-regulation, emotional control, and performance across many domains—including work, athletics, martial arts training, self-defense, learning environments, and academic performance. Mastering time is not about controlling the clock. It is about mastering the state of mind that experiences it. With awareness, intention, and practice, time can move from being a source of pressure to becoming a resource for clarity, resilience, and grace under pressure. Take care. Walk well. Hey folks, let me know what you think about the Running Man Podcast. Let me know where you're from and how you are doing in your little part of the world! Support the show intro outro music for episodes 1 through 111 done by Jonathan Dominguez Rogue musician. He can be found on youtube at Lazyman2303. New musical intro and outro music created by Ed Fernandez guitarist extraordinaire. To get in contact with Ed please send me an email at runningmangetskillsproject@gmail.com and I will forward him the contact. Donations are not expected but most certainly appreciated. Any funds will go toward further development of the podcast for equipment as we we grow the podcast. Many thanks in advance. https://www.buzzsprout.com/2216464/support

    25 min
  3. The Truth About Reinventing Yourself: How Dreams Transform Identity

    FEB 21

    The Truth About Reinventing Yourself: How Dreams Transform Identity

    Ep 138. Achieving a dream is never a single moment—it is the culmination of sustained effort, sacrifice, discipline, and unwavering direction. It represents the gradual construction of a new level of skill, capability, confidence, and identity. What appears externally as success is internally the result of thousands of unseen decisions, moments of resilience, and acts of courage. Every transformation begins with a single step. The process is not instantaneous—it is a journey of personal growth, skill acquisition, and psychological evolution. Many people describe this process as “reinventing themselves,” but in truth, we do not become someone else. We become a deeper, more capable, more refined version of who we have always been. Through challenge, adversity, and persistence, knowledge accumulates. Experience sharpens perception. Courage strengthens identity. Transformation is not replacement—it is expansion. Like the caterpillar that becomes the butterfly, the human being evolves by degree and magnitude. The same core individual remains, but elevated by discipline, awareness, and earned competence. The person who began the journey and the person who completes it are connected by effort—but separated by growth. When we reach what once appeared to be the pinnacle, we discover it is not an endpoint. It is a platform. A foundation from which to build further excellence, deeper mastery, and meaningful contribution. True achievement is not arrival—it is readiness for the next ascent. This is where purpose expands beyond the self. Those who have walked the path of growth gain the ability to mentor, guide, and inspire others. They become living proof that transformation is possible. They bring value, encouragement, and clarity to those who feel confined by limitation or mediocrity. Personal mastery creates leaders. Leaders create possibility. Possibility creates generational change. Growth is earned through courage. Identity is shaped through action. Destiny is revealed through persistence. Become who your effort has prepared you to be. Take care. Become. Walk well. Hey folks, let me know what you think about the Running Man Podcast. Let me know where you're from and how you are doing in your little part of the world! Support the show intro outro music for episodes 1 through 111 done by Jonathan Dominguez Rogue musician. He can be found on youtube at Lazyman2303. New musical intro and outro music created by Ed Fernandez guitarist extraordinaire. To get in contact with Ed please send me an email at runningmangetskillsproject@gmail.com and I will forward him the contact. Donations are not expected but most certainly appreciated. Any funds will go toward further development of the podcast for equipment as we we grow the podcast. Many thanks in advance. https://www.buzzsprout.com/2216464/support

    30 min
  4. Fix Your Sleep, Fix Your Life: The Science of Rest, Recovery, and Resilience

    FEB 8

    Fix Your Sleep, Fix Your Life: The Science of Rest, Recovery, and Resilience

    Ep 137. Sleep, hydration, and nutrition are the three foundations of human survival and performance. No matter where we live or what challenges we face, every person depends on quality rest, clean water, and healthy food to function, adapt, and thrive. Among these essentials, sleep is the most powerful and often the most neglected. Sleep directly affects physical health, emotional balance, cognitive performance, and nervous system regulation. When sleep is disrupted by insomnia, stress, or irregular schedules, cortisol levels rise, inflammation increases, and the body enters a state of chronic survival mode. Over time, poor sleep creates a cascade of downstream health problems—fatigue, anxiety, weakened immunity, impaired focus, mood instability, and reduced emotional resilience. As sleep quality declines, so does our ability to self-regulate, manage stress, and maintain psychological well-being. Substances such as alcohol, THC, and excessive use of sleep supplements like melatonin can interfere with natural sleep architecture. While they may seem helpful in the short term, they often disrupt REM cycles, increase vivid dreams or nightmares, and reduce deep restorative sleep. For individuals with sleep-disordered breathing, CPAP therapy has been associated with improved sleep quality, reduced nightmares, lower cortisol levels, and better long-term health outcomes. Restoring healthy breathing during sleep allows the nervous system to exit chronic alert mode and return to baseline regulation. More than any supplement, stimulant, or productivity hack, sleep remains the most effective performance enhancer available. It accelerates physical recovery, strengthens emotional resilience, sharpens decision-making, and supports long-term mental clarity. When you protect your sleep, you protect your health, your focus, and your capacity to live with intention. Take care, and walk well. Hey folks, let me know what you think about the Running Man Podcast. Let me know where you're from and how you are doing in your little part of the world! Support the show intro outro music for episodes 1 through 111 done by Jonathan Dominguez Rogue musician. He can be found on youtube at Lazyman2303. New musical intro and outro music created by Ed Fernandez guitarist extraordinaire. To get in contact with Ed please send me an email at runningmangetskillsproject@gmail.com and I will forward him the contact. Donations are not expected but most certainly appreciated. Any funds will go toward further development of the podcast for equipment as we we grow the podcast. Many thanks in advance. https://www.buzzsprout.com/2216464/support

    28 min
  5. Welcome to the Machine: Escaping Algorithmic Control Through Awareness

    FEB 1

    Welcome to the Machine: Escaping Algorithmic Control Through Awareness

    Ep 136. Evolution is one of the most powerful forces in nature. It shapes life through environmental pressure, adaptation, and survival across generations. But what we are witnessing in modern society is not biological evolution in the traditional sense. It is something far faster, far more invasive, and far more psychological: digital conditioning. Today, human perception, attention, emotion, and belief are being shaped continuously by screens, algorithms, social platforms, news cycles, and entertainment feeds. Multiple media interfaces interact with us every day—rewiring how we think, feel, react, and relate. We are watching the evolution of the human mind in real time, both collectively and within our own nervous systems. In this environment, self-awareness, emotional regulation, and mental sovereignty are no longer optional skills. They are essential tools for preserving autonomy in a world that constantly tells us what to desire, fear, consume, believe, and perform. Without conscious regulation, external systems begin to govern internal life. Modern media culture often reflects this tension through darker tones in music, film, and online discourse—echoing the warning embedded in the lyric, “Welcome to the machine.” Yet this story is not destiny. It is not inevitable. Within every day exists a genuine opportunity for freedom, creativity, connection, and renewal. Mindfulness in daily life becomes an act of resistance. It loosens the electronic grip that fuels endless consumption, algorithmic manipulation, and compulsive doom scrolling. When entertainment remains entertainment—rather than emotional hijacking—clarity returns. The human body and mind are not designed for permanent digital immersion. They are designed for movement, sunlight, fresh air, challenge, exploration, curiosity, and wonder. Our biological intelligence thrives through real-world engagement. It is nourished by nature, relationships, play, learning, and embodied experience. What is often sold today as “evolution” is actually imposed adaptation—high-speed behavioral modification marketed as progress. It is rapid compliance disguised as advancement. This narrative must be recognized, questioned, and transformed. True evolution is conscious. It preserves choice. It strengthens discernment. It expands freedom rather than replacing it. Be mindful of the systems you inhabit. Protect your attention. Nourish your humanity. Cultivate awareness. Choose adventure over automation. Presence over programming. Life over simulation. Take care. Be adventurous. Walk well. Hey folks, let me know what you think about the Running Man Podcast. Let me know where you're from and how you are doing in your little part of the world! Support the show intro outro music for episodes 1 through 111 done by Jonathan Dominguez Rogue musician. He can be found on youtube at Lazyman2303. New musical intro and outro music created by Ed Fernandez guitarist extraordinaire. To get in contact with Ed please send me an email at runningmangetskillsproject@gmail.com and I will forward him the contact. Donations are not expected but most certainly appreciated. Any funds will go toward further development of the podcast for equipment as we we grow the podcast. Many thanks in advance. https://www.buzzsprout.com/2216464/support

    30 min
  6. Self-Awareness: The Skill That Controls Stress, Focus, and Emotional Regulation

    JAN 25

    Self-Awareness: The Skill That Controls Stress, Focus, and Emotional Regulation

    Ep 135. Self-awareness is one of the most talked-about concepts in personal development, mental health, wellness, and performance psychology—and for good reason. It is a foundational skill for emotional regulation, stress resilience, peak performance, and healthy relationships. True self-awareness is not just an intellectual concept or a list of cognitive insights. It is a living, physiological process. It is how your nervous system tracks internal state, how your breath patterns shift under pressure, how your body signals safety or threat, and how your mind interprets meaning in each moment. Through practices like conscious breathing, somatic awareness, and mindfulness training, we learn to recognize how our internal state shapes our thoughts, emotions, decisions, and behavior. This awareness allows us to regulate stress, sharpen focus, improve communication, and develop both physical and cognitive skills with greater efficiency. Self-awareness is what allows us to notice when we are reactive instead of responsive, when we are operating from habit instead of intention, and when our emotional state is shaping our perception of reality. It is the bridge between survival mode and conscious choice, between automatic reaction and deliberate action. By learning to observe the present moment—both the intense moments and the quiet spaces in between—we develop the capacity to stay grounded, adaptive, and centered as life unfolds minute by minute, hour by hour, day by day. Take care, and walk well. Hey folks, let me know what you think about the Running Man Podcast. Let me know where you're from and how you are doing in your little part of the world! Support the show intro outro music for episodes 1 through 111 done by Jonathan Dominguez Rogue musician. He can be found on youtube at Lazyman2303. New musical intro and outro music created by Ed Fernandez guitarist extraordinaire. To get in contact with Ed please send me an email at runningmangetskillsproject@gmail.com and I will forward him the contact. Donations are not expected but most certainly appreciated. Any funds will go toward further development of the podcast for equipment as we we grow the podcast. Many thanks in advance. https://www.buzzsprout.com/2216464/support

    28 min
  7. From Wandering to Wisdom: How Real Growth Shapes Identity and Self-Regulation”

    JAN 17

    From Wandering to Wisdom: How Real Growth Shapes Identity and Self-Regulation”

    Ep 134. Across a lifetime, we invest enormous effort into becoming who we are meant to be. We learn, we search, we question, and we explore. We are driven by a deep biological and psychological need to find meaning, purpose, and identity beyond mere survival. This is the human journey of self-development. From childhood to adulthood, the path of growth can carry us far from what once felt like home. It is why the saying “all who wander are not lost” resonates so deeply. For many, wandering is not confusion—it is curiosity, courage, and the instinct to evolve. It is the pursuit of self-discovery, personal growth, and a life that feels authentic. Yet wandering without direction can also bring loneliness, doubt, and the feeling of being unanchored. As we overcome challenges and gain experience, we naturally seek to improve ourselves. We compare, we model, and we learn from those we admire. Emulating mentors and heroes is not weakness—it is one of the oldest learning strategies of the nervous system and the social brain. However, there is a subtle danger in the idea of endlessly “reinventing yourself.” When transformation becomes a way to escape accountability, responsibility, or unresolved parts of our past, the self-image can become inflated, fragmented, or disconnected from reality. True growth is not about erasing who we were, but integrating what shaped us with honesty and clarity. We do not need to confess every chapter of our story, but we must acknowledge it. Self-awareness grounds the nervous system, stabilizes identity, and prevents the mind from constructing grand illusions about who we think we are. Real confidence comes from integration, not denial. Become the best version of your self with Coach Veronika Partikova PhD Sport Psychologist and Sifu in Hung Gar Kung Fu. Your transformation awaits.  Seek out kung fu academic at: https://www.kungfuacademic.com/ Take care, and walk well. Hey folks, let me know what you think about the Running Man Podcast. Let me know where you're from and how you are doing in your little part of the world! Support the show intro outro music for episodes 1 through 111 done by Jonathan Dominguez Rogue musician. He can be found on youtube at Lazyman2303. New musical intro and outro music created by Ed Fernandez guitarist extraordinaire. To get in contact with Ed please send me an email at runningmangetskillsproject@gmail.com and I will forward him the contact. Donations are not expected but most certainly appreciated. Any funds will go toward further development of the podcast for equipment as we we grow the podcast. Many thanks in advance. https://www.buzzsprout.com/2216464/support

    22 min
  8. Movement Is Medicine: Ancient Healing Practices for Modern Longevity

    JAN 7

    Movement Is Medicine: Ancient Healing Practices for Modern Longevity

    Ep 133. A human life is a long journey of learning—how to move, how to nourish the body, how to relate to others socially, and in the modern world, how to function professionally. Survival may be the starting point, but thriving over decades is the real objective. As lifespan has increased in modern times, the question has shifted from how long we live to how well we live. At the foundation of longevity and quality of life lies one essential pillar: physical health. Our ability to think clearly, regulate emotions, recover from stress, and remain engaged with life is deeply rooted in how well we care for the body. Nutrition, movement, sleep, and recovery practices shape not only healthspan but vitality itself. Throughout a lifetime, illness and injury are inevitable. When they arise, healing and recovery become priorities. While modern allopathic medicine has made extraordinary advances in treating acute illness and trauma, there is growing recognition of the importance of self-healing skills, recovery modalities, and complementary health practices that support long-term resilience, mobility, and nervous system regulation. Many of these approaches are not new. For centuries, traditional systems of health in Ancient China and India integrated movement, breath, meditation, manual therapy, and herbal medicine into a unified model of care. Martial arts instructors were often also healers—teaching physical conditioning alongside massage, herbal prescriptions, breathwork, and meditative practices designed to restore balance and vitality.  Today, these time-tested practices continue to support recovery and performance. Modalities such as acupuncture, shiatsu massage, Rolfing, somatic therapy, float tank therapy, meditation, breathwork, and traditional herbal medicine—both internal and external—are increasingly used to enhance healing, joint recovery, mobility, and nervous system regulation.  Among all healing strategies, movement stands as one of the most powerful. Intentional, well-designed movement restores circulation, maintains joint health, improves neurological coordination, and reinforces the body’s natural regenerative processes. Movement is not only exercise—it is medicine. In a world where longevity is increasing, developing skill in recovery, self-regulation, and integrative health is no longer optional. It is essential for living fully, moving well, and sustaining vitality across a lifetime. I fully endorse and encourage you to seek out kung fu academic online! Please go to https://www.kungfuacademic.com/onlinekungfucoaching. You will be pleased with the level of care and quality instruction provided by Sifu in Hung Gar Kung Fu Veronika "Verca" Partikova PhD Sport Psychologist. Look her up you will be pleased by the depth of instruction and your results.  Take care and walk well.  Hey folks, let me know what you think about the Running Man Podcast. Let me know where you're from and how you are doing in your little part of the world! Support the show intro outro music for episodes 1 through 111 done by Jonathan Dominguez Rogue musician. He can be found on youtube at Lazyman2303. New musical intro and outro music created by Ed Fernandez guitarist extraordinaire. To get in contact with Ed please send me an email at runningmangetskillsproject@gmail.com and I will forward him the contact. Donations are not expected but most certainly appreciated. Any funds will go toward further development of the podcast for equipment as we we grow the podcast. Many thanks in advance. https://www.buzzsprout.com/2216464/support

    27 min

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Understanding Stress, Anxiety, and Decision-Making: Unveiling Your Paleo-Caveperson Wiring Explore the fascinating interplay of stress, anxiety, and pain on our ability to think, choose, and act in modern life through the lens of our paleo-caveperson wiring and survival programming. Discover why we sometimes exhibit socially inappropriate behaviors under stress and find it challenging to make sound decisions in tense situations. Gain insights from psychology, neuropsychology, physiology, sociology, biology, and social dynamics, explained in everyday language without overwhelming scientific jargon. Tell me what you would like to hear on the podcast and your feedback is appreciated: runningmangetskillsproject@gmail.com  rogue musician/creator located at lazyman 2303 on youtube.     Music intro and outro: Jonathan Dominguez  You can Support the running man self regulation skill project at:  https://www.buzzsprout.com/2216464/support