The Bari Chronicles

Damien Verner & Tash Jarrett

A weight loss surgery podcast with zero fluff and maximum truth. The Bari Chronicles brings you unfiltered conversations about WLS, obesity, GLP-1 medications, mental health, addiction, relationships, and everything the clinic doesn’t always have time to explain. Hosted by Damo and Tash, two siblings navigating life, loss, and long-term WLS living — each episode dives deep into the realities that shape this journey. Expect expert interviews, lived-experience storytelling, myth-busting moments, and the kind of honesty you only get from people who have been there. Disclaimer: Informational only

  1. Aug 9

    Nobody Told Me: It Wasn’t My Fault

    Who is responsible for our obesity? Is it our parents? Genetics? The food we grew up eating? Diet culture? Trauma? Doctors? Our environment? Or is it us? In this episode of The Bari Chronicles, Damo and Tash tackle one of the most uncomfortable questions in the obesity and metabolic surgery conversation: How did I actually get here, and who is responsible? Growing up surrounded by diet culture, food rules, shame and the constant message that weight was something you simply needed to control, both Damo and Tash spent years believing their bodies were somehow a personal failure. But obesity is far more complicated than that. They talk openly about genetics, childhood experiences, emotional eating, restrictive dieting, the idea of “good” and “bad” foods, and what happens when you spend years blaming yourself for something you never fully understood. They also explore an important distinction: There is a difference between blame and responsibility. We may not be able to identify one person, decision or moment that caused obesity. And metabolic surgery, medication or weight loss doesn't necessarily mean obesity has been permanently “fixed”. But we can decide what happens next. This is a conversation about letting go of shame, accepting the body you have, finding healthcare professionals who actually listen, and taking agency over your health without turning that responsibility into another reason to punish yourself. Because maybe the most important question isn't: “Whose fault is it?” Maybe it's: “What am I going to do from here?”

  2. Jul 26

    Nobody Told Me It Would Change Everything | The Bari Chronicles – Part 2 of 4

    Nobody Told Me It Would Change Everything | The Bari Chronicles – Part 2 of 4 Everyone tells you weight loss surgery will change your life. But no one really explains just how much. In Part 2 of our Nobody Told Me series, Damo and Tash share the unexpected realities that caught them completely off guard after bariatric surgery. From the shock of waking up in pain, learning to eat and drink differently, and navigating embarrassing bathroom changes, to grieving food, changing relationships, loose skin, body image, and discovering who you are without old coping mechanisms—this is the conversation many people wish they'd heard before surgery. This honest and often humorous episode explores the physical, emotional and social changes that don't end once the operation is over. Whether you're preparing for surgery, newly post-op, or years into your journey, you'll probably find yourself saying, "Nobody told me that." In this episode, we discuss: The realities of recovery that no one prepares you forLearning to eat, drink and live differentlyGrieving the loss of food and your old routinesHow surgery changes relationships with family, friends and yourselfLoose skin, body image and plastic surgeryIdentity shifts and finding new coping strategiesWhy every bariatric journey is uniqueThis is a conversation about the parts of bariatric surgery that aren't in the brochure—but should be.

    Nobody Told Me It Would Change Everything | The Bari Chronicles – Part 2 of 4

  3. Jul 5

    Nobody Told Me I Wasn't Prepared

    Everyone tells you how to prepare for bariatric surgery. Follow the pre-op diet. Pack your hospital bag. Drink your protein shakes. But what if that's only preparing you for the 45-minute operation—not the life that follows? In the first episode of our four-part Nobody Told Me series, Damo and Tash look back on what they thought weight loss surgery would be like... and how wrong they were. Together they share the moments that led them to surgery, the fears they had the night before, and the reality that no amount of information could have prepared them for the emotional, mental and lifestyle changes that came afterwards. In this episode we discuss:• The life-changing moments that made us choose surgery• Why we believed surgery would "fix everything"• The difference between preparing for an operation and preparing for a new life• The misconceptions we both had before surgery• Why education needs to go far beyond the pre-op diet• How this conversation sets the stage for the rest of the Nobody Told Me series If you're considering bariatric surgery, waiting for surgery, or even years down the track, this episode will make you think differently about what it really means to be prepared. Because the surgery only lasts an hour. Learning how to live afterwards lasts a lifetime.

  4. Jun 6

    Dignity at Every Size

    In this powerful episode of The Bari Chronicles, Damo and Tash tackle the ongoing issue of weight stigma in healthcare and why so many people living in larger bodies avoid seeking medical treatment altogether. Recorded at the Digital Health Festival in Melbourne, this honest conversation explores the emotional impact of being judged, shamed, or dismissed in medical settings. From public weigh-ins to inaccessible seating and the assumption that every health issue is simply “because of weight,” Damo and Tash share why dignity, compassion, and lived experience must become part of the conversation in healthcare. They discuss the importance of creating truly inclusive healthcare spaces, protecting patient dignity, and listening to the voices of people who have lived with obesity. This episode is a reminder that everybody deserves respectful, compassionate care — regardless of their size. If you’ve ever delayed medical treatment because of fear, shame, or stigma, this episode is for you. We’d also love to hear your story.

  5. May 17

    When Food Is More Than Food: Grief, Chocolate & Life After Bariatric Surgery

    In this deeply personal episode of Bariatric Support Australia’s The Bari Chronicles, Damien and Tash open up about the emotional relationship many people have with food after bariatric surgery. From childhood memories tied to Easter chocolate, to food noise, grief, shame, addiction, and learning what moderation really means — this is an honest conversation about the realities of life years after surgery. They discuss how surgery changes the body, but not always the emotional connections we have with food, and why psychological support, self-awareness, and self-compassion are so important on the long-term journey. This episode is raw, reflective, and filled with lived experience that many in the bariatric community will deeply relate to.

  6. May 3

    We're Back — Surgery, Life & Easter on The Bari Chronicles

    After a bit of a hiatus (life has a way of doing that), Tash and Damo are finally back together for a long-overdue catch-up. In this episode, they get real about what's been going on behind the scenes — Damo's recent surgery and a pretty scary complication with a partially collapsed lung, Tash navigating nine weeks post-op life, and all the big life stuff in between, including their dad returning home after four months in Fiji following the loss of their mum. They also dig into what Easter looks like when you're on a bariatric journey — the moderation debate, food plans, emotional eating, and why having a plan matters. It's honest, it's heartfelt, and it's so good to be back.

  7. Apr 19

    Loose Skin Isn’t Cosmetic: The Hidden Reality After Massive Weight Loss

    For many people, the journey doesn’t end after weight loss surgery… it evolves. In this episode, we sit down with Dr Qiuye Cheng to unpack one of the most overlooked parts of the bariatric journey — excess skin and the reality of skin removal surgery. We go beyond the surface conversation and get real about what this actually looks like in day-to-day life. This is not about aesthetics. This is about function, comfort, and quality of life. We discuss:• Why excess skin can become a serious medical issue — not just cosmetic• The physical realities: tearing, rashes, infections, and limitations on movement • The psychological toll and stigma that still exists• Why so many people are unprepared for this stage of the journey• The true cost barriers and lack of access through the public system• What procedures like tummy tucks and 360 body lifts actually involve• When the right time is to consider skin removal (and why most people rush it)• The importance of realistic expectations and understanding your body We also share raw lived experiences — including complications, multiple surgeries, and the reality that outcomes don’t always match expectations. This is one of the most honest conversations we’ve had about life after massive weight loss. Because this part matters just as much as the surgery itself.

  8. Apr 9

    “Reflux, Regain, and Reality: What Actually Happens After Bariatric Surgery”

    A raw and honest conversation filmed inside Austin Health with surgeon Dr Alex Craven about what really happens after bariatric surgery. This isn’t the polished version people usually see. We unpack long-term reflux, weight regain, and the emotional spiral that can come with it. The part where you think you’ve failed… even when you’ve actually achieved more than most. We also break down: Why online advice will never replace proper medical assessmentHow surgeons actually think during a consultationThe reality of weight loss outcomes vs expectationsThe role of nutrition, iron deficiency, and energy levelsWhy diabetes changes the entire conversationThe truth about GLP-1 medications and tolerance post-surgeryTelehealth vs face-to-face care and when each mattersThis is about bridging the gap between lived experience and clinical reality. Because what you feel… and what the data says… are often two very different things. If you’ve ever questioned your results, struggled with reflux, or felt like you’ve “blown it” after surgery, this conversation will hit home.

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A weight loss surgery podcast with zero fluff and maximum truth. The Bari Chronicles brings you unfiltered conversations about WLS, obesity, GLP-1 medications, mental health, addiction, relationships, and everything the clinic doesn’t always have time to explain. Hosted by Damo and Tash, two siblings navigating life, loss, and long-term WLS living — each episode dives deep into the realities that shape this journey. Expect expert interviews, lived-experience storytelling, myth-busting moments, and the kind of honesty you only get from people who have been there. Disclaimer: Informational only

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  • Creator
    Damien Verner & Tash Jarrett
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    128
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Damien Verner & Tash Jarrett
  • Show Website
    The Bari Chronicles

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