Hella Chisme Podcast

Hella Chisme Podcast

Hella Chisme Podcast is where unfiltered storytelling meets bold conversation. This show serves up juicy chisme while diving deep into the chaos and beauty of everyday life. From sex, dating, and marriage to pop culture, spirituality, and everything in between — no topic is off-limits. Through a strong lens on identity, culture, and connection, Dana and friends keep it real for a community of listeners who are curious, culturally fluent, and down for the ride. 

  1. 2d ago ·  Video

    The Monolith Myth

    Join in the conversation! Enjoy this clip from episode 104! The discussion centers on the phrase "we are not a monolith" as it's used in online discourse, especially within the Black gay community. Main points: The contradiction: Despite preaching individuality, there's still pressure to fit a specific mold — those who don't match the expected "blueprint" often get pushed aside.What the phrase usually means: It's typically invoked to push back against stereotypes — like the assumption that all Black gay men or POC live the same lifestyle (constant clubbing, socializing, etc.).The critique: One speaker challenges the phrase itself, arguing it should really be "I am not a monolith" rather than "we," since so many people seem to follow the same patterns anyway. They suggest it's become more of an empty buzzword than a reflection of actual diversity.The nuance: The group lands somewhere in between — people can have layers and aren't defined by one experience, but they also acknowledge that certain habits (partying, hookup culture) genuinely are common within the Black gay diaspora, even if not universal or permanent for everyone.Essentially, it's a self-reflective conversation questioning whether a popular phrase about diversity actually holds up against observed community patterns, or if it's become a defensive catchphrase. 🎙️ Hella Chisme Podcast: 📸 Instagram: @HellaChismePod 🎵 TikTok: @HellaChisme  ▶️ YouTube: Hella Chisme Podcast 📩 Guest inquiries: chismehellapod@gmail.com LINK: https://linktr.ee/hellachismepodcast Find Just Drawz:   Just Drawz Podcast  https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/ https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/ Topics to include: gay community monolith, LGBTQ conformity, gay male identity, queer individuality, gay masculinity femininity, desirability politics gay men, gay dating culture, gay dating apps, gay relationship patterns, ghosting gay community, gay nightlife culture, gay bar culture, LGBTQ surveillance culture, queer creator expectations, Black gay men podcast, gay men race representation, gay community division, gay social dynamics, Lock Pencil Drop game, crossover podcast episode, Hella Drawz, Hella Chisme Podcast, Just Drawz Podcast, KKlothesminded, LGBTQ+ podcast 2026, queer podcast crossover, gay men talking honestly, queer masculinity, gay hypermasculinity, no fats no fems culture, gay chosen family, queer social media culture, LGBTQ community care, gay validation culture, queer nightlife, circuit parties gay culture, gay men friendship, performative queerness, raw vulnerable podcast Support the show Follow Hella Chisme for more culture, conversation, and creative storytelling. Subscribe on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube, and keep up with us on Instagram, Threads, and TikTok at @hellachismepod.  Join the chisme, share the episode, and leave a review or comment to support the show.

    9 min
  2. Jun 26

    Hella Drawz - Are We REALLY a Monolith? Gay Culture, Conformity & The Unspoken Rules Nobody Talks About ft. Just Drawz

    Join in the conversation! Welcome to another episode of the Hella Chisme Podcast… but not just any episode, an episode crossover. Three podcasters. One crossover. Zero safe answers. Dana from the Hella Chisme Podcast, Jeff from Just Drawz, and Darius (DMC) from KKlothesminded come together for Hella Drawz, a raw, unfiltered, family reunion energy crossover episode asking the question the gay community has been dancing around: Are we REALLY not a monolith, or do we just say that? We're getting into all of it. The pressure to conform inside queer spaces. Why masculinity is still prized and femininity is merely tolerated. How race and layered identity shape who gets to feel "seen" in the community. The desirability politics that run gay dating culture. Surveillance culture and what we expect from our queer creators. And the nightlife and social infrastructure that keeps us outside but emotionally exhausted. Then we play Lock, Pencil, Drop,  putting dating habits, party culture, social media behavior, and unspoken community rules on the table and deciding what we're keeping, what conditions, and what we're letting go. For good. This is the conversation that happens when people stop performing and start being honest. No perfectly polished takes. Just three queer voices keeping it RVSD, raw, vulnerable, stripped down. Whether you came for the chisme or the Just Drawz… welcome home. 🎙️ Hella Chisme Podcast: 📸 Instagram: @HellaChismePod 🎵 TikTok: @HellaChisme  ▶️ YouTube: Hella Chisme Podcast 📩 Guest inquiries: chismehellapod@gmail.com LINK: https://linktr.ee/hellachismepodcast Find Just Drawz:   Just Drawz Podcast  https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/ https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/ Topics to include: gay community monolith, LGBTQ conformity, gay male identity, queer individuality, gay masculinity femininity, desirability politics gay men, gay dating culture, gay dating apps, gay relationship patterns, ghosting gay community, gay nightlife culture, gay bar culture, LGBTQ surveillance culture, queer creator expectations, Black gay men podcast, gay men race representation, gay community division, gay social dynamics, Lock Pencil Drop game, crossover podcast episode, Hella Drawz, Hella Chisme Podcast, Just Drawz Podcast, KKlothesminded, LGBTQ+ podcast 2026, queer podcast crossover, gay men talking honestly, queer masculinity, gay hypermasculinity, no fats no fems culture, gay chosen family, queer social media culture, LGBTQ community care, gay validation culture, queer nightlife, circuit parties gay culture, gay men friendship, performative queerness, raw vulnerable podcast Support the show Follow Hella Chisme for more culture, conversation, and creative storytelling. Subscribe on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube, and keep up with us on Instagram, Threads, and TikTok at @hellachismepod.  Join the chisme, share the episode, and leave a review or comment to support the show.

    2h 28m
  3. Jun 12

    Queer Pride Parade - Community Care, Trans Advocacy & What Real Allyship Looks Like ft. Ben Greene

    Join in the conversation! Welcome back to another episode of the Hella Chisme Podcast. Happy Pride Month, Cheese Mates. This one is for the community, all of it. This week, host Dana sits down with internationally recognized transgender advocate, educator, and storyteller Ben Greene for a deep, honest, and joy-filled conversation about what it really means to show up for one another, especially right now. We talk about community care beyond the buzzword. We talk about the very real divide happening inside the LGBTQIA+ community between the gay community and the trans community  and why that conversation is long overdue. We talk about advocacy fatigue, what it feels like to be the only person speaking up in a room, and how queer people keep finding ways to heal collectively even when the world keeps making it harder. We play "Who's In Your Chosen Family?"  a love letter to all the roles queer people play for each other. We built the Official Queer Survival Kit for 2026. And we close with a community check-in that asks the questions we need to sit with after the parades are over. Ben Greene is the author of My Child is Trans, Now What? A Joy-Centered Approach to Support, creator of the Substack Good Queer News, a GLAAD Media Award nominee, and a relentless voice for trans youth and their families at the Missouri State Capitol and beyond. Pride is not just visibility. It's protection. It's my responsibility. It's love that refuses to disappear. San Diego Pride is July 17th — let's celebrate all the way there. 📸 Instagram: @HellaChismePod 🎵 TikTok: @HellaChisme  ▶️ YouTube: Hella Chisme Podcast 📚 Find Ben Greene: Good Queer News on Substack | My Child is Trans, Now What? 📩 Guest inquiries: chismehellapod@gmail.com LINK: https://linktr.ee/hellachismepodcast Topics to include: LGBTQ+ Pride Month 2026, Pride Month podcast, transgender advocacy, trans rights 2026, community care queer community, Ben Greene transgender educator, My Child is Trans Now What, Good Queer News Substack, GLAAD Media Award nominee, trans allyship, queer chosen family, LGBTQIA+ division, trans community support, advocacy burnout, queer healing, queer joy as resistance, Stonewall history, Pride Month history, San Diego Pride 2026, LGBTQ+ mental health, queer survival, Black queer community, trans youth advocacy, mutual aid LGBTQ, chosen family podcast, intersectionality LGBTQ, queer community care, trans inclusion, real allyship, queer podcast interview, Pride special episode, Hella Chisme Podcast, Dana podcast host, San Diego podcast Support the show Follow Hella Chisme for more culture, conversation, and creative storytelling. Subscribe on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube, and keep up with us on Instagram, Threads, and TikTok at @hellachismepod.  Join the chisme, share the episode, and leave a review or comment to support the show.

    1h 45m
  4. Jun 12 ·  Video

    Good Queer News

    Join in the conversation! Enjoy this Clip of the lates episode of the Hella Chisme Podcast.  Queer Pride Parade - Community Care, Trans Advocacy & What Real Allyship Looks Like ft. Ben Greene This week, host Dana sits down with internationally recognized transgender advocate, educator, and storyteller Ben Greene for a deep, honest, and joy-filled conversation about what it really means to show up for one another, especially right now. We talk about community care beyond the buzzword. We talk about the very real divide happening inside the LGBTQIA+ community between the gay community and the trans community  and why that conversation is long overdue. We talk about advocacy fatigue, what it feels like to be the only person speaking up in a room, and how queer people keep finding ways to heal collectively even when the world keeps making it harder. We play "Who's In Your Chosen Family?"  a love letter to all the roles queer people play for each other. We built the Official Queer Survival Kit for 2026. And we close with a community check-in that asks the questions we need to sit with after the parades are over. Ben Greene is the author of My Child is Trans, Now What? A Joy-Centered Approach to Support, creator of the Substack Good Queer News, a GLAAD Media Award nominee, and a relentless voice for trans youth and their families at the Missouri State Capitol and beyond. Pride is not just visibility. It's protection. It's my responsibility. It's love that refuses to disappear. San Diego Pride is July 17th — let's celebrate all the way there. 📸 Instagram: @HellaChismePod 🎵 TikTok: @HellaChisme  ▶️ YouTube: Hella Chisme Podcast 📚 Find Ben Greene: Good Queer News on Substack | My Child is Trans, Now What? 📩 Guest inquiries: chismehellapod@gmail.com LINK: https://linktr.ee/hellachismepodcast Topics to include: LGBTQ+ Pride Month 2026, Pride Month podcast, transgender advocacy, trans rights 2026, community care queer community, Ben Greene transgender educator, My Child is Trans Now What, Good Queer News Substack, GLAAD Media Award nominee, trans allyship, queer chosen family, LGBTQIA+ division, trans community support, advocacy burnout, queer healing, queer joy as resistance, Stonewall history, Pride Month history, San Diego Pride 2026, LGBTQ+ mental health, queer survival, Black queer community, trans youth advocacy, mutual aid LGBTQ, chosen family podcast, intersectionality LGBTQ, queer community care, trans inclusion, real allyship, queer podcast interview, Pride special episode, Hella Chisme Podcast, Dana podcast host, San Diego podcast Support the show Follow Hella Chisme for more culture, conversation, and creative storytelling. Subscribe on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube, and keep up with us on Instagram, Threads, and TikTok at @hellachismepod.  Join the chisme, share the episode, and leave a review or comment to support the show.

    9 min
  5. May 22

    Hooking My Bait

    Join in the conversation! Welcome back to another episode of the Hella Chisme Podcast This week we're celebrating everything May has to offer: International Day Against Homophobia, Biphobia & Transphobia (IDAHOBIT), Harvey Milk Day, Pansexual & Pan-Romantic Awareness Day, AANHPI Heritage Month, and National Military Appreciation Month. We also check in on the reality of Pride Season funding cuts including what happened at Long Beach Pride and hold space for the complicated weight of what's going on in the world right now. Then we switch gears and do what we do best: a free-for-all, shoot-the-sh*t episode with your host sipping a tequila mockingbird, recording live on TikTok for the first time (kind of), and reading the most unhinged, spicy, and absolutely fictional Reddit story you've ever heard featuring a fisherman named Hank, a Christmas tree musk situation, and a hook that gets set in more ways than one. This one's for the homies. The ones who've been riding since day one. Subscribe, follow, comment, and join the Cheese Mate community — because we're building something beautiful over here and we want you in it. 📍 New 2x's a Month | Hella Chisme Podcast 📩 Collabs & Guests: chismehellapod@gmail.com LINK: https://linktr.ee/hellachismepodcast Topics to include:  LGBTQ+ podcast, IDAHOBIT 2025, Harvey Milk Day, Pansexual Awareness Day, Pan-Romantic Awareness Day, AANHPI Heritage Month, Asian American Pacific Islander Month, National Military Appreciation Month, Pride Season 2025, Long Beach Pride canceled, San Diego Pride funding cuts, queer podcast for Black women, free-for-all podcast episode, Reddit story reaction, gay fiction, tequila mocktail recipe, going live on TikTok, podcast live recording, shoot the shit episode, queer community podcast, LGBTQ+ awareness month, Bay Area LGBTQ history, support queer creators, Black podcasters, independent podcast Support the show Follow Hella Chisme for more culture, conversation, and creative storytelling. Subscribe on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube, and keep up with us on Instagram, Threads, and TikTok at @hellachismepod.  Join the chisme, share the episode, and leave a review or comment to support the show.

    54 min
  6. May 8

    Be Yourself Online? Navigating Social Media & Real Life Ft. Lo

    Join in the conversation! Welcome back to another Episode of the Hella Chisme Podcast.  This week on the Hella Chisme Podcast, Dana and Lo unpack the complicated reality of who we are online versus who we are in real life. From curated Instagram feeds and influencer culture to comparison burnout, online validation, and the pressure to “perform” for the algorithm, this episode dives deep into the digital personas we create and the emotional toll they can take.  The conversation explores everything from social media authenticity and viral culture to content creator burnout, parasocial relationships, online comparison, and the growing pressure to constantly stay visible online. Dana also reflects on podcasting, building Hella Chisme through 100+ episodes, navigating creative consistency, and learning how to create meaningful content without losing yourself in the process. Along the way, the episode blends pop culture commentary, real-life stories, dating conversations, reality TV chaos, and hilarious sibling banter while asking an important question: Are we presenting our real selves online or just the version we think people want to see? If you've ever questioned your worth because of social media, felt burnt out by the algorithm, compared your journey to someone else’s highlight reel, or struggled to balance authenticity with visibility, this conversation is for you. LINK: https://linktr.ee/hellachismepodcast Topics to Include:  social media authenticity, digital identity, online personas, influencer culture, algorithm burnout, podcast growth, content creator burnout, social media pressure, online validation, comparison culture, authenticity online, parasocial relationships, creator economy, internet culture, queer podcast, Black queer creatives, mental health and social media, visibility online, social media and self-worth, podcasting journey, algorithm culture, content creation, digital burnout, viral culture, podcast community, creator mindset, online image, authenticity vs performance, Hella Chisme Podcast Support the show Follow Hella Chisme for more culture, conversation, and creative storytelling. Subscribe on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube, and keep up with us on Instagram, Threads, and TikTok at @hellachismepod.  Join the chisme, share the episode, and leave a review or comment to support the show.

    1h 34m
  7. Apr 3

    Beyond the 100th Episode: Chisme, Creativity & Redefining Success in the Algorithm Era Ft. She's Ryan and Mike Brown

    Join in the conversation! Welcome back to the 100th episode of the Hella Chisme Podcast.  Celebrating 100 episodes of the Hella Chisme Podcast, this milestone conversation goes beyond the highlight reel to unpack the real journey behind building something meaningful in the algorithm era.  Host Dana sits down with creative powerhouses She's Ryan know for her GAG (Get a Grip) content and project and Mike Brown from The Art of Letting Go. We have a unfiltered, deeply honest conversation about what it truly takes to sustain creativity, build a platform, and redefine success on your own terms. From burnout and imposter syndrome to navigating the pressures of social media and monetizing your craft, this episode dives into the realities that most creators don’t talk about. Together, they explore the tension between passion and survival, the myth of the “starving artist,” and the importance of mindset, boundaries, and community in creative work. They also break down how comparison culture, the algorithm, and visibility pressures impact creators and how to push through without losing yourself in the process. This episode is a reminder that success isn’t just about numbers or virality, it’s about consistency, alignment, and the courage to keep showing up even when things feel uncertain. Whether you’re a creative, entrepreneur, or someone trying to build something meaningful, this conversation will challenge how you define success and inspire you to keep going. LINK: https://linktr.ee/hellachismepodcast Follow She's Ryan: IG: https://instagram.com/shesRYAN TikTok: https://Tiktok.com/shesRYAN Youtube: https://Youtube.com/@RYANVIBES Follow Mike Brown: https://linktr.ee/theartoflettinggo Insta: https://www.instagram.com/theartoflettinggopodcast/ The Art of Letting Go Topics to include:  podcast growth, creative entrepreneurship, success mindset, algorithm era, content creation strategy, burnout in creatives, imposter syndrome, creative journey, social media pressure, building a brand, podcasting tips, monetizing creativity, creative discipline, authenticity online, mental health for creatives, Black queer creatives, visibility and branding, consistency in content, creative burnout recovery, redefining success Support the show Follow Hella Chisme for more culture, conversation, and creative storytelling. Subscribe on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube, and keep up with us on Instagram, Threads, and TikTok at @hellachismepod.  Join the chisme, share the episode, and leave a review or comment to support the show.

    2h 25m
  8. Mar 26

    More Than a Moment: Women, Music & Culture Ft. Rising Artist Carjanae

    Join in the conversation! Welcome back to another episode of The Hella Chisme Podcast. In honor of Women’s History Month and International Women's Day, this episode of the Hella Chisme Podcast celebrates the power of women in music, creativity, and culture through an unfiltered conversation with rising San Diego artist Carjanae.  Host Dana sits down with Carjanae to explore her journey from singing in church to stepping into her sound as a performer, while unpacking the realities of being a woman in today’s music industry, the importance of authenticity, and what’s often missing from the current music landscape.  Carjanae shares how she transformed heartbreak into her single “Expectations,” reflects on building confidence through adversity, and discusses the influence of artists like Beyoncé, Drake, and Erykah Badu on her sound and artistry, all while emphasizing the value of integrity, real talent, and long-term vision in an industry driven by trends. Blending conversations around healing, self-worth, and creative growth with moments of humor, music trivia, and pop culture, this episode embodies the Hella Chisme approach to storytelling—real, reflective, and rooted in culture. Whether you’re an artist, a music lover, or someone navigating your own path, this conversation is a reminder to own your voice, trust your journey, and lead the change. LINK: https://linktr.ee/hellachismepodcast Follow Carjanae: Insta: https://www.instagram.com/carjanae/ https://linktr.ee/carjanae Topics to Include: women in music, women’s history month, international women’s day, Black women in music, rising artist interview, independent artist journey, music industry conversation, healing through music, emotional storytelling, authenticity in music, creative growth, artist development, San Diego artists, R&B artist interview, music inspiration, self-worth and confidence, culture and identity, pop culture podcast, storytelling podcast, creative entrepreneurship Support the show Follow Hella Chisme for more culture, conversation, and creative storytelling. Subscribe on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube, and keep up with us on Instagram, Threads, and TikTok at @hellachismepod.  Join the chisme, share the episode, and leave a review or comment to support the show.

    1h 17m

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Hella Chisme Podcast is where unfiltered storytelling meets bold conversation. This show serves up juicy chisme while diving deep into the chaos and beauty of everyday life. From sex, dating, and marriage to pop culture, spirituality, and everything in between — no topic is off-limits. Through a strong lens on identity, culture, and connection, Dana and friends keep it real for a community of listeners who are curious, culturally fluent, and down for the ride.