Relationship Revolutions Podcast

Alan Watts - The Love Engineer

For professionals who lead in life, but feel lost in love. Hosted by Alan Watts, The Love Engineer, this bi-weekly podcast explores what happens in your nervous system when real love shows up. No fluff, no shame, just honest conversations about masculine presence, feminine radiance, conscious connection, and why strong women secretly crave surrender and nice guys desire their own leadership. You’re not broken. You’re just tired of doing it all or feeling boxed. Let’s build relationships that feel safe, sexy, and real. You can contact Alan directly via www.theloveengineer.rocks

  1. 4D AGO

    Unlocking Desire: Creating Conditions for Intimacy

    Contact Info Alan Watts The Love Engineer, a coach whose mission is to help high-achieving, emotionally intelligent women stop pushing away the very men they say they long for. Combining wisdom in attachment, nervous system healing, and relational dynamics, Alan guides women from over-functioning, anxiety-driven patterns into presence, ease, and receiving love without losing themselves. With his signature approach, Alan unpacks the operating systems that silently sabotage attraction and teaches women how to rewire their bodies to trust steady masculine energy. His work isn’t about strategy or “dating hacks” it’s about nervous system upgrades, inner integration, and creating chemistry through safety. As host of Relationship Revolutions, Alan leads honest conversations about real love, the behind-the-scenes of how we heal, do less, and let the kind of men we claim to want finally feel possible. Website www.theloveengineer.rocks Linked in https://www.linkedin.com/in/loveengineer/ Summary In this episode, Alan Watts discusses how to create the conditions for increased sexual desire in relationships. He emphasises the importance of emotional connection, safety, and understanding the dynamics of desire. The conversation covers various aspects such as letting go of shame, the significance of presence, and the impact of mental load on intimacy. Alan also addresses performance pressure and the need for genuine connection beyond physical intimacy, highlighting the responsibilities of both partners in fostering a fulfilling relationship. Takeaways Creating the conditions where she wants more sex is essential. Meeting in the middle fosters connection and intimacy. Letting go of shame around sex is crucial for men. Understanding how her desire works can change intimacy dynamics. Women need to feel safe, special, and seen to engage sexually. Mental load can significantly impact a woman's ability to be present during intimacy. Non-sexual touches are important for building connection. Letting go of performance pressure enhances sexual experiences. Post-sex connection is vital for her satisfaction and desire for more. Both partners have responsibilities in creating a fulfilling relationship. Chapters 00:00 Creating Conditions for Desire 03:05 Understanding Emotional Connection 05:10 The Importance of Safety and Presence 07:22 Navigating Performance Pressure 09:39 The Double-Edged Sword of Responsibility

    12 min
  2. FEB 2

    Why I Don't Do Traditional Couples Counselling (And What I Do Instead)

    Join the Control to Connection Community For women tired of leading in love, explore, share, and discover what safe, conscious connection really feels like. Strong in life, exhausted in love. https://www.skool.com/relationship-revolutions-5514/about Contact Info Alan Watts The Love Engineer, a coach whose mission is to help high-achieving, emotionally intelligent women stop pushing away the very men they say they long for. Combining wisdom in attachment, nervous system healing, and relational dynamics, Alan guides women from over-functioning, anxiety-driven patterns into presence, ease, and receiving love without losing themselves. With his signature approach, Alan unpacks the operating systems that silently sabotage attraction and teaches women how to rewire their bodies to trust steady masculine energy. His work isn’t about strategy or “dating hacks” it’s about nervous system upgrades, inner integration, and creating chemistry through safety. As host of Relationship Revolutions, Alan leads honest conversations about real love, the behind-the-scenes of how we heal, do less, and let the kind of men we claim to want finally feel possible. Website ⁠www.theloveengineer.rocks⁠ Linked in ⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/loveengineer/ Summary In this episode, Alan Watts discusses a unique approach to relationship counseling that emphasises individual work before couples therapy. He critiques traditional counseling methods, suggesting they often leave individuals feeling stuck in emotional currents. Instead, he advocates for building a solid foundation on each side of the relationship before attempting to bridge the gap. This involves understanding personal blueprints, communication styles, and emotional needs. The conversation highlights the importance of self-awareness and personal growth in fostering healthy relationships. Takeaways Traditional counseling often leaves individuals feeling stuck. Building individual foundations is crucial before couples work. Each partner must understand their own relationship blueprint. Men often attend counseling to appease their partners. Emotional and logical elements must be balanced in relationships. The goal is not identical blueprints but understanding differences. Couples must be willing to do their own work. Conscious separation can sometimes be the healthiest option. Strong individuals create a strong relationship foundation. The relationship you want requires personal growth first. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Relationship Coaching 03:29 The Flaws of Traditional Couples Counseling 05:27 Building Individual Foundations 07:12 The Bridge Building Process 09:46 Understanding Relationship Blueprints 11:18 Conclusion and Key Takeaways

    13 min
  3. Porn Addiction Awareness Week

    JAN 19

    Porn Addiction Awareness Week

    Contact Info Alan Watts The Love Engineer, a coach whose mission is to help high-achieving, emotionally intelligent women stop pushing away the very men they say they long for. Combining wisdom in attachment, nervous system healing, and relational dynamics, Alan guides women from over-functioning, anxiety-driven patterns into presence, ease, and receiving love without losing themselves. With his signature approach, Alan unpacks the operating systems that silently sabotage attraction and teaches women how to rewire their bodies to trust steady masculine energy. His work isn’t about strategy or “dating hacks” it’s about nervous system upgrades, inner integration, and creating chemistry through safety. As host of Relationship Revolutions, Alan leads honest conversations about real love, the behind-the-scenes of how we heal, do less, and let the kind of men we claim to want finally feel possible. Website www.theloveengineer.rocks Linked in https://www.linkedin.com/in/loveengineer/ Larissa Astara Gray Larissa Astara Gray is on a heartfelt mission to transform the way we talk about sex, connection and belonging. With her lived experience of trauma, recovery and reclamation, she brings authenticity, sensitivity and real world wisdom to conversations that are often shrouded in shame or silence. Drawing from years as a speaker, facilitator and educator, Larissa unpacks complex topics, from pornography’s hidden impact and consent dynamics, to how our early stories shape intimacy and how sexual self-worth ties into connected relationships. Website https://larissaastaragray.co.uk/ Linked in https://www.linkedin.com/in/larissa-astara-gray-a98374202/ Summary In this engaging conversation, Alan Watts, known as the Love Engineer, shares his transformative journey from a disastrous dating life to becoming a relationship coach. He discusses the importance of self-awareness, personal development, and the dynamics of modern relationships, including the impact of pornography and social media. Alan emphasises the need for healthy communication and consent in intimate relationships, while also addressing the challenges young men face in today's society. The discussion culminates in valuable insights and advice for the next generation on building meaningful connections and understanding their own identities. Takeaways Alan's title as the Love Engineer reflects the blend of emotion and logic in relationships. His journey to coaching was born from personal challenges and a desire to help others. Self-awareness is crucial in understanding relationship dynamics. Many clients focus on external issues rather than their own contributions to relationship problems. The relationship with oneself is foundational to all other relationships. Education around porn and its effects on relationships is essential. Social media complicates modern relationships with instant gratification. Healthy masculinity involves balancing strength with emotional awareness. Young men should seek role models and define their own identities. Chapters 01:06 Alan's Journey to Becoming a Relationship Coach 04:45 Lessons Learned from Divorce and Personal Growth 08:03 Understanding Client Dynamics in Relationship Coaching 10:37 The Birth of Relationship Revolutions Podcast 14:01 Exploring Resources Beyond Coaching 15:58 Discussing Porn Education Awareness Week 19:08 The Impact of Porn on Relationships 22:45 The Importance of Emotional Safety in Intimacy 24:15 Navigating Addiction and Healthy Boundaries 28:32 The Party Life and Its Consequences 29:58 Understanding Inner Change and Escapism 31:04 The Impact of Social Media on Relationships 33:54 The Dangers of Instant Gratification 37:02 Body Count and Its Implications 40:13 Empowerment vs. Exploitation in Modern Platforms 41:48 Navigating Masculinity in Today's Society 45:56 Finding Balance in Masculinity and Femininity 48:10 Creating Your Own Identity and Relationships

    45 min
  4. Is Love Enough?

    JAN 5

    Is Love Enough?

    Join the Control to Connection Community  https://www.skool.com/relationship-revolutions-5514/about Contact Info Alan Watts The Love Engineer, a coach whose mission is to help high-achieving, emotionally intelligent women stop pushing away the very men they say they long for. Combining wisdom in attachment, nervous system healing, and relational dynamics, Alan guides women from over-functioning, anxiety-driven patterns into presence, ease, and receiving love without losing themselves. With his signature approach, Alan unpacks the operating systems that silently sabotage attraction and teaches women how to rewire their bodies to trust steady masculine energy. His work isn’t about strategy or “dating hacks” it’s about nervous system upgrades, inner integration, and creating chemistry through safety. As host of Relationship Revolutions, Alan leads honest conversations about real love, the behind-the-scenes of how we heal, do less, and let the kind of men we claim to want finally feel possible. Website www.theloveengineer.rocks Linked in https://www.linkedin.com/in/loveengineer/ Guest Peter The Speaker Peter is a speaker, coach, and facilitator who challenges the idea that love alone is enough to sustain a healthy relationship. Drawing on lived experience, deep self-inquiry, and years of working with people navigating real-world relationships, Peter speaks candidly about responsibility, boundaries, emotional maturity, and the work required to make love last. Find Peter on Linked in https://www.linkedin.com/in/peter-the-speaker-b5baa924a/ Summary In this engaging conversation, Alan Watts and Peter the Speaker explore the intricacies of relationships, public speaking, and the importance of understanding oneself and one's partner. They discuss the journey to becoming a speaker, the significance of communication in relationships, and the role of humour and trust. The conversation also touches on marriage statistics, the impact of past experiences, and the fear of rejection, ultimately emphasising the need for self-awareness and mutual understanding in building lasting relationships. Takeaways Public speaking can stem from unique personal experiences. Understanding the 'why' behind relationships is crucial. Love alone is not sufficient for a successful relationship. Communication is key to understanding partners' needs. Humor plays a significant role in attraction and relationships. Trust and safety are foundational in any relationship. Past experiences can shape our perceptions and reactions. Self-awareness is essential for genuine connections. The fear of rejection can hinder relationship growth. Building relationships is akin to constructing a solid foundation. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Relationship Dynamics 02:39 The Journey to Public Speaking 05:06 The Birth of The Love Engineer 07:26 Building Relationships Like Architecture 11:19 Statistics and Realities of Relationships 14:49 Is Love Enough for a Relationship? 17:10 Understanding the 'Why' in Relationships 22:50 Decision-Making in Relationships 28:06 The Importance of Being Yourself 32:43 Understanding Yourself: The First Step to Authenticity 33:47 The Journey of Self-Discovery 35:19 Navigating Rejection and Acceptance 37:57 The Fear of Rejection in Relationships 40:22 The Role of Humour in Relationships 44:14 Stand-Up Comedy and Relationships 45:40 The Importance of Knowing Your Why 51:04 Listening: The Key to Strong Relationships 54:49 Understanding Masculine and Feminine Energies

    59 min
  5. The Impact of Dyslexia and ADHD on Love

    12/15/2025

    The Impact of Dyslexia and ADHD on Love

    Join the Control to Connection Community https://www.skool.com/relationship-revolutions-5514/about  Contact Info Alan Watts The Love Engineer, a coach whose mission is to help high-achieving, emotionally intelligent women stop pushing away the very men they say they long for. Combining wisdom in attachment, nervous system healing, and relational dynamics, Alan guides women from over-functioning, anxiety-driven patterns into presence, ease, and receiving love without losing themselves. With his signature approach, Alan unpacks the operating systems that silently sabotage attraction and teaches women how to rewire their bodies to trust steady masculine energy. His work isn’t about strategy or “dating hacks” it’s about nervous system upgrades, inner integration, and creating chemistry through safety. As host of Relationship Revolutions, Alan leads honest conversations about real love, the behind-the-scenes of how we heal, do less, and let the kind of men we claim to want finally feel possible. Website www.theloveengineer.rocks Linked in https://www.linkedin.com/in/loveengineer/ Guest Georgina Smith — Neurodiversity Advocate & Literacy Specialist Georgina Smith is the founder of CodeBreakers®, a proven multisensory, synthetic-phonics programme designed to help children, teens, and adults overcome reading and spelling difficulties, whether due to dyslexia or undiagnosed learning challenges. With over 15 years’ experience in special educational needs and learning-difference support, Georgina combines deep professional training (B.A. (Hons), M.A., PGC-SpLD) with a personal passion: her own family’s history of literacy struggles. She also leads ND360 Hub, a directory that connects neurodivergent people and families with trusted support, assessments, and resources across education and employment. https://www.linkedin.com/in/georginahsmith/ Summary In this conversation, Alan Watts and Georgina Smith explore the complexities of neurodiversity, particularly dyslexia and ADHD, and their impact on relationships. They share personal experiences, discuss the importance of communication, and delve into how technology influences modern dating. The conversation emphasises the need for understanding and accommodating each other's emotional needs, the evolution of relationships over time, and the significance of love languages. Ultimately, they highlight that effective communication is the cornerstone of healthy relationships. Takeaways Communication is key in relationships. Understanding oneself is crucial for effective communication. Neurodiversity can impact dating and relationships significantly. Technology has changed the way we connect with others. Love languages play a vital role in understanding partners. Relationships evolve as individuals grow and change. Compromise is essential for maintaining harmony in relationships. Emotional needs must be communicated clearly to avoid misunderstandings. Personal experiences shape our views on relationships. Self-awareness can lead to healthier connections. Chapters 00:00 Understanding Neurodiversity and Personal Journeys 05:24 Dyslexia and Relationships: Personal Reflections 10:25 The Impact of Neurodiversity on Work and Home Life 14:29 Navigating Dating and Communication Challenges 19:19 The Dynamics of Love Languages and Emotional Needs 23:47 Building Stronger Relationships Through Understanding 28:22 The Evolution of Love and Communication Over Time 41:55 Exchanging Expectations for Appreciations 44:19 Understanding Roles in Relationships 46:30 Navigating Anxiety and Support 47:37 The Impact of Technology on Relationships 50:05 Rejection Sensitivity and Communication 52:15 The Influence of Media on Relationship Expectations 56:28 The Challenges of Modern Dating 57:52 Defining Love and Connection 01:01:35 Evolving Relationships Over Time 01:07:00 Compromise and Communication in Relationships

    1h 13m
  6. Navigating Boundaries in Sexuality

    12/01/2025

    Navigating Boundaries in Sexuality

    Join the Control to Connection Community https://www.skool.com/relationship-revolutions-5514/about Contact Info Alan Watts The Love Engineer, a coach whose mission is to help high-achieving, emotionally intelligent women stop pushing away the very men they say they long for. Combining wisdom in attachment, nervous system healing, and relational dynamics, Alan guides women from over-functioning, anxiety-driven patterns into presence, ease, and receiving love without losing themselves. With his signature approach, Alan unpacks the operating systems that silently sabotage attraction and teaches women how to rewire their bodies to trust steady masculine energy. His work isn’t about strategy or “dating hacks” it’s about nervous system upgrades, inner integration, and creating chemistry through safety. As host of Relationship Revolutions, Alan leads honest conversations about real love, the behind-the-scenes of how we heal, do less, and let the kind of men we claim to want finally feel possible. Website https://theloveengineer.rocks/ Linked in https://www.linkedin.com/in/loveengineer/ Guest Larissa Astara Gray Larissa Astara Gray is on a heartfelt mission to transform the way we talk about sex, connection and belonging. With her lived experience of trauma, recovery and reclamation, she brings authenticity, sensitivity and real-world wisdom to conversations that are often shrouded in shame or silence. Drawing from years as a speaker, facilitator and educator, Larissa unpacks complex topics—from pornography’s hidden impact and consent dynamics, to how our early stories shape intimacy and how sexual self-worth ties into connected relationships. Website https://larissaastaragray.co.uk/ Linked in https://www.linkedin.com/in/larissa-astara-gray-a98374202/ Summary In this episode of Relationship Revolutions, host Alan Watts speaks with sex educator Larissa Astara Gray about the importance of boundaries, consent, and the impact of toxic relationships on personal development. Larissa shares her painful journey to becoming a sex educator, emphasising the need for open discussions about sexuality and the dangers of pornography. They explore the issues of sextortion, revenge porn, and the influence of social media on sexual behaviour. The conversation highlights the significance of understanding trauma responses and the role of healthy relationships in healing. Ultimately, Larissa advocates for honest communication as a fundamental aspect of building meaningful connections. Takeaways Larissa's journey to becoming a sex educator was painful and difficult. The impact of toxic relationships can lead to long-term trauma. Consent is a crucial topic that needs more open discussion. Understanding trauma responses is essential for healthy relationships. Pornography has a significant impact on modern sexual culture. Sextortion is a growing issue that affects many young people. Revenge porn can have devastating effects on individuals. Social media plays a major role in shaping sexual behaviour. Seeking external solutions often leads to deeper internal issues. Healthy sexual experiences can aid in healing past traumas. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Boundaries and Sexuality 01:49 Larissa's Journey to Becoming a Sex Educator 07:39 The Impact of Toxic Relationships and Trauma 09:02 The Importance of Consent in Sexual Education 16:37 Understanding Trauma Responses and Consent 20:42 The Role of Pornography in Modern Sexuality 26:13 Sextortion and Its Consequences 30:07 The Dangers of Revenge Porn and Online Exploitation 34:51 The Influence of Social Media on Sexual Behavior 43:52 Seeking External Solutions to Internal Problems 52:03 Healing Through Healthy Sexual Experiences 59:27 The Importance of Intuition in Relationships 01:08:16 Breaking Down Walls to Love 01:08:35 Final Thoughts on Communication in Relationships

    1h 12m
  7. The Interplay of Mental Health and Relationships

    11/17/2025

    The Interplay of Mental Health and Relationships

    Join the Control to Connection Community https://www.skool.com/relationship-revolutions-5514/about Contact Info Alan Watts The Love Engineer, a coach whose mission is to help high-achieving, emotionally intelligent women stop pushing away the very men they say they long for. Combining wisdom in attachment, nervous system healing, and relational dynamics, Alan guides women from over-functioning, anxiety-driven patterns into presence, ease, and receiving love without losing themselves. With his signature approach, Alan unpacks the operating systems that silently sabotage attraction and teaches women how to rewire their bodies to trust steady masculine energy. His work isn’t about strategy or “dating hacks” it’s about nervous system upgrades, inner integration, and creating chemistry through safety. As host of Relationship Revolutions, Alan leads honest conversations about real love, the behind-the-scenes of how we heal, do less, and let the kind of men we claim to want finally feel possible. Website https://theloveengineer.rocks/ Linked in https://www.linkedin.com/in/loveengineer/ Guest info Licensed Mental Health Counselor • Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist • Author • Founder, Advocate2Create Dr. T brings over a decade of clinical and educational leadership to her work with individuals, couples and families navigating communication breakdowns, trauma, grief and anxiety. Through her practice Advocate2Create she developed the IAP Model, Intention → Action → Perception, what she calls the “Google Translate of communication,” equipping people to turn well-intentioned acts into understood and effective connection. She’s the author of Why Are We Fighting? Actionable Strategies for Effective Communication Website https://www.advocate2create.com/ Book https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DH8NF2VG   Linked in https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-patricia-timerman-barbosa-da-silva-302084156/ Summary In this episode of Relationship Revolutions, Alan Watts engages with Dr. Patricia Timmerman, exploring her journey from aspiring medical doctor to mental health expert. They delve into the complexities of suicide, trauma, and the intertwined nature of psychology and physiology. The conversation emphasises the importance of effective communication, vulnerability, and understanding in relationships, while also addressing cultural differences and the significance of emotional intelligence. Dr. Timmerman shares actionable strategies for conflict resolution and the necessity of listening to one another to foster deeper connections. Takeaways Dr. Timmerman's journey reflects the importance of following one's passion. Suicide prevention requires understanding the complexities of mental health. Trauma can significantly impact future relationships if not processed. Effective communication is key to resolving conflicts in relationships. Vulnerability is a strength that fosters deeper connections. Cultural differences can influence perceptions of time and trust in relationships. Emotional intelligence plays a crucial role in navigating relationships. Listening actively can transform conversations and relationships. Trust is built through understanding and transparency. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Dr. Patricia Timmerman 03:47 The Journey to Becoming a Doctor 06:34 Understanding Suicide and Mental Health 12:26 The Impact of Past Relationships on Present Dynamics 15:21 Communication and Misinterpretation in Relationships 18:13 The Role of Awareness in Relationships 20:40 Coping Mechanisms and Emotional Management 23:49 The Importance of Intentions in Communication 32:30 Perception and Communication in Relationships 35:00 Understanding Fight Languages 38:34 Effective Communication Strategies 42:18 The Importance of Venting vs. Solutions 45:50 Navigating Emotional Responses 48:46 Vulnerability as Strength 01:01:34 Actionable Strategies for Effective Communication 01:02:41 The Power of Listening in Relationships

    1h 5m
  8. The Adventures of Self-Discovery in Dating

    11/03/2025

    The Adventures of Self-Discovery in Dating

    Join the Control to Connection Community https://www.skool.com/relationship-revolutions-5514/about Contact Info Alan Watts The Love Engineer, a coach whose mission is to help high-achieving, emotionally intelligent women stop pushing away the very men they say they long for. Combining wisdom in attachment, nervous system healing, and relational dynamics, Alan guides women from over-functioning, anxiety-driven patterns into presence, ease, and receiving love without losing themselves. With his signature approach, Alan unpacks the operating systems that silently sabotage attraction and teaches women how to rewire their bodies to trust steady masculine energy. His work isn’t about strategy or “dating hacks” it’s about nervous system upgrades, inner integration, and creating chemistry through safety. As host of Relationship Revolutions, Alan leads honest conversations about real love, the behind-the-scenes of how we heal, do less, and let the kind of men we claim to want finally feel possible. Website https://theloveengineer.rocks/ Linked in https://www.linkedin.com/in/loveengineer/ Manny Wolfe Manny's book shows how he was able to turn his life around, from rock bottom to working with people all over the world who want to transform lives through public speaking, communication mastery, mindset mastery and internal transformation. His story is nothing less than a testament to what we can achieve when we never give up belief in ourselves and our ability to create our reality. https://amzn.eu/d/j2uBpgp Facebook https://www.facebook.com/therealmannywolfe Summary In this episode of Relationship Revolutions, Alan Watts and Manny Wolfe delve into the complexities of relationships, dating, and personal growth. They discuss the importance of self-awareness, the impact of past experiences on current relationships, and the skills necessary for healthy connections. Manny shares his journey back into the dating world after a long-term relationship, emphasising the need for understanding and compassion in navigating modern dating dynamics. The conversation highlights the significance of recognising one's own issues and the importance of developing relationship skills to foster deeper connections. Takeaways Self-awareness is crucial in relationships. Everyone has their own struggles and insecurities. Relationships are about learning and growing together. Past experiences shape our current relationship dynamics. It's important to recognise red flags early on. Online dating can be challenging but offers opportunities for growth. Communication and emotional intelligence are key in relationships. Developing relationship skills is more important than fixing oneself. Understanding your partner's perspective fosters connection. The journey of dating is about exploration and self-discovery. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Context 01:40 Manny's Journey and Current Work 04:27 The Challenges of Public Speaking 05:19 Navigating Relationships After Divorce 08:11 The Nature of Promises and Relationships 10:04 The Logic Behind Arranged Marriages 12:54 Fairy Tales and the Concept of Happily Ever After 14:32 Adventure vs. Certainty in Relationships 16:25 Understanding Our Shared Brokenness 20:59 The Importance of Self-Reflection 25:49 Dating in the Modern World 30:00 Healing vs. Relationship Skills 31:52 Evolving Perspectives on Healing and Relationships 34:45 Recognizing Red Flags in Relationships 36:53 The Importance of Actions Over Words 40:16 Relationships as a Learning Container 41:59 What Successful Men Seek in Partners 47:52 Self-Awareness and Emotional Independence 52:44 The Journey of Self-Discovery 54:17 Innovative Approaches to Personal Growth

    59 min

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For professionals who lead in life, but feel lost in love. Hosted by Alan Watts, The Love Engineer, this bi-weekly podcast explores what happens in your nervous system when real love shows up. No fluff, no shame, just honest conversations about masculine presence, feminine radiance, conscious connection, and why strong women secretly crave surrender and nice guys desire their own leadership. You’re not broken. You’re just tired of doing it all or feeling boxed. Let’s build relationships that feel safe, sexy, and real. You can contact Alan directly via www.theloveengineer.rocks