Finding My Husband Podcast

Hannah El-Gashingi/ SHE Empowerment Coaching

Whether you have never been a relationship, been in and out of them, or feel like you will be single your whole life, then this podcast is for you. For 10 years I have been wanting to get married, but I didn’t know how and where to look for a spouse. So, I did a deep dive into finding the strategy and way forward and, I got married on the 13th of May 2023. In this podcast, I take you through my whole journey. Unlike other podcasts, this one was recorded while I was on my journey. So, you get to listen to my journey as it unfolds.   I talk about the real stuff. The stuff nobody talks about in this journey. I bring up all things vulnerable. And the practical steps that you can take to get married. I am on a mission to help 5 million Single women have the tools to find the man of their dreams and be in a healing, nourishing and Allah Centered relationship. If this sounds like something you want, then you are in the right place. Bismilah. 

  1. 10/02/2023

    Ep. 8-The Unplanned Overseas Trip

    I'm excited to share with you the rollercoaster of emotions and events that unfolded as I embarked on my journey to find a husband and navigate a long-distance relationship. From the anxious anticipation as we waited for a visa, to the thrill of finally meeting my fiancé Ammar in Dubai, this episode is a raw and honest exploration of my experience. I'll also share the invaluable tools and strategies that helped us set a solid foundation for our relationship in the face of uncertainty. Imagine entrusting your life's affairs to someone else, placing your complete trust in their judgment and intentions. In this episode, I delve into the profound concept of entrustment, particularly entrusting Allah with life's affairs. I'll share my personal experiences and insights, revealing how trust, patience, and action can lead to unexpected and beautiful outcomes. You’ll hear about my spontaneous decision to travel to Dubai, a trip that was full of anticipation, excitement, and apprehension. Finally, I’ll take you through the emotional whirlwind of my trip to Dubai, where I met Ammar for the first time. From the nerve-wracking moment we discovered my brother’s passport had expired, to the exhilarating moment I met Ammar at the airport, this chapter is filled with suspense, emotion, and heartfelt moments. As we navigate the path forward, we’ll explore the complexities of timing, planning, and the anticipation of the future. Discover your values with an mini course that I have created for you: https://muslimlovecoaches.com/landing-page-page-7286-2009 Follow @muslimlovecoaches on Facebook and Instagram :)

    22 min
  2. 09/25/2023

    Ep. 7- I Hired the Best Wedding Planner

    Last week ended on a huge cliff hanger! So, whats happens next? Let's navigate the uncharted waters of premarital courses and their pivotal role in forming a strong and successful relationship. I believe that learning about conflict management, fostering intimacy and trust, and acknowledging each other's feelings together through these courses can provide the necessary tools to manage perennial issues. Hear about the art of post-conflict conversation and the importance of establishing conflict rules. You'll get a peek into some of the highly recommended courses for both premarital and married couples. The last leg of this journey explores the importance of shared values in long-distance relationships and how to formulate a timeline to progress the relationship. The episode expands on the necessity of an equal investment in relationships and the significance of setting boundaries and maintaining respect for your partner. As my relationship unfolds, the underlying uncertainties push me towards trusting Allah to guide me through. My reliance on dua, vision board, and other tools keep me grounded, and I aim to share this strength and hope with all single Muslim women embarking on their journey in the realm of relationships. Here are the courses I highly recommend: The Gottman Institute courses https://gottmanconnect.com/couples Haleh Banani's 5 Pillars of Marriage https://courses.halehbanani.com/5-pillars-of-marriage-program Dr Sue Johnson's Hold Me tight https://holdmetightonline.com/ Discover your values and relationship values: https://muslimlovecoaches.com/landing-page-page-7286-2009

    29 min
  3. 09/18/2023

    Ep. 6- I Unmatched My Husband

    On a personal quest to find my spouse, I delve into the depths of online matchmaking, maneuvering its emotional landscape, and setting my standards high. Listen in as I discuss how a strong support network and self-care practices kept me grounded, and the empowering decision to confront potential mismatches head-on. It's not always smooth sailing, but I assure you, the resilience and self-realization that come from it are worth the trials. What happens when you start trusting yourself to the point where you're contemplating a life-altering decision like moving overseas? We'll navigate that shaky ground together, sifting through genuine connections and visa seekers, and tackling the complex emotions of making these decisions without a motherly figure around. Online match making isn't just about matching with someone; it's also about safety, trust, and the courage to make a decision that you are aligned with, And what if your potential match isn't in the same city, or even the same country? I share my personal saga of connecting with a suitor based in Dubai, armed with my father's advice and a prayer for guidance. Hear about the intricacies of long-distance relationships, the fear of relocation, and the solace a coach can provide in such situations. But just as we're unpacking these complexities, hold your breath for a cliffhanger that will have you yearning for the next chapter of my journey. This episode is not just about my experience; it's a source of hope, a toolbox, and a validation for every single Muslim woman on her journey to find a spouse. Discover your values with an mini course that I have created for you: https://muslimlovecoaches.com/landing-page-page-7286-2009 Follow @muslimlovecoaches on Facebook and Instagram :)

    29 min

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Whether you have never been a relationship, been in and out of them, or feel like you will be single your whole life, then this podcast is for you. For 10 years I have been wanting to get married, but I didn’t know how and where to look for a spouse. So, I did a deep dive into finding the strategy and way forward and, I got married on the 13th of May 2023. In this podcast, I take you through my whole journey. Unlike other podcasts, this one was recorded while I was on my journey. So, you get to listen to my journey as it unfolds.   I talk about the real stuff. The stuff nobody talks about in this journey. I bring up all things vulnerable. And the practical steps that you can take to get married. I am on a mission to help 5 million Single women have the tools to find the man of their dreams and be in a healing, nourishing and Allah Centered relationship. If this sounds like something you want, then you are in the right place. Bismilah.