Bonus Dad Bonus Daughter

Bonus Dad Bonus Daughter

Welcome to "Bonus Dad, Bonus Daughter," a heartwarming and insightful podcast celebrating the unique bond between a stepfather Davey, and his stepdaughter Hannah.Join them as they explore the joys, challenges, and everyday moments that make this relationship special. Each episode they take a topic and discuss the differences, similarities and the effect each one had one them Featuring candid conversations, personal stories, and many laughs Whether you're a step-parent, stepchild, or simply interested in family dynamics, "Bonus Dad, Bonus Daughter" offers a fresh perspective on love, family, and the bonds that unite us.

  1. 8H AGO

    Retro Sweets We Still Crave - Part One

    Send us a Comment, Question or Request, we'd love to hear from you A single paper bag of penny sweets could define an entire Saturday. We crack open the jar-lined doors of the 1980s sweet shop and taste our way through the treats that shaped a generation: sherbet dips, cola cubes, flying saucers, Blackjacks, Fruit Salads, and the stubborn charm of toffee that threatened every filling. This is a father-daughter tour through memory, taste, and the tiny rituals that make sweets feel like time travel. We get honest about flavour loyalties and grudges. One of us will die on the hill that Refreshers are the OG fizzy chew; the other swears Maoam is the upgrade. We trade strategies for eating Cadbury Creme Eggs, confess to Curly Wurly catastrophes, and debate whether chocolate belongs in the fridge. Some icons divide the room: Turkish Delight gets a ferocious thumbs down, Bounty earns a cautious pass, and Caramac and Pacers prompt a mint-flavoured nostalgia check. Along the way we trace brand evolutions—Opal Fruits into Starburst, Marathons into Snickers—and unearth lost gems like 5-4-3-2-1 bars and mint Toffos. There’s history and myth here too. We revisit the urban legend that Space Dust was banned for sounding like “angel dust,” untangle why popping candy felt rebellious, and confront the relic of chocolate cigarettes, a reminder of how marketing once blurred play with imitation adulthood. American imports make cameos—Snow Caps, vending-machine Starburst—and so does shrinkflation, the modern plot twist that leaves our favourite bars smaller than we remember. This is part one of a two-part sugar map, ending the tour in the 80s and setting up the 90s, 2000s, and a promised dive into Polish sweets next. If nostalgia is a sense, this episode is its taste test—funny, opinionated, and full of small details that unlock big memories. If you smiled, argued with us out loud, or remembered the exact feel of a paper bag in your hand, hit follow, share it with a friend who loves retro candy, and leave a review with your most controversial sweet take. Support the show

    36 min
  2. FEB 19

    You Use These Phrases Every Day, But Do You Know Where They Come From? Part Two

    Send us a Comment, Question or Request, we'd love to hear from you Ever said under the weather, mind your Ps and Qs, or steal your thunder and wondered who on earth came up with that? We pull the thread on the sayings we use every day and discover a trail through docks, pubs, theatres, carnivals, and battlefields. It turns out a lot of our go-to phrases are stubbornly literal: sailors ducked below deck to escape storms, stagehands burned lime to make a spotlight, and jockeys eased over the line with hands down when a win was certain. We trace how practical fixes became language shortcuts. Cold shoulder started as a host’s frosty hint to leave, not a mood. Mind your Ps and Qs was a bartender’s reminder to track pints and quarts. Cut to the chase came from bored filmgoers demanding the action scene. On the grittier side, kick the bucket and face the music show how we soften talk about death and consequence with images that land fast and stick. And yes, close but no cigar really does lead back to fairground prizes. Boats do a lot of heavy lifting here: know the ropes, break the ice, the bitter end. Theatre kids and tinkerers show up too—off the cuff from notes on shirt cuffs, and steal your thunder from a brilliant sound-effect maker robbed of his moment. We stop by the Bible for read the writing on the wall, and the Wild West for riding shotgun, then round it out with take it with a grain of salt for healthy scepticism and chew the fat for easy conversation. Across it all, we stay curious, swap stories, and keep the energy light while grounding each phrase in history you can retell at dinner. If you love language, trivia, or just want better small talk, this one’s for you. Hit follow, share with a friend who quotes idioms for sport, and leave a quick review telling us which origin blew your mind. Support the show

    47 min
  3. FEB 12

    You Use These Phrases Every Day, But Do You Know Where They Come From? Part one

    Send us a Comment, Question or Request, we'd love to hear from you Ever wonder why we say bite the bullet or saved by the bell without a second thought? We open the door to the strange, funny, and sometimes bleak origins of everyday idioms, pairing history with personal stories so each phrase lands with colour and context. We start with real life: contact lens woes, the shock of turning to verifocals at 50, needle anxiety that needs longer GP appointments, and a 10k charity walk for endometriosis that sparks a conversation about awareness and resilience. From there we pivot into the language rabbit hole. Bite the bullet takes us to brutal battlefield surgery and endurance. Saved by the bell drags up a century-old fear of premature burial. Spill the beans links to Greek voting, while don’t look a gift horse in the mouth decodes etiquette through a horse’s teeth. Break a leg reveals theatre superstition, and mad as a hatter points to mercury-poisoned craftsmen rather than Wonderland whimsy. We don’t stop at origins; we look at meaning drift. Pull yourself up by your bootstraps once mocked the impossible, yet now gets thrown around as a hustle mantra. Raining cats and dogs gets a grim, plausible backstory from old European streets, and straight from the horse’s mouth becomes a lesson in going to the source. Along the way we talk AI music flooding platforms, streaming pots that stretch thinner, and why making one single can still cost a grand even on mates’ rates. The thread tying it all together is curiosity: language is living history, and every idiom carries a human story about pain, craft, scams, superstition, or grit. Expect a warm, quick-paced chat that mixes folklore, theatre lore, and social history with a few dad jokes and a lot of honesty. If you love etymology, culture, or just want to sound sharper the next time someone says spill the beans, this one’s for you. Enjoyed the conversation? Follow the show, share it with a friend, and leave a quick review so others can find us too. Support the show

    41 min
  4. FEB 5

    From Wolves To Wovie : How Animals Became Family

    Send us a Comment, Question or Request, we'd love to hear from you Ever wondered why a dog seems to know when it’s 5 pm, or why a cat acts like it picked you, not the other way around? We unpack what truly makes a pet a pet—taming versus domestication—and trace how wolves warmed their way to the hearth while wildcats strolled into granaries and stayed. Along the way, we bring Wovie the cat into the spotlight, swap stories about loyal greeters and heat‑pad hoggers, and tap the science that explains why a simple cuddle can spike oxytocin on both sides of the leash. We go beyond cosy anecdotes to tackle responsibility and ethics. Are breed bans missing the point when training and enrichment drive behaviour? How do we honour the intelligence of birds if we keep them indoors? What does good care look like for rodents, rabbits, or fish when “low maintenance” often means the opposite? Reptiles and spiders split us—fear versus fascination—so we explore how husbandry and honest self‑knowledge should guide whether you keep them at all. We also sit with grief, because losing a pet can feel like losing a limb; rescue tales remind us healing is possible, but only when the home, time and patience match the animal’s needs. Looking ahead, we weigh AI companions and robot “pets” against the living warmth and delightful chaos of real animals. If you’re planning for a future dog or cat, we share practical filters—space, stairs, allergies, mobility, energy levels, reputable rescues or ethical breeders—and why training and routine matter more than Instagram aesthetics. Whether you’re team whiskers, wagging tail, feathers, or scales, this is a loving, clear‑eyed guide to choosing well, caring deeply, and celebrating the bonds that make our houses feel like homes. Enjoy the conversation—and if it resonates, subscribe, share with a fellow animal lover, and leave a quick review to help others find the show. Support the show

    47 min
  5. JAN 29

    Time Twists And Coinky Dinks

    Send us a Comment, Question or Request, we'd love to hear from you Think you’ve got history straight? Prepare to have your timeline scrambled—in the best way. We dive into the most surprising overlaps that upend what “ancient,” “modern,” and “new” really mean, from Cleopatra being closer to the Moon landing than to the pyramids to Oxford and Cambridge predating Europe’s first encounters with the Aztecs. It’s a fast, funny, and revealing tour through time that swaps neat narratives for jaw-dropping juxtapositions. We trace parallel empires—Rome and Han China—and show how knowledge and power intersected through the Library of Alexandria. Then we switch to warfare’s messy evolution: armour lingering as guns emerged, samurai tradition lasting into the age of muskets, and a hand-cranked wooden submarine in 1775 challenging our sense of when “high tech” starts. Culture delivers its own shocks: Charlie Chaplin and Adolf Hitler born the same week, Darwin overlapping with Picasso, and the real Pocahontas living in Shakespeare’s era. These pairings make famous names feel less like museum pieces and more like neighbours in a crowded historical street. Technology refuses to line up neatly. Colour photographs came before telephones. Plastic arrived before the everyday pen. Early electric cars shared the stage with the Titanic. Fax machines existed while pioneers trekked the Oregon Trail. And progress isn’t only about gadgets: humanity reached the Moon before Swiss women could vote, a stark reminder that social change often trails innovation. We even end with a theatrical flourish—the literal origin of “you stole my thunder”—proving language keeps souvenirs from odd corners of the past. If you love smart surprises, human stories, and timelines that refuse to behave, you’ll feel right at home. Tap follow, share this with a friend who enjoys a good “wait, what?” moment, and leave a review to tell us which overlap blew your mind most. Support the show

    41 min
  6. JAN 22

    How Crowley, Gardner And The Golden Dawn Shaped Modern Witchcraft

    Send us a Comment, Question or Request, we'd love to hear from you A four-week pause, a fresh brew, and a return to magic that actually matters. We jump back into our Witchcraft series and follow the thread from smoky Victorian parlours to today’s living pagan traditions across Britain, asking what endures and why it still resonates. The journey begins with the Victorian love affair with the occult: seances in middle-class homes, the rise of mediums, and the gothic imagination of Poe, Stoker, and Shelley. That cultural spark feeds into the Hermetic Order of the Golden Dawn, where ritual magic, tarot, and Kabbalah shaped a new language for mystery. Enter Alistair Crowley, whose Thelema reframed magic around the pursuit of true will and left a controversial, indelible mark on modern spirituality and counterculture. From there we pivot to Gerald Gardner, the figure who helped bring witchcraft into the open after the Witchcraft Act was repealed. We explore Gardnerian Wicca’s core ideas and the power of the Wiccan Rede: “An it harm none, do what ye will.” Then we step through the evolution to Alexandrian Wicca, noting how ceremonial style, theatre, and structure took root in London and Manchester. Alongside history, we reflect on ethics, consent, and why a principle that emphasises freedom with responsibility feels so right for our times. We ground it all in the present: legal pagan weddings, chaplains in prisons, and vibrant practices like tarot, moon rituals, and herbal craft. We also wander through the places that hold the country’s mythic charge, from Stonehenge and Glastonbury Tor to Cornwall’s pixie-haunted paths, and the enduring folk magic of Scotland, Wales, and East Anglia. If you’ve ever wondered how a blend of story, landscape, and personal purpose can guide a life, you’ll find plenty here to savour, question, and try for yourself. Subscribe, share with a friend who loves a good origin story, and leave a review to tell us where the magic led you next. Support the show

    40 min
  7. JAN 15

    Witchcraft, From Druids To Wicca Part 1

    Send us a Comment, Question or Request, we'd love to hear from you Secrets don’t vanish; they change costumes. We open the cupboard of British “witchcraft” and find not pointy hats but a living history of healers, timekeepers, and storytellers—people who read the weather in birds, brewed medicine from hedgerows, and helped neighbours through birth, grief, and bad harvests. From Roman notes on druids to the alignments at Stonehenge, we follow the clues that show how nature, ritual, and community once fit together. As we move through Anglo‑Saxon charms and Norse echoes, fairies and familiars step into view—not as cartoon sprites, but as the language people used to explain intuition, second sight, and hard‑won herbal knowledge. Then the winds change. Between the 1400s and 1700s, church courts recast local care as a pact with the Devil. Scotland’s trials turned fear into policy; England’s “evidence” often meant gossip in a courtroom; the Pendle cases and the Witchfinder General reveal how jealousy, property, and power hid behind piety. Most accused were women. Many were midwives or widows. The pattern looks less like sorcery and more like social control. And yet, resilience remains. In Wales and Ireland, folklore buffered communities from the worst excesses, and by the 1700s scepticism finally took root. The 1735 Witchcraft Act declared witches fiction while prosecuting frauds, a strange halfway house that still hints at modern debates about belief, evidence, and care. Along the way we spotlight the Cunning Folk—the village healers and counsellors who feel, frankly, like an early NHS with charms and salves. We close by teeing up the Victorian revival and the birth of modern Wicca in part two, where the fragments of folk practice become a new religious identity. If you’re curious about how myth, medicine, and power shaped each other—and what that says about us now—press play. Subscribe, share this episode with a friend who loves history and folklore, and leave a review to tell us what challenged your assumptions. Support the show

    39 min
  8. JAN 8

    Why Embarrassment Hits Hard And How To Laugh It Off

    Send us a Comment, Question or Request, we'd love to hear from you Ever feel your stomach drop over something tiny that suddenly feels enormous? We’ve been there. We take a candid, funny and surprisingly practical tour through embarrassment: why our brains treat a trip on the stairs like a social catastrophe, how harmless slip-ups turn into 2 a.m. replays, and the simple ways to reset without spiralling. Along the way we trade war stories—childhood stage mistakes that stuck for years, walking into a bin on a first week back, and public pratfalls that became family legend. We dig into the science in plain English. Embarrassment is a social survival mechanism that flags risks to status and belonging. That primitive alarm explains the flush, the freeze and the inner critic. But here’s the twist: almost no one remembers your moment for long. Our takeaway is to own the blip, add a dash of humour, and carry on. It’s the recovery people notice, not the stumble. We put that to the test with celebrity examples—Jennifer Lawrence’s Oscars trip, Steve Harvey’s pageant slip—and everyday fails like reply-all disasters, Teams notifications exploding on a projector and AI note-takers faithfully recording that you “haven’t had a wee today.” We also explore physical and verbal landmines: coffee stains on light clothes, toothpaste marks that never die, wardrobe malfunctions, and accidental innuendo that arrives louder than intended. Our practical toolkit includes: assume screensharing exposes notifications, set note-takers to internal, correct slips once without overapologising, carry a stain fix, and—most of all—reframe the moment as proof you’re human. Share the story if it brings someone else relief. Embarrassment handled well builds connection and trust. If this made you smile, nod or breathe easier, hit follow, share with a friend who needs a laugh, and leave a quick review telling us your best cringe story. We might read it on a future show. Support the show

    44 min

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Welcome to "Bonus Dad, Bonus Daughter," a heartwarming and insightful podcast celebrating the unique bond between a stepfather Davey, and his stepdaughter Hannah.Join them as they explore the joys, challenges, and everyday moments that make this relationship special. Each episode they take a topic and discuss the differences, similarities and the effect each one had one them Featuring candid conversations, personal stories, and many laughs Whether you're a step-parent, stepchild, or simply interested in family dynamics, "Bonus Dad, Bonus Daughter" offers a fresh perspective on love, family, and the bonds that unite us.