Life After I Do Podcast

Life After I Do
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Marriage and relationships can be tough. You may feel like you’re the only one struggling but you’re not. Life After I do is a weekly podcast where Morice and Kynesha, a black married millennial couple, share their experiences and advice on everything from kids and family to intimacy and connection. Noting is off limits.  In their 24 years together and 10 years of marriage, Morice and Kynesha have learned a lot about what it takes to make a relationship work. They know the importance of communication, trust and commitment. They also know it’s okay to not have it all figured out.  Join them every Wednesday as they talk about their own journey of “Life After I do”.

  1. 6D AGO

    Who Sacrifices More?

    Marriage will make you ask a hard question: are we both sacrificing, or are we just keeping score? In this episode of Life After I Do, Nesha G and Moelethal use their real twenty-year chemistry to unpack the invisible weight behind marriage, parenting, provision, career pauses, and the emotional labor that often goes unnamed.  In this episode, we discuss whether men sacrifice more in marriage, whether women carry the heavier emotional and mental load, and why “50/50” rarely tells the whole truth. The conversation moves from provider pressure and financial responsibility to motherhood, identity loss, postpartum emotions, career sacrifice, and the quiet cost of being the default parent. Nesha opens up about what it feels like to think about returning to the workforce after almost seven years away, while Moe reflects on the pressure to provide, protect, and keep the household stable. Together, they land on a mature truth: healthy marriage is not about proving who has it harder, it is about recognizing what your partner carries before resentment starts talking for you. Send us Fan Mail Messy Midlife: Honest conversations about hormones, identity, and change.Three naturopathic doctors. One therapist. Unfiltered talks about the midlife transition.Listen on: Apple Podcasts   Spotify Support the show  Thanks for rocking with us! Don’t forget to follow Life After I Do so you never miss an episode. Got a relationship situation you want us to weigh in on? Hit us at https://beacons.ai/laidpodcast — we just might talk about it in a future episode.

    1h 6m

  2. MAY 6

    Finish the Sentence: Marriage Edition

    A couple’s game sounds harmless until the answers start telling the truth. In Finish the Sentence: Marriage Edition, Nesha G and Moelethal use humor, honesty, and twenty years of chemistry to unpack the small marriage moments that reveal bigger relationship dynamics. The episode begins with love notes, birthday reflections, gym wins, and the kind of tired-parent banter that feels real because it is real. But once the sentence prompts begin, the conversation opens up into affection, money pressure, procrastination, parenting fatigue, deep cleaning, quality time, and the question of whether both people are truly carrying their part of the marriage. What makes this episode work is the balance. One minute they are laughing about lunch notes and corny habits, and the next they are debating what it means to be a provider, whether staying out of the way counts as support, and why invisible labor can become a source of resentment when it is not acknowledged. The “Our 2 Cents” segment closes the episode with a staycation dilemma that will definitely start a conversation. Send us Fan Mail Messy Midlife: Honest conversations about hormones, identity, and change.Three naturopathic doctors. One therapist. Unfiltered talks about the midlife transition.Listen on: Apple Podcasts   Spotify Support the show  Thanks for rocking with us! Don’t forget to follow Life After I Do so you never miss an episode. Got a relationship situation you want us to weigh in on? Hit us at https://beacons.ai/laidpodcast — we just might talk about it in a future episode.

    1h 21m

  3. APR 29

    Our 2 Cents Vol. 32: The Disrespect Line

    What do you do when your partner hears your boundaries—but chooses to ignore them anyway? Our 2 Cents Vol. 32 dives into the subtle ways disrespect shows up in relationships and how quickly it can escalate. Nesha G and Moe G unpack a powerful listener story where a husband is forced to question his marriage after his wife repeatedly pushes to include her ex in their anniversary plans. What starts as a simple request becomes a deeper issue of respect, priorities, and emotional awareness. From there, the conversation expands into real-life scenarios involving entitlement, finances, and navigating relationship dynamics where one person feels more invested than the other. This episode highlights the importance of standing firm in your standards and recognizing when compromise turns into self-betrayal. Because at some point, it’s not about understanding—it’s about respect. Send us Fan Mail Messy Midlife: Honest conversations about hormones, identity, and change.Three naturopathic doctors. One therapist. Unfiltered talks about the midlife transition.Listen on: Apple Podcasts   Spotify Support the show  Thanks for rocking with us! Don’t forget to follow Life After I Do so you never miss an episode. Got a relationship situation you want us to weigh in on? Hit us at https://beacons.ai/laidpodcast — we just might talk about it in a future episode.

    51 min

  4. APR 22

    Our 2 Cents Vol. 31: Marriage vs Addiction

    Sometimes the real tension in marriage isn’t loud—it’s quiet, consistent, and slowly pulling you apart. In this volume of Our 2 Cents, Nesha G and Moe G step into the gray areas where love, effort, and accountability don’t always align. In this episode, we discuss what happens when one partner is evolving and the other refuses to meet them halfway—especially when health, intimacy, and long-term partnership are on the line. The conversation moves through the emotional weight of carrying the mental load alone, and how quickly support can turn into enabling when boundaries aren’t clearly defined. From a marriage impacted by extreme weight gain, to fairness in chores, to navigating disrespect from family, every situation forces the same question—what does real partnership actually require? This episode flows with humor, honesty, and lived experience, showing the balance between holding your partner down and holding them accountable. You’ll walk away with clarity on where your boundaries should be, how to communicate your needs without shrinking yourself, and when it’s time to stop negotiating with behavior that’s hurting the relationship. Send us Fan Mail Messy Midlife: Honest conversations about hormones, identity, and change.Three naturopathic doctors. One therapist. Unfiltered talks about the midlife transition.Listen on: Apple Podcasts   Spotify Support the show  Thanks for rocking with us! Don’t forget to follow Life After I Do so you never miss an episode. Got a relationship situation you want us to weigh in on? Hit us at https://beacons.ai/laidpodcast — we just might talk about it in a future episode.

    43 min

  5. APR 15

    Who Said It First?

    Every long-term relationship has a beginning—and sometimes, the truth about that beginning doesn’t match the story you’ve been telling. In this episode, Nesha G and Moe G take a trip back to where it all started, unpacking who made the first move, who caught feelings first, and the moments that almost ended everything before it really began. What starts off as a fun “who did it first” game quickly turns into something deeper. Old memories resurface, different perspectives clash, and the reality of how young love evolves into long-term commitment becomes clear. From early jealousy and miscommunication to moments that could’ve changed the entire trajectory of their relationship, they revisit it all with honesty, humor, and maturity. Send us Fan Mail Messy Midlife: Honest conversations about hormones, identity, and change.Three naturopathic doctors. One therapist. Unfiltered talks about the midlife transition.Listen on: Apple Podcasts   Spotify Support the show  Thanks for rocking with us! Don’t forget to follow Life After I Do so you never miss an episode. Got a relationship situation you want us to weigh in on? Hit us at https://beacons.ai/laidpodcast — we just might talk about it in a future episode.

    1 hr

  6. APR 8

    The Real Reason Couples Grow Apart

    It doesn’t start with cheating or big fights. Most relationships don’t break from one moment—they break from a thousand small ones. The missed conversations, the lack of time, the quiet resentment that never gets addressed. In this episode, Nesha G and Moelethal unpack the real reasons couples grow apart and why it often feels like it “just happened.” From surface-level communication to emotional disconnect, they walk through the subtle patterns that slowly create distance between partners. They also shift the focus toward solutions—what it actually looks like to grow together instead of apart. From intentional time to shared vision, from healthy conflict to daily choices that rebuild connection, this conversation offers practical insight rooted in real experience. Send us Fan Mail Messy Midlife: Honest conversations about hormones, identity, and change.Three naturopathic doctors. One therapist. Unfiltered talks about the midlife transition.Listen on: Apple Podcasts   Spotify Support the show  Thanks for rocking with us! Don’t forget to follow Life After I Do so you never miss an episode. Got a relationship situation you want us to weigh in on? Hit us at https://beacons.ai/laidpodcast — we just might talk about it in a future episode.

    1h 5m

  7. APR 1

    10 Years Later

    Ten years in, marriage doesn’t look like the highlight reel—it looks like growth, tension, laughter, and choosing each other again and again. In this episode, Nesha G and Moelethal pull the curtain back on what it really takes to stay locked in when life keeps shifting. In this episode, we discuss how marriage evolves through seasons, from young love to real-life partnership, and what happens when expectations don’t match reality. They unpack accountability, forgiveness that doesn’t forget, and the truth about staying committed when it would be easier to walk away. There’s honesty here about mental load, identity shifts, and learning how to love each other through different versions of yourselves. You’ll walk away with clarity on what commitment actually means after a decade, and why choosing your partner daily is the real flex. Send us Fan Mail Messy Midlife: Honest conversations about hormones, identity, and change.Three naturopathic doctors. One therapist. Unfiltered talks about the midlife transition.Listen on: Apple Podcasts   Spotify Support the show  Thanks for rocking with us! Don’t forget to follow Life After I Do so you never miss an episode. Got a relationship situation you want us to weigh in on? Hit us at https://beacons.ai/laidpodcast — we just might talk about it in a future episode.

    1h 11m
  8. Our 2 Cents Vol. 30

    MAR 25

    Our 2 Cents Vol. 30

    What happens when someone else’s insecurity becomes your problem? Or when love starts asking you to compromise on something you’ve already decided is non-negotiable? This episode dives deep into the uncomfortable truth that not all relationship conflict is meant to be resolved. Nesha G and Moe G unpack multiple real-life scenarios that highlight the importance of boundaries, from dealing with misplaced blame in relationships to navigating major life decisions like whether or not to have children. The chemistry between them brings humor and honesty, but also a level of accountability that forces listeners to reflect on their own choices. As the conversation unfolds, deeper themes emerge around identity, especially for men who tie their worth to providing, and how that pressure impacts relationships when circumstances change. The episode ultimately challenges the idea that love should always come with compromise, offering a more grounded perspective on alignment and self-respect. Send us Fan Mail Messy Midlife: Honest conversations about hormones, identity, and change.Three naturopathic doctors. One therapist. Unfiltered talks about the midlife transition.Listen on: Apple Podcasts   Spotify Support the show  Thanks for rocking with us! Don’t forget to follow Life After I Do so you never miss an episode. Got a relationship situation you want us to weigh in on? Hit us at https://beacons.ai/laidpodcast — we just might talk about it in a future episode.

    52 min
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Marriage and relationships can be tough. You may feel like you’re the only one struggling but you’re not. Life After I do is a weekly podcast where Morice and Kynesha, a black married millennial couple, share their experiences and advice on everything from kids and family to intimacy and connection. Noting is off limits.  In their 24 years together and 10 years of marriage, Morice and Kynesha have learned a lot about what it takes to make a relationship work. They know the importance of communication, trust and commitment. They also know it’s okay to not have it all figured out.  Join them every Wednesday as they talk about their own journey of “Life After I do”.

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  • Creator
    Life After I Do
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    137
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Life After I Do Podcast
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