Life After I Do Podcast

Life After I Do

Marriage and relationships can be tough. You may feel like you’re the only one struggling but you’re not. Life After I do is a weekly podcast where Morice and Kynesha, a black married millennial couple, share their experiences and advice on everything from kids and family to intimacy and connection. Noting is off limits.  In their 24 years together and 10 years of marriage, Morice and Kynesha have learned a lot about what it takes to make a relationship work. They know the importance of communication, trust and commitment. They also know it’s okay to not have it all figured out.  Join them every Wednesday as they talk about their own journey of “Life After I do”.

  1. Oct 21 ·  Video

    Is Social Media Ruining Marriage?

    Social media and marriage can be a dangerous combination when scrolling turns into comparison and somebody else's highlight reel starts making you question your own relationship. This week on Life After I Do, Nesha G and Moelethal ask a question that might hit a little too close to home: Is social media making people think they married the wrong person? From picture-perfect couples and extravagant romantic gestures to relationship influencers and online marriage advice, we discuss how social media can create unrealistic expectations about what love and commitment should look like. Are people expecting their partners to behave like strangers they follow online? Has watching other couples made us less tolerant of normal marriage problems? And when does harmless scrolling turn into emotional disconnection? Before the conversation gets serious, Nesha shares her latest powerlifting milestone, a new bench press goal, and her reading adventures, while Moe attempts to limit her weekly recap like he's running Sunday church service. Then we get into some messy Booski situations involving a fiancé secretly lending $3,000 from wedding savings to his brother, a coworker repeatedly stealing lunches, and a disagreement over $4,000 in wedding decorations. This episode is full of laughter, marriage conversations, relationship reality checks, and a reminder that the grass isn't always greener just because somebody put a filter on it. Send us Fan Mail Support the show  Thanks for rocking with us! Don’t forget to follow Life After I Do so you never miss an episode. Got a relationship situation you want us to weigh in on? Hit us at https://beacons.ai/laidpodcast — we just might talk about it in a future episode.

  2. Oct 7 ·  Video

    Defend Your Spouse

    Defend Your Spouse turns marriage into a courtroom, and Nesha G and Moelethal have to defend each other against accusations that feel a little too real. From being late, spending money, starting arguments, using tiredness as an excuse, exaggerating household contributions, and telling marriage stories differently depending on the audience, this episode is funny, honest, and full of real married-life moments. The episode opens with Nesha and Moe talking about their family weekend, Vegas, cancelled comedy plans, Ticketmaster refunds, birthday celebrations, junking, cabbage, wings, Coke Zero, and the phrase that took over the week: “you big as a houseboat.” From there, they jump into a game of defending your spouse, where the defense is sometimes strong, sometimes shady, and sometimes completely useless. Then Quick Two Cents gets into what husbands do not understand about being a wife, whether wives expect husbands to read their minds, and what Nesha wishes Moe noticed without her having to bring it up. The episode closes with Our 2 Cents stories about a mother-in-law trying to force Thanksgiving hosting, a woman wanting her partner to disown the son he raised, and a 22-year-old being asked to put their name on their parents’ mortgage. Send us Fan Mail Support the show  Thanks for rocking with us! Don’t forget to follow Life After I Do so you never miss an episode. Got a relationship situation you want us to weigh in on? Hit us at https://beacons.ai/laidpodcast — we just might talk about it in a future episode.

  3. Sep 30 ·  Video

    Our 2 Cents Vol. 41: Accountability Is Expensive

    Our 2 Cents Vol. 41 is about accountability, boundaries, family entitlement, money, respect, and the messy situations people create when they take advantage of someone’s kindness. In this episode, Nesha G and Moelethal respond to Booski stories about broken headphones, unpaid family loans, being auctioned off as a babysitter, wedding money being sent to the wrong person, and whether you should cut off a friend who is knowingly someone’s affair partner. The episode opens with classic LAID energy as Nesha and Moe talk about date night, seeing KevOnStage, Cowboys losses, Eagles loyalty, Phoenix starting clarinet, and one very irritating nose hair that Nesha cannot stop noticing. From there, they jump into a full Our 2 Cents episode filled with family drama, boundaries, money issues, and moral dilemmas. Nesha and Moe talk about a husband and stepson refusing to take accountability after destroying expensive headphones, parents struggling after lending their son $50,000, a sister auctioning off her sibling’s babysitting time without permission, a future mother-in-law collecting wedding money through her own Venmo, and a friend whose open relationship becomes complicated when her girlfriend is secretly married with children. Send us Fan Mail Support the show  Thanks for rocking with us! Don’t forget to follow Life After I Do so you never miss an episode. Got a relationship situation you want us to weigh in on? Hit us at https://beacons.ai/laidpodcast — we just might talk about it in a future episode.

  4. Sep 16 ·  Video

    It’s the Little Things: Consideration in Marriage

    Consideration in marriage is one of those things that can look small from the outside but feel huge inside the relationship. In this episode, Nesha G and Moelethal talk about what it means to truly consider your spouse, from communication, gas in the car, lunch notes, and protecting personal time to recognizing the mental load and not volunteering your partner’s time without asking. The episode opens with Go Birds energy, football stress, Sunday dinner, gym fatigue, books, family moments, and Nesha realizing she may need a proper deload. Then the conversation shifts into how couples can genuinely love each other while still being inconsiderate in ways that create frustration, resentment, or emotional distance. Nesha and Moe also discuss the difference between being considerate and people-pleasing, why small acts can make someone feel deeply loved, and how consideration includes respecting goals, hobbies, rest, communication, and emotional needs. The episode also asks whether you can be a good parent while admitting you sometimes regret becoming one. Our 2 Cents closes with Booski stories about a wife who stopped having regular conversations with her husband after cheating, a husband upset that his wife would not blindly move to Australia, and a wife wondering if she is wrong for flying home to celebrate her birthday instead of driving back from a work convention with her husband. Send us Fan Mail Support the show  Thanks for rocking with us! Don’t forget to follow Life After I Do so you never miss an episode. Got a relationship situation you want us to weigh in on? Hit us at https://beacons.ai/laidpodcast — we just might talk about it in a future episode.

  5. Sep 9 ·  Video

    Our 2 Cents Vol. 40: Call Their Bluff

    Our 2 Cents Vol. 40 relationship advice starts with family, boundaries, money, messy exes, and the hard truth that people will keep taking advantage of you when you keep making room for their behavior. Nesha G and Moelethal respond to Booski stories about siblings inviting themselves over, breakfast bills, screenshots before a wedding, texting married men, separated spouses, and adult children trying to use a future grandbaby as leverage. In this episode, we talk about a sister showing up with her affair partner after her brother just got out of the hospital, a man getting mad after secretly paying for breakfast he could not comfortably afford, and a woman sending proof to her ex’s fiancée two days before the wedding. Nesha and Moe also respond to a wife accused of crossing the line by texting a married male friend about a surprise birthday party and a separated woman who does not care about her husband’s girlfriend being uncomfortable. The episode closes with a Quick Two Cents conversation about when “I’m doing this for my kids” turns into neglecting yourself, plus an update on adult children living rent-free while expecting parents to keep funding their stay-at-home-parent plan. Send us Fan Mail Support the show  Thanks for rocking with us! Don’t forget to follow Life After I Do so you never miss an episode. Got a relationship situation you want us to weigh in on? Hit us at https://beacons.ai/laidpodcast — we just might talk about it in a future episode.

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Marriage and relationships can be tough. You may feel like you’re the only one struggling but you’re not. Life After I do is a weekly podcast where Morice and Kynesha, a black married millennial couple, share their experiences and advice on everything from kids and family to intimacy and connection. Noting is off limits.  In their 24 years together and 10 years of marriage, Morice and Kynesha have learned a lot about what it takes to make a relationship work. They know the importance of communication, trust and commitment. They also know it’s okay to not have it all figured out.  Join them every Wednesday as they talk about their own journey of “Life After I do”.

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