LEAD LIKE A GIRL

Jessica Smith, Coralyn Musser and Jamie Knebel

We are empowering everyday women through our stories – the good, the bad, and the funny. Join hosts Jessica, Jamie, and Coralyn as they dive into unfiltered stories, big lessons, and real conversations. They met in their 20s as ambitious sales pros, quickly rising to the top. Careers shifted, industries changed, and life threw curveballs—but their drive never wavered. Now, they’re sharing the highs, lows, and hilarious moments of balancing career, family, faith, and friendship. If you’re ready to lead, laugh, and level up, you’re in the right place!

  1. 4d ago

    Should Personality Tests Decide Who Gets Hired? Hiring, Leadership & Self-Awareness; E112

    Personality Tests: Hiring Hack or Huge Mistake? Can a personality test really predict great leadership—or are we giving these assessments too much power? In this candid panel discussion, Jessica, Coralyn, and Jamie unpack the truth behind personality assessments, hiring decisions, leadership development, and self-awareness. From DISC and Myers-Briggs to the Big Five, we share personal experiences, challenge common misconceptions, and discuss why these tools should start conversations—not end them. If you've ever taken a personality test, interviewed for a job that required one, or wondered how to build stronger teams, this episode is for you. The real purpose of personality assessments in hiring Why personality tests should never be the only hiring decision The difference between cultural fit and culture add How self-awareness creates stronger leaders Using assessments to improve communication and teamwork The biggest mistakes organizations make with personality testing Why diversity of thought builds better businesses Practical interview tips for candidates and hiring managers "Honesty is the best policy in assessments." "Rules can be flexible when it comes to leadership." "Personality tests are a starting point, not the final answer." 00:00 – Introduction to Lead Like a Girl Podcast 02:44 – Reflections on Past Episodes and Personal Growth 05:25 – The Role of Personality Tests in Career Development 08:32 – Pros and Cons of Personality Assessments 10:49 – Cultural Fit vs. Diversity in Hiring 13:42 – Using Assessments for Team Dynamics and Self-Development 21:30 – Harnessing Assessments for Career Growth 22:49 – The Power of Direct Communication 27:03 – Self-Assessment and Personal Growth 32:20 – Understanding Personality Insights 36:46 – Integrating Assessments in Career Development YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/leadlikeagirllab If you enjoyed this conversation, don't forget to Like, Subscribe, and Share. New episodes of Lead Like a Girl drop every week with honest conversations about women in leadership, business, personal growth, and navigating the beautifully messy middle of life. #WomenLeadership #Leadership #Hiring #PersonalityTests #DISC #MBTI #SelfAwareness #LeadershipDevelopment #WorkingMoms #WomenInBusiness #CareerGrowth #TeamBuilding #LeadLikeAGirl

    38 min
  2. Jul 1

    Leadership, Loyalty, and Letting Go: The Hidden Cost of Staying Too Long; E111

    Is your loyalty helping you grow—or quietly holding you back? For many professionals, especially women over 40, career loyalty can feel like a badge of honor. But what happens when staying in the same role starts costing you your confidence, growth, and happiness? In this episode of Lead Like a Girl, Jessica dives into the difficult but empowering questions around career identity, workplace loyalty, and knowing when it's time for your next chapter. If you've ever wondered whether you're staying because you love your work—or because change feels scary—this conversation is for you. Whether you're navigating burnout, considering a career change, or simply reevaluating what success looks like today, this episode offers practical strategies to help you move forward with confidence. Why your job should never become your entire identityHow to recognize the warning signs you've stayed too longThe difference between loyalty and fearWhat today's changing job market means for experienced professionalsHow to build your personal brand before you need itPractical ways to prepare for your next career opportunityWhy leaving isn't starting over—it's starting anew"What is the pain of staying versus leaving?""Your experience is your greatest asset.""Your next chapter could be your best yet."00:00 – Introduction and Setting the Stage01:35 – Identity vs. Job: A Deep Dive04:53 – The Changing Job Market and Its Impact09:10 – Loyalty in the Workplace: A Double-Edged Sword12:08 – Understanding Pain Points: Staying vs. Leaving17:27 – Assessing Your Current Situation21:32 – The Role of Fear and Comfort in Career Decisions26:41 – Signs You've Stayed Too Long29:00 – Reframing Your Identity Beyond Your Job32:42 – Final Thoughts and Encouragement Lead Like a Girl Lab: ⁠https://leadlikeagirllab.com⁠YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@leadlikeagirllab⁠In This Episode:Memorable QuotesChaptersResources

    38 min
  3. Jun 24

    The 2026 Guide to Winning Friends and Influencing People; E110

    Stop networking. Start connecting. In a world filled with followers, likes, and endless digital noise, genuine relationships have become one of the most valuable leadership skills you can develop. In this episode of Lead Like a Girl, Jamie, Jessica, and Coralyn explore the timeless principles of relationship building and discuss why authentic connection still wins in business, leadership, and life. Inspired by Dale Carnegie's classic book, How to Win Friends and Influence People, the conversation dives into practical ways to make meaningful connections, remember important details, and build relationships that create opportunities, trust, and lasting impact. Whether you're a business owner, working mom, leader, or someone simply looking to strengthen your personal and professional relationships, this episode offers actionable strategies you can start using today. In this episode, we discuss: Why genuine interest in others is the foundation of every strong relationship Lessons from Dale Carnegie that still apply in 2026 How small interactions can lead to unexpected opportunities The role social media plays in modern relationship building Practical ways to remember names, stories, and personal details Why kindness remains one of the most powerful leadership tools The difference between networking and authentic connection How relationship-building strategies evolve through different seasons of life Real-life examples of meaningful connections that made a lasting impact Why face-to-face conversations still matter in a digital world Memorable Quotes: "You catch more flies with honey than vinegar." "It takes character and self-control to be understanding." "The best relationships are built through genuine curiosity and connection." If you've ever wondered how to build stronger relationships, create meaningful professional connections, or become more influential without being transactional, this episode is for you. Resources Mentioned: Dale Carnegie's How to Win Friends and Influence People LinkedIn Social Media and Networking Best Practices Relationship Building Strategies for Leaders Connect with the Hosts: Jamie on Twitter Jessica on Twitter Coralyn on Instagram Enjoying Lead Like a Girl? Subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with a woman in your life who inspires connection, leads with heart, and believes relationships are the foundation of success. Keywords: women leadership, relationship building, networking, authentic connections, communication skills, influence, leadership development, social skills, personal growth, women in business, working moms, professional networking, meaningful relationships

    47 min
  4. Jun 17

    Are You Quitting in the Boring Middle? Why Commitment Matters More Than Motivation; E109

    Motivation got you started… but commitment is what gets you across the finish line. In this episode of Lead Like a Girl, we dive into the often-overlooked phase of personal growth and success: the boring middle. It’s the part no one talks about—the weeks, months, and sometimes years between setting a goal and seeing the results. We share real-life stories about staying committed when motivation fades, why discipline matters more than inspiration, and how accountability can help you push through setbacks. Whether you're building a business, pursuing a fitness goal, advancing your career, or simply trying to keep promises to yourself, this conversation will help you stay focused when the excitement wears off. Why the “boring middle” is where most people quit How commitment differs from motivation The role accountability plays in long-term success Practical ways to build discipline into your daily routine How to plan for obstacles before they happen Why small wins create massive momentum over time The importance of saying no to protect your goals Strategies for staying engaged when progress feels slow “Plan for what can go wrong.” “Start small, celebrate wins.” “Plan your routine to avoid boredom.” 00:00 – Introduction and Personal Reflections 03:25 – Post-Wedding Life and Commitments 06:14 – The Challenge of Commitment 09:03 – Understanding Accountability and Discipline 11:44 – The Boring Middle of Commitment 14:41 – Fear and Its Impact on Commitment 18:40 – Commitment and Accountability 21:51 – Setting Realistic Goals 28:00 – Navigating the Boring Middle 33:33 – The Importance of Saying No women leadership, empowerment, goal setting, discipline, accountability, motivation, habits, consistency, personal development, self-improvement, working moms, leadership growth, success mindset If you've ever felt stuck between starting and succeeding, this episode is your reminder that progress isn't always exciting—but it is worth it. Subscribe, share with a friend, and join us as we learn to Lead Like a Girl—fiercely, fearlessly, and full of heart.

    39 min
  5. Jun 10

    50 and Fabulous: Getting Married Again—Here's the Truth; E108

    Who says the best chapters of life happen before 40? In this heartfelt and inspiring episode of Lead Like a Girl, Jamie shares her personal journey of finding love, embracing vulnerability, and preparing to get married at 50. From navigating heartbreak and learning from past relationships to discovering the power of healing, self-awareness, and courage, this conversation is a reminder that life doesn't come with an expiration date on happiness. We dive into the realities of second chances, wedding planning stress, blended families, and the lessons that only come with experience. Whether you're rebuilding after disappointment, chasing a new dream, or wondering if it's too late to start over, this episode will encourage you to trust your journey and embrace what's next. Because sometimes the most beautiful love stories begin when you least expect them. Why courage is required to pursue happiness at every ageThe lessons Jamie learned from past relationships and engagementsHow healing and self-awareness create healthier relationshipsRed flags, relationship wisdom, and trusting your instinctsWedding planning expectations versus realityManaging stress and staying focused on what truly mattersNavigating blended families and communication challengesLetting go of other people's opinions and living authenticallyWhy it's never too late for love, growth, or new beginnings"Pay attention to red flags.""Healing is a work in progress.""It's never too late for love."00:00 – Introduction and Guest Credibility 01:02 – Courage, Happiness, and Second Chances 02:00 – Wedding Excitement and Personal Growth 03:03 – Red Flags and Relationship Warning Labels 05:09 – Refusing to Stress Over Wedding Details 10:55 – Jamie's Love Journey and Past Engagements 12:40 – Meeting the Right Person at 50 14:17 – Self-Discovery, Healing, and Growth 19:21 – Letting Go of Others' Opinions 21:04 – How Past Relationships Shape Us 22:57 – Healing Timelines and Moving Forward 26:02 – Wedding Planning Stress and Resilience 27:31 – Funny Wedding Disagreements and Unexpected Costs 30:10 – Wedding Day Nerves and Excitement 31:48 – Celebrating Love and New Beginnings 34:01 – Jamie's Mother's Inspiring Wedding Story 36:12 – Communication and Blended Family Lessons 37:43 – Final Encouragement and Closing Thoughts Subscribe to Lead Like a Girl for weekly conversations about women leadership, empowerment, personal growth, working moms, entrepreneurship, and the real stories behind success. Watch more episodes on Lead Like a Girl Lab: https://www.youtube.com/@LeadLikeaGirlLab women leadership, empowerment, second chances, marriage at 50, love after 50, personal growth, healing journey, relationship advice, life lessons, authentic living, happiness, self-awareness, women supporting women, blended families, real stories In This Episode We Discuss:Memorable QuotesChaptersConnect With UsKeywords

    40 min
  6. May 27

    Your Purpose Is Bigger Than Your Job Title: Finding Your Why; E106

    Are you building a life with purpose… or just staying busy checking boxes? In this powerful and honest conversation, Jessica, Jamie, and Coralyn dive into one of life’s biggest questions: Why am I here? From discovering your unique gifts to understanding how serving others can unlock meaning, this episode explores what it looks like to live intentionally instead of running on autopilot. If you've ever found yourself thinking “There has to be more than this,” this conversation is for you. Through personal stories, practical takeaways, and real-life reflections, we unpack how purpose often isn't found in giant life moments — it's revealed through everyday interactions, courageous steps, and serving one person at a time. – Why discovering your "why" matters more than chasing achievement– How everyday interactions reveal your unique gifts and strengths– The connection between purpose, service, and fulfillment– What distractions are stealing your attention and focus– Practical steps for self-discovery and intentional living– How women in leadership and working moms can create impact through ordinary moments– Ways to stop surviving and start living with greater meaning "Are we just busy living?" "There has to be more than this." "Serve one person at a time." 00:00 – Discovering Your Why03:16 – Unpacking Personal Gifts and Purpose11:59 – The Importance of Serving Others20:09 – Finding Meaning in Everyday Life25:07 – Practical Steps to Make a Difference – Lead Like A Girl Website– StrengthsFinder by Gallup– Giant Worldwide Core Beliefs Assessment – Jessica on LinkedIn– Jamie on Twitter– Coralyn on Instagram In this episode, we cover:Quotable MomentsChaptersResources MentionedConnect with the Hosts

    35 min
  7. May 20

    Am I Too Old for This? Confidence, Growth & Reinvention at Any Age; E105

    Who decided life has an expiration date on dreams, reinvention, or joy?In this heartfelt and hilariously honest episode of Lead Like a Girl, Jamie, Jessica, and Coralyn dive into the pressure women feel around aging, timelines, and “having it all figured out.” From career pivots and relationships to confidence, fashion, and personal growth — this conversation is your reminder that life doesn’t stop at a certain age… it actually gets better when you stop asking for permission. If you’ve ever caught yourself thinking “Am I too old for this?” — this episode is for you. Together, the hosts unpack societal expectations around women and aging, the emotional weight of missed milestones, and the freedom that comes from embracing your journey exactly as it is. Through laughter, vulnerability, and real-life stories, they explore how confidence and self-acceptance evolve over time — and why celebrating your wins matters no matter when they happen. Why women feel pressured by society’s timelinesThe truth about aging and self-confidenceNavigating career pivots later in lifeRelationships, dating, and finding love againFashion, identity, and owning your personal styleEmotional growth and celebrating unexpected milestonesHow friendship and community help us embrace changeWhy it’s never too late to reinvent yourself“Every day is priceless, make the most of it.” “You’re never too old for anything.” “Celebrate your wins, no matter the timing.” Aging, women leadership, self-acceptance, confidence, life transitions, empowerment, personal growth, working moms, friendship, motivation, career pivots, embracing change, real stories 🎧 Lead Like a Girl is the unapologetically real podcast empowering women through honest conversations about leadership, growth, motherhood, ambition, and the messy middle of life. Subscribe and join the movement to lead boldly, fearlessly, and fully yourself.

    40 min
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We are empowering everyday women through our stories – the good, the bad, and the funny. Join hosts Jessica, Jamie, and Coralyn as they dive into unfiltered stories, big lessons, and real conversations. They met in their 20s as ambitious sales pros, quickly rising to the top. Careers shifted, industries changed, and life threw curveballs—but their drive never wavered. Now, they’re sharing the highs, lows, and hilarious moments of balancing career, family, faith, and friendship. If you’re ready to lead, laugh, and level up, you’re in the right place!

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