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 Welcome to We Wine Whenever where three middle age, middle class neighborhood women discuss our views on popular shows, our lives and anything else that pops up. Join in the fun and listen in to discover what its really like to be a Jersey Shore housewife as the blonde ,the brunette and the redhead  give you an unfiltered cocktail hour.Together, Wendy ,Kelli and Lori create a vibrant and entertaining podcast that covers a wide range of topics, from the latest Bravo drama to discussions on parenting, relationships, and current events. Their chemistry as co-hosts, combined with their relatability and passion, makes their podcast a must-listen for anyone looking for engaging conversations about everyday life and pop culture. We drink wine whenever and we hope you do too!

  1. 3h ago

    RHOSLC The Housewives Rally Around Mary

    Send us Fan Mail RHOSLC The Housewives Rally Around Mary RHOSLC S7 E1 Chosen Family The Season 7 premiere of The Real Housewives of Salt Lake City, “Chosen Family,” begins on a much more somber note than usual as the women come together to support Mary Cosby following the tragic death of her son, Robert Jr. The group puts their usual arguments aside and rallies around Mary, showing up for her during an incredibly difficult time. Mary opens up about her grief and the complicated emotions surrounding Robert’s struggles, while also making it clear how much the support of the women has meant to her. The idea of “chosen family” takes on a much deeper meaning as Mary recognizes that the RHOSLC women were there for her when she needed them most.  Once the episode moves beyond the immediate tragedy, some familiar Salt Lake City drama starts creeping back in. Whitney Rose has to deal with the fallout from her harsh comments about Lisa Barlow and Meredith Marks, attempting to apologize while Lisa and Meredith remain less than convinced. Meanwhile, Heather Gay introduces her new boyfriend, Tripp, a man she actually dated years ago before their relationship ended badly. The two have reconnected years later, and Heather is clearly excited about this second chance at romance.  Bronwyn Newport is also entering a new chapter, navigating changes in her marriage and opening up about her new relationship with Brandon, while Lisa and John Barlow work through their own marital issues and finally seem to reach a breakthrough. What makes this premiere stand out is the contrast between the usual Housewives chaos and the genuine grief surrounding Mary. There are still hints of the arguments, relationships and shifting alliances that will drive the season, but “Chosen Family” ultimately establishes a more emotional starting point for Season 7, with the women showing that their relationships can extend beyond the drama.  Salt Lake City, addiction, grief, mental health, reality TV, personal growth, family, relationships, episode analysis Support the show https://www.wewinewhenever.com/

  2. 1d ago

    RHONY Erin’s Apology Didn’t Last Five Minutes

    Send us Fan Mail RHONY Erin’s Apology Didn’t Last Five Minutes RHONY S16 E2 Much Ado About Brunching Carole is officially back in New York, and she’s settling into her new old life after spending the last eight years focused on writing. Her apartment renovation even turned her kitchen into an office before she eventually turned it back into a kitchen—and now her office is basically her car, where she parks like a professional while working around the street sweeper. We learn that Erika met Carole through Martha Stewart, because apparently everyone on this show is connected through Martha. Carole also gets the exciting news that her book is back on the New York Times bestseller list thanks to renewed interest surrounding the Love Story documentary about John F. Kennedy Jr. and Carolyn Bessette. Meanwhile, Erin and Abe discover that their Sag Harbor home has been devastated by a burst pipe, with their bedroom destroyed, mold already present, and even the wall where they tracked their children’s heights potentially needing to be torn out. It’s especially heartbreaking because the house holds so many memories of Erin’s late father. Erika, who apparently has a WWE past, is now teaching at Equinox, while Daisy decides she wants to cheer Sai up and organizes a brunch with the group. There’s plenty of speculation about what is going on with Sai, who is clearly dealing with some major personal and financial issues, although she says her story is hers to tell. Before the brunch, Hailey has plenty to say about Erin, calling her boring and comparing her to strawberry jam—something that’s just sitting on the table and nobody really cares about. At the brunch, the conversation takes a turn when Daisy reads a flirty text from her son’s tutor and admits she doesn’t really know how to establish the boundary that she’s married. Jessel correctly points out that the tutor’s message sounds like Daisy is leading him on, and honestly, Daisy might want to figure that boundary out sooner rather than later. Then Erin gives Sai a genuinely sweet toast, but the mood quickly shifts when the women discuss Erin and Jessel’s fractured friendship. Erin apologizes for talking about Jessel, but the broken-nose story comes up too, and suddenly it feels like an Erin pile-on. And then Carole arrives and accidentally gets pulled straight into the drama. Erin is furious when Carole reveals that she has called Jessel obnoxious, desperate, and thirsty, especially because she considers Carole a friend. Erin also brings up Jessel allegedly being rude to her dermatologist, but the flashback shows Jessel simply saying she doesn’t think they’ve met before—hardly a crime. Sai is understandably like, hello, I thought this brunch was supposed to be about me! Once the drama settles down, Daisy wants to talk to Carole about Carolyn Bessette, and Jessel starts asking increasingly uncomfortable questions about whether Carolyn was a bitch, her minimalist style, and whether the Kennedy family is cursed. Carole understandably decides she has had enough and leaves before things get even more awkward. Then the burlesque show begins, and Erin immediately whispers to Daisy that Jessel is a clout chaser—literally moments after apologizing for talking shit about her. So much for turning over a new leaf Real Housewives of New York, RHONY, season 16, episode 2, reality TV, cast analysis, drama, behind-the-scenes, episode review Support the show https://www.wewinewhenever.com/

  3. 4d ago

    RHUGT Luann Cannot Read the Room

    Send us Fan Mail RHUGT S5 E6 Luann Cannot Read the Room RHUGT S5 E6 Cockies and Conversation We’re officially in Miami, and the trip is already getting messy. Lisa Barlow is showering Teresa with compliments, and even the producers notice that Teresa knows exactly what Lisa is doing. Teresa, for her part, appreciates that Lisa has been a good friend to her, especially after the whole airport/bus situation. Meanwhile, Gizelle is still upset that Lisa was late and didn’t apologize, insisting that everyone’s time is valuable. Lisa isn’t interested in a fake apology, but eventually admits she was wrong and understands that being on time is about respect. Before things can get too serious, we get the most unexpected storyline of the episode: Vicki’s digestive emergency. After taking two Dulcolax and two Metamucils, Vicki realizes that perhaps travel constipation is not something you want to aggressively attack all at once. Kyle reminds everyone that they don’t discuss these things in Beverly Hills, although the flashbacks prove that Housewives absolutely do. The women head to the beach, where they meet up with Miami Housewives Marysol Patton and Alexia Nepola and compete in a “Wig Snatcher” challenge featuring wigs representing Housewives from different franchises. Vicki somehow ends up with Kandi’s wig, Luann assumes her volleyball skills will translate to wig stealing, and Kyle proves once again that she is extremely competitive—even stealing Porsha’s wig while Porsha is on her own team. The real conversation, however, is about Vicki feeling out of place on the trip. She admits that when she left the night before, it wasn’t really about her knee; she simply felt uncomfortable and like she didn’t belong. The women compare her experience to Atlanta’s celebration of Nene, with Luann and Gizelle essentially saying that Vicki should have been celebrated by her OC castmates in the same way. Vicki insists she wasn’t jealous and didn’t need attention, but the women clearly want the old “Whoop It Up” Vicki to come out. And with Miami as the backdrop, they eventually get their wish. At lunch and dinner, the tequila starts doing some heavy lifting. Luann brings up Mama Elsa, Marysol tells a touching story about her mother, and then Luann completely derails the moment with an inappropriate story and a declaration about wanting to die having sex. Porsha points out that Luann can’t read the room, and later Luann’s drinking becomes impossible to ignore. Gizelle circles back to the Lisa situation and then drops a much bigger bomb, claiming the Salt Lake City women told her that Lisa talks to bloggers and warning her to stop. Lisa becomes emotional, feeling like her entire character is being attacked because she was late one time. Teresa comforts her, while the group debates accountability, friendships, and whether Lisa is actually leaking information. Eventually Vicki gets the floor, declares that Housewives are a sorority and need to protect one another, takes another shot, and suddenly everyone is loving Vicki again. Meanwhile, Lisa is crying in the bathroom, Luann is buzzing in the car, and Teresa looks like she desperately wants to go to sleep while Luann rambles, sings, and makes absolutely no sense. Miami has officially turned the Housewives energy all the way up. Real Housewives, Miami, Atlanta, Beverly Hills, reality TV, cast drama, episode analysis, Bravo shows Support the show https://www.wewinewhenever.com/

  4. Sep 14

    RHONY Nobody’s Vault Is Safe

    Send us Fan Mail RHONY S16 E1 Nobody’s Vault Is Safe RHONY S16 E1 The Price of Perfection The Real Housewives of New York City is back, and Season 16 wastes no time introducing us to a new cast and plenty of chaos. We meet Daisy, a makeup artist living in Battery Park with her adorable dog and her driver Dale, and she immediately brings some major connections with her — including Martha Stewart as a friend and client. Daisy reveals that she learned makeup at Scores, where she met Sai in their 20s, and we get a glimpse into her glamorous but unconventional life, including her eight-year-old son Quinton. Meanwhile, Sai has finally moved to Manhattan, but behind the scenes she reveals to Jessel that her marriage to David has fallen apart. She says she has been financially supporting the family, feels completely alone, and has reached the point where she has asked for a separation. Sai admits she has been pretending to be happy while trying to protect her husband, and suddenly her friendship with Jessel feels much more genuine as the two bond over what they’re both going through. We also meet Hailey, who rollerblades around Manhattan in a fur coat and keeps a separate apartment from her husband because she’s tired of feeling like a servant at home. Her quirky apartment — complete with protein bars in the oven and thousands of dollars worth of sunglasses — is definitely a vibe. Hailey opens up about her complicated relationship with her mother and how she has always felt responsible for her mother’s happiness, while Erin is struggling with her daughter acting out and gets emotional. At Jessel and Pavit’s house, Jessel is preparing a Year of the Horse celebration after what she describes as a terrible year following the death of her father. The women eventually gather for the party, where tensions immediately start bubbling. Hailey asks Jessel about IVF, only for Jessel to realize that Erin has been sharing personal information about her. A flashback confirms that Erin has been discussing Jessel’s private life, and Jessel is understandably not thrilled. Then comes the confrontation we were waiting for. Jessel tells Erin that she has heard Erin has been on a smear campaign against her, and Erin finally admits that she has called Jessel fake and a snake. Jessel even pulls out a message from Chanel Ayan warning her to “pay attention to that bitch,” which only adds fuel to the fire. Erin insists that friends should confront each other directly, while Jessel argues that Erin has no business spreading information that isn’t hers to tell. Sai sides with Jessel and makes it clear that she trusts her, which seems to make Erin even more furious. Erin calls Jessel the fakest person she knows, Jessel tells her to leave, and eventually Erin and Abe actually have to pack up and go. For a first episode, RHONY is giving us fractured marriages, questionable friendships, oversharing, old grudges, Martha Stewart, and a full-blown party showdown. Honestly, I’m not mad at it — this was a pretty great way to kick off the season. Real Housewives of New York, RHONY, reality TV, season 16, cast analysis, behind the scenes, drama, reunion, housewives, episode review Support the show https://www.wewinewhenever.com/

  5. Sep 13

    RHOC Who Invited Michael?!

    Send us Fan Mail RHOC S20 E10 Who Invited Michael?! RHOC S20 E10 Forbidden Fruit In Real Housewives of Orange County Season 20, Episode 10, “Forbidden Fruit,” the women split up for two very different getaways. Tamra, Heather, Carmela, and Gina head to Santa Barbara, while Vicki hosts Emily, Shannon, and Jenn at her La Quinta desert home. Before they even get settled, the drama surrounding Heather and Carmela continues, with Emily revealing that Heather has been talking about Carmela behind her back while simultaneously using her as a real estate agent. Carmela admits that what bothers her most is the contradiction between Heather privately texting her about how excited she is to see her while apparently calling her “trashy” behind the scenes. Gina is determined to get Heather to acknowledge the hypocrisy, while Tamra points out that this seems to be a pattern with Heather. Meanwhile, Vicki’s relationship drama with Jenn becomes another topic of conversation, with Vicki admitting that Jenn is “low-hanging fruit” when she gets frustrated—which does not exactly make her look better. The two groups continue their separate adventures, with Vicki’s group enjoying her gorgeous desert home, playing golf, making pizzas, and trying to “whoop it up,” while the Santa Barbara group explores Solvang and gets into the Heather/Carmela situation over lunch. Gina confronts Heather about going apartment shopping with Carmela after allegedly calling her trashy, and Heather insists she was simply looking for a rental for Max in an area where Carmela specializes. Carmela is sitting right there trying to understand why everyone is still talking about a conflict she thought had already been addressed. Back in La Quinta, the conversation turns toward Vicki’s behavior, particularly her tendency to go after Jenn and her unwillingness to share much about her own life. Emily calls out the imbalance in the friendship, while Vicki becomes increasingly defensive. Even Shannon, usually Vicki’s biggest ally, tries to explain where the women are coming from, but Vicki refuses to hear it and accuses everyone of bringing negative energy into her home. And then everything completely falls apart. Vicki retreats to her bedroom, complaining that the women are disrespecting her in her own house, just as Michael arrives home. The atmosphere immediately changes, with Shannon wondering if they should simply leave and Emily and Jenn sensing that something is very wrong. Vicki eventually comes back out and tells everyone that Michael is there and that they can “get the f**k out,” before walking away and telling production that she is done. It is an absolutely chaotic ending to an already messy episode, and Vicki somehow manages to become the least welcoming host imaginable in a house she invited everyone to stay in. Between the Heather and Carmela fallout, the ongoing Vicki/Jenn tension, and Michael’s mysterious appearances, “Forbidden Fruit” delivers plenty of reasons to pour a glass of wine and ask: what the hell just happened? Real Housewives of Orange County, RHOC, reality TV, season 20, episode 10, Forbidden Fruit, Bravo, reality show analysis, housewives drama, TV discussion Support the show https://www.wewinewhenever.com/

  6. Sep 10

    RHUGT Lisa Wu Who?

    Send us Fan Mail RHUGT Lisa Wu Who? RHUGT Season 5, Episode 5 — “To Peach Her Own” The Alter Ego party continues with the Housewives bringing plenty of drama along with their costumes. Teresa decides she wants to have Lisa Barlow’s back, remembering how Kenya once defended her on an Ultimate Girls Trip, so she recruits Drew Sidora to join her. Meanwhile, Candiace gets plenty of attention from photographer Derrick Blanks, which immediately seems to irritate Gizelle. The Atlanta legends begin arriving, including 50 Cynt Cynthia Bailey, Kim Zolciak, Sheree Whitfield, Lisa Wu, and finally NeNe Leakes, who makes quite the entrance. Porsha is thrilled to have her Atlanta OGs in the room, but NeNe’s speech quickly causes tension when she praises Kim and Sheree for their contributions to Atlanta while seemingly forgetting Lisa Wu. When Lisa calls her out, NeNe initially refuses to acknowledge that she hurt her feelings, although Sheree tries to get her to simply apologize. The night gets even messier as the SLC drama follows Lisa Barlow to Miami. Lisa is clearly frustrated that her castmates aren't happy for her, while Teresa continues defending her against Heather, who confronts Lisa about allegedly treating her like a mean girl. Heather also makes comments about Lisa’s appearance and whether she has had work done, which only adds fuel to the fire. Teresa calling Heather out for “false accusations” is especially rich considering her own history with accusations about John Fuda. Meanwhile, Kyle is exhausted by being put in the role of referee and admits that Lisa has always been sweet to her. The Atlanta reunion of sorts also gives NeNe and Marlo a chance to bury the hatchet, while Vicki is having a completely different experience. She feels invisible, doesn't think anyone wants her there, and even tells Teresa she feels ugly and wants to leave. Honestly, Vicki needs to stop waiting for everyone else to entertain her and start engaging with the women herself. The next morning, the Housewives head to the airport for Miami, but Lisa is late getting onto the bus and Gizelle immediately lets her have it. Gizelle demands an apology, accusing Lisa of being self-absorbed and disrespectful for making everyone wait. Lisa insists that getting glam wasn't the reason she was late and refuses to apologize until she feels the apology is sincere, which only makes Gizelle and the others more frustrated. Once they arrive in Miami, Luann brings up the situation again while teasing that she would happily take an “old Cuban or a young Cuban,” and plans are made for a beach day and a party. Lisa continues to lean on Teresa, while Gizelle, Luann and Porsha discuss whether Lisa is simply refusing to admit when she's wrong. What should have been a fun Housewives vacation continues to feel like an extension of the individual franchises' unresolved feuds—which may be entertaining, but it definitely isn't the carefree Ultimate Girls Trip experience we were promised. Real Housewives, Ultimate Girls Trip, Season 5, cast drama, reality TV analysis, Bravo, behind-the-scenes, episode review Support the show https://www.wewinewhenever.com/

  7. Sep 8

    RHOC Ring Around the OC

    Send us Fan Mail RHOC Ring Around the OC RHOC S20 E9 Ring of Fire The drama around Heather Dubrow and Carmella continues to grow as Gina starts questioning where she stands with Heather. The issue is that Heather previously called Carmella “trashy,” yet is now developing a friendship with her and even using Carmella’s real-estate expertise to help find an apartment. Emily isn't buying the sudden change of heart and presses Heather about what she really thinks of Carmella. At Jennifer’s garden gathering, Heather finally pulls Carmella aside and admits she prejudged her, apologizing for saying she didn’t belong in the group and for calling her trashy. Carmella accepts the apology, but the bigger question becomes whether Heather’s apology will actually repair things with Gina and Emily.  Meanwhile, the Tres Amigas are once again on shaky ground. Shannon isn't ready for a one-on-one lunch with Tamra, so Tamra bails on the plans and sends flowers with a particularly shady message signed “Tamra Grudge.” Vicki gets pulled into the middle and ends up discussing the latest rumors surrounding her relationship with Michael. Tamra claims Michael has essentially given Vicki a 90-day window to “not piss him off” if she wants that engagement ring, sending the women into a frenzy over whether Vicki is actually engaged—or whether a ring was given and then taken back. Vicki insists the whole thing has been exaggerated and becomes increasingly frustrated that everyone is discussing her relationship.  The episode wraps around birthdays, strained friendships and an attempted dose of positive energy that doesn't exactly work. Shannon's birthday celebrations are overshadowed by her ongoing issues with Tamra, while Jennifer's energy-healing gathering gives the women another opportunity to air their feelings. Vicki ultimately finds herself at the center of the “ring” controversy again, furious that her personal relationship has become group gossip. Carmella, meanwhile, continues her tradition of extravagant gifts, giving Vicki and Shannon Dior presents. With Heather trying to clean up her Carmella mess, Gina questioning her friendship with Heather, and Vicki desperately trying to keep Mike out of the Housewives drama, “Ring of Truth” leaves plenty of unresolved tension heading into the next episode.  Real Housewives of Orange County, RHOC, reality TV, episode review, drama, relationships, Shannon, Tamra, Vicky, Heather, OC Support the show https://www.wewinewhenever.com/

  8. Sep 3

    RHUGT NeNe’s Back—and Vicki Is Smitten

    Send us Fan Mail RHUGT NeNe’s Back—and Vicki Is Smitten RHUGT S5 E4 Meet Me at the Alter….Ego Party The Housewives have officially landed in Atlanta, and considering they were just in Orange County and Beverly Hills, the amount of traveling they’ve done in two days is borderline exhausting. The day starts with a drag brunch at Lips before everyone rushes off for the Alter Ego Party. Luann is fully embracing her Countess persona, while Vicki reveals that her alter ego is Jackie O and recounts the infamous van ride home from the White Party, where she apparently wanted everyone to participate in the “quiet game.” Meanwhile, Lisa and Teresa are thrilled by how much fun they’ve been having together, with Teresa calling their friendship a “breath of fresh air.” Then comes the big surprise: NeNe Leakes arrives at the drag brunch, and the energy immediately changes. The ladies reminisce about classic Atlanta moments, from “Who gon’ check me, boo?” to “Close your legs to married men,” before the drag queens take the stage and impersonate the Housewives. NeNe’s return is easily the emotional highlight of the episode. Everyone is thrilled to see her, especially Luann, who gets visibly emotional about their friendship. NeNe admits she was nervous about coming back and talks about how strange it felt to leave Housewives behind, initially feeling relieved before eventually realizing that she missed being part of it. The conversation takes a more serious turn as NeNe opens up about Gregg’s death and the memories they shared with Kyle and Mauricio, leading to some genuinely touching moments. NeNe also reveals that she has been dating Nyoni on and off for four years, although she has no desire to get married again. She wants to be treated like a wife without necessarily becoming one, and once Nyoni arrives, Vicki is suddenly VERY interested. The ladies then head off to get ready for the Alter Ego Party, with costumes ranging from Teresa as the Queen of Jersey and Gizelle as Diana Ross to Vicki’s Jackie O and Porsha’s Stepford Wife/Lucy-inspired look. The party brings plenty of unfinished business, particularly when Kyle confronts Ashley about her history with Mauricio. Kyle makes it clear that, regardless of the circumstances, she believes there are certain boundaries you don't cross within the Housewives sisterhood, especially while she and Mauricio are still technically married. Ashley offers her side of the story and even manages to throw Stacy under the bus in the process, but ultimately Kyle and Ashley seem to move forward. Meanwhile, the Salt Lake City contingent brings its own drama, with Gizelle filling Heather and Angie K in on her issues with Whitney and Bronwyn, while Heather remains suspicious of Lisa. Heather eventually approaches Lisa to clear the air, but based on the conversation, it seems Heather may have made the entire situation much bigger than it actually was. With NeNe back, Candiace in the building, old grudges resurfacing, and Vicki suddenly captivated by Nyoni, Atlanta proves to be the perfect setting for this group to create even more chaos.  keywords Real Housewives, reality TV, show analysis, drama, comedy, social dynamics, behind-the-scenes Support the show https://www.wewinewhenever.com/

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 Welcome to We Wine Whenever where three middle age, middle class neighborhood women discuss our views on popular shows, our lives and anything else that pops up. Join in the fun and listen in to discover what its really like to be a Jersey Shore housewife as the blonde ,the brunette and the redhead  give you an unfiltered cocktail hour.Together, Wendy ,Kelli and Lori create a vibrant and entertaining podcast that covers a wide range of topics, from the latest Bravo drama to discussions on parenting, relationships, and current events. Their chemistry as co-hosts, combined with their relatability and passion, makes their podcast a must-listen for anyone looking for engaging conversations about everyday life and pop culture. We drink wine whenever and we hope you do too!

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