'Ask, Seek, Knock'

Bunbury Seventh-day Adventist Church

"Welcome to 'Ask, Seek, Knock' - The Podcast!" Join us on a journey of discovery as we explore the power of asking, seeking, and knocking. Each week, we'll invite experts, influencers, and thought leaders to share their insights on a wide range of topics - from personal growth to career development to spiritual enlightenment. You'll learn new skills, gain valuable knowledge, and discover practical advice to help you achieve your goals. So tune in to 'Ask, Seek, Knock' - the podcast that unlocks the doors to your potential. Remember, "Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you." - Matthew 7:7

  1. 2d ago

    Righteousness by Faith

    What does it truly mean to be ready for Christ's return? This sermon takes us on a compelling journey through one of the most pivotal and often overlooked moments in Adventist history, the 1888 Minneapolis General Conference, where a message of righteousness by faith was presented to our church and largely rejected. Drawing a striking parallel to ancient Israel's failure at Kadesh Barnea, where the people stood just 150 kilometres from the Promised Land and turned back in unbelief, we are invited to consider whether we as a church find ourselves in a similar moment today. The message is clear: doctrine alone is not enough. We can know every prophecy, defend every truth, and still be missing the one thing that matters most, a living, personal relationship with Jesus Christ. The law of God is not diminished in this message; rather, it is shown in its proper role as a mirror that reveals our need for a Saviour. True obedience flows not from self-effort but from a heart transformed by grace. As we look at the landmarks of our current moment, including political movements toward Sunday legislation, a Laodicean condition in our churches, and the rapid pace of world events, we are urged to ask ourselves not just what we know, but who we know. Revival begins not with the church at large, but with each of us individually, on our knees, surrendering our hearts to the One who alone can make us ready. Chapters Chapter 1: The Parallel Between Israel and the Adventist Church 0:00 - 7:05 The story of Israel's failure at Kadesh Barnea is compared to what happened at the 1888 Minneapolis General Conference, where a message of salvation by faith was rejected, delaying God's people from entering their promised rest. Chapter 2: Waggoner's Conversion and the Heart of the 1888 Message 7:05 - 19:55 A personal conversion experience transformed Waggoner's understanding of the gospel, and his subsequent preaching on righteousness by faith and the law in Galatians became the heart of the 1888 message. Chapter 3: The Two Covenants and Righteousness by Faith 19:55 - 30:47 The old covenant rested on human promise and failed, while the new covenant rests on God's promise to write his law on our hearts, meaning true obedience flows from faith and grace rather than self-effort. Chapter 4: Recognising the Landmarks and the Call to Personal Revival 30:47 - 44:29 The conditions surrounding 1888 are strikingly similar to our present moment, and the urgent need is not merely for correct doctrine but for personal revival rooted in a genuine encounter with Jesus.

  2. Sep 16

    SESSION 8 | LEAVING A BETTER LEGACY | BUILDING WHAT FUTURE GENERATIONS WILL INHERIT

    What does it truly mean to grow in love? Not the kind of love we stumble into, but the kind that is cultivated, tested, and refined over time. This session draws us into a deeply honest conversation about the journey of sanctification, the gradual process by which God forms his character in us so that the fruit we produce becomes something others can actually taste and be nourished by. Just as no tree consumes its own fruit, we are reminded that the love, joy, peace, and patience we develop are not for our own benefit alone but for the people around us. The question that lingers is a challenging one: what fruit are others consuming from us? And if the answer is uncomfortable, the invitation is not to despair but to go deeper into the roots, drawing from the living source that makes genuine transformation possible. We explore how grace and truth work together in this process, how belonging gives us the safety to face hard truths about ourselves without shame, and how repair after rupture is not a sign of weakness but a mark of maturity. This is grown love, and it is available to every one of us regardless of where we started. Chapters Chapter 1: Healthy Me: The Starting Point of Change 0:00 - 11:40 True family renewal begins with personal transformation, rooted in our identity as children of God and our willingness to participate in the healing process. Chapter 2: Grace, Truth, and the Fruit We Produce 11:40 - 27:40 The fruit of the Spirit is not for our own consumption but for others to experience, and producing good fruit requires that our roots remain deeply connected to Christ. Chapter 3: Grown Love: Moving from Reaction to Repair 27:40 - 41:00 Maturing in love means learning to slow down, regulate our reactions, and pursue repair after rupture, trusting that God is forming Christlike character in us through the process. Chapter 4: Legacy: What We Leave Behind 41:00 - 61:46 The decisions we make today shape a legacy that extends far beyond what we can see, and God is able to redeem even the most broken family stories for purposes greater than we imagine.

  3. Sep 15

    SESSION 7 | CREATING SAFE RELATIONSHIPS | LEARNING TO LOVE WITHOUT FEAR

    What if the silence we keep to protect the people we love is actually the very thing driving us apart? This session takes us into the heart of one of the most uncomfortable truths about family life: we cannot heal what we cannot tell the truth about. Using the story of a divorced mother quietly falling apart while her children carry their own hidden burdens alone, we are invited to see how well-intentioned silence can quietly fracture the bonds we are trying to preserve. The spiritual insight here is profound. Grace is not the absence of truth. It is the very thing that makes truth safe enough to speak. When we understand that God is a relational God who meets us in our raw and imperfect humanity, we begin to see that vulnerability is not weakness. It is the courageous act of allowing ourselves to be truly known. The session draws on the account in John 4, where Jesus meets a Samaritan woman at a well, to show us what it looks like when truth and grace walk together. He does not ignore her reality, nor does he crush her with it. He disarms her so completely that she runs back to her community transformed. That is the model. That is what becomes possible when we stop choosing between honesty and kindness, and learn that the two were never meant to be separated. Chapters Chapter 1: The Cost of Silence in Family Life 0:00 - 12:56 We explore how unspoken truth creates disconnection within families, using the story of a divorced mother and her children to illustrate how silence, though well-intentioned, can isolate every member of a family. Chapter 2: Vulnerability and the Fear of Being Known 12:56 - 29:17 We examine how shame and the fear of disconnection keep us from being vulnerable, and how true connection requires the courage to let ourselves be fully seen. Chapter 3: Jesus as the Model of Grace and Truth 29:17 - 46:02 We look to Jesus as our ultimate example of how to deliver truth without wounding, examining how he engaged the woman at the well with such disarming grace that she left transformed rather than condemned. Chapter 4: Creating Safety for Truth to Be Told 46:02 - 60:49 We unpack a practical framework for making truth-telling safe, and return to Rachel's story to see how one act of honest vulnerability unlocked healing for an entire family.

  4. Sep 14

    SESSION 6 | THE PAIN BENEATH THE SURFACE | HEALING HIDDEN WOUNDS

    What if the behaviors that frustrate us most in others are actually invitations to look deeper, not just at them, but at ourselves? This session takes us beneath the surface of everyday family conflict to explore what is really driving the reactions, the silence, the anger, and the withdrawal we so often encounter. Drawing on the story of Peter, we are reminded that the same man who declared undying loyalty, drew a sword in the garden, and then denied knowing Jesus three times was not simply inconsistent. He was afraid, pressured, and caught between who he wanted to be and who he was in that moment. Jesus did not write him off. Instead, he prayed for him, restored him over a beachside breakfast, and commissioned him for greater purpose. The spiritual insight here is profound: grace does not erase accountability, but it refuses to let failure have the final word. We are challenged to ask ourselves what might be underneath the behavior we see in our children, our spouses, our siblings, and even in ourselves. The pause between reaction and response is not passive. It is where transformation begins. When we stop demanding that others change before we do, and instead ask God to show us what we cannot yet see, we become catalytic agents of healing in our own families. Chapters Chapter 1: Looking Beyond the Surface: What Drives Our Behavior 0:00 - 6:55 We are challenged to look beyond visible behaviors in ourselves and others to discover the hidden pain and fear that drives them. Chapter 2: Peter's Story: Grace, Failure, and the Journey Toward Wholeness 6:55 - 17:48 The story of Peter illustrates how our visible failures often mask deeper fears, and how God's grace restores rather than condemns. Chapter 3: A Family in Tension: Practicing the Pause 17:48 - 37:47 Through a relatable family scenario, we learn how pausing, noticing, and choosing curiosity can transform conflict into connection. Chapter 4: Empathy Over Sympathy: Seeing as Christ Sees 37:47 - 65:03 We explore the difference between sympathy and empathy, and are called to see one another with the compassionate eyes of Christ.

  5. Sep 13

    SESSION 5 | WHAT'S GOD TRYING TO SHOW ME? | FINDING CLARITY IN THE IN-BETWEEN

    What if the patterns we repeat in our closest relationships are not character flaws but survival strategies we learned long before we had the wisdom to choose differently? This session takes us on a deeply honest journey into the hidden architecture of how we connect and disconnect with the people we love most. Drawing on the profound prayer of Psalms 139, where the psalmist cries out for God to search the heart and reveal its anxious thoughts, we are invited to consider that God may already be answering prayers we have been praying for years, prayers for change, for peace, for better relationships, by first showing us what we have failed to see in ourselves. The spiritual insight here is both humbling and liberating: sanctification is not only about acquiring knowledge of scripture, but about allowing God to shine light into the subterranean levels of our souls so that emotional maturity and spiritual growth can happen together. We cannot grow past what we refuse to notice, and noticing is itself a gift from God. Chapters Chapter 1: Recapping the Foundation: Love Styles and Attachment 0:00 - 11:10 We revisit the core framework of the series, exploring how our childhood attachment experiences have shaped five distinct love styles that govern how we protect ourselves in relationships. Chapter 2: From Branches to Roots: Naming What We Feel and What We Need 11:10 - 31:21 We move beneath observable behaviour to identify the feelings and unmet needs that drive our protective love styles, recognizing that emotional language is essential for genuine growth. Chapter 3: Emotionally Healthy Spirituality: Growing Where We Have Been Stuck 31:21 - 50:08 We explore the connection between emotional maturity and spiritual growth, recognising that God desires us to grow in both dimensions simultaneously rather than remaining spiritually knowledgeable but emotionally underdeveloped. Chapter 4: The New Dance: Counter-Cultural Growth Edges for Every Love Style 50:08 - 69:04 We identify practical growth edges for each love style and embrace the counter-cultural, counter-intuitive work of choosing new patterns of relating within our families.

  6. Sep 12

    SESSION 2 | THE HIDDEN RULES THAT SHAPE US | UNDERSTANDING THE MESSAGES WE INHERITED

    What if the way we love others today is a direct echo of how we were loved as children? This session takes us on a deeply personal and spiritually grounding journey into the roots of our relationships. Drawing from the creation account in Genesis, we explore how the Godhead itself modeled the very first relationship, and how we were designed to reflect that same connection with one another. When sin fractured that bond, it did not just separate us from God, it also disrupted how we connect with each other and with the world around us. The good news woven throughout this conversation is that God is not content to leave us in that fractured state. He is actively in the business of restoring families, healing wounds, and reconnecting what was broken. We are invited to ask the same question the Psalmist raised in Psalms 139, verses 23 and 24, where he pleads with God to search him deeply and reveal what lies hidden within. That kind of honest self-examination is not easy, but it is the beginning of true transformation. As we listen, we are gently challenged to consider what comfort looked like in our own childhoods, who provided it, and how its presence or absence has quietly shaped the way we give and receive love today. Chapters Chapter 1: Created for Connection: The Foundation of Relationship 0:00 - 6:41 We explore how God designed humanity for connection, and how sin fractured that connection at every level. Chapter 2: From Comfort to Coping: How Our Past Shapes Our Present 6:41 - 20:31 We examine how the comfort we received as children shapes the coping strategies we carry into adult life and relationships. Chapter 3: Attachment Theory: The Patterns We Inherit and Pass On 20:31 - 44:03 We learn how childhood attachment experiences form patterns that follow us into adulthood and are often handed down through generations. Chapter 4: Five Love Styles: Understanding How We Cope with Disconnection 44:03 - 65:07 We explore the five love styles that emerge from unmet childhood needs, and discover how God calls us toward becoming secure connectors.

  7. Sep 12

    SESSION 3 | GO HOME!

    What does it mean to truly go home? That question sits at the heart of a powerful exploration drawn from Mark chapter 5, where Jesus crosses a stormy sea to reach a man living among tombs -- broken, bound, and forgotten by his community. The central insight is striking: the gospel does not begin with us finding our way to God. It begins with God moving toward us. Before the man could change, before he could clean himself up or present himself as worthy, Jesus had already crossed over. That movement tells us everything about the heart of God. He is not standing at a safe distance waiting for us to get ourselves together. He is moving toward the places and the people everyone else has learned to avoid. As we sit with this story, we are invited to ask ourselves whether we have truly grasped the depth of that pursuit. The man in the tombs could not even speak his own name -- what answered Jesus was the very thing that had taken hold of his life. And yet Jesus never stopped seeing the person beneath the condition. That is the grace we are all living inside of, whether we recognize it or not. The message challenges us to stop confusing our wounds with our identity, and to understand that what we have learned to do to survive does not have to become who we are forever. Chapters Chapter 1: Jesus Crosses Over to Meet Us 0:00 - 10:20 The story of the demon-possessed man in Mark 5 reveals that Jesus actively moves toward broken humanity rather than waiting for us to come to him. Chapter 2: Your Wound Is Not Your Name 10:20 - 19:40 Whatever has overtaken a person's identity does not define them, because Jesus sees the human being beneath the condition and has the power to overcome what holds us captive. Chapter 3: Restored For Something: Go Home 19:40 - 32:50 Jesus does not merely rescue us from bondage but restores us for a purpose, sending the healed man back home to the very people who knew him at his worst. Chapter 4: The Change Starts With You 32:50 - 45:17 True transformation begins not with changing others but with allowing Christ to change us personally, and our most powerful witness is the testimony of what God has done in our own lives.

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"Welcome to 'Ask, Seek, Knock' - The Podcast!" Join us on a journey of discovery as we explore the power of asking, seeking, and knocking. Each week, we'll invite experts, influencers, and thought leaders to share their insights on a wide range of topics - from personal growth to career development to spiritual enlightenment. You'll learn new skills, gain valuable knowledge, and discover practical advice to help you achieve your goals. So tune in to 'Ask, Seek, Knock' - the podcast that unlocks the doors to your potential. Remember, "Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you." - Matthew 7:7