LIKELY LOSER - Online Business for Introverted Christian Women

Reen | Christian Business Coach, Purpose Coach, Online Marketing Strategist

✨The Go-To Podcast for Introverted Christian Women Ready to Be the Leaders They Are Called to Be ✨Top 2.5% Global Podcast 🫵🏾Are you tired of feeling different, like the odd-ball-out, overlooked, misunderstood? 🫵🏾Do you feel called to grow a Kingdom online business, to lead, to serve, to make more money and more impact, but you don't know how? 🫵🏾Are you sick of feeling pressure to be more talkative, bolder, or more experienced before you even start? There is a way to grow your business, grow your confidence, without completely dismantling who you are. Hey I'm Sheereen aka Reen, I am a Christian Business Coach, CEO, and speaker all while being the quietest weirdo ever. Want to learn how? In this podcast, I will teach you how to: -> Grow your business without having to be talkative, on social media 24/7, or experienced -> How to lead with confidence -> How to stand out and make money from your business by using your personality -> How to grow spiritually as a ...

  1. 15H AGO

    120 | How To Chase After Your Calling (Not To Be Confused With Your Purpose)

    Key Takeaways: 🔥 1. Your Purpose Is Fixed — Your Calling Is Flexible Let’s settle this first. The Bible is clear about your purpose: 📖 “Whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God.” — 1 Corinthians 10:31 Your purpose is to glorify God. That never changes—no matter your season, job, or title. Your calling, however, is: The skills you use The problems you solve The people you serve The assignments God entrusts to you over time Truth punch: You don’t need to “find” your purpose. You need to express it through obedience. Calling answers how. Purpose answers why. 🧠 2. Why Calling Feels So Confusing for Introverted Women Identity moment—this matters. Introverts tend to: Overthink decisions Internalize pressure Delay action until things feel “right” So instead of chasing calling, you analyze it. You ask: “What if I choose wrong?” “What if this isn’t what God wants?” “What if I miss it?” Sharp insight: Calling is rarely revealed through contemplation. It’s revealed through participation. 📖 Psalm 119:105 — “Your word is a lamp to my feet, not a floodlight to the future.” God gives light for the next step, not the whole staircase. 🛑 3. You’re Not Waiting on God — You’re Waiting on Certainty This is where many believers get stuck. You say: “I’m praying about it.” But what you really mean is: “I don’t want to move unless I can’t fail.” Truth punch: Faith doesn’t eliminate risk—it responds to God despite it. Biblical calling always required movement: Abraham left before knowing the destination Peter stepped out before the water felt solid Esther spoke up before safety was guaranteed 📖 Hebrews 11:8 — “By faith Abraham obeyed and went, even though he did not know where he was going.” 🧰 4. Your Skills Are Not Random — They Are the Vehicle Here’s where many Christian women minimize themselves. You think: “It’s just something I’m good at” “Other people can do this better” “This doesn’t feel spiritual enough” But Scripture says otherwise. 📖 Romans 12:6 — “We have different gifts, according to the grace given to each of us.” Your calling is not separate from your skills. It flows through them. Calling = the means by which you glorify God. Teaching. Writing. Coaching. Organizing. Creating. Leading. Building. God doesn’t waste gifts. He deploys them. 🌱 5. Calling Is Chased Through Faithful Action, Not Perfection Calling isn’t a destination you arrive at. It’s a direction you commit to. You don’t chase your calling by: Waiting until you feel ready Having all the answers Eliminating fear You chase it by: Saying yes to what’s in front of you Being faithful with what you already have Adjusting as God redirects 📖 Proverbs 16:9 — “In their hearts humans plan their course, but the Lord establishes their steps.” Movement invites refinement. Let’s Take Action: 📝 Step 1: Separate Purpose from Calling Write this down: My purpose: To glorify God My current calling may look like: (list skills, opportunities, burdens) This removes pressure immediately. 🧠 Step 2: Inventory Your Skills Ask: What do people already come to me for? What feels natural but impactful? What problems do I feel responsible to help solve? Those are clues—not coincidences. 🚶 Step 3: Take One Obedient Step Not the whole plan. Not the forever decision. Just: One post One conversation One offer One act of service Clarity follows obedience.

    19 min
  2. FEB 17

    119 | When Discernment Feels Broken — How to Trust God Again After Being Hurt

    Key Talking Points: 💔 1. Pain Doesn’t Mean You Can’t Discern — It Means You’re Guarded Let’s get this straight first: You’re not spiritually broken. You’re not “bad at hearing God.” You’re wounded. When you’ve been hurt before: Your nervous system learns to brace Your mind looks for threats Your heart hesitates before trusting again That’s not rebellion. That’s self-protection. Truth punch: If discernment feels foggy, it’s often because fear is trying to keep you safe—not because God stopped speaking. Biblical truth: 📖 Psalm 34:18 — “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted.” God does not withdraw from wounded people. He draws nearer. 🧠 2. Trauma Trains You to Second-Guess God’s Voice This is subtle but powerful. After hurt, your inner dialogue sounds like: “What if I heard wrong?” “What if I trust again and get hurt again?” “What if I mess everything up?” So instead of discerning, you hesitate. Instead of listening, you analyze. Instead of moving, you wait for certainty. Sharp insight: Fear after pain doesn’t scream. It whispers doubt in a calm, logical tone. But discernment isn’t certainty—it’s trust in motion. Biblical truth: 📖 Isaiah 30:21 — “Whether you turn to the right or to the left, you will hear a voice behind you, saying, ‘This is the way; walk in it.’” God’s guidance is often directional, not detailed. 🪞 3. Why Introverted Women Struggle Here the Most This is the identity moment. Introverts already live internally. After pain, that internal world becomes even louder. You replay: What you missed What you ignored What you wish you’d done differently So now you think: “I can’t trust myself.” Truth: Your reflection is a strength—but when mixed with hurt, it can turn into self-distrust. God never asked you to trust yourself. He asked you to trust Him—even when your discernment is being rebuilt. Biblical truth: 📖 Proverbs 3:5 — “Lean not on your own understanding.” That includes the understanding shaped by pain. 🛑 4. Discernment Isn’t About Avoiding Pain — It’s About Obedience in Spite of It Here’s a hard but freeing truth: Good discernment does not guarantee painless outcomes. Sometimes: You discern correctly and it still hurts You obey God and it still costs you You follow His lead and people fail you That doesn’t mean you missed God. Truth punch: Pain is not proof you discerned wrong. God never promised safety. He promised presence. Biblical truth: 📖 John 16:33 — “In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.” 🧭 5. Healing Comes Before Clarity If you’re asking God for direction but ignoring your wounds, clarity will feel distant. Sometimes the prayer isn’t: “God, what should I do?” It’s: “God, help me trust You again.” Discernment flows best through a softened heart, not a defended one. Biblical truth: 📖 Ezekiel 36:26 — “I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit in you.” God restores sensitivity before direction. Let’s Take Action: 📝 Step 1: Name the Wound Ask yourself: Where did I trust God and feel hurt afterward? What did I learn to fear from that experience? Be honest. God can handle it. 🙏 Step 2: Separate God from the Outcome Write this down: “Just because it hurt doesn’t mean God wasn’t there.” Release the belief that pain equals failure. 🧠 Step 3: Ask for Restoration, Not Just Direction Pray: “God, heal my ability to trust You—not just my ability to decide.” 🚶 Step 4: Practice Discernment in Small, Safe Steps You don’t need a big leap. Start with: One small obedience One clear boundary One faithful action Confidence returns through movement.

    20 min
  3. FEB 10

    Repost | Can You Love Jesus, Make Money, and Not Be Fake

    Key Takeaways: ✝️ 1. Yes, You Can Love Jesus and Make Money Jesus talked about money—a lot. Not to condemn it, but to redeem our relationship with it. Deuteronomy 8:18 – “It is God who gives you the ability to produce wealth.” Money isn’t the enemy—idolatry is. Your business is a tool, not your identity. 💰 2. You’re Not “Less Holy” for Wanting to Earn God wired you with gifts to create, solve problems, and generate income. Making money in your business allows you to be generous, present with your family, and focused on your mission. You can honor God in the way you earn, not just in what you give. 😬 3. How to Make Sales Without Being Fake Drop the script. No need for hype or manipulation. Speak from experience, from truth, and from service. Show up consistently and let your character market for you. Proverbs 11:1 – “The Lord detests dishonest scales, but accurate weights find favor with Him.” 🌿 4. Business as Ministry (Yes, Really) Every offer, post, email, or podcast is a chance to reflect God’s heart. You don’t need a pulpit—you need to show up in obedience. You can build a brand that’s bold, biblical, and believable without watering down your values. 🙌 Let’s Take Action: Commit Your Work to God Start your week by reading Proverbs especially Proverbs 16:3 and asking Him to bless your hands and heart. Check Your Heart Ask: Am I afraid of making money because I think it’s ungodly—or because I’m afraid of what people will think? Reframe Your Sales Message Instead of “buy this,” try: “Here’s how I can help you solve this problem, and why I believe it matters.”

    15 min
  4. FEB 3

    118 | Still Not Getting Clients? Diagnose the Real Problem Before You Quit

    Key Takeaways 🔥 1. Stop Assuming You’re the Problem — Diagnose the System Most women jump straight to: “I’m not cut out for this” “Maybe I heard God wrong” “Other people are just better at this” But business works on cause and effect. If clients aren’t coming, ask: Is the problem visibility? Clarity? Trust? Offer? Invitation? Feelings don’t fix funnels. Diagnosis does. Biblical Truth: 📖 Proverbs 4:7 — “Though it cost all you have, get understanding.” Understanding comes before breakthrough. 🔥 2. Diagnose the Real Reason Clients Aren’t Saying Yes Let’s get specific. One of these is almost always the issue: ❌ Problem #1: People Don’t Know What You Do If someone can’t explain your offer in one sentence, they won’t buy. Too vague Too many ideas Too spiritual, not practical Clarity creates confidence. ❌ Problem #2: You’re Educating but Not Inviting Posting tips ≠ making offers. If you’re never clearly saying: “Here’s how I can help” “Here’s the next step” “Here’s how to work with me” People assume you’re not open for business. ❌ Problem #3: Your Offer Is Unclear or Too Big New businesses often sell: outcomes that feel unrealistic offers that feel overwhelming packages without a clear win People buy clear transformations, not potential. ❌ Problem #4: There’s No Trust Bridge If you don’t share: stories results personal conviction why you care People don’t feel safe buying — even if they like you. Biblical Truth: 📖 Romans 10:14 — “How can they believe if they have not heard?” Silence doesn’t create faith. Clarity does. 🔥 3. Why Introverts Get Stuck Here Identity Moment: Introverts often assume: “If my work is good enough, people will just find me.” But business doesn’t reward quiet excellence — it rewards clear communication. You don’t need to be louder. You need to be more direct. Biblical Truth: 📖 Matthew 5:14 — “A city on a hill cannot be hidden.” Visibility is stewardship, not vanity. 🔥 4. God Isn’t Testing You — He’s Teaching You A slow season doesn’t mean: you failed God changed His mind you missed your moment It often means God is refining: your message your offer your leadership your courage Delay is not denial — but it is instruction. Biblical Truth: 📖 James 1:5 — “If any of you lacks wisdom, ask God…” Wisdom helps you adjust — not quit. Let’s Take Action 📝 1. Do a Client Clarity Audit Answer honestly: Can someone clearly describe what I sell? Is my offer easy to understand? Have I invited people to work with me this week? If the answer is no — start there. 🔍 2. Identify the ONE Missing Piece Choose the most likely gap: clarity offer trust invitation consistency Don’t fix everything. Fix one thing. 🗣️ 3. Make One Clear Invitation This Week Examples: “Here’s how I help…” “If you want support with ___, this is for you.” “DM me if you want help with ___.” Clarity builds confidence — for you and them. 🙏 4. Pray This Prayer “God, show me what needs adjustment — not what needs abandonment. Give me wisdom to see clearly and courage to respond.” 🌿 5. Declare This Truth “I don’t need to quit. I need clarity and courage.”

    26 min
  5. JAN 27

    117 | God Didn't Call You To Be Safe

    Key Takeaways: 🔥 1. Clarity Isn’t the Problem — Courage Is Most people who say “I’m still praying about it” already know the answer. You felt the conviction. You recognized the nudge. You knew the next step. But obedience would require: disappointing someone risking failure being seen letting go of safety So instead, we spiritualize hesitation. Truth punch: If God had not spoken, there would be confusion. But when God speaks, resistance usually feels like “waiting.” Biblical truth: 📖 John 10:27 — “My sheep hear my voice… and they follow me.” Hearing is not the issue. Following is. 🔥 2. When Discernment Becomes a Delay Tactic Discernment is meant to protect obedience — not postpone it. But many believers use: “I just want peace first” “I’m waiting for confirmation” “I don’t want to rush God” …as a way to avoid movement. Here’s the hard truth: God rarely gives comfort before obedience. Peace usually follows obedience — it doesn’t precede it. Sharp insight: If you need more confirmation than obedience requires, you may be seeking reassurance, not God. Biblical truth: 📖 James 1:22 — “Do not merely listen to the word… do what it says.” 🔥 3. Obedience Will Cost You Something — That’s the Point God’s instructions often confront: people-pleasing perfectionism fear of being misunderstood desire for control If obedience doesn’t cost you anything, it’s probably convenience — not calling. Delay feels safer because it keeps you: responsible but not accountable spiritual but unchanged informed but uncommitted Truth punch: Delayed obedience doesn’t feel rebellious — it feels reasonable. But heaven still calls it disobedience. Biblical truth: 📖 Luke 9:23 — “Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves…” 🔥 4. You Don’t Need Another Answer — You Need Alignment God is not obligated to keep repeating Himself. At some point: prayer becomes negotiation journaling becomes justification waiting becomes hiding And clarity turns into clutter. This is the identity moment (especially for introverts): Introverted women often delay because they want to be certain before being visible — but God builds confidence after obedience, not before. Biblical truth: 📖 Proverbs 3:5–6 — “Trust in the Lord… do not lean on your own understanding.” 🙌 Let’s Take Action: This episode is incomplete without movement. 1️⃣ Name the Answer You’ve Been Avoiding Ask yourself honestly: “What did God already tell me — that I’ve been hoping He’d change?” Write it down. No editing. No softening. 2️⃣ Identify the Real Resistance Finish this sentence: “I haven’t obeyed because I’m afraid of __________.” Fear loses power when it’s named. 3️⃣ Take the Smallest Step of Obedience Not the whole plan. Not the final outcome. Just the next faithful step: send the email make the decision set the boundary launch imperfectly say yes (or no) God doesn’t bless intentions. He blesses obedience. 4️⃣ Declare This Out Loud “I don’t need more answers. I need more obedience.” Say it until it stops stinging.

    16 min
  6. JAN 20

    116 | God Already Answered You — You Just Don’t Like the Answer

    Key Takeaways: 🔥 1. Clarity Isn’t the Problem — Courage Is Most people who say “I’m still praying about it” already know the answer. You felt the conviction. You recognized the nudge. You knew the next step. But obedience would require: disappointing someone risking failure being seen letting go of safety So instead, we spiritualize hesitation. Biblical truth: 📖 John 10:27 — “My sheep hear my voice… and they follow me.” Hearing is not the issue. Following is. 🔥 2. When Discernment Becomes a Delay Tactic Discernment is meant to protect obedience — not postpone it. But many believers use: “I just want peace first” “I’m waiting for confirmation” “I don’t want to rush God” …as a way to avoid movement. Here’s the hard truth: God rarely gives comfort before obedience. Peace usually follows obedience — it doesn’t precede it. Biblical truth: 📖 James 1:22 — “Do not merely listen to the word… do what it says.” 🔥 3. Obedience Will Cost You Something — That’s the Point God’s instructions often confront: people-pleasing perfectionism fear of being misunderstood desire for control If obedience doesn’t cost you anything, it’s probably convenience — not calling. Delay feels safer because it keeps you: responsible but not accountable spiritual but unchanged informed but uncommitted Biblical truth: 📖 Luke 9:23 — “Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves…” 🔥 4. You Don’t Need Another Answer — You Need Alignment God is not obligated to keep repeating Himself. At some point: prayer becomes negotiation journaling becomes justification waiting becomes hiding And clarity turns into clutter. This is the identity moment (especially for introverts): Introverted women often delay because they want to be certain before being visible — but God builds confidence after obedience, not before. Biblical truth: 📖 Proverbs 3:5–6 — “Trust in the Lord… do not lean on your own understanding.” 🙌 Let’s Take Action: This episode is incomplete without movement. 1️⃣ Name the Answer You’ve Been Avoiding Ask yourself honestly: “What did God already tell me — that I’ve been hoping He’d change?” Write it down. No editing. No softening. 2️⃣ Identify the Real Resistance Finish this sentence: “I haven’t obeyed because I’m afraid of __________.” Fear loses power when it’s named. 3️⃣ Take the Smallest Step of Obedience Not the whole plan. Not the final outcome. Just the next faithful step: send the email make the decision set the boundary launch imperfectly say yes (or no) God doesn’t bless intentions. He blesses obedience. 4️⃣ Declare This Out Loud “I don’t need more answers. I need more obedience.”

    15 min
  7. 115 | Stop Asking for a Sign — What Did God Already Say?

    JAN 6

    115 | Stop Asking for a Sign — What Did God Already Say?

    Key Takeaways 🔥 1. Jesus Was Clear: Sign-Seeking Is a Faith Issue When religious leaders demanded a sign, Jesus didn’t comply — He rebuked them. They weren’t confused. They were unwilling. They wanted proof without obedience. Biblical Truth: Matthew 16:1–4 — “A wicked and adulterous generation seeks after a sign…” Luke 11:29 — “This generation is an evil generation; it seeks a sign…” Jesus didn’t condemn curiosity — He confronted resistance disguised as spirituality. 🔥 2. Signs Are Often Requested When We Don’t Like the Answer Let’s be honest — most of us don’t ask for signs because we’re lost. We ask because: the step feels scary obedience costs something the outcome isn’t guaranteed we might look foolish we fear failing Asking for a sign becomes a way to delay discomfort. Biblical Truth: James 1:6–8 — “The one who doubts is like a wave of the sea…” Double-mindedness keeps us spiritually stalled. 🔥 3. God Has Already Spoken More Than We Acknowledge Before asking God to speak again, ask: Have I read what He already said? Have I obeyed what I already know? Have I stewarded the clarity I already received? God often waits for obedience before giving further instruction. Biblical Truth: Psalm 119:105 — “Your word is a lamp to my feet…” A lamp shows the next step — not the entire staircase. 🔥 4. But What About Gideon? (Context Matters) Yes — Gideon asked for signs. But here’s what we forget: God had already spoken clearly to Gideon (Judges 6:14) Gideon wasn’t rebellious — he was insecure God accommodated Gideon’s weakness — He didn’t prescribe it God met Gideon in his fear — but He didn’t design sign-seeking as the model for faith. Gideon’s story shows God’s mercy — not our permission to delay obedience indefinitely. Biblical Truth: Judges 6:14 — “The Lord turned to him and said, ‘Go in the strength you have.’” God didn’t say “Wait for more proof.” He said go. 🔥 5. God’s Silence Is Not Confusion — It’s an Invitation to Trust Sometimes God is quiet because: He already spoke He’s watching for obedience He’s strengthening your discernment He’s teaching you to walk by faith, not feeling Silence doesn’t mean absence. Biblical Truth: 2 Corinthians 5:7 — “For we walk by faith, not by sight.” Faith matures when we stop demanding guarantees. 🔥 6. Trusting God Often Looks Like Moving Without a Sign Biblical obedience often happened before clarity: Abraham left before knowing the destination Peter stepped out of the boat before certainty Esther acted without assurance of survival God honors movement rooted in trust. Biblical Truth: Hebrews 11:8 — “By faith Abraham obeyed and went…” Faith moves first — understanding follows. Let’s Take Action 📝 1. Identify Where You’re Waiting for a Sign Write down: the decision you’ve been delaying the step you know you’re supposed to take the fear attached to it Clarity begins with honesty. 🧠 2. Ask This Better Question Instead of: “God, give me a sign.” Ask: “God, what have You already said about this?” Then revisit Scripture, prayer, and past convictions. 🛤️ 3. Take the Next Obvious Step Not the whole plan. Not the final outcome. Just the next faithful step you already know. God reveals more in motion. 🙏 4. Pray This Prayer “Lord, forgive me for delaying obedience in the name of wisdom. Help me trust Your voice, Your Word, and the clarity You’ve already given me.” 📖 5. Scriptures to Meditate On This Week Matthew 16:1–4 Luke 11:29–32 Judges 6 🌿 6. Declare This Truth “I don’t need another sign. I need deeper trust.” What's Next --> Why Your Content isn't Converting: a 10 Minute Self-Audit for Christian Women --

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✨The Go-To Podcast for Introverted Christian Women Ready to Be the Leaders They Are Called to Be ✨Top 2.5% Global Podcast 🫵🏾Are you tired of feeling different, like the odd-ball-out, overlooked, misunderstood? 🫵🏾Do you feel called to grow a Kingdom online business, to lead, to serve, to make more money and more impact, but you don't know how? 🫵🏾Are you sick of feeling pressure to be more talkative, bolder, or more experienced before you even start? There is a way to grow your business, grow your confidence, without completely dismantling who you are. Hey I'm Sheereen aka Reen, I am a Christian Business Coach, CEO, and speaker all while being the quietest weirdo ever. Want to learn how? In this podcast, I will teach you how to: -> Grow your business without having to be talkative, on social media 24/7, or experienced -> How to lead with confidence -> How to stand out and make money from your business by using your personality -> How to grow spiritually as a ...