Trauma Demystified

Natalie Jovanic
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Welcome to Trauma Demystified by Bright Horizon Therapies, hosted by Natalie Jovanic, a Complex Trauma Coach and Trauma Counsellor with over 15 years of experience supporting adults healing from complex trauma, childhood trauma, and relational trauma. If you function well on the outside but internally feel stuck in patterns of freeze, overthinking, people-pleasing, or relational confusion, this podcast is for you. With lived experience and 15 years of clinical practice, Natalie explores what healing from complex trauma actually looks like — beyond symptom management and beyond surface-level advice.  Drawing from the Integrative Trauma Recovery Model™, you'll learn why your nervous system reacts the way it does, how trauma fragments parts of the self, and what structured, integrative recovery can involve. These conversations are honest, nuanced, and grounded in real therapeutic practice. Because healing isn't about avoiding triggers — it's about building capacity, restoring self-trust, and learning how to live differently. If you're ready to move from insight to integration, you're in the right place.

  1. 4D AGO

    Boundaries in Adulthood: Healing Childhood Trauma

    Send a text Looking for support to work on this? Book a free consultation: https://brighthorizontherapies.janeapp.com/#/staff_member/1 Learn more about Childhood Trauma Coaching for Adults: https://brighthorizontherapies.com/childhood-trauma-coaching-for-adults/Have you ever read articles about healthy boundaries but had no idea how to actually get there? Or tried to set boundaries but felt your system shut down? In this episode, I explore what most boundary advice misses: the interdependent inner process of building healthy boundaries after childhood abuse. We dive into why boundaries are so hard after trauma, the connection between boundaries and assertiveness, and the journey of reconnecting with your body to recognize what's okay and what isn't. This isn't about scripts and tips—it's about the deeper healing work that makes boundaries possible. What you'll learn: What boundaries actually are and how childhood abuse disrupts boundary developmentWhy assertiveness (not aggression or submission) is the foundation for healthy boundariesHow your body, nervous system, emotions, and parts all play a role in boundary workThe 8 pillars for reconnecting with your boundariesWhy boundaries need to be communicated (and why you can't know someone's boundary before crossing it)Practical exercises for both setting and receiving boundariesWho this is for: This episode is for adults healing from childhood trauma, childhood abuse, or who grew up in dysfunctional families. It's for people ready to do the inner work of reconnecting with themselves while building healthier relationships. This is educational, growth-oriented content for people committed to their healing journey. Additional Resources: Understanding the Nervous System: https://brighthorizontherapies.com/blog/polyvagal-theory-for-trauma/Parts Work Therapy to Heal Childhood Trauma: https://brighthorizontherapies.com/blog/parts-work-therapy-for-adults-with-childhood-trauma/Complete Guide to Healthy Boundaries: https://brighthorizontherapies.com/blog/boundaries-in-relationships/If you’d like to explore more, here are some ways to connect: Discover more about my work: https://brighthorizontherapies.com/ Follow along on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brighthorizontherapies/ Send me a message: nat@brighthorizontherapies.com Trauma Demystified is not intended to replace professional guidance, support, medical treatment, or therapy. Please feel free to consult your physician or a mental health professional for any questions about mental health symptoms. Bright Horizon Therapies is located in the Treaty 7 region in Southern Alberta, which includes the Blackfoot Confederacy, the Tsuut’ina First Nation, and the Stoney Nakoda. This land is also home to Métis Nation of Alberta, Region III. I acknowledge the traditional caregivers of the land and the importance of a commitment to the continued decolonization of my work.

    31 min

  2. 10/27/2025

    When the Past Shows Up: Understanding Childhood Trauma Triggers as an Adult

    Send a text Have you ever had a reaction that felt way bigger than the situation? In this episode, I break down what childhood trauma triggers in adulthood really are—and why I prefer calling them "activated parts." We explore the complex truth that most people miss: when parts get activated, it's usually about both the past and something real happening in the present. What you'll learn: What triggers actually are and how they connect to implicit memories in your bodyWhy "activated parts" is more empowering than "triggered"How your parts carry old pain and respond to present-day truth simultaneouslyWhat activation looks like in daily life (emotions, trauma responses, body sensations)The critical difference between activated parts, retraumatization, and normal emotionsWho this is for: This episode is for adults healing from childhood trauma or childhood abuse who are ready to hold complexity, trust themselves, and take responsibility for their healing journey. This is educational and growth-oriented content for people ready to engage actively with their healing. Mentioned Episodes/ additional resources Adults with Childhood Trauma: How to heal and reclaim your life: https://brighthorizontherapies.com/blog/adults-with-childhood-trauma/Five Trauma Counseling Techniques That Really Help: https://brighthorizontherapies.com/blog/five-effective-trauma-counselling-techniques/The Benefits of Parts Work for Healing Trauma: https://brighthorizontherapies.com/blog/parts-work-therapy-benefits-healing-trauma/ Grounding Practices: https://brighthorizontherapies.com/blog/understanding-the-window-of-tolerance/If you’d like to explore more, here are some ways to connect: Discover more about my work: https://brighthorizontherapies.com/ Follow along on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brighthorizontherapies/ Send me a message: nat@brighthorizontherapies.com Trauma Demystified is not intended to replace professional guidance, support, medical treatment, or therapy. Please feel free to consult your physician or a mental health professional for any questions about mental health symptoms. Bright Horizon Therapies is located in the Treaty 7 region in Southern Alberta, which includes the Blackfoot Confederacy, the Tsuut’ina First Nation, and the Stoney Nakoda. This land is also home to Métis Nation of Alberta, Region III. I acknowledge the traditional caregivers of the land and the importance of a commitment to the continued decolonization of my work.

    40 min

  3. 07/30/2025

    Healing Relational Trauma: What No One Tells You

    Send a text What if healing from relational trauma doesn't guarantee the love, safety, or peace you've been working toward? In this episode, I share the truths about trauma recovery that no one wants to talk about—the messy, complicated realities that don't fit into simple healing narratives. What you'll learn Why healing relational trauma is about what's within your control—not changing how others treat youThe hard truth that trauma recovery doesn't guarantee love, perfect relationships, or protection from future woundsHow to recognize when loving someone means letting them go—and choosing self-respect over loyaltyWhy self-trust must come before trusting others, especially when your body sends warning signalsHow to navigate disagreements with your therapist and remember you're the authority in your own lifeWhat to do when parts of you learned to abandon yourself to keep the peaceWhy healing builds resilience but doesn't promise a pain-free life—and why it's still worth itWho is it for This episode is for adults healing from relational trauma or childhood abuse who are tired of oversimplified healing narratives and ready for honest conversations about the complexity of recovery. It's for anyone navigating toxic relationships, questioning whether to stay or leave, learning to trust themselves again, or facing the reality that healing doesn't guarantee happy endings—but it does offer something more profound and more real. Note: This episode includes a brief mention of suicide. If you are in crisis or need support and live in Canada, here are some resources: Crisis Services Canada: https://988.ca/ | Call or text 9-8-8First Nations and Inuit Hope for Wellness Helpline: https://www.hopeforwellness.ca/ | 1-855-242-3310Trans Lifeline Canada: 877-330-6366If you live outside of Canada, please check the resources in the country you live in. Want to learn more about healing trauma? Here are some ideas: Adults with childhood trauma: How to heal and reclaim your life: https://brighthorizontherapies.com/blog/adults-with-childhood-trauma/What is the difference between trauma and complex trauma: https://brighthorizontherapies.com/blog/what-is-the-difference-between-trauma-and-complex-trauma/If you’d like to explore more, here are some ways to connect: Discover more about my work: https://brighthorizontherapies.com/ Follow along on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brighthorizontherapies/ Send me a message: nat@brighthorizontherapies.com Trauma Demystified is not intended to replace professional guidance, support, medical treatment, or therapy. Please feel free to consult your physician or a mental health professional for any questions about mental health symptoms. Bright Horizon Therapies is located in the Treaty 7 region in Southern Alberta, which includes the Blackfoot Confederacy, the Tsuut’ina First Nation, and the Stoney Nakoda. This land is also home to Métis Nation of Alberta, Region III. I acknowledge the traditional caregivers of the land and the importance of a commitment to the continued decolonization of my work.

    29 min

  4. 05/15/2025

    How to Create Safety After Childhood Trauma

    Send a text What does safety actually mean after childhood trauma? If you've experienced abuse or neglect, feeling safe—especially in relationships—can be deeply unfamiliar. In this episode, I break down the different dimensions of safety and share practical strategies for creating it in your body, relationships, and daily life. What You'll Learn The five dimensions of safety: physical, emotional, psychological, social, and self-safety—and why they all matterHow to assess whether you're truly safe in the present moment or responding to past traumaWhy self-safety is at the core of healing—learning to trust yourself, set boundaries, and protect your well-beingHow Polyvagal theory explains safety as a nervous system state and how to recognize your body's signalsPractical exercises to reconnect with your nervous system and move from shutdown or fight/flight back to safety and connectionHow to use boundaries, affirmations, and parts work to increase your sense of safetyWhy anger and other emotions are messengers that tell you when boundaries have been crossedHow social dynamics like oppression affect your experience of safety—and strategies for navigating them Who This Is For This episode is for adults who experienced childhood abuse, neglect or childhood trauma and struggle to feel safe in their bodies, relationships, or the world. It's also for anyone navigating complex trauma who wants practical tools to build self-safety, strengthen boundaries, and learn to trust themselves again. Mentioned episodes and articles: Five Effective Trauma Counselling Strategies: https://brighthorizontherapies.com/blog/five-effective-trauma-counselling-techniques/Polyvagal Theory for Trauma: https://brighthorizontherapies.com/blog/polyvagal-theory-for-trauma/Understanding the Window of Tolerance: https://brighthorizontherapies.com/blog/understanding-the-window-of-tolerance/Get your free copy of Toxic Relationships 101: https://brighthorizontherapies.com/toxic-relationships-guide/Assess your boundaries with the Healthy Boundaries Quiz: https://brighthorizontherapies.com/blog/healthy-boundaries-quiz/If you’d like to explore more, here are some ways to connect: Discover more about my work: https://brighthorizontherapies.com/ Follow along on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brighthorizontherapies/ Send me a message: nat@brighthorizontherapies.com Trauma Demystified is not intended to replace professional guidance, support, medical treatment, or therapy. Please feel free to consult your physician or a mental health professional for any questions about mental health symptoms. Bright Horizon Therapies is located in the Treaty 7 region in Southern Alberta, which includes the Blackfoot Confederacy, the Tsuut’ina First Nation, and the Stoney Nakoda. This land is also home to Métis Nation of Alberta, Region III. I acknowledge the traditional caregivers of the land and the importance of a commitment to the continued decolonization of my work.

    35 min

  5. 03/29/2025

    How To Recover From Complex Trauma

    Send a text What makes complex trauma different from single-incident trauma—and why does recovery require a different approach? In this episode, I break down the nature of complex trauma, explore its lasting impacts on your nervous system and relationships, and share the experiential, holistic healing approaches that actually work for deep, lasting transformation. What You'll Learn The key difference between single-incident trauma and complex trauma—and why understanding this matters for your recoveryCommon causes of complex trauma: childhood abuse, dysfunctional families, domestic violence, systemic oppression, and moreWhy Western psychology's medical model often stigmatizes and pathologizes complex trauma—and how to resist internalizing this harmThe wide range of complex trauma symptoms: emotional dysregulation, trust issues, hypervigilance, dissociation, chronic pain, and more—and why they're intelligent survival strategies, not signs you're brokenCore principles for healing: starting where you are, knowing your why, treating recovery as a hero's journey, and working toward inner attunementHow to improve emotional regulation, get to know your different parts (including attachment-wounded and trauma-response parts), and increase your safetyWhy complex trauma recovery needs individualized, experiential approaches like parts work therapy, EMDR, somatic practices, and systemic constellationsHow to find an appropriate trauma counsellor who can foster healthy relationships, navigate power dynamics, and support co-regulationCommon challenges and myths: avoidant parts, healing fatigue, and the lie that willpower alone can heal trauma Who This Is For This episode is for adults recovering from complex trauma—including childhood abuse, prolonged domestic violence, systemic oppression, or other ongoing traumatic environments—who want to understand the deeper nature of their experiences and find effective, holistic healing approaches. It's also for anyone who has internalized stigma, struggled to find appropriate professional support, or feels frustrated by one-size-fits-all treatment approaches that don't honor the complexity of their journey. Other Resources Parts Work Therapy to Heal Trauma: https://brighthorizontherapies.com/blog/parts-work-therapy-benefits-healing-trauma/ What is the Difference between Trauma and Complex Trauma: https://brighthorizontherapies.com/blog/what-is-the-difference-between-trauma-and-complex-trauma/ If you’d like to explore more, here are some ways to connect: Discover more about my work: https://brighthorizontherapies.com/ Follow along on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brighthorizontherapies/ Send me a message: nat@brighthorizontherapies.com Trauma Demystified is not intended to replace professional guidance, support, medical treatment, or therapy. Please feel free to consult your physician or a mental health professional for any questions about mental health symptoms. Bright Horizon Therapies is located in the Treaty 7 region in Southern Alberta, which includes the Blackfoot Confederacy, the Tsuut’ina First Nation, and the Stoney Nakoda. This land is also home to Métis Nation of Alberta, Region III. I acknowledge the traditional caregivers of the land and the importance of a commitment to the continued decolonization of my work.

    37 min

  6. 01/13/2025

    Five Powerful Trauma Counselling Tools for Everyday Healing

    Send a text What if you could create an inner safe space, contain overwhelming memories, and rewire your brain's response to trauma—all through practical, accessible techniques? In this episode, I share five trauma counselling techniques I regularly use with clients that leverage neuroplasticity to support real, lasting healing. What You'll Learn How to create an inner safe space that you can return to whenever you feel anxious or overwhelmedA powerful technique for containing painful memories so you can process them when you're ready—without suppressing your emotionsHow to work with activated parts (heightened emotions like anxiety, fear, or anger) using breath and body awarenessWhy finding "antidotes" to horror images helps rebalance your brain and create new neural pathways toward joy and calmHow to identify activities that connect you with safety and connection—and why they're essential for regulating your nervous systemThe science of neuroplasticity and neurogenesis: how your brain can reshape itself through consistent practiceWhy these techniques work across different trauma recovery modalities—whether you're doing parts work, EMDR, or somatic approachesWho This Is For This episode is for adults healing from trauma who want practical, experiential tools they can use right now to support their recovery. It's for anyone who feels haunted by painful memories, struggles with anxiety or overwhelming emotions, or wants to build a stronger foundation for healing by connecting with their body and nervous system. Additional Episodes Mentioned: "Polyvagal Theory and Trauma" – Learn how understanding the science behind our nervous system can aid trauma recovery."Understanding the Window of Tolerance" – A closer look at how we can regulate emotional intensity for better recovery."Parts Work Therapy: How It Can Help You Heal From Trauma" – Explore how working with different parts of yourself aids in trauma healing."EMDR: What to Expect" – Discover how EMDR therapy can help resolve trauma and bring about lasting change.If you’d like to explore more, here are some ways to connect: Discover more about my work: https://brighthorizontherapies.com/ Follow along on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brighthorizontherapies/ Send me a message: nat@brighthorizontherapies.com Trauma Demystified is not intended to replace professional guidance, support, medical treatment, or therapy. Please feel free to consult your physician or a mental health professional for any questions about mental health symptoms. Bright Horizon Therapies is located in the Treaty 7 region in Southern Alberta, which includes the Blackfoot Confederacy, the Tsuut’ina First Nation, and the Stoney Nakoda. This land is also home to Métis Nation of Alberta, Region III. I acknowledge the traditional caregivers of the land and the importance of a commitment to the continued decolonization of my work.

    32 min

  7. 12/08/2024

    How to Heal from Childhood Abuse as an Adult

    Send a text How do you heal from childhood abuse as an adult—especially when the effects have shaped your relationships, self-worth, and sense of safety? In this episode, I break down the different forms of childhood abuse and neglect, explore their lasting impacts, and share practical steps and healing approaches that can help you reclaim your life. What You'll Learn The difference between childhood abuse and neglect—and why both can profoundly shape your developmentHow emotional abuse, physical abuse, sexual abuse, and neglect show up in childhood—with real examples from my own storyThe wide-ranging effects of childhood abuse in adulthood: from shame and boundary struggles to anxiety, depression, and dissociationWhy acknowledging what happened to you is often a gradual process—and how to approach it with curiosity instead of self-blamePractical steps toward healing: breaking your silence, creating healthy boundaries, and exploring your symptoms with gentlenessEffective healing approaches, including parts work therapy, EMDR, and somatic approaches, and why bottom-up approaches are often most effectiveSelf-help practices like journaling, mindfulness, nervous system regulation, and inner child work that support your healing journeyCommon challenges that can hinder recovery (scared parts, avoidant parts, shame and self-blame)—and how to work with themWho This Is For This episode is for adults who experienced childhood abuse or neglect and are ready to acknowledge what happened, understand its impact, and take steps toward healing. It's for anyone struggling with boundary-setting, self-blame, difficulty trusting others, or symptoms of anxiety and depression rooted in childhood experiences—and who wants a roadmap for recovery that honours both the pain and the possibility of transformation. Additional Resources: For further support, check out the resources linked below: Adults with Childhood Trauma: How to Heal and Reclaim Your Life: https://brighthorizontherapies.com/blog/adults-with-childhood-trauma/EMDR for Childhood Trauma: Safe and Effective Healing in Adulthood: https://brighthorizontherapies.com/blog/emdr-for-childhood-trauma/Parts Work Therapy to Heal Trauma (Episode): https://brighthorizontherapies.com/blog/parts-work-therapy-benefits-healing-trauma/If you’d like to explore more, here are some ways to connect: Discover more about my work: https://brighthorizontherapies.com/ Follow along on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brighthorizontherapies/ Send me a message: nat@brighthorizontherapies.com Trauma Demystified is not intended to replace professional guidance, support, medical treatment, or therapy. Please feel free to consult your physician or a mental health professional for any questions about mental health symptoms. Bright Horizon Therapies is located in the Treaty 7 region in Southern Alberta, which includes the Blackfoot Confederacy, the Tsuut’ina First Nation, and the Stoney Nakoda. This land is also home to Métis Nation of Alberta, Region III. I acknowledge the traditional caregivers of the land and the importance of a commitment to the continued decolonization of my work.

    37 min

  8. 10/22/2024

    Thinking About EMDR? Here's What I Tell My Clients Before We Start

    Send a text Is EMDR a quick fix for trauma, or does it require more preparation than you think? In this episode, I break down what EMDR therapy actually is, walk you through all eight phases of the treatment process, and address common misconceptions. So you know what to expect if you are considering EMDR for your healing journey. What You'll Learn What EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) is and how bilateral stimulation helps integrate traumatic experiencesWho can benefit from EMDR: survivors of childhood abuse, sexual assault, loss, workplace trauma, systemic oppression, accidents, and moreThe eight phases of EMDR treatment: evaluation, preparation, assessment, reprocessing, installation, body scan, closure, and re-evaluationWhy the preparation phase (building skills, increasing safety, and strengthening resources) is just as important as memory reprocessing—and often takes longer for complex traumaWhat actually happens during a reprocessing session—and how much you choose to share with your therapistCommon misconceptions debunked: EMDR isn't a magic cure, it's not dangerous when done correctly, and you don't have to talk about every detailThe benefits of EMDR: effective symptom relief, deep emotional healing, long-term empowerment, and post-traumatic growthHow to know if EMDR is right for you—and why trusting your gut matters when choosing your healing path Who This Is For This episode is for adults considering EMDR therapy for trauma or loss who want to understand the full process—not just the eye movements, but the preparation, pacing, and personalized approach that makes EMDR effective. It's also for anyone who's heard conflicting information about EMDR and wants clarity on what it actually involves, how long it takes, and whether it's the right fit for their healing journey. Additional Resources: EMDR Therapy: The Ultimate Guide: https://brighthorizontherapies.com/blog/the-ultimate-guide-to-emdr-therapy/EMDR for Adults with Childhood Trauma: Safe and Effective Healing: https://brighthorizontherapies.com/blog/emdr-for-childhood-trauma/If you’d like to explore more, here are some ways to connect: Discover more about my work: https://brighthorizontherapies.com/ Follow along on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brighthorizontherapies/ Send me a message: nat@brighthorizontherapies.com Trauma Demystified is not intended to replace professional guidance, support, medical treatment, or therapy. Please feel free to consult your physician or a mental health professional for any questions about mental health symptoms. Bright Horizon Therapies is located in the Treaty 7 region in Southern Alberta, which includes the Blackfoot Confederacy, the Tsuut’ina First Nation, and the Stoney Nakoda. This land is also home to Métis Nation of Alberta, Region III. I acknowledge the traditional caregivers of the land and the importance of a commitment to the continued decolonization of my work.

    28 min
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Welcome to Trauma Demystified by Bright Horizon Therapies, hosted by Natalie Jovanic, a Complex Trauma Coach and Trauma Counsellor with over 15 years of experience supporting adults healing from complex trauma, childhood trauma, and relational trauma. If you function well on the outside but internally feel stuck in patterns of freeze, overthinking, people-pleasing, or relational confusion, this podcast is for you. With lived experience and 15 years of clinical practice, Natalie explores what healing from complex trauma actually looks like — beyond symptom management and beyond surface-level advice.  Drawing from the Integrative Trauma Recovery Model™, you'll learn why your nervous system reacts the way it does, how trauma fragments parts of the self, and what structured, integrative recovery can involve. These conversations are honest, nuanced, and grounded in real therapeutic practice. Because healing isn't about avoiding triggers — it's about building capacity, restoring self-trust, and learning how to live differently. If you're ready to move from insight to integration, you're in the right place.

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  • Creator
    Natalie Jovanic
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    15
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    Clean
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    © 2026 Trauma Demystified
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