I’ll be your father figure. In this Show and Tell episode, Jenn, Jodi, and Maansi unpack masculinity as a cultural construct, from powdered wigs and heels in 18th century France to Travis Kelce happily playing the less famous partner on New Heights. Jenn kicks things off with Better Man, flipping every one of the ex's flaws to sketch the man Taylor actually wants (grateful, consistent, kind, and secure enough not to talk down to anyone). Jodi brings The Man and gets real about the double standards that turn a woman's "edge" into a man's ambition, plus why leaning in never quite worked. Maansi closes with Father Figure, tracing every Jaguar, chateau, and glass of brown liquor back to the patriarch. (And yes, she researched the history of dick measuring contests. For science.) Along the way, the hosts map R.W. Connell's hegemonic masculinity, Aragorn versus Commodus, the Byronic hero, Hemingway's code hero, and the colonial baggage packed into a single word like "conquest." Pour yourself a whiskey (or don't, it tastes like fire) and press play. Episode Highlights 00:59 Intro to the topic 11:36 Jenn's pick, Better Man, plus its Little Big Town backstory 22:35 Jodi's pick, The Man, and the rebranding of female ambition 37:48 Maansi's pick, Father Figure, and the patriarch in the title Mentioned in This Episode Books The Second Sex by Simone de Beauvoir Masculinities by R.W. Connell When Women Lead by Julia Boorstin Lean In by Sheryl Sandberg Wuthering Heights by Emily Brontë Jane Eyre by Charlotte Brontë The Great Gatsby by F. Scott Fitzgerald Hamlet by William Shakespeare The Lord of the Rings by J.R.R. Tolkien Browse every book we've mentioned at our Bookshop.org storefront. Films The Lord of the Rings: The Fellowship of the Ring Gladiator Casino Royale The Godfather Follow Along Find us at @APTaylorSwift everywhere. TikTok Instagram YouTube Linktree Website aptaylorswift.com Email aptaylorswift@gmail.com Two ways to get more of AP Taylor Swift: Substack: free subscribers get episode updates. Paid subscribers get After School: bonus episodes, our full written archive, and a vote in what we cover next. Subscribe: http://aptaylorswift.substack.com/subscribe First 50 people to grab a Substack After School annual plan get 40% off: https://aptaylorswift.substack.com/wishlistmemberdiscount Apple Podcasts: paid subscribers get ad-free episodes, early episode access, and bonus episodes Intro music by Scott Zadig aka Scotty Z. AP Taylor Swift is an independent podcast and is not affiliated with, endorsed by, or sponsored by Taylor Swift, her management, or her record labels.