Sex, Lies and Love Podcast

The Commandress
  • 5.0 (5)
  • Sexuality
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This is not a podcast. It's a portal. Hosted by the Commandress – a former corporate woman turned sacred strategist – Sex, Lies & Love is where high-functioning men come to be unraveled and reawakened. Here, we dismantle false power, decode masculine longing, and strip away the lies that sabotage intimacy. Expect: ~Erotic truth transmissions ~Spiritual wake-up calls ~Uncomfortable awakenings ~And sultry truths from a woman who sees your soul before your story. If you're ready to trade performance for presence–welcome to the edge of your initiation. Listen in. Rise Up. www.sexlieslove.com

  1. 4d ago

    Five Questions Every Man Should Ask Himself Before It's Too Late

    Most men spend years learning how to build a career, provide for others, and solve problems–but very few are ever taught how to know the truth of their own heart. Which leads them to dismissing and deflecting the hearts of others. In this episode of Sex, Lies and Love, I share five deceptively simple questions that can expose what's really driving your decisions, your relationships, and your emotional life. These aren't questions designed to judge you. They're invitations to discover whether you're living from fear or freedom...obligation or love... performance or presence. If you've been feeling emotionally unsettled, disconnected, or quietly exhausted, these questions may reveal why. Sometimes one honest question can change the direction of a man's life. Perhaps one of these will be yours. Warmly, Commandress sexlieslove.com #Emotional Intelligence for Men #Masculinity #PersonalGrowth #Self-Awareness #MensMentalHealth #Relationships #Courage #Healing #Vulnerability #menspodcast #sexliesandlove

    20 min

  2. May 25

    "Get Used to the Pain" - The Hidden Wound Inside Men"

    In this rare and intimate conversation, a successful structural engineer shares his fear of vulnerability, his relationship with his father, and the profound shift that occurred when he heard the words: “Courage comes from the heart.” This episode explores: emotional suppression in men father wounds and masculine conditioning the loneliness behind competence why many successful men still feel emotionally disconnected the physical weight men carry in their bodies how vulnerability becomes true strength For the man who has spent his life enduring…and for the woman who wants to understand him more deeply. This conversation may open something long buried. Please share it with those who need to hear it. Let's help the men of the world heal. Lovingly, Andrea... The Commandress www.sexlieslove.com #podcastformen #masculinity #emotionalhealing #fatherwounds #mensmentalhealth #vulnerabilityinmen #emotionalintelligence #masculinehealing #selfawareness #heart #courage #love #relationships

    31 min

  3. Mar 29

    "The Conversation Men Aren't Supposed to Have"

    This episode is different. I don’t bring men on to perform. I bring them on when something real has shifted. In this 20-minute conversation, a man speaks openly about what changed when he stepped into my world—and what most men never admit they’re craving. We talk about control, emotional armor, truth, and what it actually feels like to be met beyond performance. No scripts. No coaching language. Just honesty. If you’ve ever felt the pressure to hold it all together… If you’ve built a life that looks right but doesn’t feel right… This conversation will land somewhere deeper than your mind. This is what happens at The Edge. A space where men stop performing… and start experiencing themselves in a way they can’t access alone. If you feel something while listening, that’s your signal. sexlieslove.com Fill out the application under the submit tab if you are ready. #MasculineTransformation #SelfMasteryForMen #MasculineAwakening #EmotionalIntimacy #InnerWorkForMen #PersonalDevelopment #MensWork

    28 min

  4. Feb 14

    Love and Water: A Valentine's Transmission from the Tub

    On Valentine’s Eve, I slip into the bathtub and talk about what I love — the simple pleasures, the flavors of life, the laughter that lives in me. You’ll hear the trickle of water, the giggles, the sensuality in my voice — and then we go deeper. This episode moves from love in its softest forms to love in its most tested — divorce, rebuilding, and the quiet power of men gathering weekly in my home. I introduce Brothers Basin, a transitional home for men navigating separation with dignity, depth, and brotherhood. It’s intimate. It’s playful. It’s wet. Real. And it’s an invitation. Love, The Commandress P.S. Don't forget to comment on the crystal count contest. www.sexlieslove.com #MasculineHealing #DivorceRecovery #BrothersBasin #MensWork #Valentines #ASMRPodcast #ConsciousMasculinity #ASMR #Bathtub #Initiation #Self-growth

    16 min

  5. Jan 19

    Sacred Edges: Where Boundaries Meet Intimacy

    What if your deepest wound became your doorway to connection? Sacred Edges is a podcast for men and women unlearning the lie that love means losing yourself. Here, we explore the potent intersection of healed trauma, embodied boundaries, and sovereign intimacy. Through raw conversations and piercing insights, you'll uncover how honoring your “no” makes space for your most authentic “yes.” Hosted by The Commandress — a mentor to high-level men and a guide in emotional intelligence — this podcast speaks to the quiet power of self-respect, relational integrity, and what it really means to be ready for love. www.sexlieslove.com #boundaries #emotionalhealing #intimacy #sacredsexuality #self-worth #conscious-relationships #jan2026 #episode101

    16 min

  6. 12/10/2025

    “Closing the Door on Counterfeit Comfort: A Woman’s Wake-Up Call to the Half-Alive Masculine”

    After a year of displacement, five homes, and the fires of Malibu at my back, I woke up in my childhood home with a clear knowing: I have reached the end of investing in the counterfeit masculine. This episode is a personal reckoning—raw, honest, and unfiltered. I share what it feels like to walk through the museum of inherited survival, and how I am closing the door on men who perform presence without embodying it. If you are a man hearing this, know this is not condemnation—it is a clear signal. The feminine is no longer feeding what refuses to grow. www.sexlieslove.com #asmr #single and #happy #conscious #masculinity #feminine #awakening #emotional #sovereignty #masculine #healing #trauma #patterns #relationship #truth #embodiment #work #peace #billionaire

    33 min

  7. 10/30/2025

    "Facing the Father: Healing the Wounds You Carry"

    Feeling the god-awful ache of your father’s voice still echoing in your mind — the judgment, the sarcasm, the hidden rage under the laughter? You’re not alone. In this episode, I speak to the men who learned early not to feel, because their fathers couldn’t. Through the psychological precision of my empathy, I reveal how those patterns still shape your relationships and how to finally move beyond them. This is the work I do — guiding conscious men back to their own hearts, where love, safety, and leadership are reborn. Episode: 99 sexlieslove.com #healing #DivineMasculine #asmr #HeartCenteredMen #BreakingGenerationalPatterns #EmotionalIntelligence #FatherWound #ConsciousMen Invocation Released with This 99th Episode: Beloved Source of all breath, I open my voice as a beacon for the sons of Earth. May every man who still carries his father’s silence, his father’s anger, his father’s unmet tenderness — hear this call. Through the sound of my voice, may numb hearts remember how to feel, and guarded ones soften enough to receive truth without defense. Let this episode become a mirror, a portal through which men face the shadow and find not shame, but the fierce mercy of awakening. So Be It. So It Is.

    17 min

  8. 10/15/2025

    “To Know Her, You Must Surrender the Mind.”

    In this transmission, The Commandress speaks to the men who are ready to rise beyond domination and into devotion. The feminine is not to be solved or controlled—she is the living frequency of creation itself. To truly know her, a man must attune, surrender, and let her current teach him how to feel. thecommandress.com #DivineFeminine #SacredMasculine #DevotionOverDomination #MenWhoFeel #TantricWisdom #AwakenTheKing #TheCommandress #sacredsexuality

    20 min
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This is not a podcast. It's a portal. Hosted by the Commandress – a former corporate woman turned sacred strategist – Sex, Lies & Love is where high-functioning men come to be unraveled and reawakened. Here, we dismantle false power, decode masculine longing, and strip away the lies that sabotage intimacy. Expect: ~Erotic truth transmissions ~Spiritual wake-up calls ~Uncomfortable awakenings ~And sultry truths from a woman who sees your soul before your story. If you're ready to trade performance for presence–welcome to the edge of your initiation. Listen in. Rise Up. www.sexlieslove.com

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  • Creator
    The Commandress
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    106
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © The Commandress
  • Show Website
    Sex, Lies and Love Podcast

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