RQ: The Relational Intelligence Podcast w/ Dolphin Kasper

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Welcome to RQ: The Relational Intelligence Podcast with Dolphin Kasper! The best place to go for your relationship upgrade! An entertaining, inspiring, and powerful exploration of the single most important aspect of our lives, our intimate relationships. On this podcast, you will unravel the complex dynamics that can either make or break your romantic life. In this podcast, we delve into what fosters deeply fulfilling connections and what gets in the way of the love we most want. As a dedicated Educator and long-time Life and Relationship Coach, your host Dolphin Kasper, is here to guide you through the joys and challenges of modern relationships, having provocative and inspiring conversations with the top experts and thought leaders in the realm of romantic relationships in the world. Collaboratively, Dolphin and his Guests offer holistic insights into the factors that contribute to both the struggles and successes in the most important area of our lives: the matters of the heart. Each episode embarks on a transformative journey as we navigate the labyrinth of dating, romance, dating advice, communication skills, and essential elements that form the foundation of any lasting love and any meaningful life. Whether you're venturing into the world of online dating, seeking advice on finding 'The One', or trying to figure out how to make love last, our discussions are designed to empower you with the tools needed for the love you’ve been longing for. In our quest for the Best Relationships Possible, we unravel the secrets to successful partnerships, providing valuable relationship advice tailored to your unique circumstances. Join us as we explore the intricacies of toxic relationships and narcissistic behavior, offering guidance on overcoming heartbreak, unexpected breakups, healing from betrayal, and discovering the path to healing from betrayal, past relationships, and long-standing attachment wounds from your childhood. Learn how to navigate saving your marriage, getting over an ex, getting out of a toxic relationship, and making long-distance relationships thrive, among other relationship advice. We will also delve into the fascinating realm of childhood trauma, Attachment Theory, and the development of attachment styles. Gain insights into how these factors influence the ebb and flow of your current relationships, allowing you to navigate the often painful dance of love with a newfound clarity and understanding. Explore the world of dating apps and discover effective strategies on 'How to be more confident in all areas of your relational life. From making the first move to the bedroom and lovemaking to communication skills to conflict resolution, to how to know when to end a relationship, we have you covered! Whether you're curious about polyamory and open relationships or you want to know how to create a love that lasts a lifetime with your soulmate, our discussions cover the whole spectrum of relationship dynamics while getting into the details and subtleties that allow relationships to grow and thrive over time. Recognize the signs of relationship violence and learn how to extricate yourself from toxic relationships with grace and safety. We will ponder questions like "How can I save my relationship?", "How do I make sure my relationship succeeds?", "How do I know when my relationship is over?", "Is pornography causing my erectile dysfunction?”, and “Where are all the good men/women!?”. This podcast will guide you on a powerful journey toward clarity, understanding, and empowerment in your romantic life. Brought to you by Relationflix, Dolphin Kasper and his guests will support you in the comprehensive exploration of love, communication, conflict resolution, sexuality, sensuality, human connection, and lasting satisfaction, offering you a roadmap to, not just survive, but thrive in your closest relationships. Are you ready? Subscribe, tune-in, and let's get to it!

  1. ManCamp: Brotherhood, Healing, and the Future of Masculinity - You're not broken, you need to...

    08/28/2025

    ManCamp: Brotherhood, Healing, and the Future of Masculinity - You're not broken, you need to...

    In this powerful conversation, Dolphin Kasper and Geoff “Rawa” Larden dive into the heart of modern masculinity. They explore why men so often struggle to express their emotions, the deep impact of fatherhood on shaping a man’s emotional intelligence, and the way unhealed generational trauma quietly shapes our identities, relationships, and communities. At the core is a truth that can no longer be ignored: men cannot do this work alone. The lone wolf story is over—healing, growth, and wholeness require brotherhood, community, and accountability. Together, Dolphin and Geoff speak to the sacred importance of acknowledging our ancestors, honoring the grief and darkness that live in every man’s story, and using ritual and ceremony to reclaim the parts of ourselves we’ve been taught to bury. They highlight how events like Man Camp create a rare and vital container where men can be witnessed, challenged, and supported—so that the breakthroughs experienced in circle can ripple back into their families, partnerships, and the wider world. This episode is more than a conversation—it’s an invitation. An invitation for men to step forward into their own journey of wholeness, to learn the tools of healthy communication and emotional intelligence, and to bring healing back into their relationships and communities. Together we rise, and the time is now. For more on attending ManCamp or to Join us in September: https://www.mancamp.ca/ From September 18–21, just outside Toronto, 150 men will come together for Man Camp—a transformative initiation where men gather to celebrate, to heal, and to empower one another to be better fathers, partners, brothers, and leaders. https://relationflix.com/mancamp-brotherhood-healing-and-the-future-of-masculinity-youre-not-broken-you-need-to-

    1h 7m
  2. The Art of Loving Well: A Road Map to Healing Relational Trauma and Creating Lasting Love w/ Kristy Scher

    08/05/2025

    The Art of Loving Well: A Road Map to Healing Relational Trauma and Creating Lasting Love w/ Kristy Scher

    The Art of Loving WellRQ: Relational Intelligence Podcast with Dolphin Kasper What does it really mean to love well—and why is it so hard to do? In this episode of the RQ: Relational Intelligence Podcast, Dolphin Kasper is joined by Kristy Scher, Relationship Coach and creator of The Adored Woman, for a wide-ranging and emotionally honest conversation about the lived reality of modern relationships. Together, they unpack the complex, often messy territory of love, self-awareness, and emotional growth, bringing clarity to why so many of us struggle in intimacy, and what it takes to create connection that actually lasts. At the heart of this episode is the insight that we must first love poorly before we can love well. We come into relationships carrying wounds, patterns, and unconscious expectations—often shaped by our early attachments—and it’s through the rupture, repair, and reflection inside those relationships that we learn what love truly asks of us. Dolphin and Kristy explore how relational intelligence requires us to face our own emotional homes, develop the ability to differentiate without disconnecting, and show up as both sovereign and emotionally attuned partners. This episode also zooms out to explore the cultural and technological forces shaping our relational lives. From the disembodiment and distraction created by modern tech, to the growing tension between masculine and feminine dynamics in today’s world, Dolphin and Kristy examine how these larger systems influence our capacity to connect, and how we can reclaim agency through presence, self-definition, and the cultivation of conscious values. They remind us that deep relationships require more than chemistry—they require character, courage, and care. You’ll hear insights on emotional regulation, the importance of tolerating imperfection, and how to navigate disappointment without defaulting to blame or withdrawal. You’ll also explore the difference between choosing someone for who they are versus choosing them for who they help you become. In this way, love becomes less about having your needs met, and more about becoming someone capable of co-creating a life of meaning and mutual growth. This episode is a must-listen for anyone ready to move beyond surface-level advice and into the real work of relational transformation. Whether you're navigating a breakup, deepening a long-term partnership, or questioning your own patterns in love, The Art of Loving Well offers a rich and grounded conversation that will leave you more self-aware, more hopeful, and more empowered to love with integrity and depth. https://relationflix.com/the-art-of-loving-well-a-road-map-to-healing-relational-trauma-and-creating-lasting-love-w-kristy-scher

    1h 19m
  3. The Erotic Upgrade: Communication, Orgasm & the Soulmate Pact with Susan Bratton

    05/20/2025

    The Erotic Upgrade: Communication, Orgasm & the Soulmate Pact with Susan Bratton

    RQ: The Relational Intelligence Podcast w/ Dolphin Kasper The Erotic Upgrade: Communication, Orgasm & the Soulmate Pact with Susan Bratton What if better sex wasn’t about performance—but communication? What if the biggest barrier to orgasmic, connected intimacy was simply never having been taught how? this episode has explicit sexual content. In this powerful and unapologetic conversation, Dolphin sits down with Susan Bratton—Intimacy Wellness Expert and bestselling author of Sexual Soulmates—to unravel the deeper truths behind pleasure, satisfaction, and sexual connection that lasts a lifetime. Together, they explore: Why communication is the most underrated aphrodisiacThe truth about orgasmic intercourse and how to make it possibleHow the Sexual Soulmate Pact can create instant safety, connection, and sexual synergyThe real reasons some people struggle with orgasm—and how to overcome themTechniques like Thrust-in-Time and the role of ejaculation, amrita, and synergy in ecstatic sexTools like the Relationship Magic Workbook and Sex Life Bucket List that can upgrade your love life today This episode goes deep, wide, and deliciously real. It’s honest, irreverent, and packed with practical wisdom you wish someone had taught you sooner. Whether you're in a committed relationship, single and exploring, or trying to reconnect to your sensual self, this conversation will challenge old stories, debunk persistent myths, and give you powerful tools to create the intimacy—and orgasms—you deserve. About Susan Bratton Susan Bratton is a trusted Intimacy Wellness Expert and the bestselling author behind over 30 sexual vitality programs, including Sexual Soulmates and Relationship Magic. She is a fierce advocate for ageless, passionate intimacy and a pioneer in regenerative sexual health. Find her work at BetterLover.com and check out her supplements at The20.store. Or find her and her work here. About Your Host Dolphin Kasper is the creator of the Relational Intelligence (RQ) model and has spent 25+ years helping people transform their relationships from the inside out. A dynamic speaker, coach, and educator, Dolphin has delivered over 2,500 workshops around the world. Learn more at RelationFlix.com. This episode is for the 15% of people who are willing to fight for a better sex life. Are you one of them? 👉 Subscribe now and share this with someone who needs to hear it. 🎧 Tune in wherever you listen to podcasts. https://relationflix.com/the-erotic-upgrade-communication-orgasm-the-soulmate-pact-with-susan-bratton

    56 min
  4. Love, Loss, and Redefining the Future of Love – Angela & Paul's Journey of Breakup, Growth, and Remarriage - Episode #30:

    05/06/2025

    Love, Loss, and Redefining the Future of Love – Angela & Paul's Journey of Breakup, Growth, and Remarriage - Episode #30:

    RQ: The Relational Intelligence Podcast w/ Dolphin Kasper Love, Loss, and Redefining the Future of Love – Angela & Paul's Journey of Breakup, Growth, and Remarriage - Episode #30: In this raw and deeply human episode of RQ: The Relationship Intelligence Podcast, we follow the powerful real-life journey of Angela and Paul—a couple whose story includes multiple breakups, emotional reconnections, and a total redefinition of what love and partnership can look like. From navigating the complexities of parenting, distance, and trust after a financial scam, to confronting their own blind spots, self-abandonment, and emotional triggers, Angela and Paul open up about the hard truths and transformative insights they’ve gained along the way. Through heartbreak, therapy, and conscious uncoupling, they eventually found a new foundation—not just for love, but for personal alignment, boundaries, and lifestyle design. This conversation dives deep into the emotional terrain of modern relationships, where real growth requires real honesty. Whether you're going through a breakup, rebuilding after emotional burnout, or simply craving clarity in your relational life, this episode will speak to your heart and your healing. 🔑 What You’ll Learn:Why trying to “fix” your relationship solo often backfiresHow parenting and geographical distance can shape relational dynamicsThe difference between intense connection and sustainable partnershipHow therapy, coaching, and deep self-reflection shift everythingThe hidden role of self-abandonment in repeated relationship breakdownsHow to spot your own blind spots—and what to do when you see themWhat conscious uncoupling really looks like (and why it matters)Why lifestyle design and redefining priorities are keys to relational success 🎧 Chapters Include: First meetings, breakups, and emotional reunionsPush-pull dynamics and parenting conflictsTrust breakdowns and the fallout from a financial scamEmotional invisibility, resentment, and crisis pointsThe power of therapy, self-reflection, and external supportBoundaries, self-respect, and relationship redefinitionBlind spots, grace, lifestyle design, and the road to remarriage 💬 What’s your take on conscious uncoupling, relationship resets, and redefining love after heartbreak? We’d love to hear your thoughts—drop a comment or DM us. 👉 For more support, tools, and transformational content to help you thrive in your relationships, visit relationflix.com and become a member today. https://relationflix.com/episode-30-love-loss-and-redefining-the-future-of-love-angela-pauls-journey-of-breakup-growth-and-remarriage

    1h 46m
  5. Healing Attachment Wounds and Creating Huge Relationship Breakthroughs Using Extreme Ownership with David Lea

    03/19/2025

    Healing Attachment Wounds and Creating Huge Relationship Breakthroughs Using Extreme Ownership with David Lea

    RQ: The Relational Intelligence Podcast w/ Dolphin Kasper Healing Attachment Wounds and Creating Huge Relationship Breakthroughs Using Extreme Ownership with David Lea In this powerful and eye-opening episode of RQ: The Relationship Intelligence Podcast, host Dolphin Kasper sits down with renowned relationship coach, speaker, and author David Lea to explore the transformative power of extreme ownership in relationships. Together, they dive into the impact of childhood trauma, the dynamics of masculine and feminine energy, and the crucial role of personal responsibility in healing and relational growth. David shares his personal journey and professional insights, shedding light on how narcissism and codependency often coexist, why trust issues stem from a lack of self-trust, and how relationships can serve as profound containers for healing. With candid reflections and actionable wisdom, this conversation is a must-listen for anyone looking to break free from past patterns and step into healthier, more fulfilling relationships. Key Takeaways:Extreme ownership is essential for relationship healing.Personal responsibility is the foundation of relational success.Childhood trauma has a profound impact on adult relationships.Healing is an individual journey before it can benefit a partnership.Narcissism and codependency are often interwoven.Healthy masculine and feminine energies create balance in relationships.Trust issues typically arise from a lack of self-trust.The healing journey is ongoing and requires deep commitment.Relationships can be powerful catalysts for transformation.Understanding personal wounds is key to relational growth. Sound Bites:"You cannot mend, fix, or save a marriage.""You are responsible for your own healing journey.""Healing is blocked by the desire to blame others." Chapters:00:00 – Introduction and Focus of the Conversation 01:52 – Approaching Relationship Challenges with Extreme Ownership 03:49 – Challenging the Labeling of Behaviors 05:52 – Understanding the Role of Childhood Trauma 08:49 – The Journey of Healing and Growth 13:31 – Supporting Others in Recognizing the Need for Change 27:25 – Understanding Wounded Feminine and Masculine Energy 29:51 – The Importance of Extreme Ownership 33:23 – The Desire to Come Together and Nurture 38:29 – Embracing Core Energy for Intimacy 42:07 – Practical Steps to Identify Core Energy 47:46 – Exploring Opposite Ends of the Polarity Spectrum 49:19 – Taking Responsibility for Personal Healing Tune in to RQ: The Relationship Intelligence Podcast and gain the tools you need to transform your relationships and your life. Subscribe now and start your journey toward deeper connection and fulfillment! https://relationflix.com/episode-29-healing-attachment-wounds-and-creating-huge-relationship-breakthroughs-using-extreme-ownership-with-david-lea

    57 min
  6. Understanding and Dispelling Myths about Narcissism: Healing from Narcissistic Abuse w/ Nisanka

    02/18/2025

    Understanding and Dispelling Myths about Narcissism: Healing from Narcissistic Abuse w/ Nisanka

    RQ: The Relational Intelligence Podcast w/ Dolphin Kasper Understanding and Dispelling Myths about Narcissism: Healing from Narcissistic Abuse w/ Nisanka In this enlightening episode of The Relationship Intelligence Podcast, host Dolphin Kasper teams up with life coach Nisanka to explore the intricate world of narcissism, narcissistic abuse, and co-parenting under these challenging circumstances. Together, they debunk common misconceptions and delve into the spectrum of narcissistic traits, illustrating how narcissistic individuals often target empathetic partners and create environments fraught with emotional abuse and manipulation. The discussion addresses the long-lasting impact on victims, especially children who may feel unsafe or unloved, and underscores the crucial role of self-awareness, firm boundaries, and zero tolerance for abuse in the healing process. Listeners will gain insight into essential strategies for personal development, recovery, and trauma resolution, including how to recognize narcissistic red flags, protect one’s emotional well-being, and support children through co-parenting challenges. The conversation highlights the importance of reconciling reality with the narcissist’s “fantasy,” teaching children to advocate for themselves, and maintaining emotional health while navigating difficult relationships. This episode serves as a guide for anyone seeking a clearer understanding of narcissism, the path to healing, and the empowering process of reclaiming self-worth in the aftermath of abuse. If you want to connect with Nisanka or find out more about her work please go to: https://www.coachingwithnisanka.com/ For more about Dolphin and his work go to: https://dolphinkasper.com/ If you want more relationship education content and opportunities to grow go to: https://relationflix.com/ https://relationflix.com/healingfromnarcissisticabuse

    1h 4m
  7. "From Crippling Shame to Incredible Connection: Embracing Growth & Authentic Relationships with Shane Kohler"

    02/04/2025

    "From Crippling Shame to Incredible Connection: Embracing Growth & Authentic Relationships with Shane Kohler"

    RQ: The Relational Intelligence Podcast w/ Dolphin Kasper "From Crippling Shame to Incredible Connection: Embracing Growth & Authentic Relationships with Shane Kohler" In this Episode of the Relationship Intelligence Podcast, Shane Kohler discusses the challenges of dating and relationships, emphasizing the importance of staying grounded and clear. He also explores the balance between online dating and real-world connections. As a coach, Shane provides practical takeaways for listeners to implement in their own lives. The conversation concludes with a discussion on preparing for the interview and the distribution of the video format. Overall, the conversation highlights the difficulties of dating, the need for self-awareness, and the importance of personal growth in relationships. The conversation explores the themes of shame, self-worth, and healing. It delves into the importance of addressing shame and working with it in order to develop a positive and healthy sense of self. The role of identity and somatic elements in the healing process is discussed, emphasizing the need to reframe one's identity and release stagnant energy from the body. Practical steps for healing are provided, including body scanning and breathing exercises. The conversation also touches on the role of the ego in healing and the importance of practical experience in personal growth. Finally, the challenges of finding authentic connection in the modern world are explored, along with the importance of acceptance and exploring one's passion. In this conversation, Dolphin Kasper and Shane Kohler discuss the paradox of self-acceptance and personal growth. They explore the importance of embracing the dark night of the soul and how it can lead to transformation. Shane shares his personal journey of going from jail to healing and how it impacted his relationships. They also discuss finding love and connection in challenging times and the power of going to the edges and coming back. The conversation concludes with a focus on shifting the focus from dating to connection. Key takeaways: Addressing shame and working with it is crucial for developing a positive and healthy sense of self.Reframing one's identity and releasing stagnant energy from the body are important steps in the healing process.Practical exercises such as body scanning and breathing can help release tension and promote healing.The ego can hinder healing and it is important to surrender control and allow the healing process to unfold naturally.Practical experience and taking action are essential for personal growth and development.Finding authentic connection in the modern world can be challenging, but accepting oneself and exploring passions can help in building meaningful relationships. Self-acceptance and personal growth are not contradictory but rather complementary. It's about becoming more of yourself and embracing your journey as a work in progress.The dark night of the soul is an opportunity for growth and self-discovery. It is in facing our deepest fears and uncertainties that we find wisdom and transformation.Finding love and connection requires a shift in mindset from seeking to acquire something to creating meaningful connections. It's about cultivating connection in all areas of life and being open to the possibilities.Going to the edges and coming back is a powerful journey that allows us to bring depth and wisdom to our relationships. It is through facing our own darkness that we can truly appreciate the light. https://relationflix.com/from-crippling-shame-to-incredible-connection-embracing-growth-authentic-relationships-with-shane-kohler

    1h 13m
  8. The Journey to Secure Attachment: Healing Insecure Bonds with Expert Insights with Philippe Lewis. Francesca Gentille and Sarah D'Antoni

    06/21/2024

    The Journey to Secure Attachment: Healing Insecure Bonds with Expert Insights with Philippe Lewis. Francesca Gentille and Sarah D'Antoni

    Welcome to Episode 26 of The Best Relationship Podcast with Dolphin Kasper! In this special episode, Dolphin is joined by three remarkable guests: Philippe Lewis, Francesca Gentille, and Sarah D'Antoni. Together, they dive deep into the nature of attachment in human relationships and share their unique approaches to healing insecure attachment. This enriching conversation touches on common themes and challenges associated with insecure attachment and explores the primary attachment styles. The guests introduce the concept of "the journey to secure" as a framework for understanding and navigating the transition from insecure to secure attachment. Philippe Lewis brings his expertise in empowerment, sovereignty, and various forms of intelligence and sense-making in intimate relationships. He discusses how these elements are crucial for navigating and deepening intimate connections.Francesca Gentille shares her profound knowledge of inner aspects and parts work. She emphasizes the importance of gaining confidence in caring for these parts to achieve wholeness and maturity, especially when relationships become challenging.Sarah D'Antoni offers a unique perspective on the histories and lineages of attachment. She focuses on the role of belonging in our relational systems and how finding our true place within these systems can lead us back to security and wholeness. This powerful conversation provides a real roadmap for anyone looking to heal their deepest attachment wounds and create the love they most desire. The discussion is not only enlightening but also practical, offering insights that listeners can apply to their own lives. Additionally, this episode highlights an incredible opportunity for deeper learning and healing: the annual summer retreat, "Journey to Secure," hosted by these four relationship experts. Happening on July 18th-23rd in Northern California, this 6-day retreat immerses participants in the work of attachment healing, promising newfound clarity and security in fostering long-term, healthy connections. Join us for this transformative episode and take the first step on your journey to secure attachment. Subscribe, tune in, and discover the magic of healing and growth in your relationships! https://relationflix.com/the-journey-to-secure-attachment-healing-insecure-bonds-with-expert-insights-with-philippe-lewis-francesca-gentille-and-sarah-dantoni

    50 min
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Welcome to RQ: The Relational Intelligence Podcast with Dolphin Kasper! The best place to go for your relationship upgrade! An entertaining, inspiring, and powerful exploration of the single most important aspect of our lives, our intimate relationships. On this podcast, you will unravel the complex dynamics that can either make or break your romantic life. In this podcast, we delve into what fosters deeply fulfilling connections and what gets in the way of the love we most want. As a dedicated Educator and long-time Life and Relationship Coach, your host Dolphin Kasper, is here to guide you through the joys and challenges of modern relationships, having provocative and inspiring conversations with the top experts and thought leaders in the realm of romantic relationships in the world. Collaboratively, Dolphin and his Guests offer holistic insights into the factors that contribute to both the struggles and successes in the most important area of our lives: the matters of the heart. Each episode embarks on a transformative journey as we navigate the labyrinth of dating, romance, dating advice, communication skills, and essential elements that form the foundation of any lasting love and any meaningful life. Whether you're venturing into the world of online dating, seeking advice on finding 'The One', or trying to figure out how to make love last, our discussions are designed to empower you with the tools needed for the love you’ve been longing for. In our quest for the Best Relationships Possible, we unravel the secrets to successful partnerships, providing valuable relationship advice tailored to your unique circumstances. Join us as we explore the intricacies of toxic relationships and narcissistic behavior, offering guidance on overcoming heartbreak, unexpected breakups, healing from betrayal, and discovering the path to healing from betrayal, past relationships, and long-standing attachment wounds from your childhood. Learn how to navigate saving your marriage, getting over an ex, getting out of a toxic relationship, and making long-distance relationships thrive, among other relationship advice. We will also delve into the fascinating realm of childhood trauma, Attachment Theory, and the development of attachment styles. Gain insights into how these factors influence the ebb and flow of your current relationships, allowing you to navigate the often painful dance of love with a newfound clarity and understanding. Explore the world of dating apps and discover effective strategies on 'How to be more confident in all areas of your relational life. From making the first move to the bedroom and lovemaking to communication skills to conflict resolution, to how to know when to end a relationship, we have you covered! Whether you're curious about polyamory and open relationships or you want to know how to create a love that lasts a lifetime with your soulmate, our discussions cover the whole spectrum of relationship dynamics while getting into the details and subtleties that allow relationships to grow and thrive over time. Recognize the signs of relationship violence and learn how to extricate yourself from toxic relationships with grace and safety. We will ponder questions like "How can I save my relationship?", "How do I make sure my relationship succeeds?", "How do I know when my relationship is over?", "Is pornography causing my erectile dysfunction?”, and “Where are all the good men/women!?”. This podcast will guide you on a powerful journey toward clarity, understanding, and empowerment in your romantic life. Brought to you by Relationflix, Dolphin Kasper and his guests will support you in the comprehensive exploration of love, communication, conflict resolution, sexuality, sensuality, human connection, and lasting satisfaction, offering you a roadmap to, not just survive, but thrive in your closest relationships. Are you ready? Subscribe, tune-in, and let's get to it!

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