DadMode: God, Grit, Goals

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Dad Mode with Mike Tobias is about navigating the challenges of fatherhood, faith, and leadership with grit, grace, and growth. As a father of six, Mike shares insights on family dynamics, personal growth, and resilience, while tackling tough topics like responsibility, gratitude, and critical thinking. Each episode offers practical wisdom, stories, and faith-based reflections to help dads lead their families with strength, purpose, and conviction. It’s not about being perfect—it’s about showing up every day with intention.

  1. JAN 29

    2.17 Why So Many Good Dads Feel Exhausted

    Many dads aren’t drifting. They’re gripping. In this episode of DadMode, Mike Tobias reflects on the quiet exhaustion many men carry while still trying to do the right thing—at work, at home, and in their walk with God. This isn’t about burnout or rebellion. It’s about alignment, effort, and the unseen stories that quietly shape how we live under pressure. If you’re a dad who’s still showing up—but doing it tired—this conversation is for you.

    8 min

  2. 11/28/2025

    2.16 Midlife Marriage, Menopause & Faith: Leading When You Feel Lost with Cory Dunham

    If your marriage feels like it suddenly shifted… if your wife is changing, you’re changing, and nothing feels as stable as it used to—this episode is for you.In this powerful conversation, Mike Tobias sits down with executive leadership coach Cory Dunham to talk honestly about the emotional, spiritual, and relational realities men face in midlife. From the shock of menopause to the weight of leadership, identity, and faith, this episode pulls back the curtain on what men rarely talk about—but desperately need to understand.Together, Mike and Cory unpack:✔️ How menopause can shake even healthy marriages—and how husbands can respond with compassion, not confusion✔️ Moving from spiritual autopilot to actually hearing God again✔️ Why attention is the true measure of worship (news, fear, phones, and anxiety)✔️ How to lead your marriage and family when YOU feel lost✔️ The difference between performing leadership and living it from identity✔️ Building habits and rhythms that align your life with God’s design✔️ What it means to lead with humility, curiosity, and a Kingdom mindsetThis is a raw, real, hope-filled episode for husbands, dads, leaders—and any man feeling the pressures of midlife transition. You don’t have to navigate this alone. God is with you, and there is a way forward.If this episode helped you:👍 Like the video🔔 Subscribe for more faith, fatherhood, and leadership conversations📤 Share this with another man who needs encouragement todayConnect with Cory Dunham:Podcast: Unapologetic LeadershipLinkedIn / Website: CoryDunham.comRemember the four core truths we hold to on Dad Mode:God is goodJesus has forgiven meI am lovedEverything is possible#DadMode #ChristianMen #Marriage #Menopause #Midlife #FaithAndLeadership #CoryDunham #MikeTobias #ChristianHusbands #LeadershipDevelopment

    1h 22m

  3. 08/28/2025

    2.15 From Skeptic to Street Preacher: A Rational Journey to Faith & God's Call for Men Today

    Join Mike Tobias on Dad Mode: God, Grit, Goals, as he welcomes Devin Wilbourn – a dad of three, street preacher, and former skeptic who has amassed over 50,000 followers on TikTok by speaking about Jesus in raw, real, and powerful ways.In this profound conversation, Devin shares his unique intellectual journey to faith, beginning with a radical re-evaluation of truth itself. He explains how he moved past fear-based beliefs from his youth and embarked on a rigorous quest to discover God through observation and reason. From contemplating the "Big Three" questions of humanity to examining ancient religions and the distinct "ripple effect" of Jesus, Devin outlines his path to a deep, experiential faith.This episode also dives into Devin's impactful ministry, "The Quiet Church," his perspective on fatherhood as a calling to steward God's children, and his powerful advice for men who feel stuck or are doubting their faith. Most importantly, Devin lays out what he believes are the **three critical fights God is calling men into right now: purity, strong leadership in marriage, and sacrificially loving their wives as Christ loved the church.** This is a must-listen for anyone seeking a logical foundation for their faith or practical guidance for living a godly life in today's world.Timestamps:0:00 Welcome to Dad Mode: God, Grit, Goals with Devin Wilbourn 0:12 Devin Wilbourn: Data Three, Street Preacher, Former Skeptic 1:35 The Profound Realization: Truth Exists Apart From Belief 3:52 Finding Freedom to Question God's Existence 5:04 Devin's Rational Journey to Belief: Starting with First Principles 11:09 Sociological Conditioning and Inherent Beliefs 14:59 The Moral Compass: Why Ask "Does God Exist?" 18:00 Hedonism: The Logical Conclusion If There Is No God 21:04 Life's Context: 90 Years vs. Eternity 25:28 Creating a Rubric for Belief, Free from Bias 28:00 Why Agnosticism is the Most Rational Position (Initially) 34:56 Limiting to Observation: Starting with the Atheist Position 37:00 The "Big Three" Questions Encoded in Human DNA 48:00 Creation as the Most Rational Observable Conclusion 52:00 Extrapolating the Creator's Characteristics from Creation 69:00 Seeking Communication: The Creator's Interest in Humanity 78:00 Analyzing Ancient Religions for Cohesive Answers 89:00 Judaism's Cohesion & Jesus: The "Man Who Screwed Up Judaism" 93:00 The Unique "Ripple Effect" of Jesus in History 100:00 Stepping from Evidence to Experiential Faith 110:00 The First Time God Spoke: A Year of Seeking 1:00:56 Faith: The Bridge Between Evidence and Knowledge (Not Blind Belief) 1:04:28 Engaging with "Checking Your Brain at the Door" Christianity 1:07:27 The Genesis of "The Quiet Church" and TikTok Ministry 1:28:10 Faith and Fatherhood: Stewarding God's Children 1:41:04 Finding God's Goodness Amidst Financial Adversity 1:52:15 Advice for Men: Start, Pray More, Read Scripture in Chunks 1:56:48 What Devin Would Tell His 13-Year-Old Self 2:00:56 God's Three-Pronged Fight for Men Right Now 2:01:54 The Fight for Purity (and its link to power) 2:04:18 The Fight to Lead in Marriage with Strength and Confidence 2:08:53 The Fight to Lay Down Your Life for Your Wife 2:18:15 Connecting Purity to Power in Men's Lives 2:21:46 How to Connect with Devin and The Quiet ChurchFor more information on Devin Wilbournhttps://thequietchurch.orgFor more information on Mike Tobiashttps://miketobias.me

    2h 23m
  4. 2.14 Fatherless to Fathering: Zach Garza's Journey of Healing & Life-Changing Mentorship | Dad Mode

    08/21/2025

    2.14 Fatherless to Fathering: Zach Garza's Journey of Healing & Life-Changing Mentorship | Dad Mode

    Join us on Dad Mode: God, Grit & Goals as we dive deep into an incredibly powerful story of transformation with special guest Zach Garza. This episode, titled Fatherless to Fathering, explores Zach's profound journey from the deep pain of growing up without a father to becoming a “father of many” through dedicated mentorship.Zach shares the raw, emotional truth of his childhood after his father left at age 13, leaving him seeking love, affirmation, and acceptance. Discover how God, in His kindness, brought pivotal mentors into Zach's life who shifted his trajectory from a “path of darkness” to a “path of life.”In this powerful episode, you will learn:The transformative power of relational mentorship: Hear the incredible story of Bob, Zach's first true mentor, who didn’t try to “fix” him or preach, but simply showed up and built trust through relationship. This led to a life-altering emotional breakthrough for Zach, where he wept for the first time since he was 13.How pain can become passion: Learn how another key mentor, Steve Allen, taught Zach the crucial lesson that “your pain can become your passion,” guiding him through the challenging, miraculous process of forgiving his father and finding new purpose.The simple keys to effective mentorship: Zach outlines three profound principles—show up consistently, speak truth (encouragement and courage), and love God. He also shares the vital concept of focusing on “faithfulness over fruitfulness,” reminding us that the outcome of mentorship is in God’s hands.The difference between a “buddy” and a godly relationship: Understand the critical role of authenticity, vulnerability, and men who will “call you up” to your best self.Practical advice for fathers: Zach, a father of three, shares insights on setting family rhythms, prioritizing quality time, showing physical affection (hugging and kissing your kids), and the importance of dating your wife.This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking to heal from past wounds, become a better mentor, or deepen their understanding of intentional fathering. If God can transform Zach's life, He can do it to anyone.Connect with Zach and his impactful work:You Can Mentor: Learn how to start, scale, and sustain mentoring organizations across America.Website: www.youcanmentor.comSocial Media: @youcanmentorListen to the You Can Mentor Podcast!Raising Up Fathers: Join the mission to destroy the cycle of fatherlessness by encouraging and empowering men to become the godly husbands and fathers they never had.Website: www.raisingupfathers.comSocial Media: @raisingupfathers#Mentorship #Fatherlessness #Healing #Fatherhood #DadMode #ZachGarza #YouCanMentor #RaisingUpFathers #PersonalTransformation #ChristianMentorship #GodlyMen #FamilyLife #DadAdvice #Podcast #LifeLessons

    1 hr

  5. 06/12/2025

    2.13 You Weren’t Made to Drift | Rediscover Purpose & Lead Boldly as a Father

    Are you a dad who feels like you're doing everything "right"—but still feel lost, disconnected, or worn out? You’re not alone. In this episode of Dad Mode, Mike Tobias shares a powerful, practical roadmap to help you rediscover your God-given identity, reclaim your purpose, and lead your family with clarity and courage. 🔥 Learn how to overcome emotional exhaustion📖 Explore a biblical framework for authentic masculinity🛠️ Start 3 simple daily practices that will realign your life💬 “You’re not broken. You’re untrained. Let’s fix that—together.” 👇 SUBSCRIBE for more episodes on fatherhood, faith, and living with grit.📘 Check out Built for the Fight: https://BuiltForTheFightBook.com🎧 Share this episode with a dad who needs it. #fatherhood #ChristianDad #faithandfamily #mensministry #purpose #manhood #DadModePodcast

    13 min
  6. Episode 2.11: Finding God in Grief: A Father’s Journey Through Loss

    05/29/2025

    Episode 2.11: Finding God in Grief: A Father’s Journey Through Loss

    In this heartfelt episode of Dad Mode: God, Grit, and Goals, host Mike Tobias sits with Jay Erwin to share his story of losing his daughter, Audrey, at eight months of pregnancy. Discover how Jay and Carolyn found Christian grief support and healing through faith, leaning on God to navigate the pain of stillbirth. From planting a magnolia tree to honor Audrey to finding hope after loss, this episode offers a biblical perspective on grief. If you’re seeking hope after miscarriage or loss, this Christian dad podcast will inspire you. Share this episode and join us to explore trusting God in grief.

    1h 2m

  7. 05/08/2025

    2.11 Built for the Fight: Why This Book Can Change Everything for the Man You Love

    Built for the Fight isn’t just another men’s book. It’s a wake-up call for every man who feels stuck—and for the women who love them. In this episode, Mike Tobias unpacks why most men are silently drifting, how biblical masculinity offers a better path, and what it really means to fight for your identity, family, and legacy. 💥 Kindle edition launches May 22📬 Get updates + free preview: BuiltForTheFightBook.com

    8 min

  8. 04/24/2025

    2.10 Strength and Surrender: The True Power of Biblical Manhood

    In this special reading from my upcoming book The Paradox of Biblical Manhood, I dive into Chapter 9: Living the Paradox: The Strong Yet Humble Man. This episode is a heartfelt exploration of what it truly means to be a man in today's world—one rooted in both strength and surrender. Join me as I unpack the tension between cultural expectations and biblical truth, and how we as men, fathers, and leaders are called to live courageously yet humbly. If you’ve ever wrestled with what it means to be both firm and faithful, bold yet broken, this episode is for you. Whether you're in your car, at the gym, or winding down for the night, this chapter will challenge and inspire you to embrace the man God designed you to be. 🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and share if this message resonates with you. Let’s redefine manhood—together. #DadMode #BiblicalManhood #FaithAndFatherhood #MikeTobias #Masculinity #StrengthAndHumility #ChristianPodcast #ManhoodInCrisis

    13 min
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Dad Mode with Mike Tobias is about navigating the challenges of fatherhood, faith, and leadership with grit, grace, and growth. As a father of six, Mike shares insights on family dynamics, personal growth, and resilience, while tackling tough topics like responsibility, gratitude, and critical thinking. Each episode offers practical wisdom, stories, and faith-based reflections to help dads lead their families with strength, purpose, and conviction. It’s not about being perfect—it’s about showing up every day with intention.

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  • Creator
    Mike Tobias
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    75
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Mike Tobias
  • Show Website
    DadMode: God, Grit, Goals