Sex, Love & Soul

Mary Knight
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Sex, Love & Soul

Tired of feeling disconnected in your marriage or wasting time on the wrong men? Join me for candid conversations and real-world insights drawn from my experiences as a high-end sex worker and relationship coach. I cut through the fluff and provide practical tips and strategies that help married and single women get the connection and intimacy they crave. Tune in for unfiltered wisdom and actionable advice that makes your journey in love after 50 nothing short of fabulous. Let's transform your connection, reignite the passion, and create the fulfilling relationship you've always wanted. 💖🎙️

  1. JAN 23

    42. Dating Myths: How You're Being Brainwashed

    Are you tired of being told you need to drop a fortune on a first date just to prove you’re “serious”? In this episode of Sex, Love, and Soul, I—Mary Knight—unpack the new dating pressures created by social media “experts” and debunk the myth that an expensive steakhouse is the only way to impress a woman. We’ll explore why you don’t have to break the bank to show genuine interest, how true confidence and security aren’t measured by designer dinners, and why a coffee date can sometimes be the most honest way to meet someone. I’ll also cover the damaging messages men receive, from believing you must be six feet tall with six figures to thinking that simply having real desires makes you “dangerous.” These conflicting narratives lead many men to feel stuck, discouraged, or even tempted to ditch traditional dating entirely. The truth? Healthy, fulfilling relationships start with mutual respect, clarity, and embracing your authentic self—no overpriced tab required. If you’re a “nice guy” fed up with the dating merry-go-round, grab my book, How to Turn Nice into Sexy, and discover how to stay true to who you are while confidently navigating modern dating. You’ll find it at www.sexloveandsoul.com. And if you’re ready for one-on-one support, visit www.sexloveandsoulcoaching.com to schedule a personalized coaching session. Let’s cut through the noise and get back to what really matters: real human connection.

    19 min

  2. 12/29/2024

    41. My Escort Past: Money & Shame

    Welcome to Sex, Love & Soul, hosted by me, Mary Knight!  I'm thrilled you've joined me for another episode where I go a little deeper into my past life as an escort. Today, I'll continue from where we left off in our last discussion about cam girls, responding to an insightful email that raised questions about the digital transformation of intimacy. In today's episode, I'll share why, despite the apparent risks, I felt safer working privately as an escort than as a public performer in strip clubs. Although illusory control over my environment, this sense of safety was crucial for me. I'll explore how this need for privacy influenced my decision to leave the more visible world of stripping for the discreet and autonomous life of an escort. We'll also look at the financial motivations behind my choices, how dealing with shame and the pursuit of independence propelled me forward, and the complex dynamics within the escort business. This includes the often overlooked aspect of financial exploitation by partners—how boyfriends or pimps can manipulate both the worker and the client. If you’re a man who’s formed a connection—past or present—with a sex worker and want to understand that bond, you’re not alone. I offer one-on-one coaching at www.sexloveandsoulcoaching.com  Curious about breaking free from the “nice guy” trap?  Check out my book, How to Turn Nice into Your Sexy Superpower, at www.sexloveandsoul.com. Questions? please email me at mary@sexloveandsoul.com Subscribe for more real talk about the connections we crave, the judgments we carry, and the desire for authenticity in sex, love, and soul. Thanks for joining me, and I’ll see you in the next video! Sign up for my newsletter: https://mailchi.mp/sexloveandsoul/qt0wogoy7z

    22 min

  3. 12/27/2024

    40. Revealing My Escort Past

    Welcome to Sex, Love & Soul! I’m Mary Knight, and in today’s episode, I’m diving deeper into my past as both an escort and a Madam—an experience many of you have been curious about. While I don’t often share these stories and never for pure shock value, I believe there’s so much to learn from what men revealed to me about why they chose to see me rather than be at home with their wives. It’s rarely just about sex with an attractive stranger. In this conversation, we’ll look at the complex reality of sex work, from traditional escort services to the rise of cam shows and the motivations behind them. I’ll share what I’ve observed when it comes to the potential for manipulation. As a life coach supporting men looking for healthier, more authentic connections, I’m here to offer insights into what drives these behaviors, how shame can perpetuate them, and how to reclaim your sense of self and clarity. I’ll also let you know about follow-up videos where I continue my personal story and share practical tips for those navigating relationships with sex workers. Interested in personalized guidance? Visit www.sexloveandsoulcoaching.com for coaching, "How to Turn Nice into Your Sexy Superpower" www.sexloveandsoul.com. Let’s journey together toward understanding, self-awareness, and real intimacy. Join my weekly newsletter: https://mailchi.mp/sexloveandsoul/qt0wogoy7z Stay tuned for the next episode!

    18 min

  4. 12/10/2024

    39. Nice Guys Turn to Sex Workers - Why?

    Are you the nice guy stuck in relationships that feel more like friendships? Are you convincing yourself it's enough—when deep down, you know it's not? Today, we’re diving into why this happens and how to break free. Hi, I’m Mary Knight, a relationship coach with a unique background and over 15 years of experience helping men transform their lives and relationships. My journey began as a retired high-end escort and brothel Madam, where I witnessed firsthand the struggles of nice guys trying to navigate love, intimacy, and connection. In this episode of Sex, Love & Soul, I’ll uncover: Why nice guys often end up in platonic-feeling romances. The hidden reasons your needs and desires feel like a burden. How to shift from living in your head to being present in your body. The power of embracing your masculinity and turning vulnerability into connection. This is not about blaming or judging—this is about reclaiming your confidence, your desires, and your power. Let’s talk about what it takes to stop settling and create the kind of connection you want. 📚 Check out my book: How to Turn Nice into Your Sexy Superpower—a practical guide to breaking free from the "nice guy" trap: sexloveandsoul.com 🎯 Ready for one-on-one coaching? Book a session: sexloveandsoul.com 👉 Don’t forget to subscribe for more insights, strategies, and real talk about love, sex, and intimacy. 💬 Let me know in the comments: What’s one way you’re ready to step into your masculine energy today? mary@sexloveandsoul.com #NiceGuys #Relationships #MasculineEnergy #DatingCoach #LoveAndIntimacy

    18 min

  5. 12/02/2024

    38. Men, Please Stop Apologizing For Being Men

    In this episode of Sex, Love & Soul, I, Mary Knight, get into why some "nice guys" struggle with owning their sexuality. Many men arrive on a date with good intentions but often hold back, treating the woman like a fragile victim of male sexuality. This mindset keeps them from truly connecting, both emotionally and physically. I’m not saying men's actions don't sometimes harm women, but most women aren’t looking for protection from your desire—they want to feel your masculine presence. In this video, I explore why men need to acknowledge their sexual energy and lead with it confidently—without feeling guilt or shame. When men believe they're somehow dangerous or predatory just for wanting intimacy, they lose the chance to form genuine, fulfilling connections. This creates a disconnect and push women away. I also talk about the war on masculinity and femininity and how it’s shaping modern dating dynamics. It’s time to unlearn some harmful societal teachings and embrace healthy masculinity in a way that honors both men and women. If you're ready to shift your perspective, embrace your sexual confidence, and improve your dating life, watch now! Have questions or thoughts? Drop them in the comments or email me at mary@sexloveandsoul.com Don’t forget to subscribe for more discussions on love, intimacy, and self-discovery! Ready to Turn Nice into Your Sexy SuperPower - buy my booklet at: www.sexloveansoul.com Ready to get to the next level in life, dating, marriage: Book a coaching session with me: https://calendly.com/mary-sexloveandsoul/coaching

    24 min

  6. 10/10/2024

    37. Nice Guy Trap: How it Hurts Your Sex Life

    Sex Love and Soul is a place where we cut through the myths around relationships and intimacy, especially for the "nice guys" who struggle to connect deeply with women. I’m Mary Knight, your host, and today, we’re going to explore why being a nice guy doesn’t always get the results you want in your love life and how to shift from being stuck in your head to truly being present in your body. Women appreciate nice guys, but there's a disconnect that many don’t see: nice guys often live in their heads instead of their bodies. When you focus on your thoughts — “Does she like me? Am I doing this right?” — you’re not truly with her in the moment. And when you're stuck in your head it's hard to express your true desires. It shows up in your dating life as anxiety, premature ejaculation, or even struggling to feel aroused at all. This creates a frustrating cycle where no matter how good your intentions are. The solution is getting out of your head and into your body. In today’s show, I’ll walk you through a simple exercise that will help you shift your energy to where it needs to be: your core. By grounding yourself, you’ll start to notice how much more relaxed and confident you feel, and how women respond to you differently. Presence is what women crave. When you show up with real, embodied confidence — not just “niceness” — you make her feel seen, heard, and desired. So, if you’re tired of being misunderstood or stuck in the friend zone, it’s time to change the game. Being a nice guy can be your superpower — but only if you learn to lead with your full self. In this episode, I’ll show you how to turn your headspace into heartspace and why mastering this shift is the key to having the passionate, connected love life you’ve always wanted. Subscribe, stay tuned, and let’s get started! Get my new booklet on how to Turn to being a Nice Guy into a Sexy Superpower: www.sexloveandsoul.com mary@sexloveandsoul.com

    20 min

  7. 10/10/2024

    36. Respect Doesn't Fuel Female Desire: Female Sex Drive Pt 3

    Why She Put You in the Friendzone: What You're Missing About Female Attraction In this episode of Sex, Love, and Soul, I, Mary Knight, dive deep into a crucial topic for men—what female sex drive isn't. Many men unknowingly focus on the wrong things in dating, which can land them squarely in the friendzone. Do you think being respectful or walking on eggshells will make her see you as a romantic partner? You might be surprised to learn that respect, while essential in all relationships, is not what fuels female desire. In fact, female attraction is far more complex, and it's not about winning her approval or being the "nice guy." This video is the third in my series, explaining how female sex drive actually works—and how it doesn't. From learning why women don't need respect to feel turned on, to understanding why being overly accommodating can backfire, we’ll discuss how you can stop focusing on her boundaries and start focusing on who you truly are as a man. If you want to break free from the "nice guy" trap and have deeper, more meaningful connections with women, this episode is for you. Don't forget to subscribe for more insights on dating, sex, and relationships, and drop your questions in the comments or email me at mary@sexloveandsoul.com! www.sexloveandsoul. Get my new booklet: Turn Nice into a Sexy Super Power

    18 min

  8. 10/09/2024

    35. What Does It Mean When She Needs Space Female Sex Drive Pt 2

    Feeling confused when a woman suddenly needs space, stops responding to your texts, or seems less available? You're not alone. In this video, we'll get into what's really going on when a woman pulls away during the first few weeks of dating. Is it something you did? Or is it just part of how women rekindle their attraction? We’ll explore why even after an amazing date or great sex, a woman might instinctively create distance. You’ll learn why space can be a crucial part of a woman’s sex drive and how her need for space is not necessarily a sign of disinterest. We’ll discuss key behaviors that might push her away and what to do when she starts pulling back. Plus, I'll share how a woman’s level of attraction influences how much space she needs, and how you can tell if her interest is fading or if she just needs time to re-ignite her feelings. Whether you're in the first few dates or navigating a long-term relationship, understanding this dynamic is essential. Remember, a woman’s desire for space can be a natural part of building a healthy, lasting attraction. Stay tuned, and let's decode this often-misunderstood aspect of dating. Key Topics Covered: Why women need space during the early dating phase Signs that her interest might be fading How over-pursuing can backfire and what to do instead The importance of maintaining your cool and masculine energy When to give her space and when to walk away If you're ready to stop feeling frustrated and start understanding the nuances of female attraction, hit play now! www.sexloveandsoul.com mary@swxloveandsoul.com

    31 min
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Tired of feeling disconnected in your marriage or wasting time on the wrong men? Join me for candid conversations and real-world insights drawn from my experiences as a high-end sex worker and relationship coach. I cut through the fluff and provide practical tips and strategies that help married and single women get the connection and intimacy they crave. Tune in for unfiltered wisdom and actionable advice that makes your journey in love after 50 nothing short of fabulous. Let's transform your connection, reignite the passion, and create the fulfilling relationship you've always wanted. 💖🎙️

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  • Creator
    Mary Knight
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2025
  • Episodes
    42
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Mary Knight
  • Show Website
    Sex, Love & Soul

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