Sex, Love & Soul

Mary Knight
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Sex, Love & Soul

Tired of feeling disconnected in your marriage or wasting time on the wrong men? Join me for candid conversations and real-world insights drawn from my experiences as a high-end sex worker and relationship coach. I cut through the fluff and provide practical tips and strategies that help married and single women get the connection and intimacy they crave. Tune in for unfiltered wisdom and actionable advice that makes your journey in love after 50 nothing short of fabulous. Let's transform your connection, reignite the passion, and create the fulfilling relationship you've always wanted. 💖🎙️

  1. 3 DAYS AGO

    39. Nice Guys Turn to Sex Workers - Why?

    Are you the nice guy stuck in relationships that feel more like friendships? Are you convincing yourself it's enough—when deep down, you know it's not? Today, we’re diving into why this happens and how to break free. Hi, I’m Mary Knight, a relationship coach with a unique background and over 15 years of experience helping men transform their lives and relationships. My journey began as a retired high-end escort and brothel Madam, where I witnessed firsthand the struggles of nice guys trying to navigate love, intimacy, and connection. In this episode of Sex, Love & Soul, I’ll uncover: Why nice guys often end up in platonic-feeling romances. The hidden reasons your needs and desires feel like a burden. How to shift from living in your head to being present in your body. The power of embracing your masculinity and turning vulnerability into connection. This is not about blaming or judging—this is about reclaiming your confidence, your desires, and your power. Let’s talk about what it takes to stop settling and create the kind of connection you want. 📚 Check out my book: How to Turn Nice into Your Sexy Superpower—a practical guide to breaking free from the "nice guy" trap: sexloveandsoul.com 🎯 Ready for one-on-one coaching? Book a session: sexloveandsoul.com 👉 Don’t forget to subscribe for more insights, strategies, and real talk about love, sex, and intimacy. 💬 Let me know in the comments: What’s one way you’re ready to step into your masculine energy today? mary@sexloveandsoul.com #NiceGuys #Relationships #MasculineEnergy #DatingCoach #LoveAndIntimacy

    18 min

  2. DEC 2

    38. Men, Please Stop Apologizing For Being Men

    In this episode of Sex, Love & Soul, I, Mary Knight, get into why some "nice guys" struggle with owning their sexuality. Many men arrive on a date with good intentions but often hold back, treating the woman like a fragile victim of male sexuality. This mindset keeps them from truly connecting, both emotionally and physically. I’m not saying men's actions don't sometimes harm women, but most women aren’t looking for protection from your desire—they want to feel your masculine presence. In this video, I explore why men need to acknowledge their sexual energy and lead with it confidently—without feeling guilt or shame. When men believe they're somehow dangerous or predatory just for wanting intimacy, they lose the chance to form genuine, fulfilling connections. This creates a disconnect and push women away. I also talk about the war on masculinity and femininity and how it’s shaping modern dating dynamics. It’s time to unlearn some harmful societal teachings and embrace healthy masculinity in a way that honors both men and women. If you're ready to shift your perspective, embrace your sexual confidence, and improve your dating life, watch now! Have questions or thoughts? Drop them in the comments or email me at mary@sexloveandsoul.com Don’t forget to subscribe for more discussions on love, intimacy, and self-discovery! Ready to Turn Nice into Your Sexy SuperPower - buy my booklet at: www.sexloveansoul.com Ready to get to the next level in life, dating, marriage: Book a coaching session with me: https://calendly.com/mary-sexloveandsoul/coaching

    24 min

  3. OCT 10

    37. Nice Guy Trap: How it Hurts Your Sex Life

    Sex Love and Soul is a place where we cut through the myths around relationships and intimacy, especially for the "nice guys" who struggle to connect deeply with women. I’m Mary Knight, your host, and today, we’re going to explore why being a nice guy doesn’t always get the results you want in your love life and how to shift from being stuck in your head to truly being present in your body. Women appreciate nice guys, but there's a disconnect that many don’t see: nice guys often live in their heads instead of their bodies. When you focus on your thoughts — “Does she like me? Am I doing this right?” — you’re not truly with her in the moment. And when you're stuck in your head it's hard to express your true desires. It shows up in your dating life as anxiety, premature ejaculation, or even struggling to feel aroused at all. This creates a frustrating cycle where no matter how good your intentions are. The solution is getting out of your head and into your body. In today’s show, I’ll walk you through a simple exercise that will help you shift your energy to where it needs to be: your core. By grounding yourself, you’ll start to notice how much more relaxed and confident you feel, and how women respond to you differently. Presence is what women crave. When you show up with real, embodied confidence — not just “niceness” — you make her feel seen, heard, and desired. So, if you’re tired of being misunderstood or stuck in the friend zone, it’s time to change the game. Being a nice guy can be your superpower — but only if you learn to lead with your full self. In this episode, I’ll show you how to turn your headspace into heartspace and why mastering this shift is the key to having the passionate, connected love life you’ve always wanted. Subscribe, stay tuned, and let’s get started! Get my new booklet on how to Turn to being a Nice Guy into a Sexy Superpower: www.sexloveandsoul.com mary@sexloveandsoul.com

    20 min

  4. OCT 10

    36. Respect Doesn't Fuel Female Desire: Female Sex Drive Pt 3

    Why She Put You in the Friendzone: What You're Missing About Female Attraction In this episode of Sex, Love, and Soul, I, Mary Knight, dive deep into a crucial topic for men—what female sex drive isn't. Many men unknowingly focus on the wrong things in dating, which can land them squarely in the friendzone. Do you think being respectful or walking on eggshells will make her see you as a romantic partner? You might be surprised to learn that respect, while essential in all relationships, is not what fuels female desire. In fact, female attraction is far more complex, and it's not about winning her approval or being the "nice guy." This video is the third in my series, explaining how female sex drive actually works—and how it doesn't. From learning why women don't need respect to feel turned on, to understanding why being overly accommodating can backfire, we’ll discuss how you can stop focusing on her boundaries and start focusing on who you truly are as a man. If you want to break free from the "nice guy" trap and have deeper, more meaningful connections with women, this episode is for you. Don't forget to subscribe for more insights on dating, sex, and relationships, and drop your questions in the comments or email me at mary@sexloveandsoul.com! www.sexloveandsoul. Get my new booklet: Turn Nice into a Sexy Super Power

    18 min

  5. OCT 9

    35. What Does It Mean When She Needs Space Female Sex Drive Pt 2

    Feeling confused when a woman suddenly needs space, stops responding to your texts, or seems less available? You're not alone. In this video, we'll get into what's really going on when a woman pulls away during the first few weeks of dating. Is it something you did? Or is it just part of how women rekindle their attraction? We’ll explore why even after an amazing date or great sex, a woman might instinctively create distance. You’ll learn why space can be a crucial part of a woman’s sex drive and how her need for space is not necessarily a sign of disinterest. We’ll discuss key behaviors that might push her away and what to do when she starts pulling back. Plus, I'll share how a woman’s level of attraction influences how much space she needs, and how you can tell if her interest is fading or if she just needs time to re-ignite her feelings. Whether you're in the first few dates or navigating a long-term relationship, understanding this dynamic is essential. Remember, a woman’s desire for space can be a natural part of building a healthy, lasting attraction. Stay tuned, and let's decode this often-misunderstood aspect of dating. Key Topics Covered: Why women need space during the early dating phase Signs that her interest might be fading How over-pursuing can backfire and what to do instead The importance of maintaining your cool and masculine energy When to give her space and when to walk away If you're ready to stop feeling frustrated and start understanding the nuances of female attraction, hit play now! www.sexloveandsoul.com mary@swxloveandsoul.com

    31 min

  6. OCT 9

    35. Demystifying Female Sex Drive Part 1

    Understanding Female Sex Drive: A Guide for Men Welcome to the first video in a special series designed specifically for men, inspired by the questions I’ve received from my community. While my coaching, courses, and podcast primarily focus on women, I’ve noticed an increasing number of queries from men seeking to understand the fundamentals of female sex drive. This series aims to demystify this topic and provide you with valuable insights. In this video, we’re exploring the basics of what female sex drive is, particularly in the context of early dating. It’s important to note that we’re discussing general, healthy scenarios here, without delving into the complexities of individual nuances and kinks. Curiosity and Trust: When a woman agrees to a date, two main elements of her sex drive are triggered—curiosity and trust. She’s intrigued by you and wants to solve the puzzle you represent. Additionally, she feels safe with you, knowing you can handle situations that arise. The Role of Relaxation: For a woman to feel physically aroused, she must feel relaxed. Safety translates to the ability to relax, which is crucial for arousal. Beyond Respect: Contrary to common belief, a woman’s sex drive doesn’t hinge on feeling respected for her accomplishments. While respect is important in a relationship, it’s not what turns her on. Overemphasizing respect can sometimes lead men into the friend zone. Authenticity and Boundaries: Men who are attractive to women know their own boundaries and values. They don’t need to know a woman’s boundaries upfront because they remain consistent in their behavior and values regardless of external factors. This authenticity is a key turn-on for women. Pride and Accomplishment: A man who is proud of his life and accomplishments naturally exudes confidence, which is highly attractive to women. It’s about living authentically and being true to yourself. In the next video, we’ll dive into why a woman might say she needs space and what that really means.

    17 min

  7. JUN 29

    33. Self Sabotage is Bullsh*t

    What if I told you there’s no such thing as self-sabotage? Would you believe me? There is no dark part of your psyche trying to mess up your life! This podcast explores the truth behind seemingly unproductive behaviors and what that critical voice inside your head is really trying to tell you. Your inner critic isn't trying to punish you - it's trying to keep you safe. Our brain’s primary function is to keep us alive, equating the unknown with danger and the familiar with safety, even if that familiar space isn’t fulfilling. When you start feeling critical or picking fights, it’s not self-sabotage; it's a signal that you feel threatened. Understanding this response allows you to address your feelings with compassion rather than criticism, helping you work towards growth and change with a positive mindset. Join me, Mary Knight, on "Sex, Love, and Soul," as we dive deep into understanding these protective mechanisms of our brain. We’ll uncover why we act out in ways that seem counterproductive and how to navigate these feelings to create healthier, more fulfilling relationships. Thank you for listening. If you enjoy this podcast, please rate, review, and share it with others who might benefit. If you have any questions or topics you’d like me to cover, reach out at mary@sexloveandsoul.com. I personally answer all my emails and would love to hear from you.

    24 min

  8. JUN 15

    32. Stop Being Triggered & Take Control

    I’ll share actionable techniques you can use in the moment to quickly and effectively resolve triggers. I’ll guide you through practical steps to move through your emotions and manage triggers with grace and a sense of control. These steps aren’t just theoretical; they’re based on my journey and the methods I’ve honed over the past 20 years.  www.sexloveandsoul.com mary@sexloveandsoul.com

    33 min
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Tired of feeling disconnected in your marriage or wasting time on the wrong men? Join me for candid conversations and real-world insights drawn from my experiences as a high-end sex worker and relationship coach. I cut through the fluff and provide practical tips and strategies that help married and single women get the connection and intimacy they crave. Tune in for unfiltered wisdom and actionable advice that makes your journey in love after 50 nothing short of fabulous. Let's transform your connection, reignite the passion, and create the fulfilling relationship you've always wanted. 💖🎙️

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  • Creator
    Mary Knight
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2024
  • Episodes
    39
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Mary Knight
  • Show Website
    Sex, Love & Soul

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