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Join author and transformational teacher Gillian Shields in this transformative podcast where self, soul, and relationships intersect. Through personal stories and expert insights, this podcast deepens the meaning of love and helps listeners navigate life’s challenges, creating beauty from what once felt unbeautiful. With a blend of psychology and soul spirituality, this podcast is a powerful resource for those seeking love, freedom, and success after difficult experiences.

  1. 10/17/2025

    S.4., Ep.9 - When Family Isn't Everything (A Reading From My New Book + Updates)

    In the final episode of this season, Gillian gives an update on the future of this podcast, and does a full reading of the Introduction section of her book coming out on October 25th 2025 called, "When Family Isn't Everything." Stay updated and join Gillian's newsletter community for book bonuses and more. Get Gillian's book When Family Isn't Everything on kindle and paperback.

    29 min

  2. 07/25/2025

    S.4; Ep.8 - What the heck does it mean to "heal"?

    If you’ve ever asked yourself, “Am I doing this healing thing right?” — this podcast is for you. Do you worry that you're 'falling back' or not moving forward if you get triggered or feel emotional about a past experience with family, an ex, or criticism even after you've begun personal growth? Does it feel like you're not healing or "healed" if you still struggle from time to time? Let's talk! Host Gillian Shields shares: what healing really is and how to know if you are healing or healedthe ONE things that sets apart people who are healing and those who are not (even if they have it seemingly good in life) Gillian also shares more details about her new book coming out later this year! Join the newsletter, The Conscious Corner to: Be the first to know Gillian's new book's titleGet pre-released excerptsGet a Behind The Book piece where Gillian candidly shares why she wrote the book and why it was her most challenging book to write yet. Gillian's Instagram Gillian's Books

    16 min

  3. 05/14/2025

    S4., Ep.7 - Remember this when you wish your parents were different for the better

    Struggling with a difficult, distant, or estranged relationship with a parent? In this powerful episode, host Gillian Shields explores why many adults still long for their parents to change—and how that desire can keep us stuck in pain. Discover compassionate insights and empowering tools to help you find peace, and build a fulfilling life—regardless of your relationship with your parent. Resources mentioned in this episode: The book: This Is Gratitude Stay updated and get pre-release content on Gillian's next book coming out this Fall by joining her newsletter, The Conscious Corner.

    20 min

  4. 04/02/2025

    S.4, Ep.6 - Finding happiness despite family judgment: How to be yourself and thrive

    Feeling judged or criticized by your family for being true to yourself? In this episode, host Gillian Shields shares three powerful tools to help you stay authentic and find happiness, no matter what others think. Tune in for practical advice on how to embrace your individuality and make life choices that feel right for you. Join Gillian's news letter: The Conscious Corner for monthly guidance and special content about her new book coming out this year Buy Happy Boundaries Buy This Is Gratitude Gillian's Website Gillian's Instagram

    31 min

  5. 02/27/2025

    S.4, Ep.5 - How I make decisions that I don't regret about a difficult relationship

    Have you ever struggled to decide if you should stay or walk away from a difficult relationship with a family member, friend, or romantic partner? I have! And my decision making process used to be a complete mess. How I make decisions now is totally different. I now do it with confidence and without regret. In this episode, I share: 4 popular factors that I used to highly consider when it comes to staying or walking away from a relationship. These 4 factors although felt big, typically left me more confused and in more pain. 3 factors I use now that lots of people don't fully consider. These 3 factors have led me to a completely different decision making process and made my life so much better. Join my newsletter, The Conscious Corner for monthly guidance on finding love, freedom, and success after difficult relationship experiences. My books that relate to the topic of this episode: The Dating Pattern Cure Happy Boundaries

    24 min

  6. 01/28/2025

    S.4, Ep.4 - How I rise from a personal crisis or disaster

    People either sink or they rise when a personal crisis or disaster hits. Today, I talk about becoming the one who rises. Whether your crisis is a breakup, being single, toxic family, a friend who betrayed or let you down, or a career let down, what's the difference between sinking or rising? I share 3 things that helped me become my most resilient self yet, and go on to have a better life than I did before difficult events hit. Join my newsletter community The Conscious Corner for monthly guidance on finding love, freedom, and success after difficult relationship experiences and my favorites. I would love to hear your thoughts on this episode's poll. What's your take on the role of your own perception on how you feel about a difficult event?

    18 min

  7. 12/11/2024

    S.4, Ep3 - Why I don't always go home for the holidays

    Going home for the holidays is a great feeling for some. But for others, it’s a feeling of discomfort and even dread. Choosing to not go home for the holidays or visit some people can be a decision that comes with a lot of feelings - doubt, guilt, frustration, and burn out. This used to be my emotional experience. Since then, I’ve done a lot of work to honor my goals, growth, and happiness during the holiday season. You can too. In this episode, I talk about: The reason I don’t always go home for the holidays (or any other event, etc.) The two main factors that contribute to my reason The honest truth about what really creates your happiness during the holidays Shop my holiday book sale to get 20% off any of books, including Happy Boundaries Join my newsletter, The Conscious Corner. The content will help you change your life for the better after difficult relationship experiences just by reading it! Let's go deeper: Visit this episode's webpage and participate in the multi-question poll.

    13 min

  8. 11/18/2024

    S.4, Ep.2 - Healing advice that never worked for me vs. what did

    Healing advice - you see it everywhere and from everyone. Whether it’s from friends, family, therapists, mentors, coaches, or a person you don’t know on the internet, people who want to help you feel better will share healing advice. I started my own healing and transformation journey over a decade ago, and I’ve heard it all. Some advice helped, and others really did not. In this episode, I share 4 pieces of healing advice that never worked for me versus what did when it came to turning around my life and healing from toxic relationships and feeling hurt by the actions of others. In this episode, I talk about: How to know if a piece of healing advice is best for you and your situation Acceptance vs. tolerance of other people’s actions and where they are at in life Alternative perspectives to get better after a difficult relationship How to disentangle yourself from dysfunctional people and situatons The most helpful question you can ask yourself to find out if a piece of healing advice fits well for your situation Enjoy! Resourced mentioned in this episode: DEAR HATERS HAPPY BOUNDARIES Join my newsletter, The Conscious Corner for a monthly transformational message on finding love, freedom, and success after difficult relationship experiences plus my monthly favorites.

    27 min
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Join author and transformational teacher Gillian Shields in this transformative podcast where self, soul, and relationships intersect. Through personal stories and expert insights, this podcast deepens the meaning of love and helps listeners navigate life’s challenges, creating beauty from what once felt unbeautiful. With a blend of psychology and soul spirituality, this podcast is a powerful resource for those seeking love, freedom, and success after difficult experiences.

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