The Stable Living Podcast: Human Behavior, Leadership, and Real Results with Shane Jacob

Shane Jacob
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The Stable Living Podcast is for leaders and individuals who are tired of feeling stuck, managing unnecessary conflict, or working harder than they should to get results. Learn more at https://www.shanejacob.com/

  1. Make a Promise. Keep It: Being Someone You Can Count On

    5D AGO

    Make a Promise. Keep It: Being Someone You Can Count On

    Most people struggle with confidence, follow through, and overwhelm without realizing why. The issue is not motivation or discipline. It is broken trust with themselves. In this episode, Shane explains how keeping promises to yourself builds self-trust, reduces anxiety, and reinforces the belief that you can rely on yourself. This is a practical conversation about why life improves when your word starts to matter again. What You Will Discover • The real reason broken promises to yourself quietly damage confidence • What happens inside your brain when you follow through even when it is uncomfortable • How planning time and money on purpose eliminates overwhelm

    34 min
  2. Speak Like You Matter: How to Speak to Yourself to Improve Confidence, Relationships, and Results

    FEB 5

    Speak Like You Matter: How to Speak to Yourself to Improve Confidence, Relationships, and Results

    The fastest way to improve your life is to change the way you speak to yourself. In this episode, Shane explains how internal language trains the brain to expect certain outcomes and why most people unknowingly reinforce the very limits they want to break. You will learn how intentional self-talk strengthens value beliefs, reduces internal resistance, and leads to better decisions, stronger relationships, and measurable progress. What You Will Discover • Common phrases you are probably saying that weaken confidence and momentum • The truth about why internal language matters so much • What is happening to your belief system when negative self-talk goes unchallenged • The long-term cost of doing nothing about the way you speak to yourself

    39 min
  3. The Strength to Love When Relationships Are Hard

    JAN 29

    The Strength to Love When Relationships Are Hard

    Most people believe love should feel natural and effortless. Then trust breaks, words land wrong, resentment builds, and love feels anything but easy. In this episode, Shane explains why loving well requires strength, not effort, and how belief in your own value determines how you show up when relationships are strained. This conversation reframes conflict, defensiveness, and emotional connection in a way that brings clarity instead of blame. What You Will Discover · Why doubting your value makes love feel harder than it needs to be · How emotional stability increases your capacity for connection · The link between insecurity, conflict, and emotional distance

    19 min
  4. Intentional Belief Creation Part 3: Clearing Resistance Before Real Change Happens

    JAN 22

    Intentional Belief Creation Part 3: Clearing Resistance Before Real Change Happens

    Most belief change fails for one reason. Resistance. In Part 3 of the Intentional Belief Creation series, Shane explains why your brain fights new beliefs even when you want them and how to remove the internal blockers that quietly sabotage progress. This episode walks you through a simple but powerful process that prepares your mind to accept new value beliefs without force, guilt, or frustration. When resistance is cleared, belief change becomes possible and lasting. What You Will Discover Why your brain protects old beliefs even when they limit your life The cost of skipping resistance removal A practical exercise that prepares your mind for real belief change

    33 min
  5. Your Value Is Non-Negotiable: Your Behavior Is Not Who You Are

    JAN 15

    Your Value Is Non-Negotiable: Your Behavior Is Not Who You Are

    In this episode, Shane shares a personal story that led him to confront one of the most damaging beliefs people have: that their mistakes define their worth. Drawing from real experience, he breaks down why separating behavior from value is not optional, it is foundational. This conversation challenges the quiet belief that something is “wrong” with us and explains how that belief drives addiction, conflict, self-sabotage, and disconnection. What You’ll Discover Why emotional needs like significance and belonging drive more behavior than willpowerHow shame and self-judgment quietly fuel addiction, conflict, and overcompensationThe danger of letting your mind default to inadequacy without intentional belief work

    24 min
  6. Intentional Belief Creation Part 2: Value Beliefs vs Behavior Beliefs

    JAN 8

    Intentional Belief Creation Part 2: Value Beliefs vs Behavior Beliefs

    The Hidden Beliefs Blocking Your Growth Most people try to change habits, behaviors, and patterns at the surface level. They work harder, learn more, and apply new strategies, yet nothing really sticks. In this episode, Shane breaks down why behavior change fails when deeper value beliefs go unexamined. You’ll hear how the mind protects identity, how past events quietly turn into verdicts about worth, and why the system isn’t broken, it’s loyal. If you’ve ever felt like growth takes more effort than it should, this episode will change how you understand belief change from the inside out. What You’ll Discover Why most so-called limiting beliefs are symptoms, not causesHow value judgments about self quietly set the ceiling for successWhy separating what happened from what it means about you changes everything

    35 min
  7. Why You’re Stuck: The Beliefs Quietly Running Your Life

    JAN 1

    Why You’re Stuck: The Beliefs Quietly Running Your Life

    Feeling stuck isn’t about discipline, motivation, or a missing system. It’s about the beliefs you’ve been living inside, most of them formed without your permission. In this episode, Shane breaks down why people stay trapped even when they “do everything right,” how beliefs shape every result you get, and where those beliefs actually come from. This is the foundation work most personal development skips and it’s where real change begins. What You’ll Discover: The hidden gap between who you are and who you believe you should beWhy good systems fail when beliefs stay untouchedThe three sources of self-beliefs that shape every decision you make

    34 min
  8. Confidence vs. Self-Confidence: Trusting Yourself Matters More Than Feeling Ready

    12/25/2025

    Confidence vs. Self-Confidence: Trusting Yourself Matters More Than Feeling Ready

    We talk about confidence as if it’s something you either have or don’t but that belief is exactly what’s holding you back. In this episode, we break down the critical difference between confidence and self-confidence, why confidence is rooted in your past, and why self-confidence is the skill that actually creates growth, leadership, and momentum in your life. If you’ve ever felt stuck waiting to feel “ready,” this conversation will help you understand why confidence doesn’t come first and what to build instead. What You’ll Discover · Why confidence is unreliable and how it quietly keeps you tied to what you already know · How self-doubt blocks momentum without you realizing it · A practical framework for building real self-confidence

    30 min
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The Stable Living Podcast is for leaders and individuals who are tired of feeling stuck, managing unnecessary conflict, or working harder than they should to get results. Learn more at https://www.shanejacob.com/

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