Communication Queen | entrepreneurship, marketing, storytelling, public speaking, and podcasting

Kimberly Spencer | Master NLP Performance Coach for Entrepreneurs, CEO of Communication Queens, TEDx Speaker, Author, and Entrepreneur for 17+ years
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Welcome to Communication Queens, the podcast for service-based entrepreneurs, creatives, coaches, and consultants who want to hone their storytelling craft and oratory skillset and leverage podcasting as a form of lead generation. Our mission is to help you get booked on podcast interviews as a guest, share your story in a way that connects, serves, and sells, and ultimately grow your business through the power of podcasting. Each episode, your host Kimberly Spencer, and her guests will share actionable tips and strategies for optimizing your communication skills, crafting compelling stories, and networking with podcast hosts to secure high-value interview opportunities. From live coaching to eliminate any subconscious blocks to your voice or just create more cohesiveness and impact with your story, to interviews with Global Top 100 Podcasters, and 7-figure CEOs, we bring on expert guests from a variety of industries to share their insights and experiences, and to inspire you to take your podcasting game to the next level. Whether you're a seasoned podcast guest or just getting started, Communication Queens is the go-to resource for mastering the art of communication and leveraging podcasting as a lead generation tool. Join us each week as we share our knowledge, expertise, and passion for helping service-based entrepreneurs succeed in the world of podcasting. Subscribe now and let's dive in! Follow us on Youtube @communicationqueens and on Instagram at @communicationqueensagency

  1. Stop Overthinking and Finish the Damn Book with Susie Schaefer

    1D AGO

    Stop Overthinking and Finish the Damn Book with Susie Schaefer

    You’ve got the idea. The story. The mission. So why haven’t you finished the damn book? In this episode, publishing strategist Susie Schaefer reveals why so many entrepreneurs stall on writing their book—and how to finally turn your story into a powerful authority asset for your brand, business, and impact. If a book has been living in your head for years… this might be your sign.   📚Grab the “Top Books of 2024 to Change Your Life,” the bestseller, multi-gold-medal award-winner, “Make Every Podcast Want You” by Kimberly Spencer. Available now on Amazon: https://amzn.to/42kllur  😎Discover how to get booked on the TOP 5% of podcasts to leverage podcast interviews for lead generation for your business owners, founders, podcasters, and authors. Book your $100K Profit from Guest Podcasting Planning Call here: https://www.communicationqueens.com/get-booked-on-the-top-podcasts   Susie Schaefer is the Founder and CEO of Finish the Book Publishing, where she helps entrepreneurs and thought leaders turn powerful ideas into professionally published books. A lifelong lover of storytelling, Susie believes books are more than stories—they’re catalysts for healing, community, and movement. Through her work, she empowers authors to bring their message to life and use their book as a platform for what she calls “Business Ascension.”   Enjoy, sovereigns!   Listen to the episode on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music, or your other favorite podcast listening platform. You can also watch the episode on Youtube. What You’ll Learn in this Episode: Why most entrepreneurs never finish their book—and how to finally get it done Susie’s “Author Trifecta” framework: Story, Brand, and Community Why marketing your book should start before you even finish writing it How to turn your book into a powerful authority and business growth tool The truth about imposter syndrome and the question every author asks: “Who am I to write this?” How authentic storytelling builds deeper connection than polished “expert” advice Why AI can help structure your book—but should never replace your voice The mindset shift that helps authors move past resistance and finish the damn book Quotes: “Your book isn’t the finish line — it’s the beginning of the movement.” ~ Kimberly Spencer “Your book should align three things: your story, your brand, and your community.” ~ Susie Schaefer “Finishing your book isn’t about selling thousands of copies — it’s about using your message to change someone’s life.” ~ Susie Schaefer Moments of Note: 00:00 — Why So Many Entrepreneurs Never Finish Their Book Kimberly Spencer introduces the episode and asks the big question: why do brilliant leaders with powerful stories struggle to finish writing their book?   01:32 — How Susie Schaefer Became the “Book Doula” for Authors Susie shares her journey from corporate life to helping entrepreneurs and thought leaders publish meaningful nonfiction books.   02:26 — Why Writing a Book Is Like Birthing a Baby Susie explains the “book doula” metaphor and how guiding authors through the publishing process mirrors the emotional journey of birth.   03:02 — The Biggest Book Marketing Mistake Authors Make Why most authors wait too long to start marketing their book—and what to do instead.   04:29 — When Should Authors Start Promoting Their Book? Susie breaks down the ideal timeline for launching a nonfiction book and building anticipation before publication.   05:13 — Why Book Marketing Starts Before Your Book Is Finished How building engagement and community early helps your book succeed once it launches.   06:08 — How Entrepreneurs Should Use a Book as a Business Asset Kimberly explains why a book should support your authority, speaking opportunities, and client pipeline.   08:33 — The Author Trifecta: Story, Brand, and Community Susie introduces her framework for aligning your book with your business mission.   09:52 — Why Selling Books Isn’t the Real ROI for Authors The surprising truth about book sales and why many authors profit from just a few clients.   11:55 — Why Personal Storytelling Makes Books Powerful Kimberly shares why vulnerability and storytelling build stronger connections with readers.   13:49 — Overcoming Imposter Syndrome as an Author Susie discusses the common fears that stop entrepreneurs from sharing their stories.   14:58 — Authenticity in the Age of AI Writing Why authentic human storytelling matters more than ever as AI-generated content grows.   18:49 — How Authors Should (and Shouldn’t) Use AI in Writing Susie explains where AI can support the writing process—and where it shouldn’t replace human voice.   22:32 — The Emotional Resistance That Stops Authors From Finishing Their Book Why writing and editing are the hardest stages of the publishing process.   24:00 — The #1 Thing Authors Need to Finish Their Book Susie shares the powerful truth: most authors simply need permission to finish the damn book.   27:45 — Is Writing a Book an Ego Play or a Mission? A deeper conversation about purpose, ego, and impact when sharing your story publicly.   29:00 — Writing a Book as Personal Growth and Transformation Why writing a book is like running a marathon—it changes who you become in the process.   31:15 — Why Authors Often Write Multiple Books Susie explains why publishing one book often unlocks more stories and ideas.   32:17 — Why Authors Should Invest in a Book Marketing Team The role of PR, marketing, and support teams in successfully launching a book.   35:33 — Final Advice: How to Finally Finish Your Book Susie shares her best advice for entrepreneurs who have a book idea but haven’t started yet.   Transcript: For a full episode transcript,you can find it here Sharables: For shareable images, quotes, and other social media posts to add some royal sparkle to your socials (with proper tagging and credit, of course), they can be found here.   💕 Say “hi” on social:   Communication Queen Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/communicationqueens  Communication Queen Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/communicationqueensagency  Communication QueenTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@communicationqueens  Communication Queen Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/communicationqueens/  Communication Queen Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@communicationqueens    🎙Subscribe + Listen to the Communication Queens Podcast here: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/communication-queen-entrepreneurship-marketing-storytelling/id1718540459  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2ROeliYZG9thhNSMEo8SDx?si=abc7b72eb6274d3b&nd=1&dlsi=fb6df192dfbb4505  Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/8d87938f-bfbc-4dac-a60e-b77b652b344c/communication-queen-entrepreneurship-marketing-storytelling-public-speaking-and-podcasting  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@communicationqueens    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kimberlyspencer.crownyourself/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/realkimspencer  Instagram: https://instagram.com/kimberly.spencer  Linked In: https://linkedin.com/in/kimberlyspencer-crownyourself     AFFILIATE DISCLAIMER: This description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. While this channel may earn minimal sums when the viewer uses the links, the viewer is in NO WAY obligated to use these links. Thanks for your support! 🥰  Loved learning about how to improve your communication skills and get booked on podcast interviews? Listen to this podcast again: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WCE-I1nu3qA&list=PLm4BjuAmP6DvwRPEBpVMJT5UrQoaD_5J8

    38 min
  2. Forgive Without an Apology: The Radical Boundary That Sets You Free with Stacy Rocklein

    MAR 5

    Forgive Without an Apology: The Radical Boundary That Sets You Free with Stacy Rocklein

    What if the apology you’re waiting for never comes?   Relationship mentor Stacy Rocklein joins Kimberly Spencer to reveal why forgiveness—especially without closure—may be the most powerful leadership skill you’ll ever develop. From unexpected publishing chaos to redefining emotional intimacy, this episode explores how vulnerability, boundaries, and radical self-honesty create deeper relationships and lasting impact.   📚Grab the “Top Books of 2024 to Change Your Life,” the bestseller, multi-gold-medal award-winner, “Make Every Podcast Want You” by Kimberly Spencer. Available now on Amazon: https://amzn.to/42kllur    😎Discover how to get booked on the TOP 5% of podcasts to leverage podcast interviews for lead generation for your business owners, founders, podcasters, and authors. Book your $100K Profit from Guest Podcasting Planning Call here: https://www.communicationqueens.com/get-booked-on-the-top-podcasts   Stacy Rocklein is a relationship mentor and author of Forgive Without an Apology: How to Heal, Set Boundaries, and Create Deeper Connections. She has helped hundreds of women heal relationship wounds—many of which develop quietly inside “good enough” marriages that drift into emotional disconnection over time. Married for nearly 30 years and raising three active boys, Stacy understands firsthand how easy it is for ambition, parenting, and busy seasons of life to push relationships to the back burner. Through her work, she helps women repair emotional distance, rebuild intimacy, and create relationships that are not just stable—but deeply connected, joyful, and fulfilling. Her mission is simple: to help people transform “good enough” relationships into exceptional ones—so when the busy seasons of life pass, couples find themselves not as strangers, but as partners excited for the adventures still ahead. Enjoy, sovereigns!   Listen to the episode on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music, or your other favorite podcast listening platform. You can also watch the episode on Youtube. What You’ll Learn in this Episode: How to forgive someone who never apologized—and why waiting for closure can keep you emotionally stuck. Why high-achieving women often struggle with emotional intimacy, especially during busy seasons of career-building and parenting. The difference between a “good enough” marriage and an exceptional relationship, and how emotional disconnection can quietly build over time. How vulnerability strengthens relationships and creates deeper connection, trust, and intimacy. Why forgiveness often begins with self-forgiveness, and how owning your story can unlock powerful personal growth. The truth about writing and marketing a book, including the lessons Stacy learned when her book launched unexpectedly. How authors and entrepreneurs can use storytelling and podcast guesting to grow their audience and impact. Why building strong relationships—personally and professionally—is the real long-term strategy for success. Quotes: “You deserve an apology—hands down. But we can get very stuck waiting for it, and that only harms us.” ~ Stacy Rocklein   “Forgiveness isn’t just about letting go of what hurt you—it’s about repurposing what happened so you can move forward stronger.” ~ Stacy Rocklein   “Your story has the power to save one life. Let your voice be heard.” ~ Kimberly Spencer Moments of Note: 00:00 — What Would You Do If Your Book Launched Without Your Permission? The shocking story behind Stacy Rocklein’s unexpected book launch and the leadership mindset required to handle chaos. 01:55 — Why Write a Book? Turning Failure Into Purpose Stacy shares how a devastating business failure led to the creation of Forgive Without an Apology. 04:45 — The Hidden Pressure High-Achieving Women Face in Business The toxic cycle of achievement, comparison, and worthiness many entrepreneurs struggle with. 06:18 — Starting a Third Career & Rebuilding Confidence The challenge of launching a business after motherhood and leaving the traditional workforce. 07:47 — Author Expectations vs Reality: What Writing a Book Is Really Like 09:34 — Why Most Authors Don’t Make Money From Their Books How books actually work as authority positioning tools for business growth. 11:03 — Redefining Forgiveness: Healing Without an Apology Stacy explains why forgiveness is about personal freedom, not waiting for closure. 13:12 — How Books Build Communities and Grow Your Business Why authors should focus on building communities around their ideas. 15:18 — The Power of Community Building for Authors and Entrepreneurs 16:54 — The Biggest Marketing Challenge Authors Face 18:36 — Podcast Guesting Strategy to Grow Your Book Audience 20:47 — Why Your Personal Story Is Your Biggest Marketing Advantage 22:07 — The Power of Owning Your Story (Even the Hard Parts) Stacy opens up about writing vulnerable stories—including admitting she was once a “mean girl.” 24:34 — How Radical Ownership Can Change the World 25:01 — Parenting, Self-Forgiveness, and Emotional Growth 26:51 — What Stacy Would Do Differently Marketing Her Next Book 29:56 — Why Relationship Building Is the Real Marketing Strategy 32:22 — The Truth About Marketing a Book 33:49 — Why Writing a Book Changes You Personally 34:48 — What’s Next: Emotional Intimacy & Stacy’s Next Book 35:24 — How Vulnerability Creates Deeper Relationships 36:22 — Your Story Has the Power to Change Lives   Transcript: For a full episode transcript, it can be found here. [LINK TO BLOG PAGE] Sharables: For shareable images, quotes, and other social media posts to add some royal sparkle to your socials (with proper tagging and credit, of course), they can be found here.   💕 Say “hi” on social:   Communication Queen Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/communicationqueens  Communication Queen Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/communicationqueensagency  Communication QueenTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@communicationqueens  Communication Queen Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/communicationqueens/  Communication Queen Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@communicationqueens    🎙Subscribe + Listen to the Communication Queens Podcast here: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/communication-queen-entrepreneurship-marketing-storytelling/id1718540459  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2ROeliYZG9thhNSMEo8SDx?si=abc7b72eb6274d3b&nd=1&dlsi=fb6df192dfbb4505  Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/8d87938f-bfbc-4dac-a60e-b77b652b344c/communication-queen-entrepreneurship-marketing-storytelling-public-speaking-and-podcasting  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@communicationqueens    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kimberlyspencer.crownyourself/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/realkimspencer  Instagram: https://instagram.com/kimberly.spencer  Linked In: https://linkedin.com/in/kimberlyspencer-crownyourself     AFFILIATE DISCLAIMER: This description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. While this channel may earn minimal sums when the viewer uses the links, the viewer is in NO WAY obligated to use these links. Thanks for your support! 🥰  Loved learning about how to improve your communication skills and get booked on podcast interviews? Listen to this podcast again: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WCE-I1nu3qA&list=PLm4BjuAmP6DvwRPEBpVMJT5UrQoaD_5J8

    37 min
  3. Writing, Power & the Courage to Be Seen with Amy Vogel

    JAN 6

    Writing, Power & the Courage to Be Seen with Amy Vogel

    What if the reason your book hasn’t been written yet isn’t procrastination—but protection? That quiet nudge that keeps whispering write the book isn’t random. It’s an initiation. In this episode of the Communication Queens Podcast, Kimberly Spencer sits down with author, storyteller, and book doula Amy Vogel to explore what really happens when women stop waiting for permission and start telling the truth of their lives. Amy shares her nonlinear journey—from tech sales to ministry, from certainty to collapse, from faith systems to self-trust—and reveals why writing a book isn’t about having the answers. It’s about being brave enough to live inside the questions. Together, Kimberly and Amy unpack the duality every woman faces when she dares to be seen: too much vs. not enough, creator vs. critic, artist vs. entrepreneur. They explore why books are both sacred art and business assets, why imposter syndrome simply means you’ve entered a bigger room, and why the feeling you’re chasing matters more than bestseller status. This is a conversation about sovereignty, pleasure, power, and storytelling as reclamation. About why your story doesn’t need to be perfect—it needs to be alive. And why the act of writing doesn’t just change readers…it changes you. If you’ve ever felt the pull to write, speak, or share—but hesitated—this episode is your permission slip.   📚Grab the “Top Books of 2024 to Change Your Life,” the bestseller, multi-gold-medal award-winner, “Make Every Podcast Want You” by Kimberly Spencer. Available now on Amazon: https://amzn.to/42kllur    😎Discover how to get booked on the TOP 5% of podcasts to leverage podcast interviews for lead generation for your business owners, founders, podcasters, and authors. Book your $100K Profit from Guest Podcasting Planning Call here: https://www.communicationqueens.com/get-booked-on-the-top-podcasts Amy Vogel is an author, speaker, podcaster, and women’s book coach passionate about helping women reclaim their voices and share their stories with the world.   Connect with Amy Vogel Website: https://www.amywvogel.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amywvogel Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@amywvogel Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/amywvogel LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/amywvogel/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@amyWVOGEL Enjoy, sovereigns!   Listen to the episode on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music, or your other favorite podcast listening platform. You can also watch the episode on Youtube. What You’ll Learn in this Episode: Why you don’t need clarity or confidence before writing your book—and how the act of writing creates both How to reframe imposter syndrome as proof that you’re stepping into a bigger room, not a sign you don’t belong Why women’s stories are inherently powerful and how storytelling becomes an act of sovereignty and leadership The real reason most women get stuck before publishing (hint: it’s not writer’s block—it’s protection) How to balance creativity and business so your book can be both sacred art and a strategic asset Why focusing on how you want to feel matters more than chasing metrics like bestseller status How pleasure, embodiment, and duality fuel creativity—and why reclaiming them is revolutionary for women What it actually takes to market a book authentically without selling your soul or shrinking your voice Why you don’t “have” the story before you start—and how you become the woman who can tell it through the process This episode isn’t just about writing a book.It’s about becoming the woman who no longer waits for permission to be seen. Quotes: “You don’t have enough when you start writing your story. You get the enough as you write it.” - Amy Vogel “Imposter syndrome just means you’re choosing to play in a bigger room.” - Amy Vogel “Our stories are what set us free—but we have to know them first.” - Amy Vogel Moments of Note: 00:00 – Write the Book That’s Been Calling You Why that persistent nudge to write your story won’t go away—and what it’s really asking of you. 02:37 – Meet Amy Vogel: Champion of Women’s Stories Amy’s journey from tech sales to ministry to authorship—and why women’s voices are revolutionary. 05:30 – When Life Implodes and Purpose Emerges How collapse, questioning faith, and losing certainty can become the birthplace of your true work. 07:45 – Living in the Question vs. Chasing the Answer Why clarity doesn’t come first—and how curiosity fuels creative leadership. 09:40 – Why Women Live Many Lives in One Lifetime The feminine cycle of death, rebirth, and reinvention—and how it shapes storytelling. 12:55 – You Don’t Have Enough Yet (And That’s the Point) Why you don’t start writing with confidence—you gain it through the process. 14:20 – Imposter Syndrome Means You’re Playing Bigger Reframing self-doubt as expansion, not inadequacy. 15:45 – The Creative Block That Isn’t Writer’s Block What’s really happening when authors feel “stuck” and how to move through it. 17:30 – The Role of the Guide in Storytelling and Success Why no powerful narrative—or business—happens without support. 19:45 – Books Are Art AND Business The truth about publishing, self-publishing, and why authors must own the business side. 22:10 – Why Sales Numbers Don’t Create Fulfillment Shifting from outcome obsession to impact-driven success. 24:05 – Manifestation, Feeling, and Feminine Metrics Why how you want to feel matters more than bestseller status. 25:55 – Writing One Book a Year: Is It Possible? How diversification, devotion, and process make sustainable publishing achievable. 28:40 – Self-Publishing, Autonomy, and Reclaiming Power Why owning your work is an act of sovereignty. 30:10 – Pleasure as a Creative and Cultural Revolution How enjoyment, desire, and embodiment fuel powerful storytelling. 32:00 – Being Seen Without Shrinking What it really means to let your work—and yourself—be visible. 33:45 – The Book Doula & Birthing Bold Stories Why writing a book is a rite of passage, not a productivity task. 35:20 – Where to Find Amy & Write in Community How to connect with Amy Vogel, her coaching, and the Look for the Yes anthology. 37:15 – Final Reflection: Your Story Saves Lives Why sharing your story creates ripples far beyond you.   Transcript: For a full episode transcript, it can be found here. [LINK TO BLOG PAGE] Sharables: For shareable images, quotes, and other social media posts to add some royal sparkle to your socials (with proper tagging and credit, of course), they can be found here.   💕 Say “hi” on social:   Communication Queen Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/communicationqueens  Communication Queen Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/communicationqueensagency  Communication QueenTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@communicationqueens  Communication Queen Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/communicationqueens/  Communication Queen Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@communicationqueens    🎙Subscribe + Listen to the Communication Queens Podcast here: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/communication-queen-entrepreneurship-marketing-storytelling/id1718540459  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2ROeliYZG9thhNSMEo8SDx?si=abc7b72eb6274d3b&nd=1&dlsi=fb6df192dfbb4505  Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/8d87938f-bfbc-4dac-a60e-b77b652b344c/communication-queen-entrepreneurship-marketing-storytelling-public-speaking-and-podcasting  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@communicationqueens    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kimberlyspencer.crownyourself/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/realkimspencer  Instagram: https://instagram.com/kimberly.spencer  Linked In: https://linkedin.com/in/kimberlyspencer-crownyourself     AFFILIATE DISCLAIMER: This description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. While this channel may earn minimal sums when the viewer uses the links, the viewer is in NO WAY obligated to use these links. Thanks for your support!   🥰  Loved learning about how to improve your communication skills and get booked on podcast interviews? Listen to this podcast again: https://youtu.be/bimPsnxehIw

    38 min
  4. AI-Proof Your Brand: How to Stay Authentic Online with Rachel Lee

    11/18/2025

    AI-Proof Your Brand: How to Stay Authentic Online with Rachel Lee

    What if your brand looked like the real you—not the polished, people-pleasing version you think you “should” be? In this episode of Communication Queen, host Kimberly Spencer sits down with branding badass Rachel Lee, the designer who “speaks fluently in pixels, fonts, and colors,” to unpack what it actually takes to create a visual brand that feels like your soul in 4K. Together, they dive into why so many entrepreneurs feel a 25–50% disconnect between who they are on Zoom and who they appear to be online, and how that gap quietly erodes trust, magnetism, and money. Rachel breaks down her process for translating a client’s quirks, stories, and “weird friend-only facts” into bold, intentional visuals that build instant connection—especially in an era where AI-generated everything is flooding the feed. You’ll hear Rachel share vulnerably about navigating business with debt, declaring bankruptcy, and realizing that the very things she was most insecure about—her baby face, her big joy, her “too much” energy—were actually her most powerful brand assets. If you’ve ever looked at your website or socials and thought, “This is… fine, but it’s not really me,” this episode will give you the permission and strategy to change that. Tune in to learn how to humanize your brand, build real relationships through your content, and show up online like the queen you actually are.   📚Grab the “Top Books of 2024 to Change Your Life,” the bestseller, multi-gold-medal award-winner, “Make Every Podcast Want You” by Kimberly Spencer. Available now on Amazon: https://amzn.to/42kllur    😎Discover how to get booked on the TOP 5% of podcasts to leverage podcast interviews for lead generation for your business owners, founders, podcasters, and authors. Book your $100K Profit from Guest Podcasting Planning Call here: https://www.communicationqueens.com/get-booked-on-the-top-podcasts   Enjoy, sovereigns!   Listen to the episode on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music, or your other favorite podcast listening platform. You can also watch the episode on Youtube. What You’ll Learn in this Episode: In this spicy, soul-baring conversation with branding powerhouse Rachel Lee, you’ll discover: ✨ 1. Why Your Online Brand Only Shows 50–75% of Who You Really Are And how that missing 25–50% is actually your most profitable, trust-building, client-attracting magic. 🎨 2. How to Translate Your Personality Into Visuals (Without Feeling Fake) Rachel breaks down her signature “I speak in pixels, fonts, and colors” method to help you turn your quirks, stories, and real-life energy into a cohesive brand identity. 🤝 3. How to Build a Human-First Brand in an AI-Saturated World Why authenticity is no longer optional—and why your humanity is the competitive advantage robots will never touch. 🧠 4. The Psychology of Miscommunication in Branding How your representational system (visual, auditory, kinesthetic) shapes how you think your brand comes across versus how it actually lands. 💥 5. The Power of Sharing Your “Messy Middle” Why your insecurities, imperfect moments, and lived experiences build more trust than perfectly polished content ever will. 🚀 6. How to Reframe Networking So It Doesn’t Feel Sleazy Rachel’s “I want to like you—give me a reason to” mindset that transforms networking from awkward prospecting into organic relationship-building. 🔥 7. Why Bravery Is a Branding Strategy From bankruptcy to baby-face stereotypes, Rachel reveals how owning your truth can become the foundation of your most magnetic brand. 🌈 8. How to Use Storytelling to Elevate Your Brand Real examples of how random “best friend only” quirks (like selling glitter water as a kid!) become powerful brand hooks that make people remember—and choose—you.   Quotes: “Oftentimes the thing we’re most insecure about is the best asset for our marketing.” – Rachel Lee “I get to say I speak fluently in pixels, fonts and colors.” - Rachel Lee “I’m just a translator at the end of the day—you’re the one with the message.” - Rachel Lee   Links & Additional Resources: Connect with Rachel Lee.   Website: https://www.racheltylee.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/racheltylee/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/racheltylee/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@racheltylee Moments of Note: 00:00 — Welcome to Communication Queen: The Real You vs. The Online You Kimberly opens the episode and introduces branding expert Rachel Lee, setting the stage for a deep dive into authenticity, identity, and visual storytelling. 02:20 — How Rachel “Speaks in Pixels”: The Art of Translating Personality Into Visuals Rachel shares her lifelong journey from art-kid to brand translator, explaining her process of turning client quirks, fears, and desires into fonts, colors, and cohesive identity. 05:48 — Why Your Brand Only Shows 50–75% of Who You Really Are A raw conversation on the disconnect between how entrepreneurs show up online versus in real life—and why that missing 25–50% is where the magic actually lives. 07:40 — The Psychology Behind Miscommunication: When “Fun” Means 10 Different Things Kimberly and Rachel unpack the gap between auditory, visual, and kinesthetic thinkers—and how this impacts brand design. 10:32 — Real Client Story: The Motorcycle-Riding Corporate Culture Consultant Rachel reveals how she turned a client’s unexpected quirks and adventures into a vibrant, meaningful brand identity. 14:05 — Why Your Weirdest Traits Are Your Most Profitable Brand Assets From glitter-water childhood stories to “I’d risk life and limb to pet a dog,” the duo explores how personal quirks create connection and trust. 15:55 — Rachel’s Branding Insecurity: Turning Baby-Face Doubts Into Brand Power Rachel opens up about looking “too young,” masking her personality early in business, and how embracing her energy became her competitive edge. 19:00 — The Perfection Paradigm: Why “Polished” Is Killing Your Brand Trust A powerful discussion on authenticity vs. perfectionism, featuring the Jennifer Lawrence vs. Anne Hathaway media example. 21:40 — Branding in the Age of AI: Why Humanity Is Your Superpower Why AI makes personal branding MORE important, not less—and how to humanize your brand in a world of synthetic content and robot-written posts. 23:56 — Personal Branding ≠ Looking Good: It’s About Controlling Your Narrative Rachel reframes personal branding as intentional storytelling, not curated perfection or superficial aesthetics. 26:30 — The Weight of Responsibility: What Branding Really Is Behind the Scenes Rachel shares how deeply she honors client vulnerability when designing brands that represent their truth. 29:28 — Honesty as Your Marketing Strategy (Especially When You’re Still Becoming) Kimberly and Rachel explore sharing in real time—your growth, your messy middle, your becoming—and how it builds audience connection. 31:55 — Content as a Relationship, Not a Broadcast A heart-centered unpacking of why relationship-driven content builds trust better than polished social media calendars. 35:20 — Living Life Out Loud: Creating Heart Space in Your Social Strategy Why success online isn’t about planning every post—it’s about creating emotional space to share real stories as they happen. 37:55 — The Power of Being Human in a Robotic World Kimberly and Rachel discuss using tools (like AI) without losing your humanity, depth, or relational intuition. 38:52 — Networking Reframed: How to Make New Friends, Not Prospects Rachel’s refreshing reframe: approach networking with curiosity, connection, and humanity—not sales pressure. 42:20 — “I Declared Bankruptcy… and Posted About It”: Radical Transparency in Business Rachel shares her most vulnerable public post ever—and how honesty built deeper trust and transformed her audience relationships. 43:45 — Why People Want to See You in Your Becoming A beautiful reflection on growth, identity, and showing up imperfectly—but truthfully. 45:20 — Where to Find Rachel + Final Mic-Drop Takeaway Rachel shares her favorite platforms and leaves listeners with a powerful reminder: the more human you are, the more future-proof your brand becomes.   Transcript: For a full episode transcript, you can find it here: https://www.communicationqueens.com/blog Sharables: For shareable images, quotes, and other social media posts to add some royal sparkle to your socials (with proper tagging and credit, of course), they can be found here.   💕 Say “hi” on social:   Communication Queen Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/communicationqueens  Communication Queen Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/communicationqueensagency  Communication QueenTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@communicationqueens  Communication Queen Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/communicationqueens/  Communication Queen Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@communicationqueens    🎙Subscribe + Listen to the Communication Queens Podcast here: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/communication-queen-entrepreneurship-marketing-storytelling/id1718540459  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2ROeliYZG9thhNSMEo8SDx?si=abc7b72eb6274d3b&nd=1&dlsi=fb6df192dfbb4505  Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/8d87938f-bfbc-4dac-a60e-b77b652b344c/communication-queen-entrepreneurship-marketing-storytelling-public-speaking-and-podcasting  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@communicationqueens    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kimberlyspencer.crownyourself/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/realkimspencer  Instagram: https://instagram.com/kimberly.spencer  Linked In: https://linkedin.com/in/kimberlyspencer-crownyourself     AFFILIATE DISCLAI

    48 min
  5. Stop Hiding & Start Speaking: How Authenticity Makes You Magnetic feat. Marianne Hickman

    11/11/2025

    Stop Hiding & Start Speaking: How Authenticity Makes You Magnetic feat. Marianne Hickman

    When was the last time you showed up as your whole self — messy bun, bold dreams, coffee cup in hand — and said, “This is me”? In this episode of The Communication Queen Podcast, host Kimberly Spencer sits down with Marianne Hickman, professional speaker, storytelling coach, and founder of The Elegant Office. Together, they unravel the truth that every Queen in business needs to hear: authenticity isn’t optional — it’s your greatest business strategy. From her journey as a single mom of five on food stamps to becoming a powerhouse on global stages, Marianne reveals how owning your story — every raw, unfiltered, audacious bit of it — builds unshakable trust. Kimberly and Marianne go deep on the “cost of conformity,” how to stop shrinking to fit, and why storytelling that comes from the scars (not the wounds) transforms audiences and careers alike. If you’ve ever felt like your story wasn’t “professional” enough to share, this conversation will shake you awake. Because when you stop performing and start being real, your people don’t just listen — they lean in. 🎧 Tune in and discover how your authenticity can amplify your message, magnetize the right stages, and create transformation every time you speak.   😎Get booked on the TOP 5% of podcasts that can build your brand awareness and your bottom line. Book your $100K Profit from Guest Podcasting Planning Call here: https://www.communicationqueens.com/get-booked-on-the-top-podcasts 📖 Get a copy of Kimberly Spencer’s best-selling book “Make Every Podcast Want You” and boost your brand awareness & scale your business with the power of STORYTELLING and the strategy of PODCAST GUESTING: https://www.communicationqueens.com/book 🦄Join us for our next Podcast Party! Meet other 6 & 7 figure podcast guests, get booked on podcast interviews, and find your soulmate sponsors! https://www.communicationqueens.com/prosperity-purpose-podcasting-party  Want an epic guest for your podcast? Explore our Communication Queen celebrities, and we will support you in getting them booked for your next podcast interview: https://www.communicationqueens.com/our-clients  Enjoy, sovereigns!   Listen to the episode on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music, or your other favorite podcast listening platform. You can also watch the episode on Youtube. What You’ll Learn in this Episode: Authenticity is your superpower. Marianne shares her journey from being a single mom on food stamps to a thriving speaker and entrepreneur. Her success began when she stopped caring about others’ opinions and started showing up as her true self. That radical ownership of her story turned vulnerability into power Authentic storytelling builds trust. The more honest and human you are, the more your audience connects. Marianne’s viral “coffee post” story demonstrates that imperfection is what resonates most—authentic moments create deeper relationships than polished personas Rejection is redirection. Marianne uses her “bottle of water” metaphor to teach that your value doesn’t change based on where you are—only your environment does. If you’re not being valued, you’re simply in the wrong room Tell stories from the scar, not the wound. Both Kimberly and Marianne stress that the most powerful stories are told from a place of healing and ownership, not blame. When you’ve moved from “this happened to me” to “this happened for me,” your message becomes transformational Show up, even when it’s messy. Marianne emphasizes that 80% of success is just showing up—on podcasts, in conversations, on stages. Authentic visibility builds relationships, credibility, and confidence over time Gratitude fuels grounded storytelling. She also shares a personal morning practice: “What if I lost everything I didn’t thank today?” That mindset keeps your message rooted in appreciation and presence, not perfection 🌟 In Short You’ll learn how to: Turn real-life experiences into emotionally resonant stories Build trust through authenticity in your brand and voice Move from fear of judgment to confident self-expression Heal your story so it empowers, not limits, you Use storytelling as both a business and personal growth strategy This episode is a masterclass in authentic storytelling — how to stop performing, start transforming, and let your truth be your stage.   Quotes: “As long as I’m proud of it and can honor it, it takes the power from others and gives it back to me.” - Marianne Hickman “If you’re not finding your value, you’re just in the wrong room — not the wrong story.” - Marianne Hickman “Authenticity isn’t about perfection. It’s about power — the power to be unembarrassable.” - Marianne Hickman   Links & Additional Resources: Connect with Marianne Hickman. Website: https://mariannehickman.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marianne__hickman Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@marianne__hickman Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/349b6bi0HwzT1szt3S40V0?si=dc8acc8fb77e4b0e Mastery Hive Public Speaking Training Program: https://offers.mariannehickman.com/weekly-mastery-hive-call?am_id=kimberly8230   Moments of Note: 00:00 – The Mic-Drop Promise: Never Be Embarrassed Again Marianne Hickman opens the episode with the mantra that changed her life — “I don’t care what you think of me.” Discover how reclaiming your self-worth rewires your confidence and turns embarrassment into empowerment. 01:50 – From Food Stamps to Financial Freedom: The Power of a Story Still Being Written Marianne shares her journey from single mom of five on food stamps to thriving entrepreneur. Learn how “unfinished stories” are actually your strongest brand asset. 03:45 – Authenticity vs. Approval: The Nordstrom Suit Story 👗 A $750 suit, a corporate stage, and one big realization: you can’t buy authenticity. Marianne’s fashion confession turns into a masterclass on personal branding and being yourself on stage and off. 06:50 – The Coffee Post That Changed Everything ☕ When Marianne’s viral “authenticity post” got her called out by a boss — she faced the ultimate test: conform or stay true. This moment became the foundation of her speaking career. 09:45 – The Fear Behind Public Speaking: Rejection or Reflection? Why the #1 fear isn’t public speaking itself — it’s being seen. Marianne and Kimberly unpack how fear of rejection keeps leaders hiding behind personas, and how to reclaim your real voice. 12:40 – “Wrong Room” Wisdom: The Bottle of Water Metaphor 💧 The viral metaphor you didn’t know you needed: why your worth never changes, only your environment does. Learn how to price your value and find the right stages. 15:40 – How to Find the Right Stage for Your Authentic Voice 🎤 Kimberly and Marianne reveal how to identify “aligned stages” — the rooms that celebrate your truth instead of silencing it. 18:00 – Love, Alignment, and Authentic Attraction 💞 Both women get real about relationships, self-love, and attracting aligned opportunities (and partners!) by being your full self. 20:40 – Storytelling Mastery: From Daily Moments to Mic-Drop Messages How to turn everyday experiences into unforgettable stories that build emotional connection, authority, and trust. 27:00 – The Gratitude Shift: What If You Lost Everything You Didn’t Thank? 🙏 Marianne shares a soul-stirring morning routine story that redefines gratitude — and why appreciation is the foundation of a magnetic mindset. 32:00 – Storytelling Timeline: When to Tell the Story (and When to Heal First) The golden rule of storytelling: tell stories from the scar, not the wound. Kimberly and Marianne discuss timing, emotional ownership, and avoiding victim narratives. 37:00 – From Victim to Hero: Taking Radical Ownership of Your Story How to move from blame to breakthrough — in life, business, and speaking. Learn how to transform pain into purpose. 40:00 – The Visibility Strategy: From Podcast Guest to Keynote Speaker Marianne breaks down the roadmap for turning podcast appearances into major speaking opportunities — including her 4-stage framework for growing your visibility. 44:00 – Your Call to Rise: Show Up, Speak Up, Stand Out 👑 Kimberly closes with a powerful reminder: your story can save lives — but only if you tell it. This is your invitation to show up and shine.   Transcript: For a full episode transcript, you can find it here: https://www.communicationqueens.com/blog Sharables: For shareable images, quotes, and other social media posts to add some royal sparkle to your socials (with proper tagging and credit, of course), they can be found here.   💕 Say “hi” on social: Communication Queen Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/communicationqueens  Communication Queen Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/communicationqueensagency  Communication QueenTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@communicationqueens  Communication Queen Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/communicationqueens/  Communication Queen Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@communicationqueens    🎙Subscribe + Listen to the Communication Queens Podcast here: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/communication-queen-entrepreneurship-marketing-storytelling/id1718540459  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2ROeliYZG9thhNSMEo8SDx?si=abc7b72eb6274d3b&nd=1&dlsi=fb6df192dfbb4505  Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/8d87938f-bfbc-4dac-a60e-b77b652b344c/communication-queen-entrepreneurship-marketing-storytelling-public-speaking-and-podcasting  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@communicationqueens    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kimberlyspencer.crownyourself/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/realkimspencer  Instagram: https://instagram.com/kimberly.spencer  Linked I

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  6. Lifestyle-First Leadership: How to Build a Business That Loves You Back feat. Patty Farmer

    11/04/2025

    Lifestyle-First Leadership: How to Build a Business That Loves You Back feat. Patty Farmer

    Ever built a business that looked great on paper but felt like a full-time fire drill? 👀 Then this episode with marketing maven Patty Farmer is your wake-up call. Host Kimberly Spencer sits down with Patty — an eight-figure entrepreneur, international speaker, and queen of lifestyle-first leadership — to unpack how to build a business that feeds your soul instead of draining your sanity. Patty shares her signature philosophy: before you chase profits, define the life you actually want to live. From her “Grow Your Influence Tree” to her unconventional “sandwich method” for podcast guesting, Patty shows us that sustainable success is never about doing more — it’s about doing right. They dig into: How to design your business around your desired lifestyle, not someone else’s dream. The mindset shift from firefighter to CEO. The micro-shifts that spark quantum leaps. Why reciprocity and contribution are the true engines of long-term visibility. This episode isn’t just another business chat — it’s a manifesto for the bold, heart-led entrepreneur who’s done with burnout and ready to design a legacy that loves them back. ✨ Hit play and learn how to align your vision, visibility, and voice with the life you’re meant to live.   😎Get booked on the TOP 5% of podcasts that can build your brand awareness and your bottom line. Book your $100K Profit from Guest Podcasting Planning Call here: https://www.communicationqueens.com/get-booked-on-the-top-podcasts 📖 Get Kimberly Spencer’s best-selling book and Boost your brand awareness & Scale your business with the power of STORYTELLING and the strategy of PODCAST GUESTING. https://www.communicationqueens.com/book 🦄Join us for our next Podcast Party! Meet other 6 & 7 figure podcast guests, get booked on podcast interviews, and find your soulmate sponsors! https://www.communicationqueens.com/prosperity-purpose-podcasting-party  Want an epic guest for your podcast? Explore our Communication Queen celebrities, and we will support you in getting them booked for your next podcast interview: https://www.communicationqueens.com/our-clients    Enjoy, sovereigns!   Listen to the episode on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music, or your other favorite podcast listening platform. You can also watch the episode on Youtube. What You’ll Learn in this Episode: 💫 1️⃣ Your Business Should Love You Back Patty drops the mic early: “You didn’t become a CEO to put out fires all day.” This episode teaches that your business isn’t meant to own you — it’s meant to serve you. When you design your business around your desired lifestyle, not your to-do list, you build sustainability, joy, and freedom into the foundation. Takeaway:  Start with your life vision first — then reverse-engineer your business strategy to support it. 🌿 2️⃣ The Myth of “Do More to Get More” Patty calls BS on the hustle cult: “You can actually get more and do less — if you do it right.” This flips the entire productivity narrative. It’s not about doing everything — it’s about doing the right things, in alignment with your strengths and brilliance. Takeaway:  Audit your effort-to-results ratio. What tasks feed your purpose? What drains it? Simplify ruthlessly. 🌟 3️⃣ Lead With Contribution, Not Compensation One of the most powerful lessons: “Lead with contribution. Compensation will follow.” Patty’s entire marketing and relationship philosophy is built on reciprocity. When you give first — whether it’s a LinkedIn recommendation, a podcast shout-out, or genuine visibility for others — you open doors that money alone can’t buy. Takeaway:  Shift from “What can I get?” to “How can I serve?” The ROI on generosity is exponential. 🔥 4️⃣ The Three Stages of Business Evolution Patty breaks business into Startup, Scaling, and Legacy — and gives each a unique success metric: Startup: Time > Money. Build foundation. Scaling: Money > Time. Build systems. Legacy: Impact > Income. Build meaning. Takeaway:  Measure your progress not just by profit, but by peace, purpose, and the ripple you’re creating. 💋 5️⃣ Visibility as Relationship Currency From her “Sandwich Method” for podcast guesting to building authentic visibility, Patty shows that success in media isn’t about fame — it’s about relationships. Takeaway:  Every interview, introduction, or post is a potential collaboration — not a one-time transaction. 🌈 6️⃣ Freedom Is the Ultimate Flex At its heart, this episode is a permission slip to stop glorifying grind and start celebrating alignment. Takeaway:  Your joy is not a reward — it’s a requirement. When you lead from joy, you magnetize your audience, clients, and opportunities. 🎧 In short: This episode is your clarity check.  It reminds you to: Redefine success around your soul’s schedule. Measure your ROI in joy, not just dollars. Lead with love, not lack. It’s a whole vibe — strategy meets soul. 💋 Quotes: “You didn’t become a CEO to put out fires all day.” - Patty Farmer “I don’t believe you have to do more to get more. You can do less and get more — if you do it right.” - Patty Farmer “Lead with contribution. Compensation will follow.” - Patty Farmer Links & Additional Resources: Connect with Patty Farmer. Website: https://pattyfarmer.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/pattyfarmer/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/networkingCEO/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/PattyFarmerCEO/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/marketingmediamoney Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/marketing-media-money/id1486122729 Moments of Note: ⏱ 00:00 — The Freedom Filter: Why Lifestyle Comes First  Patty Farmer opens with a truth bomb: not everyone wants yachts and millions — success is personal. Kimberly and Patty discuss why building a business should start with the life you actually want to live. ⏱ 02:00 — Relationships Over Revenue: Patty’s Marketing Philosophy  Patty reveals her secret sauce — focusing on target buyers instead of target markets and leading from lifestyle alignment, not vanity metrics. ⏱ 05:20 — Defining Your Diamond: The Self-Worth Behind Business Dreams  Patty’s “engagement ring” metaphor hits hard: if you’re dreaming small, it’s because you think that’s all you deserve. She teaches how to claim the business — and life — you really want. ⏱ 08:00 — From Busy to Brilliant: Why Doing More Isn’t the Answer  Patty dismantles the hustle myth: “You can get more and do less — if you do it right.” Kimberly explores how to measure results that actually matter. ⏱ 10:00 — The 3 Stages of Business: Startup, Scaling & Legacy  Patty explains the evolution of business and how to ask the right questions at each stage. The duo dives into mindset, money, and meaning. ⏱ 14:30 — Other People’s People: Networking that Builds Legacy  Patty and Kimberly discuss how podcasts, speaking, and collaboration expand your reach through other people’s people. ⏱ 17:30 — Reciprocity Is the New Marketing Currency  Patty breaks down her “LinkedIn Recommendation Strategy” and her famous “Sandwich Method” for podcast guesting — giving first to grow long-term visibility. ⏱ 22:30 — From Podcast Guest to Power Partner  Patty shows how to turn podcast interviews into deeper collaborations and why relationship-building beats one-and-done guesting every time. ⏱ 26:20 — How to Choose the Right Podcasts (and Say No Gracefully)  Patty shares how she evaluates podcast opportunities — not by vanity metrics, but by value alignment and contribution potential. ⏱ 31:00 — The Hidden ROI of Podcasting and Speaking  Kimberly and Patty discuss how visibility leads to relationship-based revenue and the surprising ways small podcasts can yield huge opportunities. ⏱ 36:00 — Micro Shifts, Massive Results: Redefining Over-commitment  Patty shares the life-changing mindset shift that helped her say no without guilt — and how small realignments lead to big results. ⏱ 40:40 — Purpose-Fueled Profit: Patty’s Powerhouse Coffee Project  Patty introduces her newest venture — a coffee brand funding entrepreneurship programs for women in coffee-producing countries. Legacy meets leadership. ⏱ 46:10 — Final Mic Drop: How to Build a Business That Feeds Your Soul  Kimberly and Patty wrap up with a challenge to every entrepreneur: align your business with your joy, your voice, and your purpose.   Transcript: For a full episode transcript, you can find it here. https://www.communicationqueens.com/blog Sharables: For shareable images, quotes, and other social media posts to add some royal sparkle to your socials (with proper tagging and credit, of course), they can be found here. 💕 Say “hi” on social: Communication Queen Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/communicationqueens  Communication Queen Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/communicationqueensagency  Communication QueenTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@communicationqueens  Communication Queen Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/communicationqueens/  Communication Queen Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@communicationqueens    🎙Subscribe + Listen to the Communication Queens Podcast here: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/communication-queen-entrepreneurship-marketing-storytelling/id1718540459  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2ROeliYZG9thhNSMEo8SDx?si=abc7b72eb6274d3b&nd=1&dlsi=fb6df192dfbb4505  Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/8d87938f-bfbc-4dac-a60e-b77b652b344c/communication-queen-entrepreneurship-marketing-storytelling-public-speaking-and-podcasting  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@communicationqueens    Faceb

    49 min
  7. Show Up As You Are: How Chaos Creates Connection & Trust feat. Tricia Creason-Valencia

    10/28/2025

    Show Up As You Are: How Chaos Creates Connection & Trust feat. Tricia Creason-Valencia

    Sometimes, the most powerful stories aren’t the ones told with perfect polish — they’re the ones told as is. In this episode of Communication Queens, host Kimberly Spencer dives deep with Emmy-nominated filmmaker, producer, and motivational speaker Tricia Creason-Valencia to explore the transformational art of storytelling through chaos. From motherhood to mental health, adoption to artistry, Tricia unpacks the raw truth of what it means to show up when life falls apart — and how those cracks let the light (and connection) in. This isn’t your average “five-step-to-success” chat. This is a full-bodied, tear-streaked, truth-soaked conversation about creativity, resilience, and the radical act of gentle acceptance. You’ll hear how Tricia turned crisis into creative fuel, motherhood into mentorship, and pain into purpose — all while redefining what it means to be a “multi-hyphenate” in a world obsessed with labels. If you’ve ever found yourself in the messy middle, wondering what’s next — this episode will remind you that just showing up is enough.   😎Get booked on the TOP 5% of podcasts that can build your brand awareness and your bottom line. Book your $100K Profit from Guest Podcasting Planning Call here: https://www.communicationqueens.com/get-booked-on-the-top-podcasts   📖 Get Kimberly Spencer’s best-selling book here: https://www.communicationqueens.com/book   🦄Join us for our next Podcast Party! Meet other 6 & 7 figure podcast guests, get booked on podcast interviews, and find your soulmate sponsors! https://www.communicationqueens.com/prosperity-purpose-podcasting-party    Want an epic guest for your podcast? Explore our Communication Queen celebrities, and we will support you in getting them booked for your next podcast interview: https://www.communicationqueens.com/our-clients  Enjoy, sovereigns!   Listen to the episode on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music, or your other favorite podcast listening platform. You can also watch the episode on Youtube. What You’ll Learn in this Episode: 🎭 1. The Power of Showing Up “As Is” You don’t need to be perfect to make an impact — you just have to be present.  Tricia reminds us that showing up, even in the messy middle, is one of the most courageous and transformative acts of leadership. Whether it’s motherhood, artistry, or personal growth — your willingness to keep showing up, even when you’re not okay, is what actually changes lives. 💬 “You don’t have to fix it. You just have to keep showing up.”   💖 2. Connection Is Greater Than Control This episode beautifully reframes what it means to love others — and yourself.  Tricia shares the deeply vulnerable truth that love alone isn’t always enough. Real transformation comes from connection: showing up with empathy, without needing to fix, rescue, or perfect. That lesson applies in parenting, leadership, and relationships alike. 💬 “I thought love was enough. It wasn’t — connection was.”   🧘‍♀️ 3. Gentle Acceptance Over Radical Perfection We live in a “hustle and heal” culture that glorifies perfection even in personal growth. Tricia flips that script with her message of gentle acceptance — the practice of giving yourself grace instead of judgment. It’s not about surrendering; it’s about softening into what is, and finding peace in the gray. 💬 “Radical perfection was breaking me — gentle acceptance saved me.”   🎨 4. Creativity Is a Lifeline As a filmmaker, educator, and community builder, Tricia shows how storytelling and creativity can be tools for healing — not just self-expression. When words fail, art speaks. Whether it’s collage, filmmaking, or teaching, she uses creativity as connection and transformation. 💬 “People don’t connect to perfection — they connect to truth.”   🌱 5. Chaos Is a Catalyst for Growth Tricia’s story isn’t one of instant triumph — it’s one of evolution through chaos. The pandemic, parenting struggles, mental health crises, and identity shifts didn’t break her — they reshaped her. The episode teaches that chaos isn’t the opposite of creation; it’s the birthplace of it. 💬 “I believe in the chaos of creation — because that’s where real transformation happens.”   👑 6. Your Story Has Power — Exactly As It Is Kimberly drives home the heart of the Communication Queens message: your story, in all its rawness, can save at least one life. You don’t need to wait until it’s polished, healed, or “done” to share it. The honesty of your now is enough to inspire someone else’s next step. 💬 “Your story doesn’t need to be perfect to be powerful.”   💫 In Short: This episode is a masterclass in transformational storytelling and emotional leadership. It teaches you how to: Lead through love, not control Heal through honesty, not perfection Create through chaos, not certainty Connect through presence, not performance Quotes: “I thought love was enough. It wasn’t — connection was.” - Tricia Creason-Valencia   “Gentle acceptance felt better than radical acceptance. I needed to give myself grace.” - Tricia Creason-Valencia   “People are gratified to hear it’s hard for me too — because that’s what makes us human.” - Tricia Creason-Valencia Links & Additional Resources: Connect with Tricia Creason-Valencia. Website: https://www.tricia-speaks.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tricia-speaks/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/flacafilms/ Moments of Note: 🕐 [00:00 – 01:00] | Intro: Finding Joy Through Storytelling Kimberly opens the episode with warmth and humor, setting the tone for a raw, real conversation.   🕐 [01:00 – 02:30] | Meet Tricia Creason-Valencia: Emmy-Nominated Filmmaker, Speaker, & Storyteller Tricia introduces her multi-hyphenate journey — from documentary filmmaker to motivational speaker and community builder.   🕐 [02:30 – 06:00] | From Filmmaking to Speaking: The Art of the Pivot Tricia reveals the crossroads of her career and how she’s redefining storytelling to include her whole self — filmmaker, mother, educator, and leader.  💬 Key takeaway: You don’t have to fit into one box to tell a powerful story.   🕐 [06:00 – 10:30] | When the Pandemic Changed Everything Tricia shares how the pandemic forced her to reevaluate teaching, art, and motherhood.  🎥 From in-person classrooms to Zoom fatigue, she exposes the grief of losing creative connection — and the courage it took to start over.   🕐 [10:30 – 14:00] | The Breaking Point: Motherhood, Mental Health, and Meaning Tricia vulnerably opens up about her daughter’s mental health crisis and how motherhood became both her greatest challenge and teacher.  💔 Quote: “I thought love was enough. It wasn’t — connection was.”   🕐 [14:00 – 19:30] | Radical Acceptance, Real Connection, and the Dark Night of the Soul Through tears and truth, Tricia talks about learning radical (and gentle) acceptance — a turning point that helped her rebuild connection with her daughter and herself.  💫 Key message: You can’t fix everything, but you can always show up.   🕐 [19:30 – 24:00] | The Healing Power of Community Tricia shares how her circle of women showed up — no questions, no conditions. They walked, listened, fed her, and kept her anchored when she couldn’t stand on her own.  🌸 Lesson: Healing happens in community, not isolation.   🕐 [24:00 – 28:00] | The Art of Permission: Storytelling with Consent Tricia reflects on learning to honor her children’s stories as their own, and the balance between transparency and privacy in storytelling.  💬 Quote: “It’s their story to tell, not mine.”   🕐 [28:00 – 32:00] | From Radical Perfection to Gentle Grace Tricia introduces the life-changing idea of “gentle acceptance” — giving yourself permission to release control and let healing be imperfect.  💖 Quote: “Radical perfection was breaking me — gentle acceptance saved me.”   🕐 [32:00 – 36:00] | Chaos as the Catalyst: Creating in the Messy Middle Tricia and Kimberly dive deep into the chaos of creation — how mess, uncertainty, and pain are not obstacles but portals for transformation.  ⚡ Lesson: Creation and chaos coexist — and that’s where the gold is.   🕐 [36:00 – 40:00] | The Power of Storytelling in Healing and Leadership Kimberly connects Tricia’s journey to the greater mission of transformational storytelling — using your voice to build empathy and impact.  🎤 Quote: “People don’t connect to perfection — they connect to truth.”   🕐 [40:00 – 43:00] | Redefining Optimism and Joy Tricia explores her evolution from wide-eyed optimist to joy seeker. Her message: happiness isn’t naive — it’s a discipline.  🌞 Lesson: Joy isn’t found after the chaos; it’s created inside it.   🕐 [43:00 – 46:00] | Showing Up As Is: The Only Strategy That Works Kimberly and Tricia close with the episode’s heartbeat: keep showing up as you are.  No filters, no fixes — just full presence and truth.  💬 Quote: “Your story doesn’t need to be perfect to be powerful.”   🕐 [46:00 – 49:00] | Closing Reflections + Tricia’s Contact Info Kimberly invites listeners to explore Tricia’s world — keynote speaking, creative workshops, and community activism.  Tricia shares her platforms: TriciaSpeaks.com and @flockoffilms on Instagram.   Transcript: For a full episode transcript, it can be found here. https://www.communicationqueens.com/blog Sharables: For shareable images, quotes, and other social media posts to add some royal sparkle to your socials (with proper

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  8. The Uncensored Mic: How Authentic Leadership Builds a Fast-Growing Podcast feat. Ryan Sherrer

    10/21/2025

    The Uncensored Mic: How Authentic Leadership Builds a Fast-Growing Podcast feat. Ryan Sherrer

    What if the very thing you’ve been hiding behind—your filters, your “shoulds,” your fear of being too much—is exactly what’s blocking your growth? In this empowering episode of The Communication Queens Podcast, Kimberly Spencer sits down with Ryan Sherrer, a master of unfiltered marketing and storytelling. Together, they explore the art of speaking truth in an industry obsessed with polish—and how that truth becomes your most powerful brand strategy. Ryan shares his journey from anxiety to authority, discovering that authenticity wasn’t just healing—it was highly effective. He and Kimberly unpack the real ROI of being real: trust, connection, and resonance that algorithms can’t fake. They also dive into podcast growth from the inside out—how to build shows that focus on relationships over reach, substance over statistics, and truth over trends. If you’re ready to elevate your visibility, refine your voice, and lead with unapologetic confidence, this conversation is your invitation to take the mic—and mean it.   😎Get booked on the TOP 5% of podcasts that can build your brand awareness and your bottom line. Book your $100K Profit from Guest Podcasting Planning Call here: https://www.communicationqueens.com/get-booked-on-the-top-podcasts   📖 Get Kimberly Spencer’s best-selling book here: https://www.communicationqueens.com/book   🦄Join us for our next Podcast Party! Meet other 6 & 7 figure podcast guests, get booked on podcast interviews, and find your soulmate sponsors! https://www.communicationqueens.com/prosperity-purpose-podcasting-party    Want an epic guest for your podcast? Explore our Communication Queen celebrities, and we will support you in getting them booked for your next podcast interview: https://www.communicationqueens.com/our-clients    Enjoy, sovereigns!   Listen to the episode on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music, or your other favorite podcast listening platform. You can also watch the episode on Youtube. What You’ll Learn in this Episode:  🎙️ 1. Authenticity Is Your Most Profitable Asset Ryan reveals that anxiety was what led him to radical authenticity — the moment he stopped performing and started being himself, everything shifted. 💡 Lesson: Your truth is magnetic. When you stop filtering for approval, you attract aligned audiences, clients, and collaborators. 💎 2. Stop Coddling, Start Leading Both Kimberly and Ryan talk about the danger of coddling clients (or audiences) in the name of being “nice.” 💡 Lesson: True leadership is service, not people-pleasing. Being honest—even when it’s uncomfortable—is how you build trust and deliver results. 🧭 3. Podcasting Is About Relationships, Not Downloads Ryan breaks down how the most successful shows are built for relationships — not for instant fame. 💡 Lesson: When you design your podcast for connection, not clout, you grow faster and more sustainably. Each guest becomes a collaboration, not just content. 💬 4. Simplicity Sells: The Power of Clear, Confident Communication Ryan’s “8th-grade rule” — write and speak so your message is digestible. Complexity kills clarity. 💡 Lesson: The goal isn’t to sound smart — it’s to make your audience feel seen. 🧠 5. Confidence Comes from Owning the Mic, Not Earning Permission Kimberly and Ryan discuss the moment every thought leader must face: stop waiting to be chosen. 💡 Lesson: You are the expert. The moment you claim your mic, your message starts to resonate. ❤️ 6. The ROI of Realness Realness builds results that algorithms can’t replicate — connection, trust, and transformation. 💡 Lesson: Authenticity isn’t a branding buzzword. It’s a growth strategy. When you’re willing to show your mess, you model courage — and that’s what moves people. ✨ 7. Ego vs. Expertise: The Balance of Bold Leadership Ryan’s candid talk about ego in the industry reminds us that true mastery includes humility. 💡 Lesson: Confidence without compassion becomes arrogance. The sweet spot? Unapologetic service through honest expertise. 🔥 Big Takeaway “Your voice doesn’t have to be perfect — it has to be present.” This episode teaches that podcast growth, leadership, and visibility all start from the same place: being brave enough to show up, unfiltered and unafraid, with your truth as your strategy. Quotes: “You can’t help clean the mess if you won’t acknowledge it.” - Ryan Sherrer “Full authenticity means finding out where you are—so you can find your way out.” - Ryan Sherrer “When you stop coddling people, you start helping them.” - Ryan Sherrer Links & Additional Resources: Connect with Ryan Sherrer   Website: https://titanmediaworx.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ryan-sherrer-822682206/ Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/business-uncensored/id1695942662 Moments of Note: 00:00 – Embracing the Mess: The Truth About Life and Leadership Kimberly and Ryan kick things off by unpacking why life (and business) gets messy — and how acknowledging the mess is the first step to transforming it. 02:00 – How Anxiety Turns into Authority Behind the Mic Ryan shares his early struggles with anxiety and the moment he stopped chasing approval. His lesson? Your voice gets powerful when you stop performing. 05:00 – Stop Coddling Clients: The Power of Radical Honesty in Business Ryan reveals how “coddling” clients actually hurts results — and how real leadership requires radical honesty. Kimberly draws parallels to coaching and communication. 09:00 – Full Authenticity in Marketing: Navigating the Mess with Integrity What does it mean to be truly authentic in business? Ryan explains how full transparency creates trust and how to navigate difficult conversations with truth and compassion. 12:00 – Building Podcasts That Connect: Audience vs. Guest Strategy Ryan and Kimberly discuss the two core podcast growth strategies — building for the audience vs. the guest. Discover how each approach impacts your ROI and relationships. 16:00 – The Relationship ROI: Why Connection Beats Downloads Every Time Podcast success isn’t about views — it’s about value. Ryan breaks down how building genuine guest relationships leads to business growth and lasting partnerships. 20:00 – Creating Podcast Content That Converts: From Conversations to Clients Kimberly and Ryan explore how every guest interaction can be leveraged into high-quality, relationship-driven content — without feeling salesy. 22:00 – The Long Game: Building for the Viewer vs. the Guest What’s the difference between a viral show and a valuable one? Ryan explains how to sustain your growth by choosing consistency over clout. 27:00 – From Comedy to Communication: Lessons from the Stage Ryan shares stories from his stand-up comedy days and how those lessons in timing, presence, and audience engagement shaped his podcast production success. 30:00 – Networking with Intention: The Power of Relationships in Business From failed ventures to founding Titan Media Works, Ryan traces his career path and how genuine relationships — not shortcuts — created every opportunity. 34:00 – Facing Intimidation and Ego in the Industry Kimberly and Ryan dive deep into navigating ego, intimidation, and authenticity as your platform grows — and how to stay grounded in your values. 37:00 – The Language of Leadership: Speak With Confidence and Clarity Ryan shares his signature “positive language” approach — how shifting from if to when instantly transforms your authority as a host, coach, or leader. 41:00 – Owning Your Expertise: When to Stop Asking for Permission They discuss how to hold your ground as an expert, set boundaries, and lead with confidence — even when others challenge your voice. 44:00 – The Eighth-Grade Rule: Why Simplicity Builds Connection Kimberly and Ryan talk about communicating with clarity and accessibility — because brilliance isn’t about complexity, it’s about connection. 46:00 – Final Takeaways: Authenticity Is the Strategy, Not the Trend They wrap with a powerful reminder: authenticity isn’t just a brand aesthetic — it’s the backbone of sustainable growth, trust, and leadership. 47:00 – Connect with Ryan Sherrer and Communication Queens Ryan invites listeners to connect via Titan Media Works, while Kimberly closes with her signature visibility call to action: “Let your voice be heard, Queen.”   Transcript: For a full episode transcript, you can find it here. https://www.communicationqueens.com/blog Sharables: For shareable images, quotes, and other social media posts to add some royal sparkle to your socials (with proper tagging and credit, of course), they can be found here.   💕 Say “hi” on social:   Communication Queen Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/communicationqueens  Communication Queen Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/communicationqueensagency  Communication QueenTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@communicationqueens  Communication Queen Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/communicationqueens/  Communication Queen Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@communicationqueens    🎙Subscribe + Listen to the Communication Queens Podcast here: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/communication-queen-entrepreneurship-marketing-storytelling/id1718540459  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2ROeliYZG9thhNSMEo8SDx?si=abc7b72eb6274d3b&nd=1&dlsi=fb6df192dfbb4505  Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/8d87938f-bfbc-4dac-a60e-b77b652b344c/communication-queen-entrepreneurship-marketing-storytelling-public-speaking-and-podcasting  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@communicationqueens    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kimberlyspencer.crownyourself/  Twitter: https://twitter

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Welcome to Communication Queens, the podcast for service-based entrepreneurs, creatives, coaches, and consultants who want to hone their storytelling craft and oratory skillset and leverage podcasting as a form of lead generation. Our mission is to help you get booked on podcast interviews as a guest, share your story in a way that connects, serves, and sells, and ultimately grow your business through the power of podcasting. Each episode, your host Kimberly Spencer, and her guests will share actionable tips and strategies for optimizing your communication skills, crafting compelling stories, and networking with podcast hosts to secure high-value interview opportunities. From live coaching to eliminate any subconscious blocks to your voice or just create more cohesiveness and impact with your story, to interviews with Global Top 100 Podcasters, and 7-figure CEOs, we bring on expert guests from a variety of industries to share their insights and experiences, and to inspire you to take your podcasting game to the next level. Whether you're a seasoned podcast guest or just getting started, Communication Queens is the go-to resource for mastering the art of communication and leveraging podcasting as a lead generation tool. Join us each week as we share our knowledge, expertise, and passion for helping service-based entrepreneurs succeed in the world of podcasting. Subscribe now and let's dive in! Follow us on Youtube @communicationqueens and on Instagram at @communicationqueensagency

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