Communication Queen | entrepreneurship, marketing, storytelling, public speaking, and podcasting

Kimberly Spencer | Master NLP Performance Coach for Entrepreneurs, CEO of Communication Queens, TEDx Speaker, Author, and Entrepreneur for 17+ years

Welcome to Communication Queens, the podcast for service-based entrepreneurs, creatives, coaches, and consultants who want to hone their storytelling craft and oratory skillset and leverage podcasting as a form of lead generation. Our mission is to help you get booked on podcast interviews as a guest, share your story in a way that connects, serves, and sells, and ultimately grow your business through the power of podcasting. Each episode, your host Kimberly Spencer, and her guests will share actionable tips and strategies for optimizing your communication skills, crafting compelling stories, and networking with podcast hosts to secure high-value interview opportunities. From live coaching to eliminate any subconscious blocks to your voice or just create more cohesiveness and impact with your story, to interviews with Global Top 100 Podcasters, and 7-figure CEOs, we bring on expert guests from a variety of industries to share their insights and experiences, and to inspire you to take your podcasting game to the next level. Whether you're a seasoned podcast guest or just getting started, Communication Queens is the go-to resource for mastering the art of communication and leveraging podcasting as a lead generation tool. Join us each week as we share our knowledge, expertise, and passion for helping service-based entrepreneurs succeed in the world of podcasting. Subscribe now and let's dive in! Follow us on Youtube @communicationqueens and on Instagram at @communicationqueensagency

  1. The “Joy Anyway” Strategy That Changes How You Show Up & Sell with Jan Hoath

    Mar 25

    The “Joy Anyway” Strategy That Changes How You Show Up & Sell with Jan Hoath

    What if joy wasn’t the reward—but the strategy?    In this powerful episode, Kimberly Spencer and Jan Hoath break down how to build your business, visibility, and marketing from alignment instead of pressure. From writing a book in 100 days to redefining marketing as connection, this conversation will shift how you show up, sell, and succeed—without sacrificing yourself.   📚Grab the “Top Books of 2024 to Change Your Life,” the bestseller, multi-gold-medal award-winner, “Make Every Podcast Want You” by Kimberly Spencer. Available now on Amazon: https://amzn.to/42kllur    😎Discover how to get booked on the TOP 5% of podcasts to leverage podcast interviews for lead generation for your business owners, founders, podcasters, and authors. Book your $100K Profit from Guest Podcasting Planning Call here: https://www.communicationqueens.com/get-booked-on-the-top-podcasts   Jan Hoath—The JOY Alchemist—is a speaker, author, and leadership coach helping women leaders stop postponing their joy and start living, leading, and succeeding from it.   Through her signature framework, The JOY Prism™, Jan guides spiritually awake women who are done with pressure, performance, and self-abandonment—supporting them to reconnect to their truth, align with what matters most, and create a life and leadership that actually feels fulfilling.   Blending leadership coaching, mindfulness, and embodied transformation, Jan brings a grounded yet powerful approach shaped by nearly two decades of experience—as well as her personal journey through adversity, resilience, and growth.   Her core message is simple yet transformative: Success without joy isn’t true success.   From stages and retreats to her coaching containers, Jan’s work invites women to release outdated definitions of success and step into a way of living and leading that is rooted in presence, authenticity, and JOY—anyway.   Enjoy, sovereigns!   Listen to the episode on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music, or your other favorite podcast listening platform. You can also watch the episode on Youtube. What You’ll Learn in this Episode: Why joy isn’t the reward of success—but the strategy that creates it (and how to start leading from it now) How to break free from pressure-driven visibility and marketing that feels forced, fake, or exhausting The real reason you feel resistance to showing up—and how to shift from performance to authentic expression How Jan Hoath used the Joy Anyway Strategy to write and publish her book in just 100 days—without burnout Simple, powerful practices (movement, play, mindfulness) to unlock creativity, flow, and consistency How to reframe marketing as connection and relationship-building, not manipulation or perfection Why presence—not performance—is what builds trust, magnetism, and impact How to trust your intuition in content creation while still honoring structure and strategy The mindset shift that allows you to stop waiting for “one day” and start living and leading fully now What it really means to “Just Own You”—and how that becomes your most powerful visibility strategy Quotes: “When you feel stuck or stagnant, that’s your cue to step back and go get into your joy.” ~ Jan Hoath   “You may work hard—but when you’re in joy, it feels like you’re hardly working.” ~ Kimberly Spencer   “Joy is an acronym: Just Own You.” ~ Jan Hoath Links & Additional Resources: Connect with Jan Hoath.   Website: https://www.janjoymentor.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/janhoath Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/janhoath/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/janhoath/   Moments of Note: 00:00 – What If Joy Is the Strategy for Success? (Mindset Shift for Entrepreneurs) 00:29 – Meet Jan Hoath & the Joy Anyway Movement (Spiritual Leadership + Business Growth) 01:40 – Writing a Book in 100 Days: Strategy, Structure & Creative Flow 03:21 – How to Turn Your Program or Offer into a Book (Content Strategy for Entrepreneurs) 04:51 – Building a Book That Supports Your Business & Brand 06:00 – Overcoming Writer’s Block: How to Stay Creative & Consistent 07:00 – Daily Joy Habits That Unlock Creativity & Productivity 08:11 – Mindset vs Mind Flow: Why Entrepreneurs Stay Stuck 09:12 – The Creative Process: Falling in Love with Your Work 11:11 – Why Joy Creates Magnetic Energy in Business & Marketing 11:53 – Feeling Stuck? How to Shift Your Energy & Get Back into Flow 12:24 – Simple Joy Practices to Boost Creativity (Movement, Play, Nature) 14:20 – Why Play Is a Powerful Strategy for Business Growth 15:21 – How to Fall in Love with Marketing (Even If You Hate It) 16:38 – Healing Visibility Fear & Showing Up Authentically 18:23 – The Fear of Posting: Why Visibility Feels So Hard 19:36 – Letting Go of Perfectionism in Content & Branding 20:30 – Presence vs Performance in Marketing (Authenticity Wins) 22:00 – You Can Promote Your Book Anytime (Visibility Strategy for Authors) 24:05 – Creating Content That Feels Good AND Converts 26:11 – Intuition vs Strategy in Marketing: Finding the Balance 27:20 – Real-Life Content Creation: How to Share Authentically 28:25 – Why Your Message Matters (And Who Needs to Hear It) 29:46 – Stop Overthinking: Trusting Your Content & Audience 31:00 – Marketing as Relationship Building (Not Manipulation) 32:31 – Where to Get the Book & Join the Joy Anyway Movement   Transcript: For a full episode transcript, it can be found here. Sharables: For shareable images, quotes, and other social media posts to add some royal sparkle to your socials (with proper tagging and credit, of course), they can be found here.   💕 Say “hi” on social:   Communication Queen Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/communicationqueens  Communication Queen Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/communicationqueensagency  Communication QueenTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@communicationqueens  Communication Queen Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/communicationqueens/  Communication Queen Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@communicationqueens    🎙Subscribe + Listen to the Communication Queens Podcast here: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/communication-queen-entrepreneurship-marketing-storytelling/id1718540459  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2ROeliYZG9thhNSMEo8SDx?si=abc7b72eb6274d3b&nd=1&dlsi=fb6df192dfbb4505  Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/8d87938f-bfbc-4dac-a60e-b77b652b344c/communication-queen-entrepreneurship-marketing-storytelling-public-speaking-and-podcasting  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@communicationqueens    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kimberlyspencer.crownyourself/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/realkimspencer  Instagram: https://instagram.com/kimberly.spencer  Linked In: https://linkedin.com/in/kimberlyspencer-crownyourself     AFFILIATE DISCLAIMER: This description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. While this channel may earn minimal sums when the viewer uses the links, the viewer is in NO WAY obligated to use these links. Thanks for your support!   🥰  Loved learning about how to improve your communication skills and get booked on podcast interviews? Listen to this podcast again: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WCE-I1nu3qA&list=PLm4BjuAmP6DvwRPEBpVMJT5UrQoaD_5J8

    34 min
  2. Stop Chasing Visibility—Start Being Felt with Camille Miller

    Mar 18

    Stop Chasing Visibility—Start Being Felt with Camille Miller

    What if the reason your visibility isn’t working… isn’t your strategy—but your alignment? Visibility isn’t about being seen—it’s about being felt. In this episode, Kimberly Spencer and Camille Miller break down why your strategy might not be the problem—your alignment is. Learn how to blend soul + structure, build authentic visibility, and create a business that actually feels good and converts.   📚Grab the “Top Books of 2024 to Change Your Life,” the bestseller, multi-gold-medal award-winner, “Make Every Podcast Want You” by Kimberly Spencer. Available now on Amazon: https://amzn.to/42kllur  😎Discover how to get booked on the TOP 5% of podcasts to leverage podcast interviews for lead generation for your business owners, founders, podcasters, and authors. Book your $100K Profit from Guest Podcasting Planning Call here: https://www.communicationqueens.com/get-booked-on-the-top-podcasts   Camille L. Miller is a globally recognized authority in soul-aligned entrepreneurship, known for helping visionary leaders build scalable, purpose-driven businesses rooted in authenticity. As a transformational leader, speaker, and three-time Amazon bestselling author, she blends strategic business expertise with intuitive insight to redefine success beyond hustle. Camille is the founder of the Soul Professional Movement and Soul Professional Business School, empowering entrepreneurs worldwide to align their soul with structure—and create lasting impact and wealth.   Enjoy, sovereigns!   Listen to the episode on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music, or your other favorite podcast listening platform. You can also watch the episode on Youtube.   What You’ll Learn in this Episode: ✨ Why your visibility isn’t landing (and why it’s not your strategy—it’s your alignment)   ✨ The real meaning of authentic visibility → How to shift from “being seen” to being felt   ✨ How to balance feminine flow with masculine structure → So your business feels good and actually makes money   ✨ The hidden fears behind visibility → Including fear of success, responsibility, and growth   ✨ How to grow your business without burnout → Using small, intentional steps that compound over time   ✨ Why one strategy won’t build your business → And how to create an ecosystem that attracts clients naturally   ✨ How to use podcasting for relationship-driven visibility → Not just exposure—but real connections and opportunities   ✨ Why your business must evolve as you grow → And how to let go of what no longer aligns   ✨ The power of trust, surrender, and divine timing in business → So you stop forcing and start allowing aligned success Quotes: “Visibility isn’t about being seen. It’s about being felt.” ~ Camille Miller   “Just take a baby step in that direction… the pace doesn’t matter.” ~ Camille Miller   “Revenue doesn’t come from strategies—revenue comes from people.” ~ Kimberly Spencer   Connect with Camille Miller. Website: https://www.soulprofessional.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/camillelmiller/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@camillelmiller/featured Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thenaturallifeorganization   Moments of Note: 00:00 – Why Your Visibility Isn’t Working (It’s Not Your Strategy) Hook: The real reason your content isn’t landing—and why visibility is about being felt, not just seen.   02:25 – From “I’m Not a Writer” to 3 Books: Camille’s Business Journey How Camille Miller built authority through books—and why structure (deadlines) matters more than motivation.   04:47 – Feminine Flow vs Masculine Structure in Business Why “just being in flow” isn’t enough—and how to balance intuition with strategy for sustainable growth.   06:44 – Why Soul-Led Entrepreneurs Get Stuck in Business The hidden traps of purpose-driven entrepreneurs—and how to actually express your purpose in business.   08:05 – The REAL Reason Visibility Feels So Uncomfortable Fear of visibility isn’t what you think—it’s deeper (fear of success, money, and responsibility).   10:54 – How to Grow Your Business with Small, Consistent Steps Why “baby steps” beat burnout—and how 1% growth compounds into massive results.   11:04 – Designing a Business That Aligns With Your Life The powerful exercise: defining what you want vs. what you don’t want in your business.   13:48 – Why Your Business MUST Evolve as You Grow Letting go of offers, clients, and models that no longer align—and why that’s a sign of success.   14:40 – Writing a Book While Running a Business (The Reality) The truth about writing, time, energy, and building a long-term authority asset.   16:31 – Blending Logic + Intuition: The Soul-Aligned Business Model How to integrate strategy with spirituality to build a business that feels authentic AND works.   21:34 – The Rise of Partnerships: The Future of Business Growth Why collaboration, ecosystems, and community-based models are the next evolution of business.   23:04 – Podcast Guesting Strategy: How to Build Visibility + Relationships How Camille leveraged 50+ podcast appearances to grow her brand—and why relationships matter more than reach.   25:23 – How to Use Podcasting to Launch and Scale Your Brand Stacking visibility strategically before launches, books, and major business moves.   26:10 – Why Selling Isn’t the Goal (And What Actually Works) The power of authenticity over scripted selling—and how trust drives conversions.   28:23 – Why One Strategy Won’t Build Your Business “There’s no one thing that will make you rich or famous.” The importance of building a full ecosystem.   31:43 – The Biggest Mistake Entrepreneurs Make in Growth Focusing on money over relationships—and why people are the real revenue drivers.   33:40 – When Is the Right Time? Trusting Divine Timing in Business Why your next move (and even your book) will land exactly when it’s meant to.   35:00 – Rapid Fire: Communication Style, Business Lessons & Life Vision Fun insights into Camille’s personality, communication preferences, and future vision.   36:30 – The Power of Surrender, Wisdom & Long-Term Vision Leaning into trust, growth, and the next decade of impact.   37:50 – Final Message: Your Story Has the Power to Change Lives Closing reminder: your voice matters—and your story is meant to be heard.   Transcript: For a full episode transcript, it can be found here. Sharables: For shareable images, quotes, and other social media posts to add some royal sparkle to your socials (with proper tagging and credit, of course), they can be found here.   💕 Say “hi” on social: Communication Queen Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/communicationqueens  Communication Queen Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/communicationqueensagency  Communication QueenTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@communicationqueens  Communication Queen Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/communicationqueens/  Communication Queen Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@communicationqueens    🎙Subscribe + Listen to the Communication Queens Podcast here: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/communication-queen-entrepreneurship-marketing-storytelling/id1718540459  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2ROeliYZG9thhNSMEo8SDx?si=abc7b72eb6274d3b&nd=1&dlsi=fb6df192dfbb4505  Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/8d87938f-bfbc-4dac-a60e-b77b652b344c/communication-queen-entrepreneurship-marketing-storytelling-public-speaking-and-podcasting  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@communicationqueens  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kimberlyspencer.crownyourself/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/realkimspencer  Instagram: https://instagram.com/kimberly.spencer  Linked In: https://linkedin.com/in/kimberlyspencer-crownyourself     AFFILIATE DISCLAIMER: This description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. While this channel may earn minimal sums when the viewer uses the links, the viewer is in NO WAY obligated to use these links. Thanks for your support!   🥰  Loved learning about how to improve your communication skills and get booked on podcast interviews? Listen to this podcast again: https://www.youtube.com/@communicationqueens/podcasts

    39 min
  3. Stop Overthinking and Finish the Damn Book with Susie Schaefer

    Mar 11

    Stop Overthinking and Finish the Damn Book with Susie Schaefer

    You’ve got the idea. The story. The mission. So why haven’t you finished the damn book? In this episode, publishing strategist Susie Schaefer reveals why so many entrepreneurs stall on writing their book—and how to finally turn your story into a powerful authority asset for your brand, business, and impact. If a book has been living in your head for years… this might be your sign.   📚Grab the “Top Books of 2024 to Change Your Life,” the bestseller, multi-gold-medal award-winner, “Make Every Podcast Want You” by Kimberly Spencer. Available now on Amazon: https://amzn.to/42kllur  😎Discover how to get booked on the TOP 5% of podcasts to leverage podcast interviews for lead generation for your business owners, founders, podcasters, and authors. Book your $100K Profit from Guest Podcasting Planning Call here: https://www.communicationqueens.com/get-booked-on-the-top-podcasts   Susie Schaefer is the Founder and CEO of Finish the Book Publishing, where she helps entrepreneurs and thought leaders turn powerful ideas into professionally published books. A lifelong lover of storytelling, Susie believes books are more than stories—they’re catalysts for healing, community, and movement. Through her work, she empowers authors to bring their message to life and use their book as a platform for what she calls “Business Ascension.”   Enjoy, sovereigns!   Listen to the episode on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music, or your other favorite podcast listening platform. You can also watch the episode on Youtube. What You’ll Learn in this Episode: Why most entrepreneurs never finish their book—and how to finally get it done Susie’s “Author Trifecta” framework: Story, Brand, and Community Why marketing your book should start before you even finish writing it How to turn your book into a powerful authority and business growth tool The truth about imposter syndrome and the question every author asks: “Who am I to write this?” How authentic storytelling builds deeper connection than polished “expert” advice Why AI can help structure your book—but should never replace your voice The mindset shift that helps authors move past resistance and finish the damn book Quotes: “Your book isn’t the finish line — it’s the beginning of the movement.” ~ Kimberly Spencer “Your book should align three things: your story, your brand, and your community.” ~ Susie Schaefer “Finishing your book isn’t about selling thousands of copies — it’s about using your message to change someone’s life.” ~ Susie Schaefer Moments of Note: 00:00 — Why So Many Entrepreneurs Never Finish Their Book Kimberly Spencer introduces the episode and asks the big question: why do brilliant leaders with powerful stories struggle to finish writing their book?   01:32 — How Susie Schaefer Became the “Book Doula” for Authors Susie shares her journey from corporate life to helping entrepreneurs and thought leaders publish meaningful nonfiction books.   02:26 — Why Writing a Book Is Like Birthing a Baby Susie explains the “book doula” metaphor and how guiding authors through the publishing process mirrors the emotional journey of birth.   03:02 — The Biggest Book Marketing Mistake Authors Make Why most authors wait too long to start marketing their book—and what to do instead.   04:29 — When Should Authors Start Promoting Their Book? Susie breaks down the ideal timeline for launching a nonfiction book and building anticipation before publication.   05:13 — Why Book Marketing Starts Before Your Book Is Finished How building engagement and community early helps your book succeed once it launches.   06:08 — How Entrepreneurs Should Use a Book as a Business Asset Kimberly explains why a book should support your authority, speaking opportunities, and client pipeline.   08:33 — The Author Trifecta: Story, Brand, and Community Susie introduces her framework for aligning your book with your business mission.   09:52 — Why Selling Books Isn’t the Real ROI for Authors The surprising truth about book sales and why many authors profit from just a few clients.   11:55 — Why Personal Storytelling Makes Books Powerful Kimberly shares why vulnerability and storytelling build stronger connections with readers.   13:49 — Overcoming Imposter Syndrome as an Author Susie discusses the common fears that stop entrepreneurs from sharing their stories.   14:58 — Authenticity in the Age of AI Writing Why authentic human storytelling matters more than ever as AI-generated content grows.   18:49 — How Authors Should (and Shouldn’t) Use AI in Writing Susie explains where AI can support the writing process—and where it shouldn’t replace human voice.   22:32 — The Emotional Resistance That Stops Authors From Finishing Their Book Why writing and editing are the hardest stages of the publishing process.   24:00 — The #1 Thing Authors Need to Finish Their Book Susie shares the powerful truth: most authors simply need permission to finish the damn book.   27:45 — Is Writing a Book an Ego Play or a Mission? A deeper conversation about purpose, ego, and impact when sharing your story publicly.   29:00 — Writing a Book as Personal Growth and Transformation Why writing a book is like running a marathon—it changes who you become in the process.   31:15 — Why Authors Often Write Multiple Books Susie explains why publishing one book often unlocks more stories and ideas.   32:17 — Why Authors Should Invest in a Book Marketing Team The role of PR, marketing, and support teams in successfully launching a book.   35:33 — Final Advice: How to Finally Finish Your Book Susie shares her best advice for entrepreneurs who have a book idea but haven’t started yet.   Transcript: For a full episode transcript,you can find it here Sharables: For shareable images, quotes, and other social media posts to add some royal sparkle to your socials (with proper tagging and credit, of course), they can be found here.   💕 Say “hi” on social:   Communication Queen Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/communicationqueens  Communication Queen Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/communicationqueensagency  Communication QueenTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@communicationqueens  Communication Queen Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/communicationqueens/  Communication Queen Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@communicationqueens    🎙Subscribe + Listen to the Communication Queens Podcast here: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/communication-queen-entrepreneurship-marketing-storytelling/id1718540459  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2ROeliYZG9thhNSMEo8SDx?si=abc7b72eb6274d3b&nd=1&dlsi=fb6df192dfbb4505  Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/8d87938f-bfbc-4dac-a60e-b77b652b344c/communication-queen-entrepreneurship-marketing-storytelling-public-speaking-and-podcasting  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@communicationqueens    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kimberlyspencer.crownyourself/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/realkimspencer  Instagram: https://instagram.com/kimberly.spencer  Linked In: https://linkedin.com/in/kimberlyspencer-crownyourself     AFFILIATE DISCLAIMER: This description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. While this channel may earn minimal sums when the viewer uses the links, the viewer is in NO WAY obligated to use these links. Thanks for your support! 🥰  Loved learning about how to improve your communication skills and get booked on podcast interviews? Listen to this podcast again: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WCE-I1nu3qA&list=PLm4BjuAmP6DvwRPEBpVMJT5UrQoaD_5J8

    38 min
  4. Forgive Without an Apology: The Radical Boundary That Sets You Free with Stacy Rocklein

    Mar 5

    Forgive Without an Apology: The Radical Boundary That Sets You Free with Stacy Rocklein

    What if the apology you’re waiting for never comes?   Relationship mentor Stacy Rocklein joins Kimberly Spencer to reveal why forgiveness—especially without closure—may be the most powerful leadership skill you’ll ever develop. From unexpected publishing chaos to redefining emotional intimacy, this episode explores how vulnerability, boundaries, and radical self-honesty create deeper relationships and lasting impact.   📚Grab the “Top Books of 2024 to Change Your Life,” the bestseller, multi-gold-medal award-winner, “Make Every Podcast Want You” by Kimberly Spencer. Available now on Amazon: https://amzn.to/42kllur    😎Discover how to get booked on the TOP 5% of podcasts to leverage podcast interviews for lead generation for your business owners, founders, podcasters, and authors. Book your $100K Profit from Guest Podcasting Planning Call here: https://www.communicationqueens.com/get-booked-on-the-top-podcasts   Stacy Rocklein is a relationship mentor and author of Forgive Without an Apology: How to Heal, Set Boundaries, and Create Deeper Connections. She has helped hundreds of women heal relationship wounds—many of which develop quietly inside “good enough” marriages that drift into emotional disconnection over time. Married for nearly 30 years and raising three active boys, Stacy understands firsthand how easy it is for ambition, parenting, and busy seasons of life to push relationships to the back burner. Through her work, she helps women repair emotional distance, rebuild intimacy, and create relationships that are not just stable—but deeply connected, joyful, and fulfilling. Her mission is simple: to help people transform “good enough” relationships into exceptional ones—so when the busy seasons of life pass, couples find themselves not as strangers, but as partners excited for the adventures still ahead. Enjoy, sovereigns!   Listen to the episode on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music, or your other favorite podcast listening platform. You can also watch the episode on Youtube. What You’ll Learn in this Episode: How to forgive someone who never apologized—and why waiting for closure can keep you emotionally stuck. Why high-achieving women often struggle with emotional intimacy, especially during busy seasons of career-building and parenting. The difference between a “good enough” marriage and an exceptional relationship, and how emotional disconnection can quietly build over time. How vulnerability strengthens relationships and creates deeper connection, trust, and intimacy. Why forgiveness often begins with self-forgiveness, and how owning your story can unlock powerful personal growth. The truth about writing and marketing a book, including the lessons Stacy learned when her book launched unexpectedly. How authors and entrepreneurs can use storytelling and podcast guesting to grow their audience and impact. Why building strong relationships—personally and professionally—is the real long-term strategy for success. Quotes: “You deserve an apology—hands down. But we can get very stuck waiting for it, and that only harms us.” ~ Stacy Rocklein   “Forgiveness isn’t just about letting go of what hurt you—it’s about repurposing what happened so you can move forward stronger.” ~ Stacy Rocklein   “Your story has the power to save one life. Let your voice be heard.” ~ Kimberly Spencer Moments of Note: 00:00 — What Would You Do If Your Book Launched Without Your Permission? The shocking story behind Stacy Rocklein’s unexpected book launch and the leadership mindset required to handle chaos. 01:55 — Why Write a Book? Turning Failure Into Purpose Stacy shares how a devastating business failure led to the creation of Forgive Without an Apology. 04:45 — The Hidden Pressure High-Achieving Women Face in Business The toxic cycle of achievement, comparison, and worthiness many entrepreneurs struggle with. 06:18 — Starting a Third Career & Rebuilding Confidence The challenge of launching a business after motherhood and leaving the traditional workforce. 07:47 — Author Expectations vs Reality: What Writing a Book Is Really Like 09:34 — Why Most Authors Don’t Make Money From Their Books How books actually work as authority positioning tools for business growth. 11:03 — Redefining Forgiveness: Healing Without an Apology Stacy explains why forgiveness is about personal freedom, not waiting for closure. 13:12 — How Books Build Communities and Grow Your Business Why authors should focus on building communities around their ideas. 15:18 — The Power of Community Building for Authors and Entrepreneurs 16:54 — The Biggest Marketing Challenge Authors Face 18:36 — Podcast Guesting Strategy to Grow Your Book Audience 20:47 — Why Your Personal Story Is Your Biggest Marketing Advantage 22:07 — The Power of Owning Your Story (Even the Hard Parts) Stacy opens up about writing vulnerable stories—including admitting she was once a “mean girl.” 24:34 — How Radical Ownership Can Change the World 25:01 — Parenting, Self-Forgiveness, and Emotional Growth 26:51 — What Stacy Would Do Differently Marketing Her Next Book 29:56 — Why Relationship Building Is the Real Marketing Strategy 32:22 — The Truth About Marketing a Book 33:49 — Why Writing a Book Changes You Personally 34:48 — What’s Next: Emotional Intimacy & Stacy’s Next Book 35:24 — How Vulnerability Creates Deeper Relationships 36:22 — Your Story Has the Power to Change Lives   Transcript: For a full episode transcript, it can be found here. [LINK TO BLOG PAGE] Sharables: For shareable images, quotes, and other social media posts to add some royal sparkle to your socials (with proper tagging and credit, of course), they can be found here.   💕 Say “hi” on social:   Communication Queen Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/communicationqueens  Communication Queen Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/communicationqueensagency  Communication QueenTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@communicationqueens  Communication Queen Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/communicationqueens/  Communication Queen Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@communicationqueens    🎙Subscribe + Listen to the Communication Queens Podcast here: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/communication-queen-entrepreneurship-marketing-storytelling/id1718540459  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2ROeliYZG9thhNSMEo8SDx?si=abc7b72eb6274d3b&nd=1&dlsi=fb6df192dfbb4505  Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/8d87938f-bfbc-4dac-a60e-b77b652b344c/communication-queen-entrepreneurship-marketing-storytelling-public-speaking-and-podcasting  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@communicationqueens    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kimberlyspencer.crownyourself/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/realkimspencer  Instagram: https://instagram.com/kimberly.spencer  Linked In: https://linkedin.com/in/kimberlyspencer-crownyourself     AFFILIATE DISCLAIMER: This description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. While this channel may earn minimal sums when the viewer uses the links, the viewer is in NO WAY obligated to use these links. Thanks for your support! 🥰  Loved learning about how to improve your communication skills and get booked on podcast interviews? Listen to this podcast again: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WCE-I1nu3qA&list=PLm4BjuAmP6DvwRPEBpVMJT5UrQoaD_5J8

    37 min
  5. Writing, Power & the Courage to Be Seen with Amy Vogel

    Jan 6

    Writing, Power & the Courage to Be Seen with Amy Vogel

    What if the reason your book hasn’t been written yet isn’t procrastination—but protection? That quiet nudge that keeps whispering write the book isn’t random. It’s an initiation. In this episode of the Communication Queens Podcast, Kimberly Spencer sits down with author, storyteller, and book doula Amy Vogel to explore what really happens when women stop waiting for permission and start telling the truth of their lives. Amy shares her nonlinear journey—from tech sales to ministry, from certainty to collapse, from faith systems to self-trust—and reveals why writing a book isn’t about having the answers. It’s about being brave enough to live inside the questions. Together, Kimberly and Amy unpack the duality every woman faces when she dares to be seen: too much vs. not enough, creator vs. critic, artist vs. entrepreneur. They explore why books are both sacred art and business assets, why imposter syndrome simply means you’ve entered a bigger room, and why the feeling you’re chasing matters more than bestseller status. This is a conversation about sovereignty, pleasure, power, and storytelling as reclamation. About why your story doesn’t need to be perfect—it needs to be alive. And why the act of writing doesn’t just change readers…it changes you. If you’ve ever felt the pull to write, speak, or share—but hesitated—this episode is your permission slip.   📚Grab the “Top Books of 2024 to Change Your Life,” the bestseller, multi-gold-medal award-winner, “Make Every Podcast Want You” by Kimberly Spencer. Available now on Amazon: https://amzn.to/42kllur    😎Discover how to get booked on the TOP 5% of podcasts to leverage podcast interviews for lead generation for your business owners, founders, podcasters, and authors. Book your $100K Profit from Guest Podcasting Planning Call here: https://www.communicationqueens.com/get-booked-on-the-top-podcasts Amy Vogel is an author, speaker, podcaster, and women’s book coach passionate about helping women reclaim their voices and share their stories with the world.   Connect with Amy Vogel Website: https://www.amywvogel.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amywvogel Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@amywvogel Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/amywvogel LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/amywvogel/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@amyWVOGEL Enjoy, sovereigns!   Listen to the episode on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music, or your other favorite podcast listening platform. You can also watch the episode on Youtube. What You’ll Learn in this Episode: Why you don’t need clarity or confidence before writing your book—and how the act of writing creates both How to reframe imposter syndrome as proof that you’re stepping into a bigger room, not a sign you don’t belong Why women’s stories are inherently powerful and how storytelling becomes an act of sovereignty and leadership The real reason most women get stuck before publishing (hint: it’s not writer’s block—it’s protection) How to balance creativity and business so your book can be both sacred art and a strategic asset Why focusing on how you want to feel matters more than chasing metrics like bestseller status How pleasure, embodiment, and duality fuel creativity—and why reclaiming them is revolutionary for women What it actually takes to market a book authentically without selling your soul or shrinking your voice Why you don’t “have” the story before you start—and how you become the woman who can tell it through the process This episode isn’t just about writing a book.It’s about becoming the woman who no longer waits for permission to be seen. Quotes: “You don’t have enough when you start writing your story. You get the enough as you write it.” - Amy Vogel “Imposter syndrome just means you’re choosing to play in a bigger room.” - Amy Vogel “Our stories are what set us free—but we have to know them first.” - Amy Vogel Moments of Note: 00:00 – Write the Book That’s Been Calling You Why that persistent nudge to write your story won’t go away—and what it’s really asking of you. 02:37 – Meet Amy Vogel: Champion of Women’s Stories Amy’s journey from tech sales to ministry to authorship—and why women’s voices are revolutionary. 05:30 – When Life Implodes and Purpose Emerges How collapse, questioning faith, and losing certainty can become the birthplace of your true work. 07:45 – Living in the Question vs. Chasing the Answer Why clarity doesn’t come first—and how curiosity fuels creative leadership. 09:40 – Why Women Live Many Lives in One Lifetime The feminine cycle of death, rebirth, and reinvention—and how it shapes storytelling. 12:55 – You Don’t Have Enough Yet (And That’s the Point) Why you don’t start writing with confidence—you gain it through the process. 14:20 – Imposter Syndrome Means You’re Playing Bigger Reframing self-doubt as expansion, not inadequacy. 15:45 – The Creative Block That Isn’t Writer’s Block What’s really happening when authors feel “stuck” and how to move through it. 17:30 – The Role of the Guide in Storytelling and Success Why no powerful narrative—or business—happens without support. 19:45 – Books Are Art AND Business The truth about publishing, self-publishing, and why authors must own the business side. 22:10 – Why Sales Numbers Don’t Create Fulfillment Shifting from outcome obsession to impact-driven success. 24:05 – Manifestation, Feeling, and Feminine Metrics Why how you want to feel matters more than bestseller status. 25:55 – Writing One Book a Year: Is It Possible? How diversification, devotion, and process make sustainable publishing achievable. 28:40 – Self-Publishing, Autonomy, and Reclaiming Power Why owning your work is an act of sovereignty. 30:10 – Pleasure as a Creative and Cultural Revolution How enjoyment, desire, and embodiment fuel powerful storytelling. 32:00 – Being Seen Without Shrinking What it really means to let your work—and yourself—be visible. 33:45 – The Book Doula & Birthing Bold Stories Why writing a book is a rite of passage, not a productivity task. 35:20 – Where to Find Amy & Write in Community How to connect with Amy Vogel, her coaching, and the Look for the Yes anthology. 37:15 – Final Reflection: Your Story Saves Lives Why sharing your story creates ripples far beyond you.   Transcript: For a full episode transcript, it can be found here. [LINK TO BLOG PAGE] Sharables: For shareable images, quotes, and other social media posts to add some royal sparkle to your socials (with proper tagging and credit, of course), they can be found here.   💕 Say “hi” on social:   Communication Queen Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/communicationqueens  Communication Queen Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/communicationqueensagency  Communication QueenTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@communicationqueens  Communication Queen Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/communicationqueens/  Communication Queen Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@communicationqueens    🎙Subscribe + Listen to the Communication Queens Podcast here: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/communication-queen-entrepreneurship-marketing-storytelling/id1718540459  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2ROeliYZG9thhNSMEo8SDx?si=abc7b72eb6274d3b&nd=1&dlsi=fb6df192dfbb4505  Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/8d87938f-bfbc-4dac-a60e-b77b652b344c/communication-queen-entrepreneurship-marketing-storytelling-public-speaking-and-podcasting  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@communicationqueens    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kimberlyspencer.crownyourself/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/realkimspencer  Instagram: https://instagram.com/kimberly.spencer  Linked In: https://linkedin.com/in/kimberlyspencer-crownyourself     AFFILIATE DISCLAIMER: This description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. While this channel may earn minimal sums when the viewer uses the links, the viewer is in NO WAY obligated to use these links. Thanks for your support!   🥰  Loved learning about how to improve your communication skills and get booked on podcast interviews? Listen to this podcast again: https://youtu.be/bimPsnxehIw

    38 min
  6. AI-Proof Your Brand: How to Stay Authentic Online with Rachel Lee

    11/18/2025

    AI-Proof Your Brand: How to Stay Authentic Online with Rachel Lee

    What if your brand looked like the real you—not the polished, people-pleasing version you think you “should” be? In this episode of Communication Queen, host Kimberly Spencer sits down with branding badass Rachel Lee, the designer who “speaks fluently in pixels, fonts, and colors,” to unpack what it actually takes to create a visual brand that feels like your soul in 4K. Together, they dive into why so many entrepreneurs feel a 25–50% disconnect between who they are on Zoom and who they appear to be online, and how that gap quietly erodes trust, magnetism, and money. Rachel breaks down her process for translating a client’s quirks, stories, and “weird friend-only facts” into bold, intentional visuals that build instant connection—especially in an era where AI-generated everything is flooding the feed. You’ll hear Rachel share vulnerably about navigating business with debt, declaring bankruptcy, and realizing that the very things she was most insecure about—her baby face, her big joy, her “too much” energy—were actually her most powerful brand assets. If you’ve ever looked at your website or socials and thought, “This is… fine, but it’s not really me,” this episode will give you the permission and strategy to change that. Tune in to learn how to humanize your brand, build real relationships through your content, and show up online like the queen you actually are.   📚Grab the “Top Books of 2024 to Change Your Life,” the bestseller, multi-gold-medal award-winner, “Make Every Podcast Want You” by Kimberly Spencer. Available now on Amazon: https://amzn.to/42kllur    😎Discover how to get booked on the TOP 5% of podcasts to leverage podcast interviews for lead generation for your business owners, founders, podcasters, and authors. Book your $100K Profit from Guest Podcasting Planning Call here: https://www.communicationqueens.com/get-booked-on-the-top-podcasts   Enjoy, sovereigns!   Listen to the episode on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music, or your other favorite podcast listening platform. You can also watch the episode on Youtube. What You’ll Learn in this Episode: In this spicy, soul-baring conversation with branding powerhouse Rachel Lee, you’ll discover: ✨ 1. Why Your Online Brand Only Shows 50–75% of Who You Really Are And how that missing 25–50% is actually your most profitable, trust-building, client-attracting magic. 🎨 2. How to Translate Your Personality Into Visuals (Without Feeling Fake) Rachel breaks down her signature “I speak in pixels, fonts, and colors” method to help you turn your quirks, stories, and real-life energy into a cohesive brand identity. 🤝 3. How to Build a Human-First Brand in an AI-Saturated World Why authenticity is no longer optional—and why your humanity is the competitive advantage robots will never touch. 🧠 4. The Psychology of Miscommunication in Branding How your representational system (visual, auditory, kinesthetic) shapes how you think your brand comes across versus how it actually lands. 💥 5. The Power of Sharing Your “Messy Middle” Why your insecurities, imperfect moments, and lived experiences build more trust than perfectly polished content ever will. 🚀 6. How to Reframe Networking So It Doesn’t Feel Sleazy Rachel’s “I want to like you—give me a reason to” mindset that transforms networking from awkward prospecting into organic relationship-building. 🔥 7. Why Bravery Is a Branding Strategy From bankruptcy to baby-face stereotypes, Rachel reveals how owning your truth can become the foundation of your most magnetic brand. 🌈 8. How to Use Storytelling to Elevate Your Brand Real examples of how random “best friend only” quirks (like selling glitter water as a kid!) become powerful brand hooks that make people remember—and choose—you.   Quotes: “Oftentimes the thing we’re most insecure about is the best asset for our marketing.” – Rachel Lee “I get to say I speak fluently in pixels, fonts and colors.” - Rachel Lee “I’m just a translator at the end of the day—you’re the one with the message.” - Rachel Lee   Links & Additional Resources: Connect with Rachel Lee.   Website: https://www.racheltylee.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/racheltylee/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/racheltylee/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@racheltylee Moments of Note: 00:00 — Welcome to Communication Queen: The Real You vs. The Online You Kimberly opens the episode and introduces branding expert Rachel Lee, setting the stage for a deep dive into authenticity, identity, and visual storytelling. 02:20 — How Rachel “Speaks in Pixels”: The Art of Translating Personality Into Visuals Rachel shares her lifelong journey from art-kid to brand translator, explaining her process of turning client quirks, fears, and desires into fonts, colors, and cohesive identity. 05:48 — Why Your Brand Only Shows 50–75% of Who You Really Are A raw conversation on the disconnect between how entrepreneurs show up online versus in real life—and why that missing 25–50% is where the magic actually lives. 07:40 — The Psychology Behind Miscommunication: When “Fun” Means 10 Different Things Kimberly and Rachel unpack the gap between auditory, visual, and kinesthetic thinkers—and how this impacts brand design. 10:32 — Real Client Story: The Motorcycle-Riding Corporate Culture Consultant Rachel reveals how she turned a client’s unexpected quirks and adventures into a vibrant, meaningful brand identity. 14:05 — Why Your Weirdest Traits Are Your Most Profitable Brand Assets From glitter-water childhood stories to “I’d risk life and limb to pet a dog,” the duo explores how personal quirks create connection and trust. 15:55 — Rachel’s Branding Insecurity: Turning Baby-Face Doubts Into Brand Power Rachel opens up about looking “too young,” masking her personality early in business, and how embracing her energy became her competitive edge. 19:00 — The Perfection Paradigm: Why “Polished” Is Killing Your Brand Trust A powerful discussion on authenticity vs. perfectionism, featuring the Jennifer Lawrence vs. Anne Hathaway media example. 21:40 — Branding in the Age of AI: Why Humanity Is Your Superpower Why AI makes personal branding MORE important, not less—and how to humanize your brand in a world of synthetic content and robot-written posts. 23:56 — Personal Branding ≠ Looking Good: It’s About Controlling Your Narrative Rachel reframes personal branding as intentional storytelling, not curated perfection or superficial aesthetics. 26:30 — The Weight of Responsibility: What Branding Really Is Behind the Scenes Rachel shares how deeply she honors client vulnerability when designing brands that represent their truth. 29:28 — Honesty as Your Marketing Strategy (Especially When You’re Still Becoming) Kimberly and Rachel explore sharing in real time—your growth, your messy middle, your becoming—and how it builds audience connection. 31:55 — Content as a Relationship, Not a Broadcast A heart-centered unpacking of why relationship-driven content builds trust better than polished social media calendars. 35:20 — Living Life Out Loud: Creating Heart Space in Your Social Strategy Why success online isn’t about planning every post—it’s about creating emotional space to share real stories as they happen. 37:55 — The Power of Being Human in a Robotic World Kimberly and Rachel discuss using tools (like AI) without losing your humanity, depth, or relational intuition. 38:52 — Networking Reframed: How to Make New Friends, Not Prospects Rachel’s refreshing reframe: approach networking with curiosity, connection, and humanity—not sales pressure. 42:20 — “I Declared Bankruptcy… and Posted About It”: Radical Transparency in Business Rachel shares her most vulnerable public post ever—and how honesty built deeper trust and transformed her audience relationships. 43:45 — Why People Want to See You in Your Becoming A beautiful reflection on growth, identity, and showing up imperfectly—but truthfully. 45:20 — Where to Find Rachel + Final Mic-Drop Takeaway Rachel shares her favorite platforms and leaves listeners with a powerful reminder: the more human you are, the more future-proof your brand becomes.   Transcript: For a full episode transcript, you can find it here: https://www.communicationqueens.com/blog Sharables: For shareable images, quotes, and other social media posts to add some royal sparkle to your socials (with proper tagging and credit, of course), they can be found here.   💕 Say “hi” on social:   Communication Queen Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/communicationqueens  Communication Queen Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/communicationqueensagency  Communication QueenTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@communicationqueens  Communication Queen Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/communicationqueens/  Communication Queen Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@communicationqueens    🎙Subscribe + Listen to the Communication Queens Podcast here: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/communication-queen-entrepreneurship-marketing-storytelling/id1718540459  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2ROeliYZG9thhNSMEo8SDx?si=abc7b72eb6274d3b&nd=1&dlsi=fb6df192dfbb4505  Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/8d87938f-bfbc-4dac-a60e-b77b652b344c/communication-queen-entrepreneurship-marketing-storytelling-public-speaking-and-podcasting  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@communicationqueens    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kimberlyspencer.crownyourself/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/realkimspencer  Instagram: https://instagram.com/kimberly.spencer  Linked In: 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    48 min
  7. Stop Hiding & Start Speaking: How Authenticity Makes You Magnetic feat. Marianne Hickman

    11/11/2025

    Stop Hiding & Start Speaking: How Authenticity Makes You Magnetic feat. Marianne Hickman

    When was the last time you showed up as your whole self — messy bun, bold dreams, coffee cup in hand — and said, “This is me”? In this episode of The Communication Queen Podcast, host Kimberly Spencer sits down with Marianne Hickman, professional speaker, storytelling coach, and founder of The Elegant Office. Together, they unravel the truth that every Queen in business needs to hear: authenticity isn’t optional — it’s your greatest business strategy. From her journey as a single mom of five on food stamps to becoming a powerhouse on global stages, Marianne reveals how owning your story — every raw, unfiltered, audacious bit of it — builds unshakable trust. Kimberly and Marianne go deep on the “cost of conformity,” how to stop shrinking to fit, and why storytelling that comes from the scars (not the wounds) transforms audiences and careers alike. If you’ve ever felt like your story wasn’t “professional” enough to share, this conversation will shake you awake. Because when you stop performing and start being real, your people don’t just listen — they lean in. 🎧 Tune in and discover how your authenticity can amplify your message, magnetize the right stages, and create transformation every time you speak.   😎Get booked on the TOP 5% of podcasts that can build your brand awareness and your bottom line. Book your $100K Profit from Guest Podcasting Planning Call here: https://www.communicationqueens.com/get-booked-on-the-top-podcasts 📖 Get a copy of Kimberly Spencer’s best-selling book “Make Every Podcast Want You” and boost your brand awareness & scale your business with the power of STORYTELLING and the strategy of PODCAST GUESTING: https://www.communicationqueens.com/book 🦄Join us for our next Podcast Party! Meet other 6 & 7 figure podcast guests, get booked on podcast interviews, and find your soulmate sponsors! https://www.communicationqueens.com/prosperity-purpose-podcasting-party  Want an epic guest for your podcast? Explore our Communication Queen celebrities, and we will support you in getting them booked for your next podcast interview: https://www.communicationqueens.com/our-clients  Enjoy, sovereigns!   Listen to the episode on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music, or your other favorite podcast listening platform. You can also watch the episode on Youtube. What You’ll Learn in this Episode: Authenticity is your superpower. Marianne shares her journey from being a single mom on food stamps to a thriving speaker and entrepreneur. Her success began when she stopped caring about others’ opinions and started showing up as her true self. That radical ownership of her story turned vulnerability into power Authentic storytelling builds trust. The more honest and human you are, the more your audience connects. Marianne’s viral “coffee post” story demonstrates that imperfection is what resonates most—authentic moments create deeper relationships than polished personas Rejection is redirection. Marianne uses her “bottle of water” metaphor to teach that your value doesn’t change based on where you are—only your environment does. If you’re not being valued, you’re simply in the wrong room Tell stories from the scar, not the wound. Both Kimberly and Marianne stress that the most powerful stories are told from a place of healing and ownership, not blame. When you’ve moved from “this happened to me” to “this happened for me,” your message becomes transformational Show up, even when it’s messy. Marianne emphasizes that 80% of success is just showing up—on podcasts, in conversations, on stages. Authentic visibility builds relationships, credibility, and confidence over time Gratitude fuels grounded storytelling. She also shares a personal morning practice: “What if I lost everything I didn’t thank today?” That mindset keeps your message rooted in appreciation and presence, not perfection 🌟 In Short You’ll learn how to: Turn real-life experiences into emotionally resonant stories Build trust through authenticity in your brand and voice Move from fear of judgment to confident self-expression Heal your story so it empowers, not limits, you Use storytelling as both a business and personal growth strategy This episode is a masterclass in authentic storytelling — how to stop performing, start transforming, and let your truth be your stage.   Quotes: “As long as I’m proud of it and can honor it, it takes the power from others and gives it back to me.” - Marianne Hickman “If you’re not finding your value, you’re just in the wrong room — not the wrong story.” - Marianne Hickman “Authenticity isn’t about perfection. It’s about power — the power to be unembarrassable.” - Marianne Hickman   Links & Additional Resources: Connect with Marianne Hickman. Website: https://mariannehickman.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marianne__hickman Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@marianne__hickman Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/349b6bi0HwzT1szt3S40V0?si=dc8acc8fb77e4b0e Mastery Hive Public Speaking Training Program: https://offers.mariannehickman.com/weekly-mastery-hive-call?am_id=kimberly8230   Moments of Note: 00:00 – The Mic-Drop Promise: Never Be Embarrassed Again Marianne Hickman opens the episode with the mantra that changed her life — “I don’t care what you think of me.” Discover how reclaiming your self-worth rewires your confidence and turns embarrassment into empowerment. 01:50 – From Food Stamps to Financial Freedom: The Power of a Story Still Being Written Marianne shares her journey from single mom of five on food stamps to thriving entrepreneur. Learn how “unfinished stories” are actually your strongest brand asset. 03:45 – Authenticity vs. Approval: The Nordstrom Suit Story 👗 A $750 suit, a corporate stage, and one big realization: you can’t buy authenticity. Marianne’s fashion confession turns into a masterclass on personal branding and being yourself on stage and off. 06:50 – The Coffee Post That Changed Everything ☕ When Marianne’s viral “authenticity post” got her called out by a boss — she faced the ultimate test: conform or stay true. This moment became the foundation of her speaking career. 09:45 – The Fear Behind Public Speaking: Rejection or Reflection? Why the #1 fear isn’t public speaking itself — it’s being seen. Marianne and Kimberly unpack how fear of rejection keeps leaders hiding behind personas, and how to reclaim your real voice. 12:40 – “Wrong Room” Wisdom: The Bottle of Water Metaphor 💧 The viral metaphor you didn’t know you needed: why your worth never changes, only your environment does. Learn how to price your value and find the right stages. 15:40 – How to Find the Right Stage for Your Authentic Voice 🎤 Kimberly and Marianne reveal how to identify “aligned stages” — the rooms that celebrate your truth instead of silencing it. 18:00 – Love, Alignment, and Authentic Attraction 💞 Both women get real about relationships, self-love, and attracting aligned opportunities (and partners!) by being your full self. 20:40 – Storytelling Mastery: From Daily Moments to Mic-Drop Messages How to turn everyday experiences into unforgettable stories that build emotional connection, authority, and trust. 27:00 – The Gratitude Shift: What If You Lost Everything You Didn’t Thank? 🙏 Marianne shares a soul-stirring morning routine story that redefines gratitude — and why appreciation is the foundation of a magnetic mindset. 32:00 – Storytelling Timeline: When to Tell the Story (and When to Heal First) The golden rule of storytelling: tell stories from the scar, not the wound. Kimberly and Marianne discuss timing, emotional ownership, and avoiding victim narratives. 37:00 – From Victim to Hero: Taking Radical Ownership of Your Story How to move from blame to breakthrough — in life, business, and speaking. Learn how to transform pain into purpose. 40:00 – The Visibility Strategy: From Podcast Guest to Keynote Speaker Marianne breaks down the roadmap for turning podcast appearances into major speaking opportunities — including her 4-stage framework for growing your visibility. 44:00 – Your Call to Rise: Show Up, Speak Up, Stand Out 👑 Kimberly closes with a powerful reminder: your story can save lives — but only if you tell it. This is your invitation to show up and shine.   Transcript: For a full episode transcript, you can find it here: https://www.communicationqueens.com/blog Sharables: For shareable images, quotes, and other social media posts to add some royal sparkle to your socials (with proper tagging and credit, of course), they can be found here.   💕 Say “hi” on social: Communication Queen Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/communicationqueens  Communication Queen Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/communicationqueensagency  Communication QueenTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@communicationqueens  Communication Queen Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/communicationqueens/  Communication Queen Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@communicationqueens    🎙Subscribe + Listen to the Communication Queens Podcast here: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/communication-queen-entrepreneurship-marketing-storytelling/id1718540459  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2ROeliYZG9thhNSMEo8SDx?si=abc7b72eb6274d3b&nd=1&dlsi=fb6df192dfbb4505  Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/8d87938f-bfbc-4dac-a60e-b77b652b344c/communication-queen-entrepreneurship-marketing-storytelling-public-speaking-and-podcasting  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@communicationqueens    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kimberlyspencer.crownyourself/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/realkimspencer  Instagram: https://instagram.com/kimberly.spencer  Linked I

    46 min
  8. Lifestyle-First Leadership: How to Build a Business That Loves You Back feat. Patty Farmer

    11/04/2025

    Lifestyle-First Leadership: How to Build a Business That Loves You Back feat. Patty Farmer

    Ever built a business that looked great on paper but felt like a full-time fire drill? 👀 Then this episode with marketing maven Patty Farmer is your wake-up call. Host Kimberly Spencer sits down with Patty — an eight-figure entrepreneur, international speaker, and queen of lifestyle-first leadership — to unpack how to build a business that feeds your soul instead of draining your sanity. Patty shares her signature philosophy: before you chase profits, define the life you actually want to live. From her “Grow Your Influence Tree” to her unconventional “sandwich method” for podcast guesting, Patty shows us that sustainable success is never about doing more — it’s about doing right. They dig into: How to design your business around your desired lifestyle, not someone else’s dream. The mindset shift from firefighter to CEO. The micro-shifts that spark quantum leaps. Why reciprocity and contribution are the true engines of long-term visibility. This episode isn’t just another business chat — it’s a manifesto for the bold, heart-led entrepreneur who’s done with burnout and ready to design a legacy that loves them back. ✨ Hit play and learn how to align your vision, visibility, and voice with the life you’re meant to live.   😎Get booked on the TOP 5% of podcasts that can build your brand awareness and your bottom line. Book your $100K Profit from Guest Podcasting Planning Call here: https://www.communicationqueens.com/get-booked-on-the-top-podcasts 📖 Get Kimberly Spencer’s best-selling book and Boost your brand awareness & Scale your business with the power of STORYTELLING and the strategy of PODCAST GUESTING. https://www.communicationqueens.com/book 🦄Join us for our next Podcast Party! Meet other 6 & 7 figure podcast guests, get booked on podcast interviews, and find your soulmate sponsors! https://www.communicationqueens.com/prosperity-purpose-podcasting-party  Want an epic guest for your podcast? Explore our Communication Queen celebrities, and we will support you in getting them booked for your next podcast interview: https://www.communicationqueens.com/our-clients    Enjoy, sovereigns!   Listen to the episode on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music, or your other favorite podcast listening platform. You can also watch the episode on Youtube. What You’ll Learn in this Episode: 💫 1️⃣ Your Business Should Love You Back Patty drops the mic early: “You didn’t become a CEO to put out fires all day.” This episode teaches that your business isn’t meant to own you — it’s meant to serve you. When you design your business around your desired lifestyle, not your to-do list, you build sustainability, joy, and freedom into the foundation. Takeaway:  Start with your life vision first — then reverse-engineer your business strategy to support it. 🌿 2️⃣ The Myth of “Do More to Get More” Patty calls BS on the hustle cult: “You can actually get more and do less — if you do it right.” This flips the entire productivity narrative. It’s not about doing everything — it’s about doing the right things, in alignment with your strengths and brilliance. Takeaway:  Audit your effort-to-results ratio. What tasks feed your purpose? What drains it? Simplify ruthlessly. 🌟 3️⃣ Lead With Contribution, Not Compensation One of the most powerful lessons: “Lead with contribution. Compensation will follow.” Patty’s entire marketing and relationship philosophy is built on reciprocity. When you give first — whether it’s a LinkedIn recommendation, a podcast shout-out, or genuine visibility for others — you open doors that money alone can’t buy. Takeaway:  Shift from “What can I get?” to “How can I serve?” The ROI on generosity is exponential. 🔥 4️⃣ The Three Stages of Business Evolution Patty breaks business into Startup, Scaling, and Legacy — and gives each a unique success metric: Startup: Time > Money. Build foundation. Scaling: Money > Time. Build systems. Legacy: Impact > Income. Build meaning. Takeaway:  Measure your progress not just by profit, but by peace, purpose, and the ripple you’re creating. 💋 5️⃣ Visibility as Relationship Currency From her “Sandwich Method” for podcast guesting to building authentic visibility, Patty shows that success in media isn’t about fame — it’s about relationships. Takeaway:  Every interview, introduction, or post is a potential collaboration — not a one-time transaction. 🌈 6️⃣ Freedom Is the Ultimate Flex At its heart, this episode is a permission slip to stop glorifying grind and start celebrating alignment. Takeaway:  Your joy is not a reward — it’s a requirement. When you lead from joy, you magnetize your audience, clients, and opportunities. 🎧 In short: This episode is your clarity check.  It reminds you to: Redefine success around your soul’s schedule. Measure your ROI in joy, not just dollars. Lead with love, not lack. It’s a whole vibe — strategy meets soul. 💋 Quotes: “You didn’t become a CEO to put out fires all day.” - Patty Farmer “I don’t believe you have to do more to get more. You can do less and get more — if you do it right.” - Patty Farmer “Lead with contribution. Compensation will follow.” - Patty Farmer Links & Additional Resources: Connect with Patty Farmer. Website: https://pattyfarmer.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/pattyfarmer/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/networkingCEO/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/PattyFarmerCEO/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/marketingmediamoney Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/marketing-media-money/id1486122729 Moments of Note: ⏱ 00:00 — The Freedom Filter: Why Lifestyle Comes First  Patty Farmer opens with a truth bomb: not everyone wants yachts and millions — success is personal. Kimberly and Patty discuss why building a business should start with the life you actually want to live. ⏱ 02:00 — Relationships Over Revenue: Patty’s Marketing Philosophy  Patty reveals her secret sauce — focusing on target buyers instead of target markets and leading from lifestyle alignment, not vanity metrics. ⏱ 05:20 — Defining Your Diamond: The Self-Worth Behind Business Dreams  Patty’s “engagement ring” metaphor hits hard: if you’re dreaming small, it’s because you think that’s all you deserve. She teaches how to claim the business — and life — you really want. ⏱ 08:00 — From Busy to Brilliant: Why Doing More Isn’t the Answer  Patty dismantles the hustle myth: “You can get more and do less — if you do it right.” Kimberly explores how to measure results that actually matter. ⏱ 10:00 — The 3 Stages of Business: Startup, Scaling & Legacy  Patty explains the evolution of business and how to ask the right questions at each stage. The duo dives into mindset, money, and meaning. ⏱ 14:30 — Other People’s People: Networking that Builds Legacy  Patty and Kimberly discuss how podcasts, speaking, and collaboration expand your reach through other people’s people. ⏱ 17:30 — Reciprocity Is the New Marketing Currency  Patty breaks down her “LinkedIn Recommendation Strategy” and her famous “Sandwich Method” for podcast guesting — giving first to grow long-term visibility. ⏱ 22:30 — From Podcast Guest to Power Partner  Patty shows how to turn podcast interviews into deeper collaborations and why relationship-building beats one-and-done guesting every time. ⏱ 26:20 — How to Choose the Right Podcasts (and Say No Gracefully)  Patty shares how she evaluates podcast opportunities — not by vanity metrics, but by value alignment and contribution potential. ⏱ 31:00 — The Hidden ROI of Podcasting and Speaking  Kimberly and Patty discuss how visibility leads to relationship-based revenue and the surprising ways small podcasts can yield huge opportunities. ⏱ 36:00 — Micro Shifts, Massive Results: Redefining Over-commitment  Patty shares the life-changing mindset shift that helped her say no without guilt — and how small realignments lead to big results. ⏱ 40:40 — Purpose-Fueled Profit: Patty’s Powerhouse Coffee Project  Patty introduces her newest venture — a coffee brand funding entrepreneurship programs for women in coffee-producing countries. Legacy meets leadership. ⏱ 46:10 — Final Mic Drop: How to Build a Business That Feeds Your Soul  Kimberly and Patty wrap up with a challenge to every entrepreneur: align your business with your joy, your voice, and your purpose.   Transcript: For a full episode transcript, you can find it here. https://www.communicationqueens.com/blog Sharables: For shareable images, quotes, and other social media posts to add some royal sparkle to your socials (with proper tagging and credit, of course), they can be found here. 💕 Say “hi” on social: Communication Queen Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/communicationqueens  Communication Queen Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/communicationqueensagency  Communication QueenTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@communicationqueens  Communication Queen Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/communicationqueens/  Communication Queen Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@communicationqueens    🎙Subscribe + Listen to the Communication Queens Podcast here: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/communication-queen-entrepreneurship-marketing-storytelling/id1718540459  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2ROeliYZG9thhNSMEo8SDx?si=abc7b72eb6274d3b&nd=1&dlsi=fb6df192dfbb4505  Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/8d87938f-bfbc-4dac-a60e-b77b652b344c/communication-queen-entrepreneurship-marketing-storytelling-public-speaking-and-podcasting  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@communicationqueens    Faceb

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Welcome to Communication Queens, the podcast for service-based entrepreneurs, creatives, coaches, and consultants who want to hone their storytelling craft and oratory skillset and leverage podcasting as a form of lead generation. Our mission is to help you get booked on podcast interviews as a guest, share your story in a way that connects, serves, and sells, and ultimately grow your business through the power of podcasting. Each episode, your host Kimberly Spencer, and her guests will share actionable tips and strategies for optimizing your communication skills, crafting compelling stories, and networking with podcast hosts to secure high-value interview opportunities. From live coaching to eliminate any subconscious blocks to your voice or just create more cohesiveness and impact with your story, to interviews with Global Top 100 Podcasters, and 7-figure CEOs, we bring on expert guests from a variety of industries to share their insights and experiences, and to inspire you to take your podcasting game to the next level. Whether you're a seasoned podcast guest or just getting started, Communication Queens is the go-to resource for mastering the art of communication and leveraging podcasting as a lead generation tool. Join us each week as we share our knowledge, expertise, and passion for helping service-based entrepreneurs succeed in the world of podcasting. Subscribe now and let's dive in! Follow us on Youtube @communicationqueens and on Instagram at @communicationqueensagency