The Feminine Outliers

The Feminine Outliers
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Join two globally-minded, culture-curious women as they share the raw, real, and sometimes radical journey of uprooting their lives from the African continent to forge new paths in the US and UK. This isn’t just about immigration, it’s about Self Discovery. Through bold conversations and honest storytelling, they unpack what it truly means to seek sovereignty in identity, womanhood, work, and self-worth despite where you are from or where you are headed. From navigating culture shock to redefining success, love, and belonging,  this is a space for anyone who’s ever questioned the script and dared to live beyond borders.

  1. OCT 25

    Accents, Attitudes and Assumptions

    In this episode of the Feminine Outliers Podcast, we delve into the complexities of accents, attitudes, and assumptions that arise when living abroad or in a multicultural environment. We share personal experiences about cultural misunderstandings and the biases faced due to different accents. The discussion touches on how accents can affect perceptions of intelligence and competence, both in social and professional settings. We also highlight the importance of embracing differences, expanding one's mindset, and being curious about other cultures. Join the conversation and share your thoughts on navigating identity beyond borders. 00:00 Introduction and Initial Thoughts 00:37 Welcome to the Family Lias Podcast 00:58 Accents, Attitudes, and Assumptions 01:52 Experiences with British and American English 03:52 Challenges with Language and Communication 04:46 Navigating Cultural Differences 07:25 Perceptions and Biases in Language 09:37 The Impact of Accents on Perception 11:56 Relatability and Bias in Communication 16:22 Discrimination Based on Speech 23:46 Regional Accents and Stereotypes 26:05 Stories of Immigrant Professionals 27:00 The Importance of Curiosity 27:29 Navigating Conversations as an Introvert 28:03 Respect and Understanding in Communication 28:45 Dealing with Stereotypes and Assumptions 30:45 Challenges of Being a Female Doctor 38:39 Strategies for Addressing Bias 41:24 Embracing Differences and Change 47:34 Conclusion and Call to Action Leave us a comment or question or just say hi :)

    49 min

  2. OCT 11

    None of Us Are Perfect: The Art of Consistency

    In this episode, we dive into 'The Art of Consistency'. Choolwe shares her fitness journey and insights on staying motivated. We discuss the challenges of transitioning our podcast from audio to video, the importance of planning, and how identifying with your goals can keep you on track. We explore how external factors and personal discipline play roles in achieving long-term goals. Whether it's fitness, podcasting, or personal growth, this episode offers valuable insights to help you stay consistent in your endeavours. Tune in and let's explore the journey together!  00:00 Introduction and Personal Milestones 00:48 Welcome to the Feminine Outliers Podcast 01:04 The Art of Consistency 01:24 Challenges and Growth in Podcasting 02:16 Personal Reflections on Fitness 03:13 Consistency in Life and Work 11:38 The Journey of Medical School and Residency 14:32 Perfection vs. Consistency 18:03 Fitness and Discipline 21:28 The Power of Identifying with Your Goals 22:37 The Role of Accountability in Consistency 25:16 Balancing Motivation and Realism 26:12 The Impact of Social Media on Focus 28:02 Creating a Plan to Stay Consistent 28:26 Adapting Goals to Personal Rhythms 32:51 Protecting Your Energy and Willpower 34:14 Practical Tips for Staying on Track 39:22 Final Thoughts and Listener Engagement  Leave us a comment or question or just say hi :)

    41 min

  3. AUG 2

    Why are Westerners Called Expats and Non-Westerners Called Immigrants?

    In this episode we delve into the world of Double Standards that exist in this world especially from the Western and non-Western view points. We tap into our experiences as African women who have experienced some of these double standards. 00:00 Welcome Back to the Feminine Outliers Podcast 02:34 Discussing Double Standards: Western vs Non-Western 03:25 Expat vs Immigrant: A Deep Dive 10:37 Personal Experiences and Observations 19:17 The Power of Labels and Media Narratives 22:40 Media's Negative Portrayal of Non-Western Countries 23:11 Perceptions of America from Abroad 23:39 The Illusion of the Western Dream 24:54 Psychological Impact of Media Narratives 27:42 Questioning the Narrative 29:12 The Power of Marketing and Perception 32:56 Conspiracy Theories and Critical Thinking 35:57 Reflecting on Double Standards 42:33 Conclusion and Call to Action Leave us a comment or question or just say hi :)

    44 min

  4. JUL 26

    The Silent Crisis of Black Women's Health

    Join Zelda and Choolwe as they dive into the multifaceted topic of Black women's health. From physical health issues like vitamin D and iron deficiencies to the emotional and mental health challenges encountered in the western world, this episode explores a wide spectrum of health-related experiences and insights. This engaging conversation also delves into societal pressures, family expectations, and the critical importance of self-care and health advocacy. Tune in to hear personal stories, expert opinions, and valuable advice aimed at empowering Black women to prioritize their well-being. 00:00 Welcome to the Feminine Outliers Podcast 00:42 Introduction to Black Women's Health 01:24 Personal Health Journeys 02:34 Common Health Issues in Black Women 05:01 Exploring the Why Behind Health Trends 10:41 Impact of Hair Products on Health 13:53 Cultural Standards and Health 20:25 Physical Health and Cultural Norms 21:26 Emotional and Mental Health 22:20 Unexpected Hair Store Encounter 22:43 Navigating Social Judgments 23:55 Cultural Adaptation and Stereotypes 27:03 Challenges in Professional Spaces 29:44 Emotional and Mental Health Struggles 31:28 The Importance of Self-Care 34:43 Family Expectations and Stress 42:36 Taking Control of Your Health 45:26 Engage with Us   Leave us a comment or question or just say hi :)

    47 min

  5. JUL 17

    STEM Career But At What Cost?

    In this  episode, Choolwe and Zelda share their experiences as African women in STEM fields working in the western world. They discuss the unique pressures and mental exhaustion that come with high-functioning careers like medicine and engineering, while also highlighting the rewarding aspects of their professions. They delve into the competitive nature of STEM, the importance of compartmentalization to handle stress, and the need for a work-life balance to prevent burnout. They also touch on common misconceptions about STEM careers and emphasize the value of seeking help and embracing growth. This episode aims to motivate students and non-STEM professionals by providing a candid look at both the challenges and the fulfilling moments in STEM careers, offering valuable insights for those considering this path. 00:00 Welcome to the Feminine Outliers Podcast 00:28 Catching Up: Life Updates and Work Experiences 03:16 The Realities of STEM Careers 07:30 Unspoken Truths and Challenges in Medicine and Engineering 12:05 Balancing High-Functioning Careers and Personal Life 23:59 Transitioning from Specialization to Podcasting 25:05 Embracing Failure and Learning New Skills 26:10 Perfectionism and Its Challenges 27:07 Balancing Professional Skills with Creativity 27:36 The Misconceptions of Being Highly Skilled 30:51 The Emotional Detachment in Medicine 39:47 Burnout in High-Stress Professions 44:50 Final Thoughts and Listener Engagement Leave us a comment or question or just say hi :)

    46 min

  6. MAY 20

    To Travel Is To Live!

    Life is about the adventures you take and the memories you make. Join us while we talk about Zelda's recent trip to Japan. Hope this inspires you to travel! Leave us a comment or question or just say hi :)

    46 min

  7. APR 11

    We are back! 2025 Here We Are!

    We are back and we are doing video now. Tune in to learn about what we have been up to and our plans for the podcast.  Leave us a comment or question or just say hi :)

    46 min

  8. 11/25/2024

    How do You Cope with Change?

    Hey Outliers, it has been said that one thing that is constant is change. Its constantly taking place whether we bury our heads in the sand or are willing to look at it straight in the eye. Tune in to learn more about navigating change.  Leave us a comment or question or just say hi :)

    46 min
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Join two globally-minded, culture-curious women as they share the raw, real, and sometimes radical journey of uprooting their lives from the African continent to forge new paths in the US and UK. This isn’t just about immigration, it’s about Self Discovery. Through bold conversations and honest storytelling, they unpack what it truly means to seek sovereignty in identity, womanhood, work, and self-worth despite where you are from or where you are headed. From navigating culture shock to redefining success, love, and belonging,  this is a space for anyone who’s ever questioned the script and dared to live beyond borders.

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  • Creator
    The Feminine Outliers
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2025
  • Episodes
    51
  • Rating
    Clean
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    © 2025 The Feminine Outliers
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