Life as a Patient-Doctor

Dr. Stephanie Moss, MD

Join Dr. Moss, MD (@stephmossmd) a PGY2 Psychiatry Resident who shares her journey navigating life as both a patient and a doctor. This is a platform which aims to share diverse and inspiring stories within the medical community. Through sharing her own lived experience and interviewing other doctors, students, and health care workers, we hope to demonstrate the humanity in medicine. We delve into crucial topics like Disabilities, Mental Health, Sexual Health, trauma-informed care, and the unique experiences of having a marginalized identity in medicine.

  1. Failed USMLE, 2 LOAs, & Matched IM with Mary

    FEB 22

    Failed USMLE, 2 LOAs, & Matched IM with Mary

    Join Mary as she shares her inspiring story of overcoming USMLE failure and two Leaves of Absence to achieve her dream of matching in internal medicine residency. Despite facing the setback of failing the USMLE STEP1, Mary persevered and was still able to secure a match in internal medicine. In this video, she opens up about her medical school journey, including her experience with USMLE step 1, and offers valuable insights and advice for medical students who are preparing for their own residency application. Whether you're looking for tips on how to pass the USMLE or seeking guidance on red flags in the residency match process, Mary's story is a testament to the power of determination and hard work. As a US MD Mary's experience her approach to step 1 prep are particularly noteworthy. If you're a medical student struggling to stay motivated or looking for inspiration to help you pass the USMLE or COMLEX, then this video is for you. Mary's story is a reminder that failure is not the end, and that with the right mindset and strategy, you can still achieve your goals and match into your desired residency program, including internal medicine residency.Let’s Connect: @stephmossmdInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephmossmd/Twitter/X: ⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/medpsymoss⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@stephmossmd?_t=8kS9kVfKjUc&_r=1Listen to Podcast “Life as a Patient-Doctor:Youtube: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLUfheMZYKjA8xJN3_tzjvvCWGn8HKh_Rt&si=erIIirgQyAsEkBR4 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/685WDhQHXulbCmh2siIOp3Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/life-as-a-patient-doctor/id1719637283Follow the Podcast: "Medical School with Dr. Moss"On YouTube: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLUfheMZYKjA-ip9NC0lTu0h-JXVfKkJgI&si=WYPDDc-Y6wGfuYrBOn Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6B3TCtg2nDG5D0OA8myyMn?si=aee899be33c94c00On Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/medical-school-with-dr-moss/id186762016300:00 Guest Introduction02:02 USMLE Failure03:10 Premed & Medical School03:57 COVID & Studying05:04 Failed USMLE & Mental Health07:13 Leave of Absence08:08 Psychiatry & Psychology10:54 USMLE STEP212:04 UWorld Study Strategy13:23 Accommodations?15:29 Residency Application Red Flags18:21 Advice for Future Applicants20:04 Mental Health tips22:25 Summary24:12 You are not Alone#usmle #usmlestep1 #match

    26 min
  2. JAN 25

    I Miscarried at 6 Week

    In this emotional and personal video, I'm sharing my story of miscarriage, which occurred at just 6 weeks into my pregnancy as a doctor with endometriosis. As someone who has experienced the challenges of infertility and the ups and downs of the ivf journey, I want to offer support and solidarity to others who may be going through similar miscarriage struggles. For those trying to conceive, it's essential to know that you're not alone, and that there are many resources available to help you navigate the often difficult road to pregnancy. From pregnancy tips and fertility advice to infertility stories and ivf process explanations, I hope to provide a sense of community and connection for those who are facing pregnancy challenges, especially during the critical first trimester. By speaking out about my 6 week miscarriage, I hope to help break down the stigma surrounding this common experience, and to encourage others to share their own stories of pregnancy, infertility, and the ttc journey. Whether you're currently pregnant, trying to conceive, or simply looking for infertility support and guidance for your friend or family member, I hope that my story will resonate with you and offer some comfort and reassurance that you are not alone.Visit website at https://medpsycmoss.com for transcripts, blog posts, and resources for medical students, health care professionals, and patientsLet’s Connect: @stephmossmdInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephmossmd/Twitter/X: ⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/medpsymoss⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@stephmossmd?_t=8kS9kVfKjUc&_r=1Listen to Podcast “Life as a Patient-Doctor:Youtube: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLUfheMZYKjA8xJN3_tzjvvCWGn8HKh_Rt&si=erIIirgQyAsEkBR4 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/685WDhQHXulbCmh2siIOp3Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/life-as-a-patient-doctor/id1719637283***This episode is for educational purposes only and is not intended nor implied to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. All opinions voiced are the opinions of the speakers and not reflective of any institution. Please follow up with your health provider and therapist for any additional questions or support.*** 00:00 Miscarried at 6 Weeks00:00 Did I misscarry?01:32 The Miscarriage Experience05:37 Emotions of Misscarrying 06:49 Trigger Warning07:16 Mental Health Impact08:02 Support Systems and Community09:48 Patient-Doctor Connection10:32 Reflections 11:57 Coping Strategies12:28 Time off Work in Residency13:19 Doctor Appointment 13:55 Final Requests#mentalhealth #pregnancy #miscarriages

    18 min
  3. JAN 14

    Threatened Miscarriage

    Processing a threatened miscarriage during a first time pregnancy can be a highly emotional and challenging experience, affecting not only the physical health but also the mental health of the individual. For those undergoing infertility struggles or fertility treatments such as ivf, the risk of miscarriage can be particularly daunting, making the journey to parenthood even more stressful. It's essential to acknowledge the importance of miscarriage support and emotional healing during this time, as well as the need for comprehensive reproductive health care from a qualified obgyn or doctor. Women who have experienced infertility struggles and are trying to conceive often face significant emotional hurdles, and a threatened miscarriage can exacerbate these feelings. However, with the right approach to fertility tips and treatments, as well as a strong support system, it's possible to navigate the complexities of early pregnancy and come out stronger on the other side. This video explores the nuances of a threatened miscarriage, offering guidance, advice, and reassurance to those who are going through this difficult experience, and highlighting the importance of miscarriage awareness and the need for ongoing medical care and attention throughout the pregnancy journey. By sharing personal stories and expert insights, we hope to provide a sense of comfort and community to those who are struggling, and to promote a deeper understanding of the physical and emotional aspects of pregnancy, fertility, Let’s Connect: @stephmossmdInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephmossmd/Twitter/X: ⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/medpsymoss⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@stephmossmd?_t=8kS9kVfKjUc&_r=1Listen to Podcast “Life as a Patient-Doctor:Youtube: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLUfheMZYKjA8xJN3_tzjvvCWGn8HKh_Rt&si=erIIirgQyAsEkBR4 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/685WDhQHXulbCmh2siIOp3Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/life-as-a-patient-doctor/id1719637283***This episode is for educational purposes only and is not intended nor implied to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. All opinions voiced are the opinions of the speakers and not reflective of any institution. Please follow up with your health provider and therapist for any additional questions or support.*** 00:00 Introduction and Today's Update01:09 Get to Clinic ASAP03:03 Ultrasound and Emotional Rollercoaster04:26 Consultation with OB GYN06:30 Week 6nSystems Check: Genetics07:12 Prayer & Wishes08:04 Mental Health & Letting Go10:38 Fitness Class12:31 Final Thoughts and Next Steps

    14 min
  4. JAN 11

    Surprise I'm Pregnant!

    Join me as I share my personal journey of becoming a pregnant residency doctor after overcoming infertility with endometriosis, a challenge that many women in medicine face. As a medical student and future physician, I never thought that I would struggle with reproductive health issues such as endometriosis, but it has been a significant part of my story. While preparing for ivf and I am excited to start my pregnancy journey. In this video, I will be discussing my experiences with infertility, ivf, and endometriosis awareness, as well as how I balanced my residency training, including my Psychiatry residency. I hope that my story will inspire and support other women's health advocates and future doctors who may be facing similar challenges. My goal is to raise awareness about the importance of reproductive health and to show that even in the demanding field of medical school and doctor life, it is possible to achieve your dreams and start a family. Tune in to hear more about my journey and the lessons I have learned along the way.Baby Moss Registry: https://www.amazon.com/baby-reg/stephaniejonah-moss-september-2026-highlandpark/2XL8Q1TI6N187 00:00 Unexpected News: I'm Pregnant! 00:32 Intro01:14 My Journey with Infertility03:21 Medicine & Infertility04:50 Identity 05:50 Residency: Glimmer of Hope08:09 Trauma Responses09:13 The Emotional Rollercoaster10:25 Impact of Stress on the Body12:00 Confirming the Pregnancy15:56 Two Weeks of Panic18:43 Mental Health: Depression & Safety Plan20:31 Pre-natal Appointment25:09 Side Effects25:46 Looking Ahead: New Chapters

    29 min
  5. Medical School Finances Exposed

    12/31/2025

    Medical School Finances Exposed

    Are you a pre-med considering a career in medicine and wondering about the financial implications of attending medical school? This video, Medical School Finances Exposed: The Truth About Debt & Income, is designed to provide pre-med advice and shed light on the medical school journey, including the costs associated with studying medicine. We will discuss the importance of saving for mcat & USMLE prep, residency training, and how to navigate the financial aspects of med school life. Whether you are a prospective medical student or already on the path to becoming a doctor, this video aims to offer valuable med school tips and insights into the medical career, including medical education and the reality of credit card debt and student loans for medical students. Our goal is to provide med school motivation and medical school hacks to help you make informed decisions about your medical student life and future career in medicine. By watching this video, you will gain a better understanding of the medical school finances and be able to plan your med school journey with confidence.Associated blog post: https://medpsycmoss.com/blog/finances00:00 Sneak Peak00:55 Introduction02:20 Med School Income05:11 Residency Budget06:42 Financial Trauma10:47 Racial & Cultural Implications 12:57 Cost of Applying to Medical School17:55 Clothing on a Budget19:37 Application Fees22:39 Medical School Financial Tips25:43 Buy, Sell & Donate31:57 Increasing Loans Form35:54 Education Expenses38:08 Additional Resources

    40 min
  6. Medical School Clinical Rotations - 10 Tips

    12/14/2025

    Medical School Clinical Rotations - 10 Tips

    Are you a medical student looking to excel in your clinical rotations and set yourself up for success in medical residency? This video reveals 10 secrets for success in medical school clinical rotations, providing valuable insights and study tips to help you navigate this critical phase of your medical education. From patient care and clinical knowledge to study resources and student wellness, we cover it all. Whether you're a premed student looking for advice or a medical student seeking to improve your clinical experience, this video is for you. We also discuss the importance of surgery shadowing, USMLE Step 2 CK prep, and provide step 2 tips to help you perform well on the exam. Our goal is to provide you with the study strategies and resources you need to succeed in medical school and beyond, including medical rotations and clinical experience. By watching this video, you'll gain a better understanding of what to expect during clinical rotations and how to make the most of this opportunity to gain hands-on experience in patient care and develop your clinical skills. So, if you're ready to take your medical education to the next level and achieve success in your clinical rotations, watch this video now and start learning the secrets to success in medical school. On this blog post: https://medpsycmoss.com/blog/clinical-rotations 00:00 Sneak Peak01:40 Introduction & Overview03:15 Lesson 1: Setting Expectations07:06 Lesson 2: Your Patient11:32 "Unprofessional"12:12 Lesson 3: Time Management14:37 Being Observed 16:31 Going Back17:37 Role of a medical student18:44 Medical Knowledge Fallacy21:23 Lesson 4: Group Rounds Etiquette22:45 Imposter Syndrome25:36 Lesson 5: Completing Your Notes29:18 Lesson Six: Embrace Your Role as a Student31:55 The Importance of Having a Plan33:09 Online Med Ed and Other Study Tools35:31 Lesson Seven: Understanding Multidisciplinary Teams38:30 Lesson Eight: Admitting When You Don't Know41:13 Lesson Nine: Seeking and Handling Feedback44:11 How to Give Feedback45:29 Preparing for Feedback48:31 Lesson Ten: Role as a Student49:03 Summary: 10 Rules for M353:59 Summary

    55 min
  7. USMLE STEP3 Fail to Pass

    11/11/2025

    USMLE STEP3 Fail to Pass

    In this video, I share my personal journey of how I went from failing to passing the USMLE Step 3 exam, a crucial step for medical students in the United States. As a med student, I understand the struggles of navigating the USMLE series, which includes USMLE Step 1, USMLE Step 2, and finally, the USMLE Step 3. My experience with the USMLE step 2 exam also played a significant role in preparing me for the challenges of the step 3 exam. After failing my first attempt, I had to reassess my study strategy and find high yield USMLE resources that would help me improve my knowledge and performance. Through dedication and the right guidance, I was able to turn my failure into a passing score, and I'm excited to share my story with fellow medical students who may be going through a similar experience. Whether you're looking for a complete guide to USMLE preparation or simply seeking motivation and advice from someone who has been in your shoes, this video is for you. I'll be discussing my approach to USMLE preparation, including the resources I used and the strategies that worked for me, in the hopes that it will help you achieve your goal of passing the USMLE Step 3 exam and becoming a successful medical professional. Blog Post on STEP3 Tips: https://medpsycmoss.com/blog/step3-failure 00:00 Score Report Reveal 01:45 Welcome & Introduction 03:47 Emotional Impact of Failing Exams 05:17 Taking Time to Mentally Reset 06:11 Study Strategy and CCS Cases 12:20 Biostatistics and Practice Tests 14:23 Uworld Questions 15:57 Devine Podcast Resources 17:50 Practice Exams 21:04 Final Thoughts

    24 min

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Join Dr. Moss, MD (@stephmossmd) a PGY2 Psychiatry Resident who shares her journey navigating life as both a patient and a doctor. This is a platform which aims to share diverse and inspiring stories within the medical community. Through sharing her own lived experience and interviewing other doctors, students, and health care workers, we hope to demonstrate the humanity in medicine. We delve into crucial topics like Disabilities, Mental Health, Sexual Health, trauma-informed care, and the unique experiences of having a marginalized identity in medicine.