Life with the Polites

Marriage Relationships & Love

The Ministry of Life with the Polites believes that; ·         Relationships are Sacred, ·         Relationships are Powerful. ·         They are powerful regardless of the path taken! We believe in growing together while enduring the learning process and embracing the journey of having a successful relationship rooted in principles that honor God. The beauty of, ‘Marriage Relationship and Love’, is the essence of what Life with the Polites is about. In Each Episode, Lady and Pastor Polite share profound messages designed to offer invaluable Marriage advice and Relationship counseling for people seeking answers.  These answers are rooted in Christian principles and our messages are a beacon of guidance for cultivating enduring love within the sacred institution of Christian marriage.  So, join our discussions for insightful Marriage tips and Relationship advice, tailored to strengthen and nurture your relationships. Be prepared to embrace the learning process and relish each moment as a stepping stone towards a fulfilling and enriched relationship founded on love and faith.   Make Sure To Subscribe  ·         Email us @: tolikm@verizon.net ·         Our Website: www.tolikm.com ·         Follow and Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCaRYLXSpjebGhnd52-UlhjQ Life with the Polites is a Marriage, Relationship & Love ministry birthed out of the Tree of Life International Kingdom Ministries (TOLIKM). 

  1. Oct 23

    Not Everyone Who Wants You Loves You

    In this episode, "Not Everyone Who Wants You Loves You" of Life With The Polites - Marriage, Relationships, and Love (MRL), Mr. Polite and Lady Polite explore an important truth about some relationships. Sometimes, people desire your attention, affection, loyalty, support, or what you bring into their lives without genuinely valuing you as a person. Through an honest, faith-centered conversation, the Polites examine the difference between genuine love and self-interest, challenging us to look beyond what others do and reflect on our own hearts, motives, and actions. What does real love look like? How can we recognize the difference between someone who values us and someone who values what we provide? And are we willing to examine ourselves before pointing fingers at others? In this episode, they discuss: Love vs. self-interest: Understanding the difference between loving someone and loving the benefits they bring.Recognizing genuine love: Why respect, honesty, accountability, and sacrifice matter more than attention alone.Faith and relationships: Seeing others through God's eyes and applying biblical principles to our relationships.Self-reflection and spiritual growth: Examining our own motives, attitudes, and the fruit of the Spirit.The power of hard conversations: How honest communication can bring understanding, healing, and transformation.Building healthier relationships: Learning to value people for who they are rather than what they can do for us.#LifeWithThePolites #ChristianRelationships #truelove  Send us Fan Mail You Can Connect With Us Email us:  thetolikm@gmail.com   Website: www.tolikm.com Follow and Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCaRYLXSpjebGhnd52-UlhjQ

  2. 12/23/2025

    Let's Talk about Sex - Who Are Life with the Polites

    In this powerful and transparent episode of Life with the Polites, we tackle a topic many avoid, but everyone is affected by: sex, intimacy, and covenant. This conversation, “Let’s Talk About Sex – Life with the Polites,” goes far beyond the surface. We break down the critical difference between sex and cleaving, and why God’s divine order for relationships still matters—especially in today’s culture. From biblical foundations to real-life application, this episode challenges cultural norms while extending grace, truth, and understanding. We discuss: The difference between sex and covenant (cleaving)How God’s divine will in relationships can supersede culture and even legal definitionsWhy many relationships fall apart when intimacy exists without covenantHow past sexual connections can affect present marriagesThe importance of communication, compassion, respect, and emotional safety before intimacyWhy sex should never replace honest conversation or healingHow intimacy involves spiritual, emotional, and physical exchangeThe dangers of using sex as a coping mechanism instead of building unity, and moreThis episode is not about condemnation. It’s about clarity, growth, healing, and alignment with God’s design. Whether you’re married, dating, engaged, single, or healing from past relationships, this conversation offers wisdom, balance, and hope. “Let’s stop talking about sex alone and start talking about cleaving, covenant, and God’s purpose in relationships.” Watch with an open heart. Listen with discernment. Grow with intention. Send us Fan Mail You Can Connect With Us Email us:  thetolikm@gmail.com   Website: www.tolikm.com Follow and Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCaRYLXSpjebGhnd52-UlhjQ

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The Ministry of Life with the Polites believes that; ·         Relationships are Sacred, ·         Relationships are Powerful. ·         They are powerful regardless of the path taken! We believe in growing together while enduring the learning process and embracing the journey of having a successful relationship rooted in principles that honor God. The beauty of, ‘Marriage Relationship and Love’, is the essence of what Life with the Polites is about. In Each Episode, Lady and Pastor Polite share profound messages designed to offer invaluable Marriage advice and Relationship counseling for people seeking answers.  These answers are rooted in Christian principles and our messages are a beacon of guidance for cultivating enduring love within the sacred institution of Christian marriage.  So, join our discussions for insightful Marriage tips and Relationship advice, tailored to strengthen and nurture your relationships. Be prepared to embrace the learning process and relish each moment as a stepping stone towards a fulfilling and enriched relationship founded on love and faith.   Make Sure To Subscribe  ·         Email us @: tolikm@verizon.net ·         Our Website: www.tolikm.com ·         Follow and Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCaRYLXSpjebGhnd52-UlhjQ Life with the Polites is a Marriage, Relationship & Love ministry birthed out of the Tree of Life International Kingdom Ministries (TOLIKM).