Your Inner Advocate

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Welcome to Your Inner Advocate, a podcast by Kimen Petersen — formerly Conversations with Kimen. This podcast is a space for inspiration, soulful insights, and meaningful life lessons. Your host, Kimen Petersen, draws from personal stories and powerful conversations with remarkable people to help illuminate your path. These episodes reflect his lived experiences and thoughtful perspectives, all aimed at encouraging you to live with greater authenticity, joy, and ease. Your Inner Advocate is here to help you tune in, trust your inner wisdom, and move through life with more clarity, flow, and fulfillment. All wisdom shared are Kimen’s personal opinions, not his professional opinions

  1. 2d ago

    Episode 223: You Can't Go Back. But, You Can Go Forward Wiser.

    Episode 223: You Can't Go Back. But, You Can Go Forward Wiser.   If you could go back — knowing what you know now — what would you do differently? In this episode, Kimen Petersen explores the weight of regret and the difference between wishing you'd made different choices and wishing you'd lived a different life. He argues that every mistake, wrong turn, and painful lesson helped shape the person you are today, and that attacking your younger self is attacking the very person who got you here. Kimen introduces the "Story, Not the Sentence" framework — a five-step process for reframing your past: Tell the truth — acknowledge what happened without sugarcoating or spiralling into regret. Separate the event from your identity — "I made a mistake" is not "I am a mistake." Ask what it gave you — what strength, boundary, or wisdom came from what you went through? Turn the lesson forward — don't just understand the past; use it to change your future behaviour. Release the punishment — stop sentencing yourself for a lesson you've already learned. The episode closes with a powerful meditation: imagine sitting beside your younger self, not to judge or correct them, but to thank them for getting you here. Kimen paints the image of dropping armour along a cobblestone road — letting go of the protective weight of past pain — and reminds listeners that the next page of their story hasn't been written yet. You are the author now.

  2. Oct 21

    Episode 222: The Real Flex: Being Grateful for What Didn't Work Out

    Episode 222: The Real Flex: Being Grateful for What Didn't Work Out   Most of us know how to be grateful when life goes our way — the job, the relationship, the diagnosis that comes back negative. But in this episode, Kimen Petersen flips the question: How grateful are you when it doesn't work? Kimen makes the case that the real measure of growth isn't gratitude for the gifts you received, but gratitude for the doors that closed, the people who left, and the dreams that never happened. He shares a personal story of burning out at a high-stress job, landing in the hospital, and walking away into the unknown — only to discover a career he's genuinely passionate about. He then lays out a practical five-step framework called the "Gratitude for Everything" process: name what happened, feel it fully, ask better questions, find the forward motion, and thank the version of yourself who kept going. The core message: pain isn't the gift, and gratitude isn't about pretending everything was fine. It's about refusing to let the pain have the final word — and recognizing that the detours, rejections, and failures were shaping you into someone you couldn't have become without them. As Kimen puts it: You don't need every chapter to be beautiful. You need to keep becoming.

  3. Oct 15

    Episode 221: Want an Extraordinary Life? Get Comfortable Being Misunderstood.

    Episode 221: Want an Extraordinary Life? Get Comfortable Being Misunderstood. What if the life you're trying to build requires you to be misunderstood — not for a day, but for years? In this episode of Your Inner Advocate, Kimen Petersen unpacks the uncomfortable truth behind pursuing something extraordinary: you cannot build an extraordinary life while requiring ordinary levels of approval. Kimen explores why our innate need to be understood can become the very thing that holds us back, how the pursuit of validation disguised as goal-chasing keeps people stuck, and why the work that matters most often produces almost no immediate reward. He shares a personal story about going back to school despite a chorus of "reasonable" objections, and breaks down the psychology of applause — how dependence on external reinforcement quietly shifts you from chasing a goal to chasing the feeling of being validated for chasing it. The episode introduces a practical five-part "Keep Going" framework: Know your why — your reason carries you when excitement fades Expect to be misunderstood — build doubt and silence into the journey Detach from applause — celebrate yourself and track your own progress Redefine failure — ask what it taught you, not what it says about you Keep your enthusiasm alive — protect your curiosity and maximize recovery Throughout, Kimen challenges listeners to stop treating setbacks as verdicts, stop confusing silence with failure, and stop waiting for permission. The core message: you don't need everyone to believe in you — you need to stop abandoning yourself when you don't. Your story continues every time you choose to take another step.

  4. Oct 10

    Episode 220: Resilience - The Quiet Trust That Gets You Through Anything

    Episode 220: Resilience - The Quiet Trust That Gets You Through Anything We've been sold a myth about resilience — that it belongs to the unbreakable, the people who never stumble, never cry, and never ask for help. In this episode, Kimen Petersen dismantles that myth and offers a radically different definition: resilience isn't about being unbreakable. It's about knowing that when you do break, you're not finished. Drawing from his own experience working in the remote oil and exploration industry — where isolation slowly eroded his friendships, relationships, and sense of self — Kimen shares the turning point that taught him you can't carry everything alone. He introduces a powerful reframe: resilience as trust. Not trust that everything will work out, but trust that you will keep meeting life as it unfolds and refuse to abandon yourself in the process. The episode walks through the Five Rs of Rising Again — a practical resilience framework: Recognize — tell the truth about what's happening without shame Regulate — calm your nervous system before making decisions Reframe — ask what this experience is teaching you Rebuild — one small, ordinary, faithful action at a time Rise — eventually, you notice you're dreaming again Kimen also challenges the popular phrase "bounce back," arguing that healing doesn't mean returning to who you were. Sometimes it means becoming someone you couldn't have imagined without the experience you went through. He explores why resilience is never isolation — that community, connection, and the willingness to say "Can you sit with me?" are not signs of weakness but of humanity. The episode closes with a message for anyone in the middle of something hard right now: you don't need to be fearless, positive, or unbreakable. You just need to stay connected to the part of you that knows, "This will not be the end of me."

  5. Oct 6

    Episode 219: Be Kind: It Matters More Than You Think!

    Episode 219: Be Kind: It Matters More Than You Think! In this episode of Your Inner Advocate, Kimen Petersen makes a passionate case that kindness is not a soft, optional add-on to life — it's one of the most powerful things we can offer another human being. Drawing on a deeply personal story of feeling invisible at a party and being tracked down by someone who noticed his absence, Kimen illustrates how the smallest gesture — a compliment, a smile, a "keep going" — can be priceless to the person receiving it. He explores the inner world people hide behind their everyday composure, reminding us that we never truly know what someone is carrying. From there, he challenges listeners to stop keeping kind thoughts inside their heads and start saying them out loud, introducing the practical "Say It Challenge" — notice something good, say it specifically, expect nothing in return, and repeat it daily. The episode also weaves in a short story called The Smile, about how a single act of morning kindness rippled through the day and returned right when it was needed most. Kimen extends the message to supporting other people's dreams — not by understanding or sharing them, but by simply saying, "What if it does work?" — and closes with an invitation to be intentional: walk into rooms asking not what you can get, but what you can give. A moving, practical, and deeply human episode about choosing kindness — not out of weakness, but out of strength.

  6. Oct 3

    Episode 218: What If You’re Someone’s Inspiration and You Don’t Even Know It?

    Episode 218: What If You’re Someone’s Inspiration and You Don’t Even Know It? What if the person you're hardest on is someone else's inspiration? In this episode, Kimen Petersen explores the gap between how we see ourselves and how others actually perceive us. We replay every failure, notice every missed opportunity, and let our inner critic narrate the story — but the people watching us see resilience, kindness, and courage we barely register in ourselves. Kimen shares personal stories — including finishing a marathon he couldn't feel proud of and the moment someone he deeply admires said they wished they could be more like him — to show how thoroughly we can misjudge our own impact. He then walks through a practical four-step framework: Catch the inner critic — notice the language without accepting it as truth Separate growth from self-rejection — self-improvement should be an act of love, not self-hatred Keep a proof file — write down daily evidence of character, not just accomplishments Ask better questions — shift from "Why am I not further ahead?" to "Who am I becoming?"

  7. Sep 29

    Episode 217: You Matter More Than You Realize — Even When You Think Nobody Notices

    Episode 217: You Matter More Than You Realize — Even When You Think Nobody Notices What happens when you become so good at functioning that you forget how to live? In this deeply personal episode, the host explores the quiet struggle of feeling invisible — to others and to yourself — and offers two powerful reframes: stop measuring your worth by your output, and stop needing to see the whole future to believe there is one. Sharing a raw story about disappearing from a room full of people without anyone noticing, the episode moves into five reminders for when life gets heavy, a thought experiment about meeting your future self, and three concrete actions to start treating yourself like you matter. This isn't a motivational speech — it's an invitation to sit down, take a breath, and listen to your own internal advocate.

  8. Sep 26

    Episode 216: You Can Be Unfinished and Extraordinary

    Episode 216: You Can Be Unfinished and Extraordinary his episode of Your Inner Advocate with Kimen Petersen challenges the way we measure our own progress. We tend to fixate on the gap between where we are and where we want to be — the "trap of 'not yet'" — using our future goals as evidence that our present isn't good enough. But as Kimen points out, we're often living inside the answers to our own old prayers, normalizing progress that once felt impossible and forgetting the mountains we've already climbed. The episode walks through five practical steps: look back to recognize your progress, name the evidence of your growth, stop moving the finish line, keep the next step small, and trust the power of repetition. Along the way, Kimen shares personal stories — from job-hopping to building a purpose-driven career, from surviving depression to running marathons — and offers a reframe: the delay isn't denial, and you don't have to microwave a masterpiece. The core message: you can want more without believing you are less. Ambition and self-compassion aren't opposites — they're partners. You're not a finished product; you're a living process. And your younger self would likely be amazed at who you've already become.

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Welcome to Your Inner Advocate, a podcast by Kimen Petersen — formerly Conversations with Kimen. This podcast is a space for inspiration, soulful insights, and meaningful life lessons. Your host, Kimen Petersen, draws from personal stories and powerful conversations with remarkable people to help illuminate your path. These episodes reflect his lived experiences and thoughtful perspectives, all aimed at encouraging you to live with greater authenticity, joy, and ease. Your Inner Advocate is here to help you tune in, trust your inner wisdom, and move through life with more clarity, flow, and fulfillment. All wisdom shared are Kimen’s personal opinions, not his professional opinions

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  • Creator
    Kimen Petersen
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    100
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    Clean
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