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  1. What "Six Days" Actually Means

    2H AGO

    What "Six Days" Actually Means

    This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit groundeddaily.substack.com Night 21. First of the odd nights. Go all in from here. We’ve been over this — Laylatul Qadr is greater than a thousand months. Greater than 83 years. Most of us won’t even live to see 83. And yet Allah is handing us this, every single year, completely free. One night of worship worth more than a lifetime. Don’t let it pass. The Trap of Being Born Into It We stopped last night at the people of Jahannam begging for water. Not a glass — just the overflow. The spillover from the cups of the people of Jannah. Just whatever drips from the abundance that Allah has given them. And the people of Jannah are told: it’s haram. Nothing from Jannah reaches those who took their religion as entertainment, treated it like a game, and were completely deluded by the life of this dunya. This ayah made me pause. Because if I’m honest, this description can creep up on any of us — especially those of us who were born Muslim. Think about it. Most of us didn’t make an active decision to be Muslim. We didn’t wake up one day, study the options, and choose Islam. We were born into it. The guidance was handed to us without us having to do anything to earn it. And because it was given for free, we sometimes treat it that way. The attitude becomes: yeah, I’m Muslim, what’s the worst that can happen? I’ll burn in Jahannam for a few thousand years and eventually get to Jannah anyway. There’s a story — I can’t verify the chain on this one, so take it as it is — apparently Muhammad Ali would light a match and put his finger through the flame whenever he felt tempted to do something haram. Just to remind himself: if you can’t take this heat, what about the fire of the akhirah? He would talk himself out of it right there. Now that might sound dramatic, but the logic is sound. Imam al-Ghazali addressed exactly this problem — that we inherit our religion, we grow up with it, and we stop thinking seriously about it. We don’t study our aqidah with the weight it deserves. We don’t appreciate who our Lord is. We assume rather than know. Some people say: don’t ask too many questions about your religion, it’ll make you doubt. Imam al-Ghazali disagreed. He said doubt is actually useful — because when you doubt, you seek answers. And there are always answers in this deen. Our scholars have spent centuries engaging with every objection from every angle. The answers are there. You just have to find them. The problem is not doubt. The problem is sitting in doubt without seeking. Following along? A paid subscription includes a free digital copy of the Surah Al-A’raf Study Guide and Workbook. A Book With No Room for Doubt Allah says: We have sent down to them a book, explained with knowledge — meaning certainty. No doubt in it. In the study of usul al-fiqh, knowledge (ilm) is defined as that which reaches the level of absolute certainty — 100%. Below it you have zhan (probability, around 75%), then shukk (50-50), then waham (25%), then nothing. Ilm is the highest level — no room for doubt. And this book operates at that level. Allah is saying: We gave them the tools. The argument was complete. There is no excuse. One small thing from this ayah that I want to highlight. Allah says this book is guidance and mercy lil ladhina yu’minun— for those who are in the process of believing. Not lil mu’minin, not for the confirmed believers. The verb form rather than the noun form. Why does that matter? In Arabic, a noun is stronger than a verb. If I say someone is reading, that just describes what they’re doing right now. If I say someone is a reader, that tells you who they are. So when Allah uses the verb form here — yu’minun, those who are believing — He is saying: even if you’re not there yet, even if you’re still on your way, still trying, still working to get to iman — this book will be clear to you. You don’t have to have arrived to see it. You just have to be making the journey honestly. This Quran is not a book for passive consumption. It’s not like opening a novel at page one and following the story. It jumps. It shifts. Surah al-Fatiha, then straight into Baqarah which changes topic to topic. It demands that you think. Allah literally asks: afala yatadabbarun al-Quran — why don’t you do tadabbur of the Quran? It’s a book that rewards effort. When you start to dig, you start to see the coherence — and when the coherence becomes apparent to you, SubhanAllah, you realise this could not have come from a human being.

    13 min
  2. Tajweed Tuesday

    14H AGO

    Tajweed Tuesday

    Opening Reminder: The Last 10 Nights of Ramadan Tonight marks the 21st night of Ramadan — one of the odd nights in which Laylatul Qadr may fall. The Prophet ﷺ urged us to seek it in the last ten nights. Allah describes it as a single night greater than a thousand months — more than 83 years of worship. The minimum we should commit to: praying Isha and Fajr in congregation every night of these last ten. The Prophet ﷺ said whoever does so receives the reward of praying the entire night. If you can’t get to the masjid, pray with a family member. Make extra effort with additional rakaat, Quran, and dua. Sayyidatuna Aisha asked what to say if she encountered Laylatul Qadr, and the Prophet ﷺ taught her: Allahumma innaka ’afuwwun tuhibbul ‘afwa fa’fu ’anni — “Oh Allah, You are the Pardoner and You love to pardon, so pardon me.” The aim: to exit Ramadan free from sins, as though born anew. Tajweed Breakdown: Ayah 20, Surah Al-Muzammil This is the final ayah of the surah — a lengthy one spanning half a page. Key rules covered include: The letter ’Ain — produced from the middle of the throat with partial constriction. It flows, unlike a full glottal stop. Qalqalah — a bouncing sound applied to the five letters (qaaf, taa, baa, jiim, daal) when they carry sukun. Avoid bouncing non-qalqalah letters. Noon Sakinah and Tanween rules throughout the ayah: ∙ Ikhfa (partial merging) — when noon sakinah meets letters outside the yarmaloon and idhar groups (e.g., noon before thaa, taa, sin, faa). Keep the back of the tongue flat when the following letter is light. ∙ Idgham (full merging) — when noon sakinah meets a yarmaloon letter. Read with gunnah for ya, nun, mim, and waw. No gunnah for laam and raa. ∙ Idhar (clear pronunciation) — when tanween is perfectly aligned, or noon sakinah carries a sukun sign before a throat letter. No gunnah, no merging. Identifying tanween type: A perfectly aligned (stacked) tanween indicates idhar. An unaligned (offset) tanween indicates merging (idgham). Mim sakinah before mim — idgham mutamathilain, read with gunnah. Madd rules: Madd asli (natural prolongation, two harakat) applies throughout. Madd badal appears in several places but operates under madd asli rules in this reading. Madd ’arid lil-sukun (two, four, or six harakat) applies when stopping at the end of a word — keep it consistent throughout. Lafzul Jalalah (the name “Allah”): The laam is read heavy when preceded by fathah or dhammah, and light when preceded by kasrah. Pronunciation reminders: ∙ The letter haa at the end of a word must still be subtly pronounced, not swallowed. ∙ Kaaf carries a slight exhaled breath when stopping on it. ∙ Laam is produced from the sides of the tongue against the upper molars, not the tip. Closing: The full ayah was recited together. This completes the reading of Surah Al-Muzammil, built up week by week across the series. A reminder to make extra dua in these final nights. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit groundeddaily.substack.com/subscribe

    21 min
  3. Night 20: How Do We Enter Jannah?

    1D AGO

    Night 20: How Do We Enter Jannah?

    This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit groundeddaily.substack.com Following along? A paid subscription includes the Surah Al-A’raf Study Guide and Workbook. Grounded is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. The last ten have begun. Taharaw laylatal qadr fil ashril awakhir min Ramadan. Hunt for Laylatul Qadr in the last ten nights of Ramadan. Here’s why this gift exists. The Prophet ﷺ once told the companions about a man from the Banu Israel who worshipped Allah for 80 years straight. Not 80 years of regular life with some ibadah mixed in. 80 years of dedicated, committed worship. The companions were jealous — and honestly, who wouldn’t be? We live 60, maybe 70 years. The Prophet ﷺ himself said the age of his ummah is between 60 and 70, and very few go beyond that. And yes, there are billionaires today spending fortunes trying to extend human life to 120, 130 — but biologists will tell you that quality of life drops significantly past a certain point, no matter how much money you throw at it. That’s just how the body is built. So the companions asked: Ya Rasulullah, how do we compete with people who had 80 years to worship Allah when we barely get 60? And then Allah revealed an entire surah — Surah Al-Qadr — answering that question. The night of Al-Qadr is greater than a thousand months. Not equal to. Greater than. 1,000 months is 83 years. And Allah didn’t say you get this once. You get it every single year. Think about that. If you start taking your deen seriously at the age of 10 and you live to 70 — that’s 60 Ramadans. 60 Laylatul Qadrs. 60 opportunities where one night of ibadah is worth more than 83 years of continuous worship. In terms of quality of ibadah, how old are you really? That is the gift Allah gave the Ummah of Muhammad ﷺ. So don’t let any of these ten nights pass you without something in it. The absolute minimum — and none of us should drop below this — is to pray Isha in jama’ah and pray Fajr in jama’ah. Just those two. The Prophet ﷺ said whoever does that, Allah writes for them the reward of praying the entire night. Imagine praying the entire night. Now imagine that night is Laylatul Qadr. Do it every night for these ten nights and insha’Allah you will not miss it. Beyond that — pray your sunnah, do taraweeh, read some Quran when you get home, wake up a few minutes before suhur and make dua. For the sisters who can’t pray right now — you are not left out. Your dua is the same. Your dhikr is the same. Sayyidah Aisha RA asked the Prophet ﷺ what to say on Laylatul Qadr: Allahumma innaka afuwwun tuhibbul afwa fa’fu anni. O Allah, You are the Most Forgiving, You love to forgive, so forgive me. That’s the dua. Fill these nights with it. The People of the Heights — And What Their Story Tells Us We stopped last night at the Ashab al-A’raf — the people standing on the elevated ground between Jannah and Jahannam, neither here nor there, their good and bad deeds perfectly balanced at 50-50. From their vantage point on the heights, they can see both destinations. And here’s a detail I want you to sit with: the ayah says wa idha surifat absaruhum — when their gaze was turned towards the people of fire. They didn’t choose to look. Allah turned their eyes. Given the choice, if you’re standing on the A’raf and Jannah is right there on one side — you know exactly where you’re going to keep your attention. You’re not voluntarily turning to look at Jahannam. But Allah turns their gaze. And the moment they see the punishment the people of fire are enduring, they immediately make dua: Rabbana la taj’alna ma’al qawmidh dhalimin — O Allah, do not place us among the wrongdoers. Then they recognise people. They call out to the people of fire and they know them — ya’rifoonahum bisimaahum — by the marks on them. And this makes sense, because the Ashab al-A’raf are the in-between people. In their life on earth, they moved between both worlds. Sometimes in the company of good people, sometimes in the company of bad. So on Yawmul Qiyamah, they look at Jahannam and they see faces they know. And they look at Jannah and they see faces they know too. They point to the people of Jannah — people like Bilal, like Sumayyah, like Khabab ibn al-Aratt — and they say to the people of fire: are these the ones you swore would receive no mercy from Allah? Look where they are now. Why Do They Get to Enter? And then comes the moment. Allah says to the Ashab al-A’raf: udkhulul jannah — enter Jannah. Some of the mufassirun say this is the Ashab al-A’raf congratulating the people of Jannah as they enter. Others say it is the angels — who had been guarding the Ashab al-A’raf at the heights, preventing them from moving — now giving them permission to enter.

    12 min
  4. Night 19: Between Two Worlds

    2D AGO

    Night 19: Between Two Worlds

    This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit groundeddaily.substack.com The Last Ten Begin Tomorrow Tonight is the 19th night of Ramadan. The last ten start tomorrow. The Prophet ﷺ told us that whoever misses the good of Laylatul Qadr has been denied all good for the entire year — because that person looked at a night worth more than a thousand months and said: I’m fine, I don’t need it. One thousand months is 83 years. One night of ibadah — one raka’ah, one dollar given in charity, one dua made sincerely — on that night is worth doing that same act every single day for over 83 years without a break and more. And we’re in Australia. Our odd nights might be someone else’s even nights. Our even nights might be someone else’s odd. So cast the net wide. All ten nights. If you’ve had an unfinished TV series to get through — tonight is your last chance. From tomorrow, for ten nights, we give everything. Grounded is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. The Wrongdoers Identified We left off last night with a mu’adzin in Jahannam announcing: the curse of Allah is upon the wrongdoers. Tonight Allah defines who these wrongdoers are. They are those who block people from the path of Allah — who not only refuse to walk it themselves, but actively work to prevent others from finding it. This was the Quraysh in real time. Abu Jahl would hire musicians to play loudly across the street whenever the Prophet ﷺ was reciting Quran or giving da’wah, so that the sound of music would drown out the revelation. Abu Lahab would greet every caravan arriving in Makkah and warn them: don’t listen to my nephew — he’s mad. The result? Many of the Quraysh never actually heard the Quran. Not because they rejected it, but because their leaders made sure it never reached them. This is why Islam insists we are not sheep. We do not follow our leaders blindly. Every statement, every ruling, every claim — we measure it against the Quran and the Sunnah. The same ayah mentions those who bend the path — those who speak about Allah without knowledge, declaring halal and haram on their own authority. The root of this, Allah tells us, is disbelief in the akhirah: wa hum bil akhirati kafiroon. This is the key insight. The Quraysh had no fundamental problem believing in Allah as the ultimate creator. Their problem was with the akhirah. Because believing in akhirah has consequences — it means you can no longer cheat, oppress, or abuse without accountability. In Makkah, the rich and powerful could do whatever they wanted. Islam came and said: there is a day coming where none of that will protect you. This is why throughout the Quran, iman billah and iman bil akhirah are paired together. You could, technically, believe in Allah without believing in the akhirah — the Quraysh did exactly that. But belief in Allah without belief in akhirah will not reshape who you are. It is the akhirah that governs behaviour. It is accountability that changes people. And this is what keeps the believer sane when they watch the world. Schools bombed. Entire populations under siege. The powerful openly declaring that international law does not apply to them — that might is right again. Where is the justice? The akhirah is where. Every oppressor will stand before Allah. No title, no army, no wealth will help them. This is not a coping mechanism — it is a theological certainty that the Quran repeats again and again. The Heights Between Jannah and Jahannam, Allah says, there is a hijab — a barrier. And rising above that barrier, there is the A’raf: a height, an elevated terrain, from which both destinations can be seen. On the A’raf, standing on this high ground, is a group of people. They can look across and see the people of Jannah. They can look the other way and see the people of fire. And they know — from signs visible to them — who belongs to which side. Who are the people of A’raf? They are those whose good and bad deeds are exactly equal. The scales balanced perfectly. They are neither in Jannah nor in Jahannam. They are suspended — waiting.

    12 min
  5. Night 18: What Allah Actually Wants From You

    3D AGO

    Night 18: What Allah Actually Wants From You

    This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit groundeddaily.substack.com After Badr The battle is over. The Muslims are victorious. Fourteen Muslims were martyred. Seventy Quraysh were killed, including Abu Jahl — the man who had led the persecution of the believers for over a decade. And then the Prophet ﷺ did something that tells you everything about his character. He instructed the Muslims to dig graves and bury the Quraysh dead. These were men who had tortured and killed companions. Men who had tried to kill the Prophet ﷺ himself. Men who had driven the Muslims from their homes, confiscated their property, starved them, humiliated them. Grounded is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. Bury them. No mutilation. No revenge. No public display of contempt. The body is the body — even the body of an enemy is to be respected. Only one man was not buried in the conventional way: Umayyah ibn Khalaf — the master who had tortured Bilal RA, dragging him into the desert sun and placing a boulder on his chest. When the companions tried to lift Umayyah’s body, his skin disintegrated. They could not move him. Rocks and stones were placed over him where he lay — just as he had placed a rock on the chest of Bilal in the desert. The Arabs say: what you give, you get back. The Prophet ﷺ then walked to the grave of Abu Jahl and asked him a question — the same question the people of Jannah will ask the people of Jahannam, which we reach tonight in the surah. Did you find what Allah promised you to be true? The companions asked: Ya Rasulullah, can the dead hear us? He said: they can hear you as clearly as you hear me — but they cannot respond. When we visit the graves of our loved ones, when we make dua and say our salams, they hear us. Iman and Amal — They Cannot Be Separated Allah now turns to the people of Jannah: those who believe and do good deeds. Islam does not offer salvation through faith alone. Iman and amal salih must come together — and they are inseparable by nature. True iman will always manifest as good deeds. And truly sincere good deeds can only come from a heart that has iman. Without iman, the deeds may look the same from the outside — but the intention is elsewhere. You are doing it to be praised, to be seen, to be known. The action and the heart become disconnected. A sincere heart shows. It shows in what a person does when no one is watching. Publicly and privately, the same. That is the mark of iman. And those who say my heart is good while their actions tell a different story — Islam does not accept this. A good heart is not invisible. It is expressed.

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  6. 4D AGO

    Night 17: Yawmul Furqan — The Day That Changed Everything

    Tonight is the night of Badr. On this night, 1,443 years ago, 313 Muslim men camped on the plains of Badr — underprepared, outnumbered more than three to one — on the eve of a battle that would determine whether Islam survived or was extinguished. There is no tafseer of Surah Al-A’raf tonight. Tonight belongs to Badr. How They Got There The Muslims left Madinah on the 12th of Ramadan. The mission was straightforward: intercept Abu Sufyan’s caravan returning from Syria — the largest trading caravan the Quraysh had ever assembled, loaded with profits from goods financed largely by wealth confiscated from the Muslims at the time of Hijrah. Not a battle. An interception. But Abu Sufyan’s scouts were sharp. One of the Bedouin trackers found camel droppings along the route, opened them, and recognised the date pits inside as coming from the farms of Madinah. The Muslims were tracking them. Abu Sufyan immediately rerouted and sent the fastest rider in his group back to Makkah — the rider sliced the nose of his camel and smeared the blood on himself to arrive with maximum drama, ensuring the message landed with urgency. Abu Jahl raised 1,300 men. Not to protect the caravan — the caravan had already escaped. This was about something else now. We are going to crush Islam and the Muslims once and for all. By the time 300 of that army turned back — satisfied that their property was safe — 1,000 Quraysh warriors were marching toward Badr with that single purpose. The Muslims, meanwhile, had 313 men. Two horses. Seventy camels. And eight swords. They had not come prepared for battle. They had expected a small caravan escort — ten, twenty, thirty men at most. They found an army. And they did not turn back. The Leadership of the Prophet ﷺ When the Prophet ﷺ chose a campsite on the plains of Badr, a companion — al-Hubab ibn al-Mundhir — approached him and asked a remarkable question: Ya Rasulullah, is this position based on revelation from Allah, or is this your personal judgement? The Prophet ﷺ said: personal judgement. Al-Hubab said: in that case, may I suggest we move further forward — to the wells of Badr — so that we control the Quraysh’s access to water? The Prophet ﷺ accepted. He moved the entire army. This is a man who could have said: I am the Prophet of Allah, my opinion is final. He said nothing of the sort. He distinguished clearly between what came from Allah and what came from his own thinking. And when a companion had a better idea, he took it. A leader who cannot be corrected is a leader who will eventually fail. The Prophet ﷺ modelled the opposite: you are not any stronger than me, and I am not any less in need of the reward from Allah. When they shared rides on the 160-kilometre journey — three men, including the Prophet ﷺ, rotating on one camel — his companions begged him to ride the whole way. He refused. He walked his share. The Night Before That night, with a thousand armed men across the plain, Allah gave the Muslims a gift: sleep. Anyone who has had a major exam, a difficult interview, a high-stakes day ahead knows what that night feels like. You lie awake. The mind races. The Muslims knew what was coming — and they slept. Allah also sent light rain on the Muslim side. The ground compacted. The march in the morning would be firm underfoot. On the Quraysh side, Allah sent heavy rain. Sleepless. Muddy ground. No access to water. Before a single sword was raised, the advantage had already shifted. The Prophet ﷺ spent much of that night in dua — arms raised so intensely that his shawl fell to the ground. Abu Bakr al-Siddiq, waking before Fajr, wrapped it back around his shoulders and stood listening. Among the duas the Prophet ﷺ made that night: Ya Allah, if You destroy this group, You will never be worshipped on this earth again. These were the best of the Muslim men. Most of them. If they fell here, there would be no rebuilding. The dhikr of Badr — the one the Prophet ﷺ repeated through that night and into the battle — was Ya Hayyu Ya Qayyum. The Ever-Living. The Ever-Sustaining. The One who holds everything in existence. Repeat this in your own difficult nights. Islam Is a Salad Bowl When the Prophet ﷺ organised his army on the morning of battle, he divided them into three groups: the Muhajirin on the right, led by Sayyidina Ali; the Ansar on the left, led by Sayyidina Sa’d ibn Mu’adh; and a mixed group at the centre, where the Prophet ﷺ stood himself, with the banner held by Mus’ab ibn Umayr — the first companion to migrate to Madinah, the man through whose teaching most of the Ansar had embraced Islam. Why keep them separate? Why not one unified mass? Because Islam does not erase identity. It never has. The Muhajirin were Meccan. The Ansar were Medinan. Different dialects, different traditions, different cultures — and at this point in history, genuinely different peoples. Islam acknowledged that difference and worked with it. Each group fought with the strength that came from who they were. Islam is not a melting pot. It is a salad bowl. A tomato remains a tomato. A cucumber remains a cucumber. Mixed together, each contributing what it is — they serve something greater than any one of them alone. Keep your cultural identity. Be proud of who Allah made you. Learn your mother tongue. And be equally proud to be Muslim — guided by Islamic principles, united by La ilaha illallah Muhammadur Rasulullah, with Arabic as the thread that connects the entire ummah across every language and culture. Help Comes in Ways You Cannot See When the battle began, most of the Muslims did not know they were being assisted by angels. They raised their weapons and fought with everything they had. Some were injured. Some were martyred. They had to show up. They had to put in the effort. The help came — but it came to those who were already in the field. Jibreel came wearing a yellow turban, marked like Mus’ab ibn Umayr. A thousand angels — one for every Quraysh soldier — came wearing white, on white horses. The Quraysh saw them coming from across the plain. They did not know what they were seeing. And then Iblis — who had marched alongside the Quraysh in the guise of Suraqah ibn Malik, who had promised them safety, who had said I am with you, no one can defeat you today — Iblis was the first to see the angels. He turned and fled. I see what you do not see. I am afraid of Allah. The Quraysh: You were the one who convinced us to come! You were the one who promised us victory! Iblis said nothing more. He left. This is who Iblis is. He is there when things are going well. The moment the cost becomes real, he disappears. The friends you make in sin will not be there when the consequences arrive. Abdullah ibn Mas’ud — a man so small he stood barely above a metre — captured Sayyidina Abbas, the Prophet’s uncle, a giant of a man with a voice that could carry across a battlefield. Abbas was humiliated. He told everyone who saw him: it wasn’t this small man — there was someone bigger, someone else who took me down. When Abdullah ibn Mas’ud brought Abbas to the Prophet ﷺ, the Prophet ﷺ confirmed: it was not you, Abdullah. You were assisted by an angel. Do not be arrogant with your success. You put in the effort. But the victory was never yours alone to claim. The Secret of Badr — And of Ramadan The Quran tells us the secret of Badr in Surah Ali Imran in two words: sabr and taqwa. Sabr is steadfastness — continuing on the right path regardless of how difficult it becomes. Taqwa is your living connection with Allah. Ramadan trains both. Every day of fasting hones sabr — the steadfastness to stay on the right path regardless of hunger and exhaustion. Every night of prayer and Quran builds taqwa — the connection with Allah that carries you through what the day alone cannot prepare you for. The Prophet ﷺ won his greatest military victory in Ramadan — on the 17th, on the plains of Badr. His greatest political victory, the Conquest of Makkah, was also in Ramadan. Sa’d ibn Abi Waqqas defeated the Persian Sassanid Empire at the Battle of Qadisiyyah in Ramadan. Amr ibn al-As conquered Egypt in Ramadan. The pattern is not coincidence. It is a formula. Fast your days. Pray your nights. And trust that when you show up on the field with whatever weapons you have, Allah will send what you cannot see Badr Wallpaper for smartphones Badr Wallpaper for tablets .Badr wallpaper for computers After Witr tonight insha’Allah — Salawat Badriyya. Following along with the series? 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  7. Night 16: Your Decisions Have Consequences You Will Never Live to See

    5D AGO

    Night 16: Your Decisions Have Consequences You Will Never Live to See

    A quick note before we begin: from tonight, we recite Dua Qunut in Witr. The Shafi’i madhab holds that Qunut in Witr is only in the second half of Ramadan — following the practice established by Sayyidina Umar ibn al-Khattab when he unified the companions behind one imam for Taraweeh and instructed Sayyidina Ubay ibn Ka’ab to lead with Qunut in the final nights. May Allah enter us among those who pray with the imam from beginning to end, and receive the reward of a full night’s prayer. The Battle of Badr — Approaching The Muslims left Madinah on the 12th of Ramadan. Tonight, in the timeline of history, they would have been settling into the plains of Badr — fasting, outnumbered, about to face something no one had fully planned for. The original aim was to intercept Abu Sufyan’s caravan returning from Syria — laden with the wealth the Quraysh had confiscated from the Muslims at the time of Hijrah. Abu Sufyan’s scouts, however, found camel droppings containing date pits from the farms of Madinah. He understood: the Muslims are tracking us. He rerouted the caravan and sent the fastest rider back to Makkah with a call for reinforcements — the rider even smeared camel blood on himself for dramatic effect, to ensure the message landed with urgency. Abu Jahl raised 1,300 men. By the time they reached the plains of Badr, the caravan had already escaped via a different route. Three hundred of the Quraysh army turned back — the property was safe, their reason for coming was gone. But Abu Jahl pressed forward with a thousand. This was no longer about a caravan. This was about crushing Islam once and for all. When the Prophet ﷺ chose a campsite on the plains of Badr, one of the companions asked: Ya Rasulullah, is this position based on revelation, or is this your personal judgement? The Prophet ﷺ said: personal judgement. The companion said: in that case, may I suggest we move further, to control the Quraysh’s access to the wells? The Prophet ﷺ accepted. He moved the entire army. In that moment — a Prophet, the most beloved of creation, moving his troops based on a suggestion from a companion — is a masterclass in leadership. A good leader takes counsel. A good leader distinguishes between revelation and personal opinion. A good leader is not too proud to be corrected. We continue the story of Badr tomorrow insha’Allah. The Blame Game Has No End Returning to Surah Al-A’raf — yesterday we saw the people of Jahannam blaming each other as they entered. The followers blamed the leaders. The leaders said: you chose to follow us. Taste what you earned. Now Allah introduces a further dimension: the former and the latter — early generations and those who came after. Think about what this means personally. If someone in your family tree was the first to introduce something harmful — idol worship, a corrupt practice, a tradition that led generations away from Allah — and their descendants followed without question, then when all of them meet in Jahannam, the descendants will turn to the ancestor: you started this. This is your fault. You deserve more. It is a sobering thought. The decisions we make do not end with us. The Reverse Is Also True But the reverse is equally real — and this is where the heart lifts. A thousand years ago, the ancestors of many Muslims sitting in our community tonight were not Muslim. The Malays were Hindu and Buddhist. The Turks were sky-worshipping pagans on the steppe. The Indonesians had their own traditions. And then — somewhere up that family tree — one person made a decision. I am going to be a Muslim. Because of that one decision, generations of descendants were born into Islam. Every salah they prayed, every fast they kept, every act of charity they gave — a portion of that reward travels back up the chain to the one who made the original call. That ancestor has been in his grave for perhaps 700, 800 years. And he is still receiving dividends. Still collecting on that one decision. This is the real passive income. Not a pyramid scheme — a multi-level reward that compounds across generations until Yawmul Qiyamah. And in Jannah, insha’Allah, we will find that ancestor. We will say: thank you. Because of you, I did not have to make the hard choice. I was born Muslim. All I had to do was protect what you gave me. For those among us who did make that hard choice — who came to Islam as adults, who chose this path when no one around them did — your reward carries the same weight. Every person in your lineage who comes after you and remains on this deen is a continuation of your decision. Do not underestimate what you started. Do Not Trivialise Small Good Deeds This is why we must never dismiss small acts of goodness as insignificant. Teach one child Quran. That child teaches his children. His children teach theirs. How many generations between now and Yawmul Qiyamah? Every one of them who recites the Quran — you carry a portion of that reward. A tiny portion, yes. But multiplied across centuries, across an entire family tree — it becomes something beyond calculation. Whatever good deed you start, its consequences ripple outward in ways you will never live to see. A Muslim thinks in generations, not just in lifetimes. The question is not only: what am I doing today? The question is: what am I starting? The Camel and the Eye of the Needle For those who reject the ayat of Allah, who are arrogant against His guidance — la tufattahu lahum abwab al-sama’. The gates of heaven will not be opened for them. Their good deeds will not ascend. The angels carry our deeds up twice daily — at Fajr and Maghrib, which is why these are the great times of morning and evening dhikr, when two shifts of angels overlap and the same act is recorded twice. But for the one who rejects Allah, those deeds remain earthbound. He gets what he intended — praise from people, a legacy among men — and nothing more. Hatim al-Ta’i was the most celebrated generous man in Arab history. His name became a byword for generosity — Arabs still use it today, 1,400 years later. His son asked the Prophet ﷺ about his father’s fate. The Prophet ﷺ said: he never gave for Allah’s sake. He gave to be known as generous. And Allah gave him exactly that. He is still being praised. His intention was fulfilled in full. You get what you intend for. If you intend for Allah, Allah rewards you. If you intend for people, people reward you. But the gates of heaven remain closed. And if a person who rejects the ayat of Allah still imagines they might enter Jannah — Allah gives us the measure of that hope: try fitting a camel through the eye of a needle first. In Arabic this is the expression for the impossible, the never-happening, the stop-dreaming. It will not happen. Not through arrogance. Not through denial. Not through rejecting the messenger. Tomorrow insha’Allah — the people of Jannah. The Quran always balances: after the warning comes the glad tidings. Following along with the series? Consider a paid subscription to receive a free digital copy of the Surah Al-A’raf Study Guide and Workbook. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit groundeddaily.substack.com/subscribe

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  8. Tafsir Thursday: The Warning of Fir’aun and the Freedom of Choice

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    This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit groundeddaily.substack.com A Ramadan Halftime Check-In Before we dive into today’s ayat, I want to take a moment to remind myself and all of you — today marks the 15th of Ramadan. We are at the halfway mark of this blessed month. It’s time to pause and reflect on our first half. How has it been? Have we been building momentum? Because here’s the thing — it is no longer time to warm up. We should already be warmed up by now. We are gearing up and preparing ourselves to hunt for the greatest night of the year: Laylatul Qadr, the Night of Power, which will fall on one of the odd nights in the last ten nights of Ramadan. So let’s make sure our ibadah is increasing every single night — our Quran recitation, our prayers, our charity, our kindness to family, friends, and neighbours. Everything must now be on an upward trajectory so that when the last ten nights arrive, we are ready to go all out. We’re hunting for a night that is greater than a thousand months. Let’s not miss it. Grounded is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. Where We Left Off Last week, we explored how Allah was preparing Rasulullah ﷺ for the enormous mission ahead. The Prophet was troubled by the verbal abuse and humiliation inflicted on him and his followers by the Quraysh. And what was Allah’s prescription? Stand up at night. Pray. Recite the Quran. Make dhikr — mention the name of your Lord. This is how we find the strength to face every challenge in life, especially the challenge of becoming and remaining a good Muslim. The more we connect with the Quran, the more we connect with Allah, and the more everything else becomes easier. Allah then told Rasulullah ﷺ to take Him as a Wakil — the One who looks after all your affairs. When you have Allah as your Wakil, you do a little and things become a lot easier. Then Allah turned directly to the Quraysh and warned them of chains, choking food, and a burning fire. Now we come to a new passage where Allah expands the audience. He is still addressing the Quraysh, but He is also speaking to every single one of us. A Messenger as Witness — For Us or Against Us Allah says: “Indeed, We have sent to you a messenger as a witness over you.” Think about that for a moment. Rasulullah ﷺ is going to stand on the Day of Judgement as a witness. The question is — will he be a witness for us, or against us? If he testifies for us, that means shafa’ah — intercession. He will stand before Allah and say: “Ya Allah, this person is from my ummah. They followed my teaching, they followed my sunnah, they tried their very best.” He will intercede on our behalf, asking Allah to forgive our sins and tip the scales in our favour. But he could also testify against us. And Allah has already recorded in the Quran what that looks like. On the Day of Judgement, Rasulullah ﷺ will say: “O my Lord, my people — they received this Quran and just put it aside.” They chose to ignore it. Chose not to put it into practice. Chose not to be guided by it. That is a terrifying thought. If the Prophet ﷺ — Habibullah, the beloved of Allah — testifies against us, who is going to stand up to defend us? Who would dare?

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