Behind the Paddle

Porcelain Victoria
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Welcome to "Behind the Paddle", the podcast that explores the fascinating world of sex across a wide spectrum of topics; from LGBTQ+ and feminine power, to kink, sex work and the adult industry. We aim to inform, inspire and entertain, featuring expert interviews, compelling stories, and thought provoking discussions.Join Porcelain Victoria (a very experienced Pro-Dominatrix of 9yrs)  on a funny and wonderfully truthful look at the world through the lens of a BDSM practitioner working in the sex industry.She will also be answering listeners questions about real-life queries which will be discussed on the podcast. These can be sent in via email or through anysocials. Email: behindthepaddlepodcast(at)gmail.comOur socials: https://allmylinks.com/behindthepaddle

  1. 1d ago

    E134:Confidence & Guidance workshop part 1

    Want to suggest a topic or simply say Hello ? Send a message here ! This is a recording of the latest Confidence & Guidance workshop which i host every other month.  Welcome to Part 1 of Confidence & Guidance, taken from my live workshop exploring sex, intimacy, confidence, communication and all those questions people often feel too embarrassed to ask. After nine years working in the sex industry, I've met people with every level of experience — from virgins and people struggling with sexual confidence to those simply wanting to understand themselves and their partners better. This episode isn't a deep scientific lecture filled with complicated terminology. It's an open, honest and judgement-free conversation based on my professional and personal experiences, alongside practical sexual-health education. We talk about performance anxiety, overthinking during sex, porn vs reality, understanding your desires, communication, consent, reading your partner's responses, pleasure and orgasm, sexual health, genital hygiene, safer sex, dirty talk, affection without expectation and plenty more. Whether you're inexperienced, sexually confident already, trying to become a better lover or simply curious about how other people experience intimacy, there's something here for you. There will probably also be a few inappropriate jokes along the way… because obviously. 😂 Part 2: We're entering the world of BDSM, kink, power dynamics, play parties and the kink community. Next week. Support the show Check out our socials! Thank you so much for listening 💖

  2. Sep 28

    E133: Interviewing My Sub Under Pressure | Part 1

    Want to suggest a topic or simply say Hello ? Send a message here ! This was not supposed to become a podcast episode. While we recorded this, my submissive was hooked up to electrical stimulation, so occasionally you'll hear his concentration disappear.  My submissive had been outrageously bratty recently, and during a very spontaneous BDSM scene I decided that, seeing as the rest of him was being thoroughly occupied, I might as well give his brain something to do too. So I started asking questions. We ended up talking about how he discovered BDSM, what submission actually feels like from his side, how his understanding of our dynamic has changed, and what it's been like going from initially being a client to becoming my lifestyle submissive. The result was far more interesting and considerably less coherent in places than either of us expected. Welcome to Part 1. Support the show Check out our socials! Thank you so much for listening 💖

  3. Sep 21

    E132: Choosing Your First BDSM Gear

    Want to suggest a topic or simply say Hello ? Send a message here ! When you're new to BDSM, it's easy to get lost within internet searches of so many outfits to choose from, so many fabrics, so many confusing size guides and lots of choice in what to wear. But how would you store it ? How would you clean it ? Will it fit ? What's it feel like ? All these questions will be answered in this episode to help you pick the perfect outfit. Support the show Check out our socials! Thank you so much for listening 💖

  4. Sep 14

    E131: Electric Play – The Spark Between Fear and Pleasure

    Want to suggest a topic or simply say Hello ? Send a message here ! Today's episode is all about electric play a form of BDSM that's often misunderstood and surrounded by myths. Some people imagine it's dangerous, others think it's just a gimmick, and many have never even heard of it. So today, we're going to separate fact from fiction. We'll explore why some people enjoy electric sensation, how consent and communication are central to the experience, and why education and risk awareness matter so much. Whether you're simply curious, part of the kink community, or just interested in understanding different forms of human intimacy, this episode is about learning without judgment. Support the show Check out our socials! Thank you so much for listening 💖

  5. Sep 7

    E130: Q & A with a dominatrix

    Want to suggest a topic or simply say Hello ? Send a message here ! One of the things I enjoy most about asking for your questions is that sometimes a handful of completely unrelated questions end up circling around the same idea or we just go straight off the tracks into a whole different podcast. When I looked through the ones I wanted to answer this week, they seemed to be about completely different things. I totally have not been ADHD putting this off because of how indepth these questions can get. One was about campaigning for the decriminalisation of sex work. One was about politics. One was about BDSM. One was about whether being part of a community shapes your opinions. One was about knowing when conviction becomes arrogance. Lets dive in Support the show Check out our socials! Thank you so much for listening 💖

  6. Aug 31

    E129: Feminisation: Why Does It Appeal to Some Men? The Psychology, Shame & Misconceptions

    Want to suggest a topic or simply say Hello ? Send a message here ! Welcome back everyone to Behind The Paddle Podcast Today's episode is one I've wanted to make for a long time because it's surrounded by misunderstanding, judgement and, frankly, a lot of misinformation. We're talking about feminisation. Now, before anyone jumps to conclusions, this isn't an episode promoting or criticising it. It's an attempt to understand it. I have my own stories which I'm going to share with you. Some of them are absolutely heartwarming and others really made me reconsider offering feminisation sessions. For some people, feminisation is a kink. For others it's an exploration of gender expression. For some it's simply fantasy. For others it becomes part of discovering who they really are. Those aren't all the same thing. One of the biggest mistakes people make is assuming every person interested in feminisation fits into one category. Believe me it certainly doesn't.  Human beings are far more complicated than that. Today I want to explore the psychology behind it, where shame comes from, how masculinity fits into the picture, the influence of the internet, and why this topic says so much about how society treats gender. Now what I'm going to discuss isn't a blanket for everyone who dresses up no not at all. Every individual person has their own reasons. Hey, I might not even hit on why some men do it. We are learning every single day, especially seeing clients as often as I do I love to be educated on what makes people tick and what really leads them to enjoy what they enjoy.  My hope is that whether this applies to you personally or not, you'll leave with a deeper understanding of feminisation.  Support the show Check out our socials! Thank you so much for listening 💖

  7. Aug 24

    E128: An English Madam Part 13

    Want to suggest a topic or simply say Hello ? Send a message here ! The Life and Work of Cynthia Payne  Cynthia Diana Paine born 24 December 1932, she was known professionally as Cynthia Payne and nicknamed Madam Cyn, was an English madam, brothel keeper, party hostess, and media personality. She was widely considered to be Britain's best known madam. She made headlines throughout the 1970s and 1980s, when she was convicted of running a brothel at 32 Ambleside Avenue in Streatham, south London. Support the show Check out our socials! Thank you so much for listening 💖

  8. Aug 17

    E127: BEHIND THE BADGE - Alan Greer

    Want to suggest a topic or simply say Hello ? Send a message here ! “Laws are threats made by the dominant socio-economic ethnic group in a given nation. It’s just a promise of violence that’s enacted and the police are basically an occupying army, you know what I mean?” - Brennan Lee Mulligan A police officer is given something that few people in society ever receive: authority. That authority is not only the power to enforce the law. It is the ability to enter people's lives at their most vulnerable moments. A police officer may arrive when someone is frightened, injured, distressed, or in danger. People open their doors because they believe the person standing there has come to help. At least that's what they want you to think. That belief is the foundation of policing. Trust. But trust can also be broken and stepped on.. When “allegations” and i put these in quote marks because we all know these aren't "allegations emerged that a person who held that position may have abused it, the consequences reach far beyond one individual. They affect victims. They affect communities. And they affect confidence in the entire organisation. In 2026, Police Scotland launched an investigation into former officer Alan Greer. Police say the investigation uncovered allegations of serious sexual offences involving multiple women and spanning many years. The case has become one of the most significant investigations into a serving police officer in Scotland.  Let's talk about the abuser Alan Greer. This episode is about the investigation, the people affected, and the wider questions raised about policing, accountability and trust. It is about what happens when the institution created to protect people has to investigate one of its own. Support the show Check out our socials! Thank you so much for listening 💖

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Welcome to "Behind the Paddle", the podcast that explores the fascinating world of sex across a wide spectrum of topics; from LGBTQ+ and feminine power, to kink, sex work and the adult industry. We aim to inform, inspire and entertain, featuring expert interviews, compelling stories, and thought provoking discussions.Join Porcelain Victoria (a very experienced Pro-Dominatrix of 9yrs)  on a funny and wonderfully truthful look at the world through the lens of a BDSM practitioner working in the sex industry.She will also be answering listeners questions about real-life queries which will be discussed on the podcast. These can be sent in via email or through anysocials. Email: behindthepaddlepodcast(at)gmail.comOur socials: https://allmylinks.com/behindthepaddle

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  • Creator
    Porcelain Victoria
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    134
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Behind the Paddle
  • Show Website
    Behind the Paddle

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