Tales From The Lane

Kate Kayaian
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Welcome to Tales from The Lane—the podcast for high performers who are ready to build a life that's not just impressive on paper, but deeply fulfilling. I'm your host, Kate Kayaian—former professional cellist turned writer, coach, and strategist for people who've already achieved a lot… and are now asking, What's next? Each week, we dive into the mindset, habits, and strategies of high-achieving creatives, entrepreneurs, athletes, and leaders who are committed to playing at the top of their game without burning out, selling out, or slowing down their growth. You'll hear solo episodes packed with insights and tools, candid conversations with industry trailblazers, and the kind of honest talk most successful people don't get to have anywhere else. If you're here to pursue excellence on your terms—to lead, to grow, and to thrive—this is your show. Subscribe to Tales from The Lane and join a global community of high performers building meaningful, sustainable success.

  1. Episode 105: How to Design a Career That Supports Your Life (Not the Other Way Around)

    3D AGO

    Episode 105: How to Design a Career That Supports Your Life (Not the Other Way Around)

    What if the next level of your career isn't about doing more… but about designing better? In this episode, I'm joined by Laura Sinclair—performer, educator, and coach (and a returning guest from Season 1, Episode 9)—for a conversation that goes way beyond music teaching. Laura has also been a 1:1 coaching client of mine for five years, and watching her build a values-driven, sustainable studio (while performing at a high level) has been nothing short of inspiring. Yes, Laura's "Stress-Free Studio" work is centered on helping musicians build sustainable studios—but the real topic here is something every high achiever needs: How to build a career that supports your life instead of swallowing it. We talk about the invisible systems (and beliefs) that quietly create overwhelm, why "success" often starts to feel misaligned at a certain stage, and the practical shifts that help you move from survival mode into a more intentional, values-led way of working. Whether you're a performer, executive, entrepreneur, educator, or creative leader, this episode will help you rethink what you're optimizing for—and how to redesign your workflow, boundaries, and offerings so your career actually fits the person you've become. In this episode, we cover: The difference between being in demand and being in alignment Why burnout is often a systems problem—not a motivation problem How structure creates freedom (and why "the plan" matters more than perfection) The courage it takes to stop saying yes by default How to design work that supports both ambition and sustainability Freebie from Laura: 5 Creative Solutions to Rescheduling Lessons https://mailchi.mp/2ce708e36061/5creativesolutionstoreschedulinglessons Learn more about Laura: https://linktr.ee/lauraksinclair Instagram: @viola_maverick And if you want my Quarterly Retreat Planning Guide, DM me the word RETREAT on Instagram: @kkayaian and I'll send it to you personally.

    54 min
  2. Episode 104: Why So Many Friendships Struggle During Seasons of Growth (and How to Handle It)

    FEB 9

    Episode 104: Why So Many Friendships Struggle During Seasons of Growth (and How to Handle It)

    What happens to our friendships when our lives start to expand? In this episode of Tales from The Lane, I'm joined by Dear Nina: Conversations about Friendship host Nina Badzin, whose podcast is ranked in the top 1% globally—and whose work sits right at the intersection of honesty, emotional maturity, and real-life friendship dynamics. Together, we explore what happens to friendships during major life transitions: career growth, changing family structures, shifting priorities, and the inevitable reality that we can't take everyone with us into every season. We talk about: Why friendships often feel strained during periods of growth How a single, honest conversation can sometimes change everything Redefining reciprocity so it doesn't become a silent scorecard Why proximity matters more than we like to admit—and what happens when it disappears The courage it takes to be the inviter instead of waiting to be included This is a grounded, compassionate conversation for anyone navigating success, change, and the quieter emotional work that comes with it. About Nina Badzin Nina is the host of Dear Nina: Conversations about Friendship, a top 1% podcast focused on the realities of adult friendship. Her work helps people think more clearly, communicate more directly, and let go of unnecessary resentment in their relationships. 🎧 Learn more about Nina's work, and find her on Instagram, LinkedIn, or you can sign up for her Substack Newsletter.   And if this episode resonates, you'll find deeper frameworks for navigating growth, change, and identity in my book Beyond Potential: A Guide for Creatives Who Want to Re-Assess, Re-Define, and Re-Ignite Their Careers. You can also download my free Quarterly Retreat Planning Guide, a practical tool for stepping out of autopilot and intentionally designing your next season.

    39 min
  3. Episode 103: Quiet Courage: The Decisions That Shape Your Next Chapter

    FEB 2

    Episode 103: Quiet Courage: The Decisions That Shape Your Next Chapter

    We tend to think of courage as something dramatic—big leaps, bold declarations, or burning it all down and starting over. But most of the courage that actually changes your life is much quieter than that. In this episode of Tales from The Lane, Kate explores the non-obvious ways we flex our courage muscle—the small, often invisible decisions that compound over time and quietly reshape our careers, identities, and lives. You'll hear about: Why saying no to the easy win can be one of the bravest choices you make The courage it takes to resist performative busyness and do deep, invisible work What it means to stay open when you don't yet have a clean title or identity Why being a beginner is essential for growth (and why high-achievers resist it) When quitting is wisdom—not failure How to listen to your intuition without needing to justify it to everyone else This episode is for anyone who senses they're standing at the edge of their next chapter—and wants to build the courage to step forward, one intentional rep at a time. If this conversation resonates, you'll find these ideas explored more deeply in Kate's book, Beyond Potential. And if you want support applying this work to your own life or career, Kate is opening a limited number of 1:1 coaching spots for 2026. Book a free 30-minute consultation call to see if you're a good fit, or head to Instagram and DM "Coach" @KKayaian.

    14 min
  4. Episode 102: How Becoming Your Best Self Strengthens Your Community

    JAN 26

    Episode 102: How Becoming Your Best Self Strengthens Your Community

    In this episode of Tales from The Lane, Kate explores a question she's been asked repeatedly—especially in uncertain, chaotic times: Is it selfish to focus on your own growth when the world feels like it's on fire? Drawing on psychology, leadership, and her lived experience as both a conductor and a coach, Kate reframes self-actualization not as ego or individualism, but as responsibility. When individuals commit to becoming their best selves, they create stronger, more generous, and more resilient communities. In this episode, you'll hear: Why self-actualization was never meant to be about narcissism or personal gain How pursuing your own growth can directly strengthen your workplace, neighborhood, or industry Three practical ways individual excellence fuels collective thriving A powerful orchestra metaphor that reframes leadership, contribution, and responsibility If you've ever felt torn between personal ambition and caring deeply about the world around you, this episode offers a grounding, hopeful perspective—and a clear path forward. Mentioned in this episode: The concept of self-actualization (Abraham Maslow) Kate's Quarterly Retreat Planning Guide If this conversation resonated, share it with someone who's navigating their own next chapter. And if you'd like Kate's hugely popular (and free!) Quarterly Retreat Planning Guide, send her a DM on Instagram with the word RETREAT (@kkayaian). If you want some help in becoming your best self, be sure to get a copy of Kate's best-selling book, Beyond Potential: A Guide for Creatives Who Want to Re-Assess, Re-Define, and Re-Ignite Their Careers.

    14 min
  5. Episode 101: Chiseling Marble: How to Remove What's in Your Way

    JAN 12

    Episode 101: Chiseling Marble: How to Remove What's in Your Way

    In this solo episode, we talk about what is REALLY standing between you and your dreams, and how to remove the obstacles.  If you've been circling around the same goal for months (or years), telling yourself you'll begin "when you're less busy, when you're ready, or when you feel more confident about it," this conversation will hit home. Using the metaphor of a solid block of marble, Kate shares eight common beliefs that disguise the real obstacles—fear, overthinking, avoidance, perfectionism, friction, clutter, and outdated identity patterns. You'll learn: Why your dream doesn't require more time—but does require removing what's in the way How negative self-talk, uncertainty, and "busy brain" tasks masquerade as lack of motivation What Stoicism, hurricanes, and 75 Hard taught Kate about imperfect conditions The difference between rocking-chair tasks and true needle movers Why readiness, motivation, and discipline only show up after you begin How accountability, support, and reframing can help you start chiseling away Whether your goal is to write a book, launch a project, shift careers, or simply feel less overwhelmed, this episode will help you chip away at the noise and find the sculpture underneath. Connect with Kate: Instagram: @kkayaian Grab the book: Beyond Potential — your guide to building a life that fits who you've become. Subscribe to The Weekend List Work with Kate 1:1: Schedule a free discovery call today Book Kate to Speak: www.katekayaian.com

    27 min
  6. Episode 100: Looking Forward–My 2026 Goals and How I Plan to Get There

    JAN 5

    Episode 100: Looking Forward–My 2026 Goals and How I Plan to Get There

    Book a 1:1 Strategy Session with Kate! limited spots available, click HERE to schedule yours.  This episode marks a major milestone: 100 episodes of Tales from The Lane! Instead of celebrating with highlights or a "greatest hits" reel, Kate uses this moment as a pause—a chance to reflect on the identity shifts of the past year and to look intentionally ahead to 2026. Coming on the heels of ThriveFest, the Quarterly Retreat, and a deeply personal 2025 Year in Review, this episode explores how goals evolve when they're set from clarity instead of pressure—and why Kate's word for 2026 is Amplify. Inside this episode, Kate shares: Why 2025 wasn't about achievement, but transformation How identity shifts quietly shape the goals we're capable of holding What it means to amplify work that already resonates, instead of constantly reinventing Her intentions for the podcast, speaking, coaching, and Beyond Potential in the year ahead A practical framework for setting goals that feel true—not performative If you're entering a new year craving alignment, agency, and momentum that doesn't come from burnout, this episode will help you ground your goals in who you've already become. Ready to design 2026 with intention? Kate is currently booking 1:1 2026 Strategy Sessions—focused, practical conversations to help you clarify priorities, build a realistic plan, and move forward with confidence. Want more? Sign up to receive my weekly newsletter, The Weekend List, full of behind-the-scenes action, additional insights, and what I'm watching, reading, listening to, and trying out. And be sure to come and say hello on Instagram! I'm @kkayaian

    20 min
  7. Episode 99: An Honest Look Back on 2025–the Good, the Bad, & the Ugly

    JAN 4

    Episode 99: An Honest Look Back on 2025–the Good, the Bad, & the Ugly

    Get your free copy of my Quarterly Retreat Guide– it's the perfect time to plan out your next 90 Days.  In this episode of Tales from The Lane, I'm doing one of my favorite things of the year: a full, honest Year in Review. This isn't a highlight reel or a greatest-hits episode. It's a thoughtful reflection on what 2025 actually held—what worked, what didn't, where I surprised myself, where I had to let go, and what only became clear with hindsight. As I walk you through the year month by month, I share: The wins that mattered most (including publishing Beyond Potential) The lessons that came through challenge, rest, and recalibration Identity shifts that didn't make sense in the moment—but do now Why progress isn't always loud, linear, or visible And how rest, community, and trust compound over time As always, this episode isn't really about me—it's an invitation for you to reflect on your year alongside mine. Where did you grow? What surprised you? And what are you carrying forward into the next season of your life and work? If you're heading into a new year feeling reflective, thoughtful, or quietly proud of how far you've come—even if it doesn't all show up on paper—this episode is for you. Want more? Sign up to receive my weekly newsletter, The Weekend List, full of behind-the-scenes action, additional insights, and what I'm watching, reading, listening to, and trying out. And be sure to come and say hello on Instagram! I'm @kkayaian

    45 min
  8. Episode 98: Retreat Day 4– How to Optimize Your Systems for a Smoother Quarter

    JAN 2

    Episode 98: Retreat Day 4– How to Optimize Your Systems for a Smoother Quarter

    Day 4 of the Quarterly Retreat Mini-Series: OPTIMIZE You've planned. You've created. You've organized. Today, we optimize. Day 4 is where we take everything you've built this week and make it smoother, lighter, more efficient, and far easier to sustain. This is where you move from "scrambling and reacting" to feeling supported by your tools, systems, and environment. Inside this episode, you'll: Refresh or update your website, LinkedIn, or public-facing profile so it matches who you are now Optimize your templates so you stop reinventing the wheel Clean up and clarify your social media presence Automate, streamline, and systematize the parts of life and work that drain your energy Design a workflow that frees up more time, space, and mental bandwidth By the end of Day 4, you'll feel clearer, calmer, and more supported by the structures around you. This is the day that creates ease. 🎧 Listen now, and then spend the day setting yourself up for success.  ✨ Want support and structure? Download my free Quarterly Retreat Planning Guide to follow along and use it every quarter. 📍 And if you want to do this LIVE with me, join the Stay-At-Home Retreat sessions happening December 29, 30, 31 & January 2 from 11am-12pm ET via Zoom. Sign up via Thrivefest. Let's optimize, together. Happy Quarterly Retreating, friends!

    10 min
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Welcome to Tales from The Lane—the podcast for high performers who are ready to build a life that's not just impressive on paper, but deeply fulfilling. I'm your host, Kate Kayaian—former professional cellist turned writer, coach, and strategist for people who've already achieved a lot… and are now asking, What's next? Each week, we dive into the mindset, habits, and strategies of high-achieving creatives, entrepreneurs, athletes, and leaders who are committed to playing at the top of their game without burning out, selling out, or slowing down their growth. You'll hear solo episodes packed with insights and tools, candid conversations with industry trailblazers, and the kind of honest talk most successful people don't get to have anywhere else. If you're here to pursue excellence on your terms—to lead, to grow, and to thrive—this is your show. Subscribe to Tales from The Lane and join a global community of high performers building meaningful, sustainable success.

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  • Creator
    Kate Kayaian
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    106
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2024
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    Tales From The Lane