Mainly Coaching

Mainly Coaching, Coach K

What do you do when the life you’ve built no longer feels like the life you want? I’m Coach K, a Next Chapter Coach, and Mainly Coaching is a place for honest conversations about career changes, divorce, relationships, confidence, and the question that comes up in all of them: “What comes next?” Through personal stories, fresh perspectives, and questions you can take into your own life, I’ll help you get clearer on what matters and find a way forward that feels like yours. We’ll make room for the hard parts and laugh when we can. Your next chapter starts with you. Growth knows no limits.

  1. 5d ago

    Is it the job? Why Your First Answer Isn't the Whole Story.

    Is It the Job? Why Your First Answer Isn’t the Whole Story “I think I need a new job.” Maybe you do. Maybe it’s the first answer, not the whole story. In this episode, Coach K shows how she coaches past that first answer. She walks through a real-life example of how “I need a new job” can turn out to be about something much closer to home. She also shares the moment she realized her own first answer wasn’t the real one, and gives you three questions to ask before your next big decision. In this episode:00:00 Welcome to Mainly Coaching00:20 “I think I need a new job”01:25 What you’re moving away from vs. what you’re moving toward02:44 Why the first answer is rarely the whole story04:43 A coaching example: from “new job” to what really matters07:23 Why we ask “why” more than once08:56 A guided reflection you can do right now10:56 Three things to consider: the work, the environment, your priorities13:10 Coach K’s own first answer14:28 Three questions to try this week17:38 Making the decision is just the beginning This week’s reflection:What’s one thing you believe needs to change in your life, and what are you really hoping that change will give you? Keep the conversation going:Next Chapter Notes arrives every Wednesday with a reflection to carry you through the week. Subscribe at mainlycoaching.com. Enrollment is open for the January 2027 intake of the Next Chapter Reset, a year of private one-on-one coaching. Details are at mainlycoaching.com, or reach out to Coach K directly. If this episode made you think of someone, send it their way. Growth knows no limits.

    Is it the job? Why Your First Answer Isn't the Whole Story.
  2. 07/15/2024

    Failing Forward: Turning Setback into Success

    How has failure impacted your journey? Often seen as negative, failure is actually vital for growth. Embracing it can lead to incredible learning opportunities and success. When I started as a coach, I thought I needed all the answers. I was wrong! Life's beauty lies in its unpredictability, and each person's journey is unique. I've seen many people, including myself, stay stuck in fear of making the wrong decision. Embracing the concept of failing forward can lead to a more fulfilling, purpose-aligned life. As I record this from my favorite campground in Western Maine, I reflect on how failing forward has led me here. Despite two divorces, a job I hated, selling my house to get out of debt, and more, I’m grateful for these experiences. They’ve taught me that failing forward is better than wondering "what if." I want to share some strategies to help you turn setbacks into success: Reframe Your Perspective: View failure as a learning opportunity.Set Realistic Expectations: Understand that failure is part of the process.Develop a Growth Mindset: Focus on learning and improvement.Take Action: Don’t let fear hold you back.Seek Feedback and Support: Surround yourself with supportive people.Practical exercises to help you fail forward include reflective journaling, creating a failure resume, and taking on a failure challenge. Share your stories of failing forward on our social media platforms or podcast community. We may feature your story in an upcoming episode. To recap, failing forward means embracing failure as a learning opportunity. Thank you for tuning in to Mainly Coaching. Remember, growth knows no limits. Join us next week for another inspiring episode. Until then, keep pushing forward and turn setbacks into stepping stones. www.mainlycoaching.com to learn more

    Failing Forward: Turning Setback into Success

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What do you do when the life you’ve built no longer feels like the life you want? I’m Coach K, a Next Chapter Coach, and Mainly Coaching is a place for honest conversations about career changes, divorce, relationships, confidence, and the question that comes up in all of them: “What comes next?” Through personal stories, fresh perspectives, and questions you can take into your own life, I’ll help you get clearer on what matters and find a way forward that feels like yours. We’ll make room for the hard parts and laugh when we can. Your next chapter starts with you. Growth knows no limits.