What if the biggest difference between people who succeed and those who stay stuck isn't talent, resources, or even opportunity, but simply the willingness to explore everything, survive anywhere, and refuse to box yourself into one narrow identity? In this powerful and deeply personal episode of Konnected Minds, we sit down with an extraordinary creative mind who reveals the raw truth about growing up without privilege, developing a survival mentality that allowed him to excel at everything from Taekwondo to painting to music, and why he believes that where we come from in the world means you start life at minus 20 and spend your entire existence fighting just to reach ground zero where other people begin. He breaks down why he survived everywhere he was placed, why if you put him in Taekwondo he would beat Black Masters, if you put him in football he would survive, if you put him in athletics he would survive, if you put him in art and painting he was one of the best, and why this ability to adapt and excel in any environment shaped him into someone who sees the world differently from everyone around him even though he can't pinpoint exactly where or how that perspective developed. But he also reveals the uncomfortable truth about dreams and aspirations. Why he wanted to be a pilot after watching a movie where pilots maneuvered planes so coolly, why he wanted to be a model at some point, why he wanted to be an artist drawing because the best gift anyone could give him was a sketchbook, and why his uncle always bought him sketchbooks because he loved painting so much. He confronts the reality of not having support for exploring multiple passions. Why he wishes he had somebody to support him in all the various crazy ideas he had growing on, why he didn't have that privilege, and why he now allows his nine year old son to explore every passion from creating his own comics with characters, dialogue, storyline, and plots, to forming his own brand, to wanting to play piano, sing, rap, and do everything because eventually the child will find that one thing he's 150% clear on but until then allow their brains to roam free and explore without creating a life full of what ifs. But we also dive into the tension between freedom and restriction. Why sometimes people must be restricted a bit because questioning forces you to think, why being a pharmacist was probably the best decision someone ever made because their father questioned their choices, but also why someone else might say their father told them to do sociology and it wasn't what they wanted, and why we as humans never really know what the right side of the line is until time tells us what it is. He explains why his outlook on life is quite different from most people around him, why when everyone looks at the same thing he sees something different, why he notices the hues of blue and how they dissolve into lighter shades while others just see an object, and why this perspective wasn't developed through travel or exposure because his first time traveling was way later in life and he didn't even have a passport but something in his experiences and interactions with different people from different backgrounds shaped him into who he is. But he also reveals the brutal economic reality of where we come from. Why based on where we're from in the world we don't have the privilege of identifying our passion very early in life, why it's hard to hear but where we're from when you come into this world you're already behind at minus 20, why you're struggling and fighting just to build to ground zero where you actually start life, and why a lot of people don't even make it to ground zero and struggle their entire life operating in the negatives. We confront the mindset of overcoming obstacles. Why his mindset about life is always about okay so this is the problem, this is the situation, now what, how do we overcome that, why you know you want to become something but your experience of life at age three is different from age seven which is different from age ten which is different from the friends you meet at age twelve and thirteen, and why you keep growing, building your mind, and finding different interests as you experience life. He shares why his son at age nine is one of the best artists he's ever seen, why the child is able to create his own comics at that age, why he's wanted to play piano, sing, rap, and do everything, and why every step of the way he supports every passion because he wishes he had that support when he was exploring his own crazy ideas.
