Raising Confident Girls with Melissa Jones

Melissa Jones
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Growing up Melissa was no stranger to the self doubt that so many girls feel everyday! She felt invisible and lacking a safe space to confidently be herself. This feeling took her to hard places that she hopes no girl ever has to reach. However, this journey helped her find her purpose…teaching!Through 23 years of teaching, Melissa took her experiences and her passion for girls and launched The Girls Positivity Club!Once a small group of girls from her class, The Girls Positivity Club is now a global movement partnering with parents and their daughters to embrace who they are and learn how to stay positive amidst life's biggest challenges. Join Melissa every Tuesday on 'Raising Confident Girls' (A Girls Positivity Club Podcast) to talk about self care, positivity, raising confident girls, and practical lessons to integrate into your everyday! The Girls Positivity Club is spreading empowerment across the globe and you’re not gonna want to miss your chance to get on board!

  1. 4H AGO

    You Don’t Have to Talk Her Out of How She Feels

    Welcome back to Pep Talk Friday. In this episode of Raising Confident Girls, Melissa Jones explores the power of presence over problem-solving when your daughter is navigating tough emotions. When self-doubt creeps in or social comparison takes over, it’s tempting to jump in with advice, solutions, or silver linings. But Melissa shares a different approach: your daughter doesn’t always need you to fix it—she needs you to be with her in it. By choosing connection over correction, parents can create emotional safety that builds real confidence. Resilience doesn’t grow from having every problem solved. It grows from feeling deeply loved, supported, and understood—even in the messiest moments. Tune in to discover: Why presence is more powerful than problem-solvingHow to support big emotions like self-doubt and comparisonSimple ways to foster emotional safety at homeHow staying steady helps your daughter build inner strength and self-trustThis episode is a gentle reminder that you don’t have to fix everything to raise a confident girl. Sometimes, the greatest gift you can give is simply being there. Melissa's Links: • Website • Instagram • Facebook • TikTok • LinkedIn

    11 min

  2. 3D AGO

    When She Compares Herself — How to Respond Without Dismissing Her Feelings

    In this powerful episode of Raising Confident Girls, host Melissa Jones explores two moments that leave many parents feeling unsure: when their daughter compares herself to others—and when she comes home from school and completely falls apart. Melissa reframes comparison as something far more meaningful than a confidence problem. Rather than seeing it as insecurity or weakness, she explains that comparison is a normal developmental signal. It’s how girls begin to understand where they fit socially, what matters to them, and how they see themselves in relation to others. Instead of dismissing comments like “She’s prettier than me” or “I’m not as smart as her,” Melissa guides parents toward responding with empathy—acknowledging feelings first, then helping girls recognize their own unique strengths. She also unpacks the all-too-familiar “after-school unraveling.” If your daughter holds it together all day only to melt down the moment she gets home, Melissa offers a reassuring perspective: this emotional release is often a sign of safety and trust. Home is where she feels secure enough to let her guard down. Beneath the tears and frustration lies emotional effort, social pressure, and the hard work of self-regulation. Throughout the episode, Melissa shares practical and compassionate tools to help parents: Understand why comparison is developmentally normalRespond without minimizing or dismissing feelingsRecognize after-school meltdowns as signs of emotional safetyAvoid common reactions that unintentionally shut girls downCreate a home environment where feelings are welcomed, not fixedBuild connection, resilience, and lasting confidenceThis episode is a reassuring reminder that big emotions are not problems to solve—but opportunities to strengthen trust and deepen connection. When parents respond with empathy, steadiness, and understanding, they provide the stable foundation girls need to grow into confident, self-aware young women. Download the Quick Tips PDF of today’s episode for future reference. If you know a parent who could benefit from this conversation, share this episode with them! Let’s work together to raise the next generation of confident girls. Melissa's Links: • Website • Instagram • Facebook • TikTok • LinkedIn

    21 min

  3. FEB 13

    If Home Is Where It All Comes Out — This Is Why That’s Not a Bad Thing

    Welcome back to Pep Talk Friday. In this episode of Raising Confident Girls, Melissa Jones speaks to parents who feel overwhelmed when their daughters seem to save their biggest emotions for home. Melissa offers a powerful reframe: when your daughter falls apart at home, it’s not a sign you’re failing—it’s a sign she feels safe. Home is where she can be her true self, and being the emotional outlet means she trusts you. Rather than trying to fix every feeling, Melissa encourages parents to stay present and steady. You don’t need perfect words or solutions. Your presence is what matters most. Tune in to discover: Why emotional meltdowns at home signal trust How to respond with calm instead of correction Why you don’t have to solve every feeling How to hold space with compassion—even when it feels heavyThis episode is a reassuring reminder that being the safe place for your daughter’s emotions isn’t failure—it’s connection. Melissa's Links: • Website • Instagram • Facebook • TikTok • LinkedIn

    9 min

  4. FEB 10

    Why She Falls Apart at Home (But Holds It Together Everywhere Else)

    Welcome to Raising Confident Girls. In this episode, Melissa Jones unpacks a familiar but often puzzling moment for parents—when girls come home from school and completely fall apart. After holding it together all day, emotions spill out in tears, frustration, or big reactions that can leave parents wondering what went wrong. With warmth and insight, Melissa explains why this “after-school unraveling” is not a sign that something is wrong at school, but often a powerful indicator of safety and trust at home. She explores how girls manage emotional pressure throughout the day and why home becomes the place where they finally feel free to release it all. Melissa also shares practical, compassionate strategies to help parents respond to these emotional outbursts in ways that support connection rather than shutting feelings down. By understanding what’s underneath the behavior, parents can create an environment where girls feel seen, supported, and emotionally secure. In this episode, we discuss: Why girls often unravel emotionally at home after schoolHow emotional release can be a sign of safety and trustWhat’s really happening beneath after-school meltdownsCommon mistakes parents make when responding to emotional outburstsHow to create a safe space for emotional expressionPractical strategies to respond with empathy, calm, and confidenceJoin Melissa for this reassuring and eye-opening conversation that reframes after-school emotional meltdowns as meaningful moments—opportunities to strengthen trust, deepen connection, and support girls as they learn to understand and express their feelings. Download the Quick Tips PDF of today’s episode for future reference. If you know a parent who could benefit from this conversation, share this episode with them! Let’s work together to raise the next generation of confident girls. Melissa's Links: • Website • Instagram • Facebook • TikTok • LinkedIn

    17 min

  5. FEB 6

    Pep Talk - Hard Conversations Don’t Mean You’re Doing It Wrong

    Welcome back to Pep Talk Friday. In this episode of Raising Confident Girls, Melissa Jones speaks to parents who feel caught off guard when conversations with their daughters suddenly feel awkward, strained, or uncomfortable. Melissa normalizes these moments as a natural part of growth—especially during transitions when daughters are figuring out who they are and how much independence they want. She reassures parents that awkward conversations aren’t a sign of failure or disconnection, but a recalibration of communication as the relationship evolves. Rather than pulling away or overcorrecting, Melissa encourages parents to stay steady, present, and emotionally available, even when it feels hard. Through grounded perspective and gentle encouragement, Melissa reminds listeners that trust isn’t built in one perfect conversation, but over time through consistency, patience, and connection. Tune in to discover: Why awkward conversations are a normal part of developmentWhat these moments really say about your relationship with your daughterHow staying calm and present builds long-term trustWhy discomfort doesn’t mean you’re doing it wrongHow consistency matters more than saying the “right” thingThis episode is a reassuring reminder that growth can feel uncomfortable for everyone—and that showing up with steadiness and care is often exactly what your daughter needs most. Melissa's Links: • Website • Instagram • Facebook • TikTok • LinkedIn

    9 min

  6. FEB 4

    When Your Daughter Gets Defensive — What It’s Really Protecting (and How to Respond)

    Welcome to Raising Confident Girls. In this episode, Melissa Jones dives into a dynamic many parents encounter but often misunderstand—defensiveness. When girls push back, shut down, or react strongly, it can feel personal or disrespectful. But as Melissa explains, defensiveness is often a form of self-protection, not a reflection of poor parenting or a broken relationship. With clarity and compassion, Melissa explores what’s really happening beneath defensive reactions and why these moments matter so much during a girl’s formative years. She shares how emotional triggers, communication patterns, and a child’s sense of safety all play a role—and how parents can respond in ways that build trust rather than tension. In this episode, we discuss: Why defensiveness is often a protective response, not disrespectCommon emotional triggers behind defensive reactions in girlsHow parental tone and approach can either calm or escalate conflictCommunication strategies that help girls feel heard and understoodThe role of patience and emotional safety in difficult conversationsPractical tools for navigating defensive moments with confidence and careJoin Melissa for this thoughtful and reassuring conversation that reframes defensiveness as an opportunity—one where empathy, trust, and emotional safety can strengthen connection and help girls grow into confident, secure young women. Download the Quick Tips PDF of today’s episode for future reference. If you know a parent who could benefit from this conversation, share this episode with them! Let’s work together to raise the next generation of confident girls. Melissa's Links: • Website • Instagram • Facebook • TikTok • LinkedIn

    27 min

  7. JAN 30

    You’re Not Missing It — Even When She Doesn’t Talk Much

    Welcome back to Pep Talk Friday. In this episode of Raising Confident Girls, Melissa Jones speaks to parents who feel uneasy when their daughter goes quiet and the silence feels overwhelming. Melissa reframes silence as a normal—and often healthy—part of growth, not a sign of disconnection. She explains why pushing for conversation or jumping to conclusions can create distance, and how calm presence, patience, and space can actually strengthen your bond. Through personal stories and practical insight, Melissa shows how connection doesn’t always come from talking, but from simply staying steady and available. Tune in to discover: Why silence isn’t something to fearWhat not to do when your daughter shuts downHow presence and non-verbal connection build trustWhy giving space can deepen your relationshipThis episode is a reassuring reminder that you don’t have to fill every quiet moment to stay connected. Sometimes, showing up calmly is more than enough. Melissa's Links: • Website • Instagram • Facebook • TikTok • LinkedIn

    7 min

  8. JAN 27

    When Your Daughter Says “I’m Fine” — What It Usually Means and How to Respond

    Welcome to Raising Confident Girls. In this episode, Melissa Jones explores a moment every parent knows well—the simple, loaded response: “I’m fine.” What sounds like reassurance often carries much more beneath the surface, especially in conversations between parents and daughters. With compassion and insight, Melissa unpacks the many meanings behind “I’m fine” and why pushing past it too quickly can unintentionally shut communication down. She explains how timing, tone, and approach matter just as much as good intentions—and how trust is built not through interrogation or fixing, but through patience, presence, and emotional safety. In this episode, we discuss: What daughters may really mean when they say “I’m fine”Why pressing for answers can sometimes increase emotional distanceHow timing and approach shape whether girls open up or shut downThe importance of building trust without pressure or urgencyHow to create a safe space for honest, open communicationWhat helps daughters feel understood rather than managedJoin Melissa for this grounding and reassuring conversation that invites parents to slow down, listen more deeply, and lead with empathy—so daughters feel safe enough to share what’s truly going on beneath the surface. Download the Quick Tips PDF of today’s episode for future reference. If you know a parent who could benefit from this conversation, share this episode with them! Let’s work together to raise the next generation of confident girls. Melissa's Links: • Website • Instagram • Facebook • TikTok • LinkedIn

    15 min
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Growing up Melissa was no stranger to the self doubt that so many girls feel everyday! She felt invisible and lacking a safe space to confidently be herself. This feeling took her to hard places that she hopes no girl ever has to reach. However, this journey helped her find her purpose…teaching!Through 23 years of teaching, Melissa took her experiences and her passion for girls and launched The Girls Positivity Club!Once a small group of girls from her class, The Girls Positivity Club is now a global movement partnering with parents and their daughters to embrace who they are and learn how to stay positive amidst life's biggest challenges. Join Melissa every Tuesday on 'Raising Confident Girls' (A Girls Positivity Club Podcast) to talk about self care, positivity, raising confident girls, and practical lessons to integrate into your everyday! The Girls Positivity Club is spreading empowerment across the globe and you’re not gonna want to miss your chance to get on board!

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