Chin Hairs & F-bombs

SallyAnn Gray
  • 4.7 (13)
  • Personal Journals

Tune in to hear two friends talk about shit that’s important to them. You’ll hear SallyAnn Gray and a girlfriend share their struggles with things like love, adult friendships, parenting, depression, anxiety, grief, ADHD, autism, work, aging, and some other stuff too.

  1. Finding a Therapist: The Stuff Nobody Tells You

    12/30/2025

    Finding a Therapist: The Stuff Nobody Tells You

    In this episode of Chin Hairs and F-Bombs, SallyAnn sits down with her friend Felicity, a mental health therapist, for an honest conversation about finding the right therapist. They talk about the hesitation so many of us feel when reaching out for help, the importance of feeling understood and safe, and the practical stuff nobody tells you: navigating insurance, what to say in your first conversation, and even how to break up with a therapist if it's not the right fit. Felicity shares insider tips for therapy newcomers while both women open up about their own experiences on both sides of the therapy couch. Whether you're therapy-curious or looking for a better match, this conversation offers relatable, no-BS guidance. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    1h 5m
  2. Storytime with your Gal Pal Sal: Instruction Manual

    10/18/2025

    Storytime with your Gal Pal Sal: Instruction Manual

    In this special bonus episode, your Gal Pal Sal shares a sweet Saturday morning story about her 12-year-old son Teddy and his mission to create the perfect lemonade recipe. From flashbacks of stressful baking sessions to her own childhood learning to cook with Betty Crocker, Sal reflects on how we learn—and how hard it is to watch someone you love make mistakes on purpose. But as Teddy experiments, adjusts, and finally nails his recipe, Sal discovers something beautiful about stepping back and letting the process unfold. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    6 min
  3. Finding Light in the Dark: What Actually Helps When Life Gets Hard

    10/16/2025

    Finding Light in the Dark: What Actually Helps When Life Gets Hard

    In this episode of Chin Hairs and F-Bombs, SallyAnn and her guest, Chelsea Ray get real about finding light in the darkest moments. Chelsea opens up about navigating an unexpected divorce and reclaiming her power, while SallyAnn shares her ongoing battles with anxiety, depression, and loss. Together, they explore what actually helps when life gets hard—the healing power of music and dance, wellness rituals, solo retreats in nature, and the life-saving power of genuine human connection. This episode includes Story Time with your Gal Pal Sal and wraps up with Joy Shares, celebrating the ordinary delights that keep us grounded. An honest conversation about resilience, support systems, and finding comfort in the mess. 00:00 Welcome to Chin Hairs and F-Bombs 01:29 Meet Chelsea: Fashion and Friendship 03:00 The Power of Dopamine Dressing 05:13 Finding Light in the Dark 07:58 Chelsea's Heartbreaking Year 13:47 The Importance of Sharing and Support 23:04 Healing Rituals and Practices 27:50 The Joy of Walking 28:55 Solo Retreats: Disconnect to Reconnect 32:03 Self-Discovery Through Hardship 36:08 Finding Light in the Dark 39:33 Story Time with Your Gab Pal Sal 47:00 Joy Shares: Celebrating the Little Things 52:47 Closing Thoughts and Gratitude Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    54 min
  4. Exhausted and Exploding: Burnout in Real Life

    04/16/2025

    Exhausted and Exploding: Burnout in Real Life

    In this episode of Chin Hairs and F-Bombs, SallyAnn Gray invites her husband, Benjamin, for a raw and honest conversation about burnout. They open up about how it impacted their marriage, their work, and their sense of self - and how they each found their way back. Sally and Benjamin unpack the different ways burnout shows up for men and women, the weight of societal expectations, and the strategies that actually helped them heal. Along the way, they share practical advice, real-life stories, and one surprising truth: sometimes you’ve gotta get outside and play in the dirt. 00:00 – Welcome to Chin Hairs and F-Bombs 00:40 – Meet the guest: Benjamin 01:06 – Burnout: Let’s talk about it 01:49 – Who we are, what we’re about 04:35 – So what IS burnout, really? 06:34 – How burnout messes with your head and heart 13:02 – Men, women, and burnout: Different rules, same pressure 19:29 – What burnout did to our relationship 24:48 – Finding our way back 26:33 – Yard work is therapy now? Sure is. 28:01 – Getting out of our heads and into our bodies 29:21 – Our burnout stories (the messy kind) 32:17 – Learning to live within our limits 43:37 – “Ohhh… THAT was burnout”: Early signs 47:55 – Generational Perspectives on Mental Health 49:28 – JOY SHARE! What’s lighting us up right now 53:21 – Final thoughts Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    55 min
  5. Part 2: Late to the Party: Discovering ADHD Later in Life

    03/13/2025

    Part 2: Late to the Party: Discovering ADHD Later in Life

    In Part 2 of this two-part Chin Hairs and F-Bombs series, SallyAnn and Lynne continue exploring their ADHD journeys, focusing on life after receiving their diagnoses. They discuss the practical tools and strategies that have significantly improved their daily lives, such as body doubling, visual reminders, and digital organization tools. They share their personal experiences with ADHD medication, highlighting both the challenges and benefits. SallyAnn and Lynne also celebrate the often-overlooked positive aspects of having ADHD! Filled with relatable stories, practical advice, and encouragement, this episode offers helpful insights for anyone managing ADHD or supporting loved ones who are. 00:00 Introduction and Recap 00:42 Effective Support Strategies 02:27 The Power of Body Doubling 06:05 Visual Reminders and Habit Stacking 11:39 Medication Experiences 18:44 Reflecting on ADHD Diagnosis 20:12 Realizing ADHD in High Achievers 20:49 The Power of Self-Diagnosis 22:04 The Impact of Medication 23:10 Embracing the Creative Brain 26:06 Journaling and Tracking Progress 31:17 Sharing Joys and Self-Care 34:57 Concluding Thoughts on ADHD Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    37 min
  6. Part 1: Late to the Party: Discovering ADHD Later in Life

    02/26/2025

    Part 1: Late to the Party: Discovering ADHD Later in Life

    In this episode of Chin Hairs and F-Bombs, SallyAnn and her friend Lynne open up about their journeys with ADHD, focusing on the challenges of being diagnosed as adults. In Part 1 of this two-part series, they dive into their experiences with ADHD symptoms, including difficulty focusing, time blindness, and sensory overload. They share the struggles they faced before receiving an official diagnosis and the immense relief and clarity that came afterward. SallyAnn and Lynne also discuss the importance of self-diagnosis, practical coping strategies, and the need for self-compassion when managing ADHD as adults. Tune in for an honest and relatable conversation about navigating life with ADHD. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    44 min
  7. The Art of Making Friends: An Adult’s Guide to New Connections

    02/10/2025

    The Art of Making Friends: An Adult’s Guide to New Connections

    In this episode of Chin Hairs and F-bombs: Conversations with Girlfriends, host SallyAnn reconnects with longtime friend Deb to talk about the challenges of building friendships as an adult. SallyAnn, who left Kansas City for Maine, and Deb, a retired nurse now based in Colorado, share their personal experiences and tips for finding community in unfamiliar territory. They highlight the importance of spontaneity, discuss what it takes to form meaningful bonds and celebrate the joys of lifelong companionship. 00:00 Introductions 01:05 Childhood Memories and Long-Lasting Friendship 03:01 Challenges of Making Friends as Adults 04:05 Deb's Retirement and New Beginnings 09:34 Sally's Move to Maine and Isolation 13:01 Finding Community and Making Connections 18:32 Balancing Social Life and Personal Time 22:37 Advice on Making New Friends 24:00 The Importance of Being Open to Opportunities 26:37 Maintaining Long-Distance Friendships 29:24 The Pain of Losing Friendships 33:17 Cherishing Deep Platonic Friendships 35:30 A Heartwarming Story 38:10 Reflections on Retirement and Friendships 39:16 Joy Share and Closing Remarks Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    45 min
  8. Seen and Unseen: Navigating Middle Age as a Woman

    01/15/2025

    Seen and Unseen: Navigating Middle Age as a Woman

    In this episode of Chin Hairs and F-bombs, guests Barbara Evans and Monique Garrett join host SallyAnn Gray to uncover the realities of life as a middle-aged woman, tackling the often-overlooked "Invisible Woman Syndrome." Together, they share candid stories about aging, the shifting dynamics of professional life, and how societal perceptions evolve as women navigate perimenopause, menopause, and beyond. The conversation is a heartfelt exploration of self-perception, resilience, and the freedom that comes with letting go of societal expectations. Plus, don't miss their "Joy Share" segment, where these friends celebrate the simple things that bring them happiness, reminding us of the power of connection and community.  00:00 Introduction and Welcome 01:44 Meet the Guests: Monique and Barbara 04:18 Virtual Coffee Connections 07:11 Invisible Woman Syndrome 10:16 Personal Experiences of Invisibility 19:49 Benefits of Invisibility 26:07 Navigating Professional Challenges for Women 28:48 The Struggles of Middle-Aged Job Seekers 30:55 Embracing Personal Style and Liberation 35:12 The Journey to Going Gray 39:22 Understanding Menopause and Aging 44:23 Final Thoughts and Joy Share Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    51 min
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Tune in to hear two friends talk about shit that’s important to them. You’ll hear SallyAnn Gray and a girlfriend share their struggles with things like love, adult friendships, parenting, depression, anxiety, grief, ADHD, autism, work, aging, and some other stuff too.

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  • Creator
    SallyAnn Gray
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2025
  • Episodes
    21
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © SallyAnn Gray
  • Show Website
    Chin Hairs & F-bombs