The Working Womens Podcast

Nicky Bevan

Teaching working women mind & emotional management tools so they enjoy their family, their job & themselves again without all the s****y overwhelm, obligation & guilt. 

  1. Oct 13

    Ep #126 - Are You 'Shoulding' All Over Yourself?

    How often do you find yourself doing something simply because you think you should? You should be doing more. You should be further ahead. You should be spending more time with your family. You should be doing things a certain way because, well, that's just what you're supposed to do, isn't it? But have you ever stopped to question whether that's actually what you want? In this week's episode, I'm sharing a very personal example of how I caught myself building my business around what I thought I should be doing, rather than what genuinely brought me joy. And I'll be honest with you, it felt shit! So I gave myself permission to question everything. What did I actually want? What excited me? What brings me so much joy to do? And why wasn't I following the vision I'd had for myself for years? That little bit of curiosity has led to some exciting changes in my business, which I'm sharing with you today, including my new direction as a motivational speaker and the introduction of my Deep Clarity Sessions. But this episode isn't really about my business. It's about you. Because I wonder where in your life you're making decisions based on what you think you should do, rather than what you actually want. I'm not here to tell you what you should or shouldn't be doing. That's none of my business! I simply want to encourage you to get curious, question those expectations and recognise that you have far more choice than you might currently realise. Have a listen, my friend. You might just discover a 'should' that's been keeping you stuck without you even realising it. You can also watch this episode on YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@TheWorkingWomensLifeCoach If you'd like to have a chat about how I can help you further, please send an email to Hello@nickybevan.com, I'd love set up a time to meet you virtually. You can also follow me on IG @NickyBevan_LifeCoach

  2. Oct 7

    Ep #125 - I Switched My Phone Off for a Week — Here’s What Happened

    I switched my phone off for an entire week. Not on silent. Not “I’ll just check it once a day”. Actually OFF. And it was fascinating. Because as brilliant as our phones are — and honestly, they make so many parts of life easier — we’ve also become incredibly dependent on them. In this episode, I’m sharing what I had to put in place to make a phone-free week actually work, what I noticed when I stopped automatically reaching for my phone, and the unexpected calm that came when all that outside noise disappeared. But this episode isn’t really about your phone. It’s about something much bigger. Why do you feel like you need to be available to everyone, all the time? What would happen if you weren’t? And how much are you missing the people — and the life — that are right in front of you because part of your attention is always somewhere else? I’m also going to lovingly challenge you on control, that belief that “it all needs to be me”, and why the world probably won’t fall apart if someone has to wait for an answer. Because your phone is an incredible tool. It just doesn’t need to be your lifeline. And you definitely don’t need to switch it off for a whole week to start experimenting with this. Try an hour. Notice what comes up. Notice how often you reach for it. Notice what happens when you allow yourself to be fully where you actually are. This one might make you feel a little twitchy… and that’s kind of the point. 😉 You can also watch this episode on YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@TheWorkingWomensLifeCoach If you'd like to have a chat about how I can help you further, please send an email to Hello@nickybevan.com, I'd love set up a time to meet you virtually. You can also follow me on IG @NickyBevan_LifeCoach

  3. Sep 15

    Ep #122 - You’re Allowed to Do Less — interview with Christi Gmyr

    This week I’m joined by fellow coach and licensed mental health counsellor Christi Gmyr for a brilliant conversation about burnout, motherhood and the ridiculous pressure so many working mums put on themselves to do everything — and do it all well. We talk about where those expectations come from, why the word “should” can create so much unnecessary pressure, and what happens when you start asking yourself a very simple question: What if I didn’t? What if the house wasn’t spotless? What if dinner wasn’t perfect? What if you asked for help? What if you stopped trying to squeeze absolutely everything in? What if you allowed yourself to do a little bit less? We also explore why taking time for yourself isn’t selfish, why an hour spent on yourself can actually be an hour invested, and how letting go of some of the pressure can help you show up as a calmer, more present version of yourself — at home and at work. If you constantly feel like you should be doing more, managing things better or somehow keeping everybody happy, this episode is your permission slip to put some of it down. Because you really don’t have to do it all. Christi's links are below: Website: www.christigmyrcoaching.com Resource Library: https://www.christigmyrcoaching.com/resource-library Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/WorkingMomBurnoutCoach/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ChristiGmyrCoaching Instagram: @career_driven_moms Podcast: Overcaffeinated and Out of Effs You can also watch this episode on YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@TheWorkingWomensLifeCoach If you'd like to have a chat about how I can help you further, please send an email to Hello@nickybevan.com, I'd love set up a time to meet you virtually. You can also follow me on IG @NickyBevan_LifeCoach

  4. Jul 16

    Ep #119 - Intrusive Thoughts and Big Feelings with Emmie Fulton

    I absolutely LOVED this conversation. In this episode, I’m joined by my friend, psychologist, solo mum of three and creator of Hero Cards, Emmie Fulton, for a gorgeous conversation about intrusive thoughts, big feelings and the emotional tools our children need long before adulthood.  And yes, we go there. We shared our intrusive thoughts (you have them too and they're normal btw). We felt uncomfortable. It was freeing. If you listen, it will be freeing for you too.  Emmie shares how her work in the NHS, mental health, behavioural science and motherhood inspired her to create Hero Cards — a set of cards designed to help children understand what’s going on in their minds, recognise their feelings, and build emotional resilience in a simple, practical and accessible way. We talk about why thoughts are not facts, why big feelings don’t mean something has gone wrong, and how we can support our children without needing to fix everything for them. We also explore perfectionism, people-pleasing, avoidance, anxiety, and the importance of helping children feel safe with the full human experience. And as always, this conversation isn’t just for the kids. There is so much in here for us as grown-ups too. If you’ve ever wanted your child to understand themselves better, feel less alone in their worries, or have tools to manage those big emotional moments, this episode is a beautiful place to start. To get your own set of Hero Cards click here - https://www.loveherocards.com/?srsltid=AfmBOoractIgssvQnvaYUg8lceuLwgHGrdldPeDHBRdSybL6fxHOppZd To follow Emmie & Hero Cards - https://www.instagram.com/loveherocards/?hl=en You can also watch this episode on YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@TheWorkingWomensLifeCoach If you'd like to have a chat about how I can help you further, please send an email to Hello@nickybevan.com, I'd love set up a time to meet you virtually. You can also follow me on IG @NickyBevan_LifeCoach

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Teaching working women mind & emotional management tools so they enjoy their family, their job & themselves again without all the s****y overwhelm, obligation & guilt.