SHAMELESS

SHAMELESS

SHAMELESS is a virtual queer community dedicated to helping queer people release shame through naked guided meditation and authentic connection. ✨ joinshameless.substack.com

  1. 10/21/2025

    A Hell of a Day with Gay Buffet

    Recently, I had the chance to sit down with my personal “Substack Oprah”—Aidan Wharton—the very gay and very brilliant author behind Gay Buffet, one of Substack’s leading hubs for gay wisdom, life, and culture. Aidan, a modern-day homosexual Carrie Bradshaw, has been a huge inspiration to me since I first started on this platform. We’ve interacted almost daily (or at least weekly) for months now, and it was well overdue for us to finally sit down—coffee in hand, Zoom open—and have a real, heart-to-heart conversation. In this episode, we talk about: * how Aidan got started with his grounding publication * why connection is so important * the intention behind Gay Buffet * the weirdness of being a social media persona with real-life friends * reframing challenges into opportunities for gratitude * his beautiful wedding * his daily check-in ritual with his husband * and, of course, the excitement around open relationships and gay sex Watch or listen to our conversation—and make sure to subscribe to Aidan’s phenomenal Substack here! You can also find him on Instagram. SHAMELESS is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. Get full access to Coach Kevin Martin at coachkevmartin.substack.com/subscribe This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit joinshameless.substack.com

    A Hell of a Day with Gay Buffet
  2. 08/25/2025

    Tamara Driskell & Kevin Martin on "Radical Autonomy & Consensual Non-Monogamy"

    What happens when you strip away every story, expectation, and social script — and ask, “Who the f**k am I really?” In this soul-shaking episode, I sit down with one of my personal heroes and coaches, Tamara Driskell, to explore her powerful concept of radical autonomy — and how it transforms the way we navigate consensual non-monogamy, love, freedom, and emotional connection. We dive into: * Why radical autonomy is the root of who we are — and what that actually means * How to honor your own truth while loving someone who walks a different path * The fears, triggers, and freedom that show up when your partner chooses differently than you * How non-monogamy invites you to grow the hell up emotionally, spiritually, and relationally * The reality that deep intimacy requires free choice, not control * Daily practices and questions that keep your relationships alive, not just intact This is one of the most meaningful conversations I’ve ever had — and I’m not sugarcoating that. If you're ready to explore love, autonomy, desire, and radical honesty on a whole new level, press play now. Let’s f*****g go. Explore more of Tamara’s work and get to know her here. Follow her on IG and all the socials! Relational freedom starts with self-acceptance. Join the SHAMELESS Discord group to connect with a community for gay men committed to releasing shame, embracing authenticity, and reclaiming their sexual power. Get full access to Coach Kevin Martin at coachkevmartin.substack.com/subscribe This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit joinshameless.substack.com

    Tamara Driskell & Kevin Martin on "Radical Autonomy & Consensual Non-Monogamy"

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