Most creators try to fix their problems with tactics—content, funnels, platforms. But, your true identity always determines your daily tasks and mindset determines your outcome. This is part two of our identity series where we replace the lies you identified with truth, clarity, and focused action. What if clarity in your business doesn't start with strategy, but with hearing who you are again and what you're called to do? Just like Sarah Blakely (Spanx) persisted as a problem solver despite rejections, Abraham Lincoln stood for 28 years before becoming president, and Colonel Sanders faced 1,000 rejections at age 65 before starting KFC, your true identity produces peace, discernment, and focused action instead of frantic effort. ✅Why discovering your true identity must happen before you build another product, write another blog post, or create another funnel ✅2 questions that replace "Why isn't this working?" and unlock clarity instead of confusion ✅What happened when a 65-year-old man with $105/month Social Security faced 1,000 rejections … & why his true identity changed everything ✅How Sarah Blakely became the youngest self-made female billionaire without entrepreneurship or fashion experience ✅Why Abraham Lincoln's 28 years of "failure" were actually preparation for his true identity as a leader Ready to discover your true identity? Grab the Biblical Truths PDF worksheet and listen to the Living Fearless podcast by Jamie Winship! Resources Mentioned: Living Fearless by Jamie Winship (book) Biblical Truths PDF Download (with blank worksheet) Jamie Winship's Living Fearless Podcast Switch On Your Brain by Dr. Caroline Leaf Episode 100: The Quiet Lies Holding You Back From Success: Fix Your Business Owner Mindset Episode 99: How to Take a Break from Work: Why Rest Actually Improves Your Business Show Notes: Well, hello everyone, Kerry Beck here with Family eBiz, where we help families start and scale online businesses so you can have freedom to do what you're called to do. Last episode and this episode, we have been talking specifically about your calling. What is your identity in your business? I don't mean a business identity like a sole proprietorship or your brand. I mean, who are you? And what are you called to do in your business? Identifying the Quiet LiesYou see, last week, we actually talked about identifying some of the quiet lies that you may be believing, the ones that are sort of scrolling around, those reels inside your head, like I'm behind. I miss my chance. I'm not cut out for this. Everyone else gets it but me. Today, we get to go to the hopeful part of coming up with our identity. And then what happens after you name that lie. And some of you are like, what does this matter? Kerry, why are you not teaching some marketing strategy, or email marketing, or social media, or whatever, funnels? Because, let me just tell you, your identity comes first. What is going on in your mind determines the outcome. It determines where you are going and what you're doing. Your identity determines, really, some of the things that you choose to do in 2026. This is being published in January of 2026, and I thought, this is the perfect time for us to get this out there, so that you can sort of wrestle with it this month. What is my identity? Where am I being called to do? You see, most creators try to fix their problems with tactics. Content, funnels, platforms, this, that, and the other, but identity always determines your behavior. Your mindset determines your outcome. What if clarity in your business doesn't start with a strategy, but with hearing who you are again, and what you're being called to do, and how you could use that calling to serve your audience that you really want to serve? You know, I will tell you that this particular episode is going to have a little bit more faith base, and yet I believe that anyone can use it. I am going to share some of my faith, that's just who I am, and I know some of you, you're like, yeah, go for it, and some of you are like, I don't know, Kerry. But I believe that the things that go on in here really do determine your business a lot of times. And for me, since I believe in Jesus Christ, I do go to the Bible. Actually, there's a verse in the Bible, Revelation 2:17, it says, a new name is given to the one who receives it. And you see, back in the ancient Roman times, the victor was given a little white stone with their name written on it. That was part of their prize. And so it could be that that verse is referring to the name, and that is who you are, and they are the victor, and that is their identity, and I believe God's saying the same thing. He's going to take out those lies, and He's going to give you a new name, if you will receive it, and then walk in that. So, before you build the next thing, or create the next e-book, or the next blog post or podcast, you need to know who you are and how you're building. So let's talk about this. A lot of this information comes from a man named Jamie Winship, who has a book called Living Fearless. You'll see that in the show notes, and I really think it's important. He has affected so many people, just in a spiritual manner, but also just in relationships and all sorts of things. Asking the Right QuestionsHere's the deal. Too often, we are asking the wrong question, as he says. Most people are asking, why isn't this working in my business? Why am I stuck right here and not being able to make money? He talks about an identity exchange, and you need to exchange those questions to two new questions. Again, this is faith-based, so I would go to God and say, what do you want me to know about this? God, what do you want me to do about this? Otherwise, you can just think about, what do I need to know? What do I need to do? But I go to God because that's where I get my most encouragement and the best wisdom as well. Most all creators, content creators, are skilled, you're hardworking, you're disciplined. But you still operate in the negative. I'm late. I am replaceable. I don't really hear from God. And so we need to take a step back and see what can we hear up in our mind. You know, there is a woman, Sarah Blakely, that I've mentioned before. She is the person who started the Spanx company, and she, before this, sold fax machines door-to-door. She really didn't have any entrepreneurship background. She had no fashion experience. She had a problem. She's getting ready to go to an event, and she didn't have the right underclothing, and so she basically took some pantyhose and connecting them to some, what do you call those things, where they hold your stomach in and put them together. Well, it wasn't like that was the answer to everything. She was rejected over and over by manufacturers when she thought this would solve ladies' problems. The lies she could have believed is, I'm not qualified, no one is taking me seriously. Is that how you feel? That's just like Walt Disney from last week, and Max Lucado, they were rejected over and over and over, and yet they persevered. We will put that episode, episode 100, familyebiz.com/100. We will put that in the show notes, because if you missed it, you really need to start there. What did Sarah do instead? She believed she was a problem solver, not an outsider trying to get in. She kept pitching her idea over and over, and eventually started Spanx, and became a billion-dollar company, and she became the youngest self-made female billionaire of all times. Because she was persistent, and she believed in who she was really called to be, not in all the lies around her. Her success did not come from confidence in the outcome. It came from clarity in who she was. She was a problem solver, and she wanted to serve. She was a servant, and so she believed that was who she is, and she kept persisting in it, and ended up building a billion-dollar company. You need clarity in your identity. So there's step number one. Getting Rid of False IdentitiesNext, we need to take those false identities and get rid of them. There is a real danger for you to believe those false identities. Those are things that I've already mentioned. I'm behind everyone else. Well, you know, we all move at our own pace. And some people move slower and some move faster. I have to work harder to be worthy. That is hustle. We don't need to hustle, hustle, hustle. We just need to do a good job and be consistent in our calling and in our identity. Well, maybe you believe, if I rest, everything will fall apart. Well, that is not true. And if you go back and listen to two episodes before this, 99, familyebiz.com/99, I talk about how important it is for rest. That's how we started this year, because I took 6 days off during the Christmas holidays, and nothing fell apart. In fact, I even made sales. So if you're thinking, I can't take a break, you need to definitely go back and listen to episode 99, because that might even give you a rest to take a rest, a break, and reset. What is my real calling? What is my identity? Because our true identity is going to produce peace, discernment. Focused action instead of frantic effort. And a mindset that you truly can rest, and I believe you should rest, well, a little bit every day. If you're putting in 12 hours a day for this, that is way too much. But I think everyone needs a rest at least once a week. And I give you some ideas how you construct slowly with just 4 hours if you need to. So go back and listen to episode 99. You know, there's another man that you have all heard of if you're in the United States. He was a president who, before he became president, lost multiple elections, five major elections. He lost the Illinois state legislature, the U.S. Congress, two U.S. Senate races, and a VP nomination. In business, he failed, too. This is Abraham Lincoln, President of the United States, one of our most famous presidents. You see, in 1831, before he became president, h